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Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by innobarca(m): 5:30pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
Will be worse when you people start having kids 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by FashionCookie(f): 5:30pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
Some Nairaland men or should I call them boys and unecessary bragging. Any small thing Simp...alpha male...yen yen yen. Maybe they're just hearing those words for the first time and they want people to think they're woke. Them poor and lazy pass anything...some will be coming here to flex muscle meanwhile, their job is to wash pant at home. Woman wrapper everywhere... But to the responsible ones, God go bless una. Pikin wey grow up for better house no dey hard to know. @ OP...take am easy o. Marriage pass the way you dey see am so. Na suru... 4 Likes |
Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by michoim(m): 5:30pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
ireneidiva:Irritating comment |
Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by Shed2013(m): 5:31pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
buikem2: Na small pikin dey worry am |
Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by IjebuWarrior: 5:31pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
Juliusmomoh: 2 Likes
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Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by Temitope009(f): 5:31pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
Haven't seen any sensible comment since I opened this thread. Maybe because, the first fee people that commented still hasn't gotten the grip of what life is or they feel like passing their negativity unto you.. I am not wise either. I don't even like advising people because I feel, what do I know myself. However, from the little marriage experience I have, I haven't seen anything serious in what you said you wife has been doing. Okay, note, it might be overly serious and annoying to you but calm down. Don't you expect your partner was going to have some behaviors that doesn't go down well with you? Well, it might be the way they sleep. It might be the way they eat. It might be they way they fart or even poop. Man, no one is a fairytale prince or princess. We all exhibit our real true selves where we feel at home. So far, it isn't overly serious like pooping in the kitchen, give it time. Remove face. Remind her when you both are in the right mood. How it just doesn't sit well with you. How it makes you almost puke. Please be nice o, else, she no go hear.. Or say for example: on a very playful day maybe after an outing or after an enjoyable romantic moment by you both, you ask her to tell you the things you usually do that annoys her. From there,you guys can playfully tell one another. Wo, marriage no be beans o. It is the ability to accept our flaws and still love one another that makes it beautiful. I hope you figure yours out. 5 Likes |
Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by xynerise: 5:32pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
Anybody talking about simps on Nairaland are kids who are yet to understand what marriage truly is. Just ignore them. They will still face reality 1 Like |
Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by Nobody: 5:32pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
Didn't you observe |some of| these prior to your marriage? 1 Like |
Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by PataAlhaja(m): 5:32pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
FashionCookie: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You forgot to add bra too. 3 Likes |
Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by Nobody: 5:33pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
innobarca:TRUE, because she will become LAZIER.... |
Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by apollo13(m): 5:33pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
I'll advice you call her mother or any relative closer to her to report her, the truth is, if you don't correct her while the marriage is still very fresh my brother I guess you will have to live with such unhygienic attitude for the rest of your life.but it takes patience and understanding, maybe I'll suggest you sit her down and talk to her calmly. |
Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by Shed2013(m): 5:33pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
obinna58: I respect your words ,God bless you |
Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by Pedrocross4568(m): 5:33pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
Amanee: Aunty don't let righteousness catch you for saying this. I was not here ![]() |
Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by xty50(f): 5:34pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
And my boyfriend is here complaining that i am too clean? ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by Shed2013(m): 5:35pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
apollo13: Involving outsiders might make it worst , she might think op is inviting third party, I advice op to take it easy and be calm |
Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by abysirius(m): 5:35pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
sodiqapril:Oga, pls hold it there. Which kinda bad advice be dat ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by Bbbwings: 5:35pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
manunitedbabes: when we advocate for sex before marriage some will scream immorality. Not knowing that that will give you ample opportunity to observe each other's personal hygiene like how one cleans up after sex the state of the toilet after use and if the kitchen sink get messy after yielding to the call of the stomach immediately after passionate sex ![]() ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by realtalk19: 5:36pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
manos: Didnt you take note of this habit while you were dating? What cannot be tolerated when married shuld have been stopped or cautioned while dating. U may have to ignore or take action. |
Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by Xisnin(m): 5:37pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
xtratagem: Emescot: WhisperedNoise: You guys have also noticed. It is a new vocabulary that confused boys with no responsibilty uses for virtue signalling. Having never married, they think they will just issue command and the wife will obey in fear. 4 Likes |
Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by Oyiboman69: 5:37pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
Kriss216:Super man |
Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by HarunaWest(m): 5:38pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
ImaIma1:Like some of you don't know most than 'money '...... Yeye dey smell 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by Remix10(m): 5:39pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
Men just takes things so serious in this part of the world, is it because of the economy hardship? or because they don't really know what love means, the Bible says it, loves count no error, it overlookssssss! What is there in playfully correcting her, immediately shes doing those irritating stuff, you carry her romantically to the bathroom, while not stroke her buttocks and tell her agbaya, big head playfully..i would always say learn to make friends with your wives, don't be too official, a little thing as this wants to ruin your marriage, she does not cheats, neither does she refuses to make food for you still she annoys you. I tire walahi. |
Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by abysirius(m): 5:39pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
With love, understanding, patience and prayers you too will work things out. Most marriages have their only challenges. She is now your wife... |
Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by Topsic70: 5:39pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
infogenerator:You've spoken well.....but DT bolded part sha......e get as e be. . Once a 3rd party gets involved it might change d dynamics of d marriage as either party (or both) will continually run to the reconcilliator after any quarrel. And for how long will they keep doing DT? Moreover, Most of our ppl nor dey know their boundary. The 3rd party may use DT opportunity to be forming king Kong in their marital space, which, again isn't proper. Its only them DT can make dr marriage work, and its all about both parties making sacrifices and coming to compromises. 'Agidi' won't solve it! Like u rightly said, d woman clearly has attitude challenge which uncle most prolly didn't notice during their courtship. |
Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by andyanders: 5:39pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
WandaMaximoff: I believed that you must have read where he stated that he has talked to her several times, but still same result. I'll take a walk if she cannot change. It could also be that she cannot even clean her private too. 1 Like |
Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by Xisnin(m): 5:40pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
ireneidiva:Yes, probably after engagement. It is the new normal for those who wants a peaceful home. 1 Like |
Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by Iamnotfearyou: 5:40pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
heendrix:You'd rather be simp than to have your wife in no talking terms with you if are man |
Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by JoeCool3150(m): 5:41pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
I bliv you must have observed this while you were dating her so you should be prepared to put up with whatever attitude she exhibits. It wont be a surprise if that's how her parents trained her. You should have done your homework before getting married. And to think that she hisses at u when you calmly want to correct her, makes me bliv she is also disrespectful. You have to be consistent if she'll take your correction and you're not helping matters by going back to apologize to her "for calmly correcting her". You don marry person when pass you cos she's controlling you... |
Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by bizhop01: 5:41pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
Finish what you started |
Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by Oyiboman69: 5:42pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
xtratagem:and they are the perfect example of what they termed simps |
Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by Queenserah26(f): 5:42pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
Well said! WandaMaximoff: |
Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by djon78(m): 5:42pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
Shed2013: This is a man that has seen what marriage entails Caveat: Many people think marriage is all those butterflies in my stomach Marriage is more about living with someone Overlooking a lot of shi.t and then over time things turn around. Many people have false impression about marriage. And when they enter and see differently they will want exit That's why this generation can't handle marriage They think it's shooting a captivating pre wedding pictures and having a fabulous / lavish wedding There is more to marriage It involves patience Overlooking a lot of stuffs and keep moving forward Over time the partners get to understand each other more and enjoy there union Marriage is work 2 Likes |
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