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Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by boyka24: 1:10pm On Aug 13, 2020 |
A few years ago, I dreamt that I committed suicide, then when I woke up I was suprised because I never saw any reason to kill myself as I had everything I wanted.That was when I was in service (nysc)...Fast forward to this year, I got myself into a big problem (in debts) I have been contemplating on killing myself but I just couldn't...there was a time I got myself drugged hoping that I would do it easily but to my chagrin I was terrified. I lost my self confidence and to cap it all I had to close my social media accounts to avoid seeing pictures of my mates doing better...mind u I will never commit suicide but to those in my shoes what advice would u offer? |
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by Yuceeluv(f): 1:13pm On Aug 13, 2020 |
Face that disgrace head on and learn from whatever pain you go through, while at it. 1 Like |
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by boyka24: 1:18pm On Aug 13, 2020 |
Yuceeluv:but do u know some 'disgrace' are forever in that people will always recall that event just to spite u |
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by DICKstractor: 1:27pm On Aug 13, 2020 |
Face the disgrace, after 2-3monthe or less, the intensity will not be there again and people might forget it Commit suicide, after 2-3months, your death will be forgotten and people will live on with their life Choose one 2 Likes |
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by boyka24: 1:32pm On Aug 13, 2020 |
DICKstractor:Hmmm.....this is thought provoking |
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by VTJN(m): 1:33pm On Aug 13, 2020 |
boyka24:Sure you are right, even some family memembers, friends will obviously do that to spite you up. the best is just to change location. |
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by boyka24: 1:37pm On Aug 13, 2020 |
VTJN:changing location would help but what if one is vying for a political post, don't u think such bad occurrence would be made known again and that obviously would affect ones chances of winning |
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by boyka24: 1:39pm On Aug 13, 2020 |
I hope this post makes it to the front page just so we could have wider opinions which would help those having suicidal thoughts |
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by VTJN(m): 1:44pm On Aug 13, 2020 |
boyka24:That will only work in a saner clines not in nigeria where elections are rigged by the highest bidder. |
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by DICKstractor: 1:45pm On Aug 13, 2020 |
boyka24:I don't know how to romance words thats why I gave it undiluted 1 Like |
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by boyka24: 1:57pm On Aug 13, 2020 |
VTJN:that's somewhat true sha |
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by sageb: 2:38pm On Aug 13, 2020 |
Echoes of hard times. |
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by Nobody: 2:41pm On Aug 13, 2020 |
What was the debt ? |
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by Chummynoni(m): 2:44pm On Aug 13, 2020 |
my instinct is telling me that it is either the disgrace is sex-related or theft-related. Come clear Op. 2 Likes |
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by Matheusmartin: 2:51pm On Aug 13, 2020 |
I would rather kill myself than commit suicide..
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Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by mariahAngel(f): 3:13pm On Aug 13, 2020 |
Chummynoni: You have a point... Being in genuine debt is not something to be too ashamed about, except he defrauded people. Owu onye di ndu ga kwu ugwo oji One thing's for sure; there's definitely more to the story |
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by mariahAngel(f): 3:16pm On Aug 13, 2020 |
Matheusmartin: For your mind now you funny abi... |
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by ceeceeuwa: 3:57pm On Aug 13, 2020 |
sageb:This reminds me of my secondary school literature book. Nostalgic feeling right now! |
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by ceeceeuwa: 3:59pm On Aug 13, 2020 |
Even Chidinma the "cucumber girl" is still alive and waxing stronger. Don't go and kill yourself. People have faced worst situation. |
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by Nobody: 5:00pm On Aug 13, 2020 |
Like the yourubas will say If you're praying not to be disgrace and eventually you get disgraced Your next prayer will be Lord spare my life don't let me die |
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by boyka24: 7:26pm On Aug 13, 2020 |
Chummynoni:I am sorry to disappoint u it is neither of those |
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