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Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by boyka24: 1:10pm On Aug 13, 2020
A few years ago, I dreamt that I committed suicide, then when I woke up I was suprised because I never saw any reason to kill myself as I had everything I wanted.That was when I was in service (nysc)...Fast forward to this year, I got myself into a big problem (in debts) I have been contemplating on killing myself but I just couldn't...there was a time I got myself drugged hoping that I would do it easily but to my chagrin I was terrified. I lost my self confidence and to cap it all I had to close my social media accounts to avoid seeing pictures of my mates doing better...mind u I will never commit suicide but to those in my shoes what advice would u offer?
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by Yuceeluv(f): 1:13pm On Aug 13, 2020
Face that disgrace head on and learn from whatever pain you go through, while at it.

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Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by boyka24: 1:18pm On Aug 13, 2020
Yuceeluv:
Face that disgrace head on and learn from whatever pain you go through, while at it.
but do u know some 'disgrace' are forever in that people will always recall that event just to spite u
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by DICKstractor: 1:27pm On Aug 13, 2020
Face the disgrace, after 2-3monthe or less, the intensity will not be there again and people might forget it



Commit suicide, after 2-3months, your death will be forgotten and people will live on with their life


Choose one

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Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by boyka24: 1:32pm On Aug 13, 2020
DICKstractor:
Face the disgrace, after 2-3monthe or less, the intensity will not be there again and people might forget it



Commit suicide, after 2-3months, your death will be forgotten and people will live on with their life


Choose one
Hmmm.....this is thought provoking
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by VTJN(m): 1:33pm On Aug 13, 2020
boyka24:

but do u know some 'disgrace' are forever in that people will always recall that event just to spite u
Sure you are right, even some family memembers, friends will obviously do that to spite you up. the best is just to change location.
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by boyka24: 1:37pm On Aug 13, 2020
VTJN:
Sure you are right, even some family memembers, friends will obviously do that to spite you up. the best is just to change location.
changing location would help but what if one is vying for a political post, don't u think such bad occurrence would be made known again and that obviously would affect ones chances of winning
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by boyka24: 1:39pm On Aug 13, 2020
I hope this post makes it to the front page just so we could have wider opinions which would help those having suicidal thoughts
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by VTJN(m): 1:44pm On Aug 13, 2020
boyka24:

changing location would help but what if one is vying for a political post, don't u think such bad occurrence would be made known again and that obviously would affect ones chances of winning
That will only work in a saner clines not in nigeria where elections are rigged by the highest bidder.
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by DICKstractor: 1:45pm On Aug 13, 2020
boyka24:

Hmmm.....this is thought provoking
I don't know how to romance words thats why I gave it undiluted

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Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by boyka24: 1:57pm On Aug 13, 2020
VTJN:
That will only work in a saner clines not in nigeria where elections are rigged by the highest bidder.
that's somewhat true sha
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by sageb: 2:38pm On Aug 13, 2020
Echoes of hard times.
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by Nobody: 2:41pm On Aug 13, 2020
What was the debt ?
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by Chummynoni(m): 2:44pm On Aug 13, 2020
my instinct is telling me that it is either the disgrace is sex-related or theft-related. Come clear Op.

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Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by Matheusmartin: 2:51pm On Aug 13, 2020
I would rather kill myself than commit suicide..
grin

Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by mariahAngel(f): 3:13pm On Aug 13, 2020
Chummynoni:
my instinct is telling me that it is either the disgrace is sex-related or theft-related. Come clear Op.

You have a point...

Being in genuine debt is not something to be too ashamed about, except he defrauded people.
Owu onye di ndu ga kwu ugwo oji

One thing's for sure; there's definitely more to the story
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by mariahAngel(f): 3:16pm On Aug 13, 2020
Matheusmartin:
I would rather kill myself than commit suicide..
grin

For your mind now you funny abi... undecided
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by ceeceeuwa: 3:57pm On Aug 13, 2020
sageb:
Echoes of hard times.
This reminds me of my secondary school literature book. Nostalgic feeling right now!
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by ceeceeuwa: 3:59pm On Aug 13, 2020
Even Chidinma the "cucumber girl" is still alive and waxing stronger. Don't go and kill yourself. People have faced worst situation.
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by Nobody: 5:00pm On Aug 13, 2020
Like the yourubas will say
If you're praying not to be disgrace and eventually you get disgraced
Your next prayer will be Lord spare my life don't let me die
Re: Between Suicide And Being Disgraced, Which One Would U Choose? by boyka24: 7:26pm On Aug 13, 2020
Chummynoni:
my instinct is telling me that it is either the disgrace is sex-related or theft-related. Come clear Op.
I am sorry to disappoint u it is neither of those

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