Hello everybody..... Please I need your candid advice on this....
Early this year I changed my job to another company, while in the new company I met a lady.
I observed virtually everything about her and I liked her so much but I was scared of being hurt in a relationship base on passed experiences.
To cut the long story short... I asked her out before lockdown but she didn't give me answer. During the lockdown period we only communicate sparingly but after lockdown we resumed work and the relationship was solidified.
She works in an account Department different from mine though am above her in level.
She confesses love to me always.. She told her mum about me and I spoke with the mum on Phone. She even insist that I should get her pregnant that she doesn't want to loose me... I declined, I gave her reasons of which she agreed with me.
Fast forward....Her phone had fault and she fixed it though it wasn't probably done and I wanted to assist her in doing it well but she said I should forget, of which I did. Yesterday her mum mistakenly stepped on the Phone and there was a little ink stain on the screen. She told me and I responded that she should be calm that she will get a new phone ( because I had plans of getting her one but not at a moment).
Now she called me that she got a new phone yesterday, I congratulated her but she asked whether am fine, I said Yes(but deep inside me am not).

Please what should I do in this case? I'm so confused that I can't meet my girl's needs and she on the other hand can't be patient and be contented with me.
Meanwhile... she is 27yrs but am 3yrs older than her. I truly love her because she is very good. But am feeling that have failed my part as a man.
She knows everything about my financial level as we have not been paid for two months now due to the effect of the pandemic.

Bro..just be careful and watch her for sometime. Also be wise in ur dealing and be emotionally strong.

You expected her to be without phone untill you decide to get her a phone?


A woman that loves you and still decide not to bother you with too much responsibility knowing your financial worth.


You no get di money to buy her phone immediately....She hustle get am, probably, from her mum who eventually cracked the phone and you the worry yourself....



What a simp!!!



Since everyone now is a simp on nairaland.

Some people sha. To get problem dey hungry them.

She's not ur responsibility to bear ogbeni



She's working abi wetin be ur problem sef??



She's ur responsibility when she bcoms ur wife

fattprince:
Some people sha. To get problem dey hungry them.

I tire oooooo

Haba

I'm a jealous type though.... but from the first comment there.... Watch and be emotionally strong.

fattprince:
Some people sha. To get problem dey hungry them.

I wish you can understand the feelings...
like this I can't even ask her where she got the phone from

Perfect888:


I wish you can understand the feelings...
like this I can't even ask her where she got the phone from

Bro just ask her, and you having this uncomfortable feelings means you don't trust her or better still know her enough yet. Bro trust me she might get the money for the phone from some men but that doesn't mean she slept with them. It's you she likes that's all that matters.

Perfect888:
Hello everybody..... Please I need your candid advice on this....
Early this year I changed my job to another company, while in the new company I met a lady.
I observed virtually everything about her and I liked her so much but I was scared of being hurt in a relationship base on passed experiences.
To cut the long story short... I asked her out before lockdown but she didn't give me answer. During the lockdown period we only communicate sparingly but after lockdown we resumed work and the relationship was solidified.
She works in an account Department different from mine though am above her in level.
She confesses love to me always.. She told her mum about me and I spoke with the mum on Phone. She even insist that I should get her pregnant that she doesn't want to loose me... I obliged, I gave her reasons of which she agreed with me.
Fast forward....Her phone had fault and she fixed it though it wasn't probably done and I wanted to assist her in doing it well but she said I should forget, of which I did. Yesterday her mum mistakenly stepped on the Phone and there was a little ink stain on the screen. She told me and I responded that she should be calm that she will get a new phone ( because I had plans of getting her one but not at a moment).
Now she called me that she got a new phone yesterday, I congratulated her but she asked whether am fine, I said Yes(but deep inside me am not).

Please what should I do in this case? I'm so confused that I can't meet my girl's needs and she on the other hand can't be patient and be contented with me.
Meanwhile... she is 27yrs but am 3yrs older than her. I truly love her because she is very good. But am feeling that have failed my part as a man.
She knows everything about my financial level as we have not been paid for two months now due to the effect of the pandemic.

It is difficult to tell what a man really wants (some men though).

You have met a lady who loves you genuinely from her heart and prefers not to bug you with financial/material needs, yet you are here complaining.

Both of you work in the same company, she understands that you have not being paid for some months, yet you are bothered.

What exactly do you really want?

:oWhy some men love problem laidiz

So.. You've got a girl who is awesome,loving & understanding,All in one package.. I'm sure she's damn pretty too..
a quality quite hard to find. But here you are still complaining.
Like seriously?.. Wtf is wrong with you niqqa?
Assuming she was quite insistent and persuading.. Pressuring you to get her a new phone and other stuffs... You would'nt waste any time coming to nairaland to whine and lament about how Nigerian ladies are self~centered, inconsiderate, self-entitled and overbearing. Now you've got a girl who understands without much explanation but here you are, telling us how jealous you are.
Of a truth... My Economics teacher was rights.." human wants are insatiable.".

"She said she wants u to get her pregnant and u obliged"







U know sabi meaning of "Obliged" ?? I was surprised when u said, u gave her reasons, so she should reason with u, Damn!!

She is a good woman who loves u... Fact






But don't even think of marriage if u never get money...

Unless u wan poor finish

Vyzz:
She is a good woman who loves u... Fact







But don't even think of marriage if u never get money...


Unless u wan poor finish

lol...... that's the bond of contention.
If I eventually marry her that means she will still be doing runz outside... hmmmm.

she need to be contented