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Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by PlayerMeji: 11:46pm On Aug 21, 2020
What better way to preach peace than to violently express your peace
Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by BabaRamota1980: 11:54pm On Aug 21, 2020
This has happened in Nigeria not long ago. The parents of an ibogirl killed her with the baby in her womb for keeping pregnancy for a Yoruba muslim. I will urge yanminris to keep quiet and not comment on this thread at all.
Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by Nobody: 1:16am On Aug 22, 2020
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BabaRamota1980:
This has happened in Nigeria not long ago. The parents of an ibogirl killed her with the baby in her womb for keeping pregnancy for a Yoruba muslim. I will urge yanminris to keep quiet and not comment on this thread at all.
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Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by realestate99: 2:25am On Aug 22, 2020
It is not totally because the boyfriend was a Christian, it includes being a Serbian, two deadly combination an average Muslim Bosnian can't take, the hate between these two groups is enormous, the girl should have known better.
Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by Nobody: 3:40am On Aug 22, 2020
realestate99:
It is not totally because the boyfriend was a Christian, it includes being a Serbian, two deadly combination an average Muslim Bosnian can't take, the hate between these two groups is enormous, the girl should have known better.

So I should involve myself in a hate I did not create, just because my family believes in one?

This is a typical meaning of brainwashing.

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Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by realestate99: 3:46am On Aug 22, 2020
Esseite:


So I should involve myself in a hate I did not create, just because my family believes in one?

This is a typical meaning of brainwashing.
The girl is not at fault, but you can hardly blame the parents too, nobody will feel cool approving a relationship between his daughter and someone that comes from a group that nearly wiped off his people some years back......we react to challenges differently.
Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by Nobody: 3:55am On Aug 22, 2020
realestate99:

The girl is not at fault, but you can hardly blame the parents too, nobody will feel cool approving a relationship between his daughter and someone that comes from a group that nearly wiped off his people some years back......we react to challenges differently.

I understand you perfectly. this is why generalizing has brought harm, hate and segregation to a lot of good people in this world..

The quiet good people most-times pay for the crimes of the loud bad ones..
Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by Kestolove(m): 5:16am On Aug 22, 2020
extol1:

to slap you dey hungry me, as if Muslim no dey fornicate.
omaye, olodu
Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by Masterclass32: 6:12am On Aug 22, 2020
These terrorists even terrorize their own children.
Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by extol1(m): 8:03am On Aug 22, 2020
Kestolove:
omaye, olodu
olodu, how are you doing?
Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by Ghengiskhan(m): 8:32am On Aug 22, 2020
Timatayo1:
Terrorist religion
First try to know why the family do that to the girl, read about Bosnia massacre, when Christian Serbian killed Muslim Bosnian while the UN sat and watch. What they did is wrong totally wrong and there's no verse in the Quran that proscribed such punishment. I'm Muslim my sister is married to a Christian guy and my two big brothers are married to Christian ladies. It's more of tribal than religion.

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Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by mrblessed(m): 9:11am On Aug 22, 2020
Ghengiskhan:

First try to know why the family do that to the girl, read about Bosnia massacre, when Christian Serbian killed Muslim Bosnian while the UN sat and watch. What they did is wrong totally wrong and there's no verse in the Quran that proscribed such punishment. I'm Muslim my sister is married to a Christian guy and my two big brothers are married to Christian ladies. It's more of tribal than religion.
Yes. "It is more of "tribal" than religion" according to you. How come it happens everywhere there are Muslims, even in Nigeria. We know some parents, on account of ethnic and religious differences, prevent their children from associating with people who are different from them. With the exception of Yoruba Muslims, other Muslim parents, just like their counterpart in France, are willing to kill their children if they deviate from their religious upbringing. The unfortunate girl is even lucky they didn't kill her but only shaved her hair, maybe because they knew they were not in an Islamic country, where apostasy is criminalised. Because the next step after marrying a Christian guy would naturally be to convert, a move that can earn her death sentence from her family.

You did a very poor spin job of trying to use history as a cover for something that happens in every part of the world, even to people who have no history of ethnic animosity and tension. Take it or leave, it is more of religious injunction than a case of ethnic intolerance. Just recently, Tunisia passed a legislation that would allow Muslim ladies to marry non-Muslim men, after decades of struggle with the influential Islamic clergymen that virtually control all aspects of life of the people.
Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by Nobody: 9:44am On Aug 22, 2020
RichBoy247:


You go cry tire. Tell your co Christian and underage fornicator to go and look for a fellow fornicating Christian to be fuccking.
sharap joor even for nigeria here muslims girls dey Bleep Christian guys like say tomorrow no dey .... come Abuja come see for urself
Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by Ghengiskhan(m): 9:56am On Aug 22, 2020
mrblessed:
Yes. "It is more of "tribal" than religion" according to you. How come it happens everywhere there are Muslims, even in Nigeria. We know some parents, on account of ethnic and religious differences, prevent their children from associating with people who are different from them. With the exception of Yoruba Muslims, other Muslim parents, just like their counterpart in France, are willing to kill their children if they deviate from their religious upbringing. The unfortunate girl is even lucky they didn't kill her but only shaved her hair, maybe because they knew they were not in an Islamic country, where apostasy is criminalised. Because the next step after marrying a Christian guy would naturally be to convert, a move that can earn her death sentence from her family.

You did a very poor spin job of trying to use history as a cover for something that happens in every part of the world, even to people who have no history of ethnic animosity and tension. Take it or leave, it is more of religious injunction than a case of ethnic intolerance. Just recently, Tunisia passed a legislation that would allow Muslim ladies to marry non-Muslim men, after decades of struggle with the influential Islamic clergymen that virtually control all aspects of life of the people.
What do you think an Igbo father will do if is Christian daughter comes home with a Muslim as husband to be ?
Or a Hindu father to a Hindu girl that wants to marry Muslim guy ? Go back and check it's always tribal.... Every tribe attached themselves to a certain religion and they try to justify everything by that religion. Yorubas you said don't have a religion attachment that is why they are an exception.
98% Igbo you will meet are Christian
98% hausa are Muslim
98% Bosnian you will meet are Muslim
98% Indian you will meet are Hindus
That's where the problem is, the west don't have this because they purge themselves of religious attachment
Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by Steady259(m): 10:10am On Aug 22, 2020
So so babaric andshameful for a religion thats claims its for peace......possibly peace has another definition in their "holy" book
Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by hayzed1090: 10:17am On Aug 22, 2020
Ghengiskhan:

What do you think an Igbo father will do if is Christian daughter comes home with a Muslim as husband to be ?
Or a Hindu father to a Hindu girl that wants to marry Muslim guy ? Go back and check it's always tribal.... Every tribe attached themselves to a certain religion and they try to justify everything by that religion. Yorubas you said don't have a religion attachment that is why they are an exception.
98% Igbo you will meet are Christian
98% hausa are Muslim
98% Bosnian you will meet are Muslim
98% Indian you will meet are Hindus
That's where the problem is, the west don't have this because they purge themselves of religious attachment

Pls you dont have to argue with this people... they always put aside their brain when it comes to islam . It's pure hatred nothing more. There was a news not too long of an igbo parent that killed their daughter for dating a yoruba Muslim. Nobody cursed xtianity for that o
Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by mrblessed(m): 10:20am On Aug 22, 2020
Ghengiskhan:

What do you think an Igbo father will do if is Christian daughter comes home with a Muslim as husband to be ?
Or a Hindu father to a Hindu girl that wants to marry Muslim guy ? Go back and check it's always tribal.... Every tribe attached themselves to a certain religion and they try to justify everything by that religion. Yorubas you said don't have a religion attachment that is why they are an exception.
98% Igbo you will meet are Christian
98% hausa are Muslim
98% Bosnian you will meet are Muslim
98% Indian you will meet are Hindus
That's where the problem is, the west don't have this because they purge themselves of religious attachment
I have to issue this reply not because I believe it will alter your belief system and the indoctrination that shapes your outlook on this topic. In my previous post, I highlighted the challenge parents face when their children seem to deviate from their religious upbringing and I wrote that, with the exception of Yoruba Muslims, all Muslim parents all over the world are likely to inflect bodily harm and injury that may lead to death. This is a common phenomenon in the Muslim world, something hiding under ethnicity would not diminish.

It is not about ethnicity as you erroneously implied. It is not about the classification of ethnic groups according to the dominant religion they practise. It is certainly about following a religious injunction that is viciously intolerant of other religions, and does not sanction conversion to other religions. Why do you think the word "apostasy" is commonly used in Islam? Yes, an Igbo parents -- just any other parents in Nigeria -- would certainly object their daughter marrying a practising Muslim man, but would never be consumed by extremist inclinations to inflict bodily harms on her, or ultimately kill for deviating from their religion. That is the difference which you know, but pretends it exists.

The parents in France took a "final solution" because they knew that that was the worst they can do to the lady, since she isn't in an Islamic world. And, it might also be that she has started the process of leaving Islam. They did for their religious convictions, not because of where they come from. Most Muslim parents, even in Nigeria, would do the same.
Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by Ghengiskhan(m): 10:39am On Aug 22, 2020
mrblessed:
I have to issue this reply not because I believe it will alter your belief system and the indoctrination that shapes your outlook on this topic. In my previous post, I highlighted the challenge parents face when their children seem to deviate from their religious upbringing and I wrote that, with the exception of Yoruba Muslims, all Muslim parents all over the world are likely to inflect bodily harm and injury that may lead to death. This is a common phenomenon in the Muslim world, something hiding under ethnicity would not diminish.

It is not about ethnicity as you erroneously implied. It is not about the classification of ethnic groups according to the dominant religion they practise. It is certainly about following a religious injunction that is viciously intolerant of other religions, and does not sanction conversion to other religions. Why do you think the word "apostasy" is commonly used in Islam? Yes, an Igbo parents -- just any other parents in Nigeria -- would certainly object their daughter marrying a practising Muslim man, but would never be consumed by extremist inclinations to inflict bodily harms on her, or ultimately kill for deviating from their religion. That is the difference which you know, but pretends it exists.

The parents in France took a "final solution" because they knew that that was the worst they can do to the lady, since she isn't in an Islamic world. And, it might also be that she has started the process of leaving Islam. They did for their religious convictions, not because of where they come from. Most Muslim parents, even in Nigeria, would do the same.
In my first post I said I'm from a Muslim family 3 out of 7 of us are with Christian partners even my my Iman uncle first son is married to a Christian lady and all of them still practicing christian. Buy since you want to talk of religion I gave you example of India where they even have people that go round daily to ensure Muslims don't have any relationship with the Hindu girls. And what did Deuteronomy 7:3 and Corinthians 6:14 says ?
Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by Bruno3000(m): 11:36am On Aug 22, 2020
RichBoy247:


You go cry tire. Tell your co Christian and underage fornicator to go and look for a fellow fornicating Christian to be fuccking.
Look at this hypocrite, who Bleep reach Una? I guess the almajiris that are littered every where are products of Christians fcking around... angry
Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by blingxx(m): 12:23pm On Aug 22, 2020
Phillmore59:
lol.....u mean the religion of war,violence and agony.......i always thank God of being a Christian. i can never kill someone and be reciting a verse in my claimed holy book.

ever heard of the crusaders ,the followers of Christ that use to burn innocent women alive ..you no know bruh the real Christianity doesn't exist anymore ...them just use religions brainwash we blacks
Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by Nobody: 5:32pm On Aug 22, 2020
Sad and infuriating.
Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by Abdunzhaleel: 7:25pm On Aug 22, 2020
Ghengiskhan:

First try to know why the family do that to the girl, read about Bosnia massacre, when Christian Serbian killed Muslim Bosnian while the UN sat and watch. What they did is wrong totally wrong and there's no verse in the Quran that proscribed such punishment. I'm Muslim my sister is married to a Christian guy and my two big brothers are married to Christian ladies. It's more of tribal than religion.
. Brother, you shouldn't boast with the fact that your relations married Christians. As muslims, we are to live peacefully with them, trade with them, have a good relation with them, help them in trying times and many other things but marriage is out of the equation as it is glaringly spelt out in the Quran :



Al-Baqarah 2:221

وَلَا تَنكِحُوا۟ ٱلْمُشْرِكَٰتِ حَتَّىٰ يُؤْمِنَّۚ وَلَأَمَةٌ مُّؤْمِنَةٌ خَيْرٌ مِّن مُّشْرِكَةٍ وَلَوْ أَعْجَبَتْكُمْۗ وَلَا تُنكِحُوا۟ ٱلْمُشْرِكِينَ حَتَّىٰ يُؤْمِنُوا۟ۚ وَلَعَبْدٌ مُّؤْمِنٌ خَيْرٌ مِّن مُّشْرِكٍ وَلَوْ أَعْجَبَكُمْۗ أُو۟لَٰٓئِكَ يَدْعُونَ إِلَى ٱلنَّارِۖ وَٱللَّهُ يَدْعُوٓا۟ إِلَى ٱلْجَنَّةِ وَٱلْمَغْفِرَةِ بِإِذْنِهِۦۖ وَيُبَيِّنُ ءَايَٰتِهِۦ لِلنَّاسِ لَعَلَّهُمْ يَتَذَكَّرُونَ

And do not marry polytheistic women until they believe. And a believing slave woman is better than a polytheist, even though she might please you. And do not marry polytheistic men [to your women] until they believe. And a believing slave is better than a polytheist, even though he might please you. Those invite [you] to the Fire, but Allah invites to Paradise and to forgiveness, by His permission. And He makes clear His verses to the people that perhaps they may remember.
Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by bukatyne(f): 7:39pm On Aug 22, 2020
The family were fine with her dating a Christian but not marrying him?!

Strange.

Good they have all been apprenended. And thank goodness no talk of statutory rape:

Babe at 17 is not too young for a 20 year old man.
Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by mysticwarrior(m): 12:15am On Aug 23, 2020
Ghengiskhan:

First try to know why the family do that to the girl, read about Bosnia massacre, when Christian Serbian killed Muslim Bosnian while the UN sat and watch. What they did is wrong totally wrong and there's no verse in the Quran that proscribed such punishment. I'm Muslim my sister is married to a Christian guy and my two big brothers are married to Christian ladies. It's more of tribal than religion.
lie the Quran condemned marriage between Muslims women and non Muslims men, this has nothing to do with ethnicity but religion.
Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by mysticwarrior(m): 12:23am On Aug 23, 2020
Ghengiskhan:

In my first post I said I'm from a Muslim family 3 out of 7 of us are with Christian partners even my my Iman uncle first son is married to a Christian lady and all of them still practicing christian. Buy since you want to talk of religion I gave you example of India where they even have people that go round daily to ensure Muslims don't have any relationship with the Hindu girls. And what did Deuteronomy 7:3 and Corinthians 6:14 says ?
a Muslim man can marry a non Muslims woman but it is forbidden for a Muslim woman to marry a non Muslim why? This is why you will never see Fulani, kanuri and shua muslim girls doing their NYSC in south south Nigeria, them dey fear make their women no run follow Christian boys.

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Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by raquel97: 7:33am On Aug 23, 2020
extol1:

to slap you dey hungry me, as if Muslim no dey fornicate.
They fornicate the more, hiding under veils and pray 24/7 to ask for forgiveness after fornicaton
Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by thorpido(m): 11:39am On Aug 23, 2020
Abdunzhaleel:
. Brother, you shouldn't boast with the fact that your relations married Christians. As muslims, we are to live peacefully with them, trade with them, have a good relation with them, help them in trying times and many other things but marriage is out of the equation as it is glaringly spelt out in the Quran :



Al-Baqarah 2:221

وَلَا تَنكِحُوا۟ ٱلْمُشْرِكَٰتِ حَتَّىٰ يُؤْمِنَّۚ وَلَأَمَةٌ مُّؤْمِنَةٌ خَيْرٌ مِّن مُّشْرِكَةٍ وَلَوْ أَعْجَبَتْكُمْۗ وَلَا تُنكِحُوا۟ ٱلْمُشْرِكِينَ حَتَّىٰ يُؤْمِنُوا۟ۚ وَلَعَبْدٌ مُّؤْمِنٌ خَيْرٌ مِّن مُّشْرِكٍ وَلَوْ أَعْجَبَكُمْۗ أُو۟لَٰٓئِكَ يَدْعُونَ إِلَى ٱلنَّارِۖ وَٱللَّهُ يَدْعُوٓا۟ إِلَى ٱلْجَنَّةِ وَٱلْمَغْفِرَةِ بِإِذْنِهِۦۖ وَيُبَيِّنُ ءَايَٰتِهِۦ لِلنَّاسِ لَعَلَّهُمْ يَتَذَكَّرُونَ

And do not marry polytheistic women until they believe. And a believing slave woman is better than a polytheist, even though she might please you. And do not marry polytheistic men [to your women] until they believe. And a believing slave is better than a polytheist, even though he might please you. Those invite [you] to the Fire, but Allah invites to Paradise and to forgiveness, by His permission. And He makes clear His verses to the people that perhaps they may remember.

Who or what the heck is polytheistic women?
Get true knowledge about God and stop following what some ignorant imams or illiterate taught you.
Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by Abdunzhaleel: 11:55am On Aug 23, 2020
thorpido:
Who or what the heck is polytheistic women?
Get true knowledge about God and stop following what some ignorant imams or illiterate taught you.
Ignorant imams taught who? I'm sorry i can't engage you in a discussion! Am off!
Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by thorpido(m): 3:40pm On Aug 23, 2020
Abdunzhaleel:
Ignorant imams taught who? I'm sorry i can't engage you in a discussion! Am off!
,Yes you deficiently CAN'T.
Stop labelling people in your ignorance!
Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by Abdunzhaleel: 4:05pm On Aug 23, 2020
thorpido:
,Yes you deficiently CAN'T.
Stop labelling people in your ignorance!

I care for my self-esteem and would never stoop low to confabulate with a vacuum-skull person with no formal education of Islam and its tenets.
Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by thorpido(m): 4:24pm On Aug 23, 2020
Abdunzhaleel:


I care for my self-esteem and would never stoop low to confabulate with a vacuum-skull person with no formal education of Islam and its tenets.
Just stop the rubbish of name calling.If you had the 'pseudo-intelligence' you claim you would get knowledge and just stop propagating the ignorance you learnt from someone who didn't know any better.
Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by Abdunzhaleel: 4:37pm On Aug 23, 2020
thorpido:
Just stop the rubbish of name calling.If you had the 'pseudo-intelligence' you claim you would get knowledge and just stop propagating the ignorance you learnt from someone who didn't know any better.
I tendered a proof for the statement so back your too with proof or bury your cranium in shame

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