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Live-in Relationship: The Two Sides Of A Coin. by bbstarr(f): 8:54pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
I got the inspiration to put up this post from a bollywood movie I watched some months ago “LUKA CHUPPI” which means hide and seek. It’s a story about two lovers who were cohabiting with each other without the knowledge of their parents. Some people frowned at it while some supported it including some elderly people. This got me thinking if live in relationship is actually good or not. Live_in relationship which can also be referred to as cohabitation is an arrangement where two people are not married but live together. Most times it involves active or frequent sexual acts. This arrangement is increasing in almost every part of the world even among the people whose religion frowns at it. Sometimes, the cohabitation can be for a long term or a short term but in most cases, it’s long term. Religiously and morally, it’s not so cool. Cohabiting automatically means frequent copulation and this is premarital sex. Even though premarital sex is a norm nowadays, it doesn’t mean it’s right. Most married people started their Marital journey from cohabiting. It’s working for some while it’s not working for a good number of people. Some even give birth to children while cohabiting before they decide to seal the union legally while some continue to cohabit till old age or till the grim reaper comes knocking. Looking at it from another aspect, cohabitation can actually expose some things about your lover that you are not aware of. Some hidden attitude or some shady things. Cohabitation can actually make you decide if you can live with this person for the rest of your life. There are lovers that do well while apart but the moment they are together, frequent unnecessary quarrels set in. It’s a two way thing! Now, I want to know what you think about live-in relationship. From your own perspective, is it good or not? Give reasons. https://naijacryptogirl.com/live-in-relationshipthe-two-sides-of-a-coin/ |
Re: Live-in Relationship: The Two Sides Of A Coin. by dingbang(m): 9:03pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
To me it's actually a good thing. Will always go for live in rships any day any time. |
Re: Live-in Relationship: The Two Sides Of A Coin. by Nobody: 9:05pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
Re: Live-in Relationship: The Two Sides Of A Coin. by bbstarr(f): 9:07pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
StacyO:A sad experience? |
Re: Live-in Relationship: The Two Sides Of A Coin. by bbstarr(f): 9:08pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
dingbang: Sometimes, it doesn't end well. You know? |
Re: Live-in Relationship: The Two Sides Of A Coin. by Nobody: 9:08pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
bbstarr:No relationship |
Re: Live-in Relationship: The Two Sides Of A Coin. by dingbang(m): 9:11pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
bbstarr:yeah sometimes, you just have to understand the type of person you are living with before you through all your dice on the table. Like me for example, I tend to bond more with a girlfriend who is very much closer to me than someone who lives very far. I just like to be seeing my babe even if its not everyday buh every week. And if she happens to agree to come stay with me, I am good with it. Its even better so we do business together and make money. everything just isnt about sex |
Re: Live-in Relationship: The Two Sides Of A Coin. by bbstarr(f): 9:12pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
StacyO:I don't want to believe that, you're a beautiful lady. |
Re: Live-in Relationship: The Two Sides Of A Coin. by dingbang(m): 9:12pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
StacyO:but you such a pretty girl. Now tell me why you are turning down guys |
Re: Live-in Relationship: The Two Sides Of A Coin. by bbstarr(f): 9:13pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
dingbang: That's sweet |
Re: Live-in Relationship: The Two Sides Of A Coin. by dingbang(m): 9:15pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
bbstarr:so have an open mind about it dear. It's not that bad. |
Re: Live-in Relationship: The Two Sides Of A Coin. by Nobody: 9:17pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
bbstarr: I don't want any On the topic, I don't think I can ever live with a guy I'm not married to. |
Re: Live-in Relationship: The Two Sides Of A Coin. by Nobody: 9:18pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
dingbang: I've not seen the right person |
Re: Live-in Relationship: The Two Sides Of A Coin. by dingbang(m): 9:19pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
StacyO:please can I know your kind of right person? |
Re: Live-in Relationship: The Two Sides Of A Coin. by Nobody: 9:22pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
Re: Live-in Relationship: The Two Sides Of A Coin. by Nobody: 9:24pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
bbstarr:I just checked your dp. You're very pretty, I'm sure you're married. As a lady,I know I'm just average. Lol |
Re: Live-in Relationship: The Two Sides Of A Coin. by dingbang(m): 9:24pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
StacyO:by ulterior motives, you mean one dating just to have sex and go? |
Re: Live-in Relationship: The Two Sides Of A Coin. by dingbang(m): 9:25pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
StacyO:I think you both are wonderfully made in God's likeness. You aren't average |
Re: Live-in Relationship: The Two Sides Of A Coin. by Nobody: 9:33pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
dingbang: Even if I want to date,I hope I find that type. |
Re: Live-in Relationship: The Two Sides Of A Coin. by dingbang(m): 9:33pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
StacyO:urm, you hope to find the type who wants to have sex and go? |
Re: Live-in Relationship: The Two Sides Of A Coin. by Nobody: 9:45pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
Re: Live-in Relationship: The Two Sides Of A Coin. by dingbang(m): 10:08pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
StacyO:but I hope you are a good lady too? |
Re: Live-in Relationship: The Two Sides Of A Coin. by Nobody: 11:04pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
Re: Live-in Relationship: The Two Sides Of A Coin. by dingbang(m): 5:05am On Aug 24, 2020 |
StacyO:I see you as a smart lady, would certainly love to make a new friendship with you. |
Re: Live-in Relationship: The Two Sides Of A Coin. by bbstarr(f): 8:33am On Aug 24, 2020 |
dingbang: Weldone Hector |
Re: Live-in Relationship: The Two Sides Of A Coin. by simplepee(f): 9:06am On Aug 24, 2020 |
Well, I don't see anything wrong with it. You have to stay together with someone you intend to marry for atleast one month of your courtship. |
Re: Live-in Relationship: The Two Sides Of A Coin. by dingbang(m): 9:42am On Aug 24, 2020 |
bbstarr:come, you know me what is your former moniker? |
Re: Live-in Relationship: The Two Sides Of A Coin. by dingbang(m): 9:43am On Aug 24, 2020 |
simplepee:true. Very important. |
Re: Live-in Relationship: The Two Sides Of A Coin. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 1:14pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
dingbang: Na so una dey talk! Everything is not all about sex yen yen yen. So that you go waste her body beyond repair, ba? If you really crave to bond with her as much as that, by all means, please, marry her. Stop living together without legitimate reasons, thereby, leading to unwarranted sex, abortion(s) in the course of staying together, and even desecrating bodily sin against the will of God. 1 Like |
Re: Live-in Relationship: The Two Sides Of A Coin. by IamPlato(m): 1:32pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
dingbang:dont Fall For Emotional Talks and Start Getting Sympathetic or Catching Feels. Anyway Carry On |
Re: Live-in Relationship: The Two Sides Of A Coin. by IamPlato(m): 1:34pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
UyaiIncomparabl:looks like somebody with experience don land for here |
Re: Live-in Relationship: The Two Sides Of A Coin. by dingbang(m): 3:23pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
UyaiIncomparabl:why did you follow me to this thread now |
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