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Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by WandaMaximoff: 2:05pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
newace: Just cause she disagrees with her mum doesn't mean she doesn't respect her. Is her mum a fountain of all knowledge? Please get that woman all the help she needs and stop whining on NL jor. 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by WandaMaximoff: 2:06pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
punisha: I'm just tired of the endless whining of people about their spouses on this forum. It's like they are not even willing to put in any work in their marriage or someone told them marriage is cold stone and Dominoes. People should be given a psych eval before they are allowed to marry, honestly. 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by newace: 2:06pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
Ishilove:How can you feed an 18 month old baby cerelac in the morning,eba/amala in the afternoon and cerelac again in the night everyday mon-sun. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by newace: 2:07pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
Biglittlelois:I'll know,we'll discuss it dont worry.I have learnt my lessons. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by Biglittlelois(f): 2:08pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
newace: When you know she has these traits you obviously cant cope with, why did you marry her? 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by mariahAngel(f): 2:09pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
WandaMaximoff: You can be sarcastic all you want but it isn't funny. What are you trying to imply? That the op's wife has all the rights to do as she pleases to the baby because she gave birth to him? The father has no say right? 34 Likes |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by 444crop: 2:12pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
newace:trust me, they come in different sizes and looks but na still the same qualities 5 Likes |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by mariahAngel(f): 2:13pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
WandaMaximoff: Not all mothers know what is best for their children and that is the truth. You don't have it all figured out just because you pushed a baby out of your vagina. Experienced people are there to guide you if you're willing. 36 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by Biglittlelois(f): 2:14pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
newace: Having discussions doesn't mean there won't be disagreement on certain things, it's obvious you want a "yes sir" kind of wife, and you will never get one 100%, this is where compromise and tolerance comes in play, Have more kids with your present wife, try and sweet talk her to listen to you and do what you want, if you actually did this, she wouldn't be adamant to do what she wants. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by Eketem: 2:17pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
Please ignore these women who turn everything including a childs well-being into a gender war. When you get home please make the milk for your son. Alternatively employ a nanny with strict instructions for the child's nutrition. You can report her to social welfare for child endangerment since she is also ignoring doctor's instructions Social welfare is in the local government secretariat they take these matters seriously; a visit to the office will reset her brain. Also if you plan to divorce her making a formal report against her improves your chances of getting custody. So sorry about the pain your baby is facing 38 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by mariahAngel(f): 2:18pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
WandaMaximoff: Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha ![]() What you typed up there are all bullsh!t! So, you think worrying about his child is "small issue" ? What could be more important than the welfare of your child? 19 Likes |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by FloraEC(f): 2:19pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
newace: You're just finding unnecessary faults. From milk to clothing, next will be house chores, or cooking or maybe she's disrespectful. Haa, let her be. 7 Likes |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by punisha: 2:20pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
WandaMaximoff: As in eh... All this strong head won't be anything short of another strange girl that's tickling his fancy and making everything his wife do,to be repulsive to him. He should send her home let's rest. Got one rule at home...we settle our differences in 20minutes and no third party is permitted to EVER interfere. Works and has worked for years. Abeg free this person. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by mariahAngel(f): 2:24pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
newace: You as the father, what are you going to do about it? Are just going to fold your arms and let her do whatever she wants at the detriment of your baby? Don't allow her stubbornness harm your baby. You seem timid. Baba, shine your eyes! 16 Likes |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by newace: 2:24pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
Biglittlelois:lol @ yes sir kind of wife ...i only want a wife that listens to the doctor and her mum..period !! 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by newace: 2:27pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
FloraEC:lol the clothing issue was first raised by her mum and aunt...marry someone that respects his/her mum(thats the foundation). 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by newace: 2:29pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
mariahAngel:Guy the only thing i will do is to keep calm and watch but he'll be my only child with her. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by FloraEC(f): 2:38pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
The kinda advice I read on nl tires me out. Quietly talk to your wife. Why was your child not breast fed or was it complemented with milk? Is milk the new food you want to introduce to a toddler? My son never liked plain milk when he was that age, he'll spit everything out. Is your child a pickyeater? What other cereal have you bought? Beverage? What happened to other homemade food e.g mashed potatoes, beans with plantain etc. Finger foods like fried potatoes, pancakes, bread, plantains, soft baby carrots etc Natural fruit juice nko or fruits like Apple, banana etc The milk can be added in pap or cereal. Warm water first thing in the morning can help with the constipation. Or is it only amala that you eat in your house? Everything is not war, war war. 41 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by Ishilove: 2:38pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
WandaMaximoff:He is only being human. Someone that doesn't listen to her husband, her own mother and the doctor is someone that can push a person to the brink. 22 Likes |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by FloraEC(f): 2:39pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
newace: Because she disagreed with her mum means she disrespected her. There's always two sides to a story. 8 Likes |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by mariahAngel(f): 2:40pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
newace: Learn how to care for your child yourself. Tips to help: •Don't forget to give him water to drink at least 3times a day (most adults forget that babies can get very thirsty) •Squeeze out some fresh orange juice and give him to drink everyday, it'll help him pass stool easily. •Feed him a banana a day at least with a baby spoon. •You can also learn to purée some fruits like apples or papaya to feed him on some days. He'll enjoy it and it'll keep him healthy. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by newace: 2:41pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
FloraEC:she's always rude to her mum ,i saw it happen so many times before we got married ,i don't know why but it's the truth. 7 Likes |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by Ishilove: 2:41pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
newace:Shey she cannot seek advice from experienced mothers? |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by tabithababy(f): 2:43pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
newace:. Feed your baby yourself and wear new clothes for your baby yourself.. You think its easy to take care of babies right ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 2:44pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
What do you want to do now? divorce her cause she refused to feed your child sme? 1 Like |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by FloraEC(f): 2:55pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
newace: Eziokwu, and you went ahead and married her okwaya. So typical. From milk to clothing to disrespecting you, Dr and her mom Next will be she insulted your mother etc. Fault finder. Always labeling their spouse bad. She should come and give her own side of the story. Is it only amala that she prepares at home or is that the only thing your child loves? At least is not ogi 16 Likes |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by crackhaus: 3:03pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
newace:First things first, who does the woman listen to in her life? ![]() There has to be one person, at least... Perhaps knowing who this person is, will provide a clue as to the source of her attitude. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by WandaMaximoff: 3:12pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
Ishilove: But this is not her first rodeo now. Is this not her third child? Has she always been this way? 1 Like |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by newace: 3:22pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
FloraEC:lol u de vex,you have no idea whats going on. 7 Likes |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by djon78(m): 3:25pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
WandaMaximoff: My G O in church some Sundays ago raised alarm about intolerance in most marriages now. People not up to 3 months in marriage talking about divorce. One guy because the wife can't cook is contemplating divorce, in fact has packed out of his home It was actually very funny 6 Likes |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by Harshreality: 3:27pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
There is more to this story than meets the eyes. You seem hell bent on doing what you have in mind which begs the question as to why you brought this matter here. There's a saying that to settle the problems between a husband and wife you must know the full story. I believe the solution to your problem ( If you're even interested in a solution) would best be given to you by either your parents or a wise elder, a religious person who both of you respects and can sit the both of you down and talk to you or if none of the former exists you can get a marriage counselor. You are your child's father. You and both have equal rights over your child. If you've consulted a pediatrician and it's been confirmed that what the child needs is a change of diet then enforce it. No one has any right to harm a child just because they are it's parent. 1 Like |
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