newace:
How can you feed an 18 month old baby cerelac in the morning,eba/amala in the afternoon and cerelac again in the night everyday mon-sun.

At 18mths the baby should be eating everything at home or Atleast a greater majority.

Fruits mashed or blended.
Beans cooked with fresh fish.Moi moi. Beans peeled like moi moi then cook with fish.
If it stresses her, she can cook it large, put in lil containers and freeze.

Sweet or Irish Potatoes in egg or veggie sauce mashed.
Plenty okra soup with lil swallow
Pasta cooked very soft. Indomie cooked with stew not the seasoning pls.
Replace his cereals with pap, tombrown or oats(blend to be powdery for him) pls to ease constipation before pile will set in.
Use age appropriate milk not sma. 1+ should be written on it.
Tea with bread with milk and lil ovaltine(has less sugar)

My last son is currently 14mths and eats everything on the menu though mashed with 4 teethoo. Your baby should be eating Atleast 5x daily.

Pls note that milk can be cause constipation too. There's a measurement for each quantity of water. Also make sure your baby drinks a lot of water and fruits

Pls talk to her calmly she'll understand and show her this. Most new moms get confused at this stage. I was too.it can be stressful too.

Help her too

after yours and her own na this result the baby must choose to look like

Ikjosh04:

Is she from Imo?

She should be from Mbaise.

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newace:
Today, I told my wife to start feeding our 18 month old son sma baby milk once a day so he could take in all the necessary nutrients from the milk since he was never breast fed.

Note: he eats cerelac in the morning, yoghurt at 12 noon, Eba/Amala at 4pm and cerelac again in the night. I mentioned to her to find a way to feed him sma milk at least once a day but instead she started arguing with me.

What do i do?

Do you mind sharing why your son was not breastfed

newace:
Today, I told my wife to start feeding our 18 month old son sma baby milk once a day so he could take in all the necessary nutrients from the milk since he was never breast fed.

Note: he eats cerelac in the morning, yoghurt at 12 noon, Eba/Amala at 4pm and cerelac again in the night. I mentioned to her to find a way to feed him sma milk at least once a day but instead she started arguing with me.

What do i do?

bros just dont argue anymore, women knows how to turn the blames around and probably use what u are asking her to do as an excuse to tag u a nagging husband or abusive one ...it's her child and she should understand that she needs to do the right and since u've asked her to do things the right way and she ignores u just don't push anymore..they are just hard to deal with..we can talk in my digits, be free to holla. It is well

newace:
I have left her to do what she wants though its not what i want. But that'll be my last child with her.

u know that fool is mocking you right?

Many are mad but few are roaming
What about how she does on bed? You have not told us that?

newace:
Today, I told my wife to start feeding our 18 month old son sma baby milk once a day so he could take in all the necessary nutrients from the milk since he was never breast fed.

Note: he eats cerelac in the morning, yoghurt at 12 noon, Eba/Amala at 4pm and cerelac again in the night. I mentioned to her to find a way to feed him sma milk at least once a day but instead she started arguing with me.

What do i do?

Free the woman abeg... pickin wey go grow go still grow. What of people that never saw their mothers? What of people whose parents can't afford SMA or Cerelac? Nothing matters in this world. You would just pray that God sustains you to bring money to the house. Try your very best and leave the rest for the others. Remember, if you die, everyone would forget you ever existed. The children would grow and your wife might remarry... and life goes on!!!

newace:
Today, I told my wife to start feeding our 18 month old son sma baby milk once a day so he could take in all the necessary nutrients from the milk since he was never breast fed.

Note: he eats cerelac in the morning, yoghurt at 12 noon, Eba/Amala at 4pm and cerelac again in the night. I mentioned to her to find a way to feed him sma milk at least once a day but instead she started arguing with me.

What do i do?

Mad people everywhere.
What is this doing in the front page for God's sake.

newace:
Today, I told my wife to start feeding our 18 month old son sma baby milk once a day so he could take in all the necessary nutrients from the milk since he was never breast fed.

Note: he eats cerelac in the morning, yoghurt at 12 noon, Eba/Amala at 4pm and cerelac again in the night. I mentioned to her to find a way to feed him sma milk at least once a day but instead she started arguing with me.

What do i do?

Simple.

Relax, sit wit her and iron out the problems with her.

newace:
I'm tired of the patience,i bought a box of the sma milk.

what's her arguement?

newace:
Today, I told my wife to start feeding our 18 month old son sma baby milk once a day so he could take in all the necessary nutrients from the milk since he was never breast fed.

Note: he eats cerelac in the morning, yoghurt at 12 noon, Eba/Amala at 4pm and cerelac again in the night. I mentioned to her to find a way to feed him sma milk at least once a day but instead she started arguing with me.

What do i do?

Grow breasts and start feeding the child! This is nothing to fight about, maybe your son doesn't like SMA...somebody that is already eating eba and amala...Your son is a warrior!!

Yeyenairaland:



U just sound like an average naija papa

how man go do nah? you no expect me make I tell am make him divorce him wife ontop dis small mata.

coming from someone that is married for almost 15years.

If thats the only problem, then you dont have a problem. so many people cant even feed their babies with adequate cereal even once in a day

Is it how she was behaving before you marry her?
some women go through emotional and behavioural changes after birth especially the first pregnancy..some will end up developing post natal depression and psychosis..
Some can even kill their child if you allow them to breastfeed him..
Be patient with her and give her a chance and when this child grow, give her at least 4yrs to take in again so that she can adjust to motherhood..
What she is doing may not be her fault

newace:
Not all mothers know whats best for their kids,the boy cries heavily when he poos which happens once in 2-3 days...the dr advised us to stop cerelac but my son's mother knows best.Like i said i'll have 3 more kids but he's my last child with her.

You call your wife "your son's mother"?

Clearly see where the problem is coming from...

newace:
Not all mothers know whats best for their kids,the boy cries heavily when he poos which happens once in 2-3 days...the dr advised us to stop cerelac but my son's mother knows best.Like i said i'll have 3 more kids but he's my last child with her.

Children come with their own individual and unique systems.my son was always constipated then i observed that milk was the culprit.i started adding soyabeans to his pap n cereal(milk inclusive) and his stool became normal and frequent.

the legs that hold the table of this marriage are already shaking.

if finally broken, another marriage gone caused by a woman.

women should stop being stubborn with their men.
men are the heads of the homes.
be humble to ur men, ladies.

now, if this marriage ends like, the woman will turn single mother/baby mama and she'd be putting the blames on her man and some mumu women that don't know the real story go start cursing men.



women, your homes are in your hands.

don't forget, men can easily move on.




be guided

Oga drink the milk. Na ur money and u need am. Women are too possessive. Las Las the small pikin go buy rapper for the mother, but come buy Seaman Oromatic schnapps for u. Life no balance at all.

Biglittlelois:



And if the next woman decides to feed your second child with pap and amala, you'd divorce her and move on to the next one right? You ain't maritally mature yet.

my thoughts exactly..too much of NL stories is affecting him.Hope it wont be late b4 he realise that handling women issues is nt a joke

FloraEC:


You're just finding unnecessary faults.
From milk to clothing, next will be house chores, or cooking or maybe she's disrespectful.

Haa, let her be.

Shut up joor..


U didn't even contribute anytin reasonable at all

Guy!!! I no dey wait for My wife early mormor if she no wake up, I go bath and feed my pikin. I no no dey waste time

mariahAngel:


You as the father, what are you going to do about it?
Are just going to fold your arms and let her do whatever she wants at the detriment of your baby?
Don't allow her stubbornness harm your baby. You seem timid. Baba, shine your eyes!

If I should do a background check on you now, I'll find out you're as single as f£ck.

FloraEC:


Not angry

Is either you already have someone or you're the one at fault or just trolling.
I pity her mental state.

Meanwhile what do I know self?

. Shut up joor

FloraEC:


You're just finding unnecessary faults.
From milk to clothing, next will be house chores, or cooking or maybe she's disrespectful.

Haa, let her be.

madam leave gender competition for once.. and consider that an innocent child is involve. a child is suffering see what you saying

Well you have to use an iron hand on this issue. Not beating o but actually make sure that during the weekends when you're at home that you feed the child with right meals as directed by the doctor.

On the other hand do not stop involving any other person parents, relatives etc. Goodluck

IgboSomalia:

She should be from Mbaise.

Exactly! you get the theory I am trying to prove.
One nuisance had the guts to quote me and start spilling trash from her brain.

Offpoint:

If I should do a background check on you now, I'll find out you're as single as f£ck.

What has your comment got to do with the her post ? Off the point as usuals

Tribalism123:
Oga drink the milk. Na ur money and u need am. Women are too possessive. Las Las the small pikin go buy rapper for the mother, but come buy Seaman Oromatic schnapps for u. Life no balance at all.

I have friends who can't stand their mothers but love their fathers to death. She doesn't know what she's losing not breastfeeding that child

WandaMaximoff:


Like I said, send her back home and marry someone else.

I don't get how a mother won't know what's best for her child.

So ALL mothers knows what's best for her child,even the ones that burns and maim their children?
According to you,they know best..

Oga....from what you have saying here it is obvious you're the problem in your home.

You don't love your wife and you're looking for a way to discard her. I hope she leaves you with her child and never lets you see the child again.

This isn't even an issue but you're here on NL whining and embarrassing yourself over something as petty as this.

Most Nigerian men don't even know that manner of approach matter a lot when talking to their wives. They just talk to them anyhow they like and expect a favorable response.

newace:
How can you feed an 18 month old baby cerelac in the morning,eba/amala in the afternoon and cerelac again in the night everyday mon-sun.