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Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by Cooldude234: 9:34am On Aug 26, 2020
There is this babe I like. Unlike other girls who I just see as sex partners this one is different. She is very intelligent and well mannered. She is the only girl I've ever met that can match me intellectually. When I have conversations with her she actually makes me reevaluate my views. She's very informed and very open minded. I'm also very attracted to her so you can understand how I feel about her.

But the problem is she has a boyfriend. I know I bleeped up in telling her that I'm falling in love with her, which is true. But I shouldn't have gone that far. But I've talked dirty with her many times sha. I've told her all the things I'll want to do to her. But this girl is too guarded and she's a virgin. She dey do like all this church girls sef. But in secret she's has dirty thoughts which she's told me about.

From our conversation it's obvious shes not in love with her boyfriend and probably not even attracted to him that much. She told me she used to be very sexually attracted to me but she has buried the desires. When we talk and I get sexual she tells me to stop because she is getting wet. Last time she saw me she was gushing about how cute I am. But yet she says she doesn't want to get sexual with me because she doesn't want it to affect our friendship.

I'm finding it hard to read this girl's intentions. Although I want to have sex with her, I still value our friendship as well and wouldn't mind taken things a step further with her if the opportunity comes..

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Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by Dartilo(m): 9:37am On Aug 26, 2020
Let me watch
Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by MJBOLT: 9:39am On Aug 26, 2020
she told you she's a virgin and you believed her,make up your fvcking mind mister man undecided if you wanna fvck her then fvck her,if you wanna be in the friendzone,i wish you all the best.

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Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by Ahmed0336(m): 9:40am On Aug 26, 2020
Get her to be so attached to you that she can hardly go an hour without you I bet you her boyfriend will be history.
Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by MAGG0T(m): 9:43am On Aug 26, 2020
cheesy

Let's wait for the pûssy Niggaz who calls themselves REDPILLERS.

Watch how they invade this thread, with their usual word "SIMP"

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Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by Bennysam: 9:48am On Aug 26, 2020
You're using your hand to put yourself in friend zone

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Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by sweetyme001(f): 9:48am On Aug 26, 2020
She told you that she has a boyfriend instead of you encouraging her to love her boyfriend. You are thinking of f.ucking her. Same thing guys will do to your girlfriend.

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Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by Cooldude234: 9:49am On Aug 26, 2020
Bennysam:
You're using your hand to put yourself in friend zone

How? Please explain how I'm putting myself in the friendzone
Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by CAPSLOCKED: 10:02am On Aug 26, 2020
I THINK YOUR VIRGIN CRUSH HAS TAKEN THIS MATTER TO THE FRONT-PAGE. I'M HIGHLY CONVINCED THE THREAD IS TALKING ABOUT YOU GO TAKE A LOOK.

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Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by Bennysam: 10:07am On Aug 26, 2020
Cooldude234:


How? Please explain how I'm putting myself in the friendzone
Are you not the one that write where she said she don't want to spoil her friendship with you, she see you as friend but is left for you to go for what you want
Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by Deicide: 10:17am On Aug 26, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:
I THINK YOUR VIRGIN CRUSH HAS TAKEN THIS MATTER TO THE FRONT-PAGE. I'M HIGHLY CONVINCED THE THREAD IS TALKING ABOUT YOU GO TAKE A LOOK.

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Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by MJBOLT: 10:18am On Aug 26, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:
I THINK YOUR VIRGIN CRUSH HAS TAKEN THIS MATTER TO THE FRONT-PAGE. I'M HIGHLY CONVINCED THE THREAD IS TALKING ABOUT YOU GO TAKE A LOOK.

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Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by dingbang(m): 11:05am On Aug 26, 2020
Cooldude234:
There is this babe I like. Unlike other girls who I just see as sex partners this one is different. She is very intelligent and well mannered. She is the only girl I've ever met that can match me intellectually. When I have conversations with her she actually makes me reevaluate my views. She's very informed and very open minded. I'm also very attracted to her so you can understand how I feel about her.

But the problem is she has a boyfriend. I know I bleeped up in telling her that I'm falling in love with her, which is true. But I shouldn't have gone that far. But I've talked dirty with her many times sha. I've told her all the things I'll want to do to her. But this girl is too guarded and she's a virgin. She dey do like all this church girls sef. But in secret she's has dirty thoughts which she's told me about.

From our conversation it's obvious shes not in love with her boyfriend and probably not even attracted to him that much. She told me she used to be very sexually attracted to me but she has buried the desires. When we talk and I get sexual she tells me to stop because she is getting wet. Last time she saw me she was gushing about how cute I am. But yet she says she doesn't want to get sexual with me because she doesn't want it to affect our friendship.

I'm finding it hard to read this girl's intentions. Although I want to have sex with her, I still value our friendship as well and wouldn't mind taken things a step further with her if the opportunity comes..
what if she has one serious std that she isn't aware of? See guy, when the world is trying to prevent you from unforeseen issues that will affect your life, you better flee. Sex is not everything.

I have discovered that the more I have premarital sex, the more I have some certain badluck in life.

Please see beyond sex and focus your mind on other positive things

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Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by Kiddogarcia(m): 11:33am On Aug 26, 2020
Bro when the field finally clear,make sure you contact me for agbo wey go make you score hattrick oooo,so next time she go dey beg you make you play for the field again. My one cent
Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by Nobody: 11:40am On Aug 26, 2020
Cooldude234:
There is this babe I like. Unlike other girls who I just see as sex partners this one is different. She is very intelligent and well mannered. She is the only girl I've ever met that can match me intellectually. When I have conversations with her she actually makes me reevaluate my views. She's very informed and very open minded. I'm also very attracted to her so you can understand how I feel about her.
.

Life is not all about sex. Think about life after death also.
Give your life to Christ

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Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by Theboy21: 12:04pm On Aug 26, 2020
cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by DrLiveLogic(m): 2:30pm On Aug 26, 2020
Cooldude234:
There is this babe I like. Unlike other girls who I just see as sex partners this one is different. She is very intelligent and well mannered. She is the only girl I've ever met that can match me intellectually. When I have conversations with her she actually makes me reevaluate my views. She's very informed and very open minded. I'm also very attracted to her so you can understand how I feel about her.

But the problem is she has a boyfriend. I know I bleeped up in telling her that I'm falling in love with her, which is true. But I shouldn't have gone that far. But I've talked dirty with her many times sha. I've told her all the things I'll want to do to her. But this girl is too guarded and she's a virgin. She dey do like all this church girls sef. But in secret she's has dirty thoughts which she's told me about.

From our conversation it's obvious shes not in love with her boyfriend and probably not even attracted to him that much. She told me she used to be very sexually attracted to me but she has buried the desires. When we talk and I get sexual she tells me to stop because she is getting wet. Last time she saw me she was gushing about how cute I am. But yet she says she doesn't want to get sexual with me because she doesn't want it to affect our friendship.

I'm finding it hard to read this girl's intentions. Although I want to have sex with her, I still value our friendship as well and wouldn't mind taken things a step further with her if the opportunity comes..
If you've really done a thorough investigation and the lady is all you've described - intelligent, a virgin and physically attractive to you, then why are you still playing around? Why not talk about marriage instead?
If you're not ready for that, just consider whatever you think you're feeling a mirage and I advise you focus on building your life and worth and forget about ladies for now. Most of these relationships that don't have a definite goal are liabilities that'll cost you valuable time, focus and other resources that could be maximized towards your personal development and achievements.
Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by Juliusmomoh: 3:37pm On Aug 26, 2020
dingbang:
what if she has one serious std that she isn't aware of? See guy, when the world is trying to prevent you from unforeseen issues that will affect your life, you better flee. Sex is not everything.

I have discovered that the more I have premarital sex, the more I have some certain badluck in life.

Please see beyond sex and focus your mind on other positive things
U don contact ?
Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by Degrezhaa: 3:40pm On Aug 26, 2020
Hmmnm
Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by JasperVII(m): 3:42pm On Aug 26, 2020
She get boyfriend say wetin happen. That pie is yours for the taking man.
Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by taiwiki(m): 3:45pm On Aug 26, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:
I THINK YOUR VIRGIN CRUSH HAS TAKEN THIS MATTER TO THE FRONT-PAGE. I'M HIGHLY CONVINCED THE THREAD IS TALKING ABOUT YOU GO TAKE A LOOK.
yeah its very obvious... Lols


Make the boyfriend too come write him story
grin grin

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Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by Nobody: 3:48pm On Aug 26, 2020
yeye post
Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by dingbang(m): 4:01pm On Aug 26, 2020
Juliusmomoh:

U don contact ?
thats not in the context here.
Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by Regex: 4:49pm On Aug 26, 2020
Cooldude234:
There is this babe I like. Unlike other girls who I just see as sex partners this one is different. She is very intelligent and well mannered. She is the only girl I've ever met that can match me intellectually. When I have conversations with her she actually makes me reevaluate my views. She's very informed and very open minded. I'm also very attracted to her so you can understand how I feel about her.

But the problem is she has a boyfriend. I know I bleeped up in telling her that I'm falling in love with her, which is true. But I shouldn't have gone that far. But I've talked dirty with her many times sha. I've told her all the things I'll want to do to her. But this girl is too guarded and she's a virgin. She dey do like all this church girls sef. But in secret she's has dirty thoughts which she's told me about.

From our conversation it's obvious shes not in love with her boyfriend and probably not even attracted to him that much. She told me she used to be very sexually attracted to me but she has buried the desires. When we talk and I get sexual she tells me to stop because she is getting wet. Last time she saw me she was gushing about how cute I am. But yet she says she doesn't want to get sexual with me because she doesn't want it to affect our friendship.

I'm finding it hard to read this girl's intentions. Although I want to have sex with her, I still value our friendship as well and wouldn't mind taken things a step further with her if the opportunity comes..

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Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by Privatepart00: 5:26pm On Aug 26, 2020
The girl told you she has a boyfriend?
Act like you don’t know and continue doing what you into.
I even like going after girls with boyfriends instead of those without any .
If you wanna chat dirty with her , wait till 9 or 10pm
The hormones are more vulnerable then
She will feel the chat more and easily flow to what she never intended to do .
If you good with naughty message in no time you will have her .
Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by Nobody: 5:40pm On Aug 26, 2020
since u said u have told her how feel if she doesnt reciprocate then just let her be
as for telling u she is a virgin bros throway dat one for one side
she might be telling u dat since maybe u have told her thats its a virgin u looking for
stop telling girls ur mind
wen dem know wetin dey ur mind dem go exploit u
if its a virgin u looking for make it remain in ur mind
stop tellin a girl dat u looking for a virgin and askin her if she is virgin
dats a dumb move
Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by faithful2911(m): 5:48pm On Aug 26, 2020
Cooldude234:
There is this babe I like. Unlike other girls who I just see as sex partners this one is different. She is very intelligent and well mannered. She is the only girl I've ever met that can match me intellectually. When I have conversations with her she actually makes me reevaluate my views. She's very informed and very open minded. I'm also very attracted to her so you can understand how I feel about her.

But the problem is she has a boyfriend. I know I bleeped up in telling her that I'm falling in love with her, which is true. But I shouldn't have gone that far. But I've talked dirty with her many times sha. I've told her all the things I'll want to do to her. But this girl is too guarded and she's a virgin. She dey do like all this church girls sef. But in secret she's has dirty thoughts which she's told me about.

From our conversation it's obvious shes not in love with her boyfriend and probably not even attracted to him that much. She told me she used to be very sexually attracted to me but she has buried the desires. When we talk and I get sexual she tells me to stop because she is getting wet. Last time she saw me she was gushing about how cute I am. But yet she says she doesn't want to get sexual with me because she doesn't want it to affect our friendship.

I'm finding it hard to read this girl's intentions. Although I want to have sex with her, I still value our friendship as well and wouldn't mind taken things a step further with her if the opportunity comes..
You are inviting gay people to give you advice is like bringing a knife to a gun fight.
Ubunja no follow at all.

Goodluck to you sha..
Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by CaveAdullam: 6:03pm On Aug 26, 2020
A virgin, good manners and intelligent?

Bro, marry her!
Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by Hussein01(m): 7:44pm On Aug 26, 2020
I had also been in a situation almost the same as this, the only difference was that she had no boyfriend..she wanted to maintain the friendship so I also stopped proposing dating...what I later did was that when I noticed she has fond of me so much that she could hardly do without talking or calling I withdrew from her and the subsequent occurrence played in my favour-something happened which necessitate me travelling coupled with my spoilt phone, so, the sudden withdrawal and travelling without telling her while she couldn't reach me too, I supposed she miscontrued the situation. the day I repaired my phone, her whatsapp messages and SMS was what I saw telling me of how she missed and love me. she even accused me of not reciprocating her love for me and she later proposed relationship.
Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by Ginaz(f): 8:08pm On Aug 26, 2020
Oga go and make money . Leave the poor girl alone and focus on your life. Not like you’re going to get married to her soon . *roll eyes*
Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by skylegend(m): 8:25pm On Aug 26, 2020
raw number 1 : A girl that cheat on her man to be with you will surely cheat on to be with other men
Re: Ubunja And Ko I Need Your Wisdom On This Matter by Bloooody(m): 8:59pm On Aug 26, 2020
sweetyme001:
She told you that she has a boyfriend instead of you encouraging her to love her boyfriend. You are thinking of f.ucking her. Same thing guys will do to your girlfriend.
The opinions of harlots are not welcomed.

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