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Re: Is Age Barriers In Marriage Really A Problem by Pamfresh(m): 1:03pm On Aug 27, 2020 |
cooooooks:How? |
Re: Is Age Barriers In Marriage Really A Problem by stanliwise(m): 1:07pm On Aug 27, 2020 |
@Pamfresh Biologically - Yes and please never ignore this. Age is so so important that Age and biological functioning goes hand in hand. Depends on how much care though Psychological - Yes, it has a lot to do with how you think things and how you react to them. But age and psychology are a bit technical, some are more mature in mind despite their young age. While some are not so mature despite being so old. Socially - Not at all, anyone can share, love and interact, there is no limitations. Now in reference to your question. it depends on your angle, 32 isn’t biologically bad , psychological ok for you but depends on how mature you do things too, if she is too mature for your liking then you might not be compatible, socially she is very fit for you as you fall in close age bracket and if you ask my opinion I will say you should not go ahead until you think otherwise. Reason is you already now have an insecurity on the age of thing. You need to get to specifics of what you fear in the future and consider what you will do in worst case scenario. For the child bearing of thing, consult a medical expert and stop draining your brain power on something you are not technical about. Happy thinking. |
Re: Is Age Barriers In Marriage Really A Problem by tunize(m): 1:11pm On Aug 27, 2020 |
She is a virgin at 32 na waitn she tell u or na waitn u know? because both na two different thing. 3yrs is no big deal though me i can cope with 3yrs but above that lia lia |
Re: Is Age Barriers In Marriage Really A Problem by Pamfresh(m): 1:15pm On Aug 27, 2020 |
stanliwise:I'm looking at it from the biological angle. I see it that in the next decade she's probably ageing faster than I n it might affect me in the future. But she has most of the qualities I want in a woman when it comes to spec. If u were me, would u go ahead and marry her? |
Re: Is Age Barriers In Marriage Really A Problem by Pamfresh(m): 1:18pm On Aug 27, 2020 |
tunize:She told me and I also found out it's true |
Re: Is Age Barriers In Marriage Really A Problem by stanliwise(m): 1:23pm On Aug 27, 2020 |
Pamfresh:With what you said then I can conclude your insecurities is just your making and I can predict most of your thinking are based on popular speculations and opinions of what you hear people say. You are neither a medical expert nor are you a gynecologist. You should get into the specific of your doubt and meet a medical professional, explain to him about the age considerations. They are well vast in this topic and can give you insightful ideas. I think you are just insecure about the whole thing. Let me give you a quick tip to verify it. Jot down the exact things you fear that could happen and make credible research on them or ask opinions from expert who gives you holistic opinions. And if you turn out to be right then fine but if not, you need to step back and deal with those insecurities before talking of marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Is Age Barriers In Marriage Really A Problem by Quality20(m): 1:39pm On Aug 27, 2020 |
Juliusmomoh:. It's OK to marry a much older lady, it's only gonna feel like u with ur grandmother if u are not a real man |
Re: Is Age Barriers In Marriage Really A Problem by tunize(m): 1:45pm On Aug 27, 2020 |
Pamfresh:If she's all u claim she is bro marry her no waste time i'd rather marry a girl older than me and same time gives me peace than to marry a girl younger or my age mate that would not allow me have peace."respect and loyalty is the key bro" 1 Like |
Re: Is Age Barriers In Marriage Really A Problem by Bennysam: 3:02pm On Aug 27, 2020 |
ZINIBANKS:She's more exposed than you even more experience and she will control you with all those things she had |
Re: Is Age Barriers In Marriage Really A Problem by Nobody: 5:38pm On Aug 27, 2020 |
Pamfresh: WHAT CONFIRMATION DO YOU HAVE THAT ASCERTAINED THAT SHE IS A VIRGIN. MORE THAN A MILLION LADIES THAT AGE PULL SUCH TRICK ON NAIVE CLUELESS GUYS IN A BID TO BECOME MARRIED. 99% OF THE TIME IT IS A BLATANT LIE..
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Re: Is Age Barriers In Marriage Really A Problem by crystalmoon(m): 7:46pm On Aug 27, 2020 |
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