I told my girl I would like only introduction and court wedding not because of funds but because I really don't feel like, just love being very low key because I am very introverted but she never agreed, she insisted she must do the church wedding, Traditional etc but I just don't want or fancy such at all, moreover I can easily afford the wedding's expenses but I want us to channel the funds elsewhere, maybe add to her new business but she won't compromise.

Stevebt:
I told my girl I would like only introduction and court wedding not because of funds but because I really don't feel like, just love being very low key because I am very introverted but she never agreed, she insisted she must do the church wedding, Traditional etc but I just don't want or fancy such at all, moreover I can easily afford the wedding's expenses but I want us to channel the funds elsewhere, maybe add to her new business but she won't compromise.

That's how some women prefer their day; blazing.

Very good plan

If she will contribute to the ceremonies she's fantasizing then good and fine.

But if she's not adding a Kobo, brotherly run for your dear life cos the signs are glaring...... LIABILITY

WEDDING IS A CEREMONY....
MARRIAGE IS THE REALITY.

Stevebt:
I told my girl I would like only introduction and court wedding not because of funds but because I really don't feel like, just love being very low key because I am very introverted but she never agreed, she insisted she must do the church wedding, Traditional etc but I just don't want or fancy such at all, moreover I can easily afford the wedding's expenses but I want us to channel the funds elsewhere, maybe add to her new business but she won't compromise.

bros you even try, me I just want to tell her I love her, case close then we can leave our lives happily ever after, and in case things didn't work out as plan in the future, no headache in going apart as we come na so we go depart, no calling of third party...

Zendinho:
If she will contribute to the ceremonies she's fantasizing then good and fine.

But if she's not adding a Kobo, brotherly run for your dear life cos the signs are glaring...... LIABILITY

WEDDING IS A CEREMONY....
MARRIAGE IS THE REALITY.

Na sense go kill you
Na that same sense go dig ground bury you
He sure paa

[quote author=ZINIBANKS post=93269853]
Na sense go kill you
Na that same sense go dig ground bury you
He sure paa......
I don faint

Zendinho:
If she will contribute to the ceremonies she's fantasizing then good and fine.

But if she's not adding a Kobo, brotherly run for your dear life cos the signs are glaring...... LIABILITY

WEDDING IS A CEREMONY....
MARRIAGE IS THE REALITY.

See as you carry sledge hammer come inside thread

1beat:
Very good plan

well

Women always want to show off. BTW a court doesn't conduct marriages they only dissolve it. i.e If am not mistaken ooo

[quote author=2dice01 post=93283259]See as you carry sledge hammer come inside thread ....

We all need to stand up and save all brothers from going into extinction because of high marital bills....

[quote author=Zendinho post=93293389][/quote]True bro

na u dull matters, you supposed rush and marry her when them jus relax lockdown and before them open churches..

As for me na Trad, if you no gree "pack and go'

CrEaToRmalden:

That's how some women prefer their day; blazing.

Don't just say "women" not all of em re lik dat.. Some don't lik d so called court wedding seff just intro lobatan..


Op, shey fiancee no Sabi say u b introvert? If she does, y is she pushing you to do what u won't lik cos of her own "flashy" wedding? Marriage is all about "managing your differences" u really need to sit her down and talk her, tell her ur reasons (incase she didn't know before) tell her ur mind too let her understand u n u guys should manage ur differences in peace.

No let wahala Enta before d real marriage start because unna go still get something wey unna go still straight up even when married.

Stevebt:
I told my girl I would like only introduction and court wedding not because of funds but because I really don't feel like, just love being very low key because I am very introverted but she never agreed, she insisted she must do the church wedding, Traditional etc but I just don't want or fancy such at all, moreover I can easily afford the wedding's expenses but I want us to channel the funds elsewhere, maybe add to her new business but she won't compromise.

Carry on, am really with u on dis 1.Just talk 2 her nd tell her dat u will do it buh u guys will do d introduction nd court first den after she has given birth or later in future u can av all d glamore of church nd trad weddings.

chillychill:


Don't just say "women" not all of em re lik dat.. Some don't lik d so called court wedding seff just intro lobatan..


Op, shey fiancee no Sabi say u b introvert? If she does, y is she pushing you to do what u won't lik cos of her own "flashy" wedding? Marriage is all about "managing your differences" u really need to sit her down and talk her, tell her ur reasons (incase she didn't know before) tell her ur mind too let her understand u n u guys should manage ur differences in peace.

No let wahala Enta before d real marriage start because unna go still get something wey unna go still straight up even when married.

I included "some".

She better agree o. Convince her more.


You have sense op. I hate parties/noise like mad.