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Re: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by OdenKelechi(m): 8:34am On Sep 01, 2020
This has to be a joke.

If it's not, then you're a MUMU MAN
Re: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by Nobody: 8:58am On Sep 01, 2020
Sirfemisky:
I am in HND l.

My life has been in a mess since when I was a child. My parents did care much for me when I was a child. I was a victim of child bully.

I wasted many years after my secondary school.

I now steal from them as a revenge for not teaching me self love
My best advice to you is not to blame you. You're a good guy, don't hurt your parents again. Everything will be okay with you. Try and start participating in your church activities like Choir and other activities in your church and refer to your Pastor for help. You're a good guy, don't look down on yourself pls. its never too late for you. God bless you for speaking up. Those using wrong words against you doesn't hate you, they all loves you and wants you to be the best.. God bless you you and we're expecting you Testimonies..
Re: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by AntiWailer: 8:59am On Sep 01, 2020
ICEWIN:
I can see u are very very stupid.
someone decided to open his secret,u are there typing ghost.
dont you hav bad side too?
can u confidently open up and ask for help or correction like he did?
my friend u are a stupid mongrel.
go get a brain is awesome,before typing.

Your type raise those kind of children.

He said he was stealing to revenge. Not like he cnt control the urge.

What help does he need ?

I know u want to sound different but u are making no sense.

Stop wearing pampers for an adult and free me.

As for who is stupid, your post already sold u out so I dnt need to emphasize.
Re: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by TheSoothSayer(m): 9:01am On Sep 01, 2020
Blessingisrael:
Dear OP, I do hope you find and read this, I also do hope this will help someone else. you said your parent did care much for you when you were a child. They probably are protective parents who do everything for a child, but protective parent never teach their children self love. They believe all the type of love the child needs come from them. they are great providers, too. but do not teach their kids how to stand on their own. one effect of protective parenting is that their kids are vulnerable to being bullied by outsiders.
you have every right to be crossed with them, but then, that's probably the only way they understand parenting.
I could call you names like others who probably doesn't understand where you are coming from , but I won't, because I know the danger of wrong childhood foundation, and the extent this damage could go even in adulthood. your act of stealing is a way to rebel, for you feel your parents didn't do much for you in helping you discover who you are and what you can do. so you blame them for the wasted years. you have right to be annoyed. guess what, if you must heal, you must forgive , forgive , forgive , accept their errors and yours, and move on to achieving. be willing to start another end for your self. for if you continue on this stealing lane, you won't end well. you won't even aspire.
cut the stealing , talk to a therapist , get a trusted friend to talk to. if you are willing to talk to someone who understands childhood trauma and it's effect in latter life, you can send me a mail.
you need healing of the soul and spirit which will transcend to your body and allow you to aspire again and live your life

I can relate to everything posted here. Parents need to stop over protection and realise being a parent and a family is more than just going to church. I disliked my dad a lot growing up too, there were so many things you ought to teach a son that he didn't mention. Subconsciously made me avoid him. But I realise, when I became an adult that I should not blame anyone for how my life turned out. It was my turn to take control of the steering wheel of my life and give it to Jesus.

My advice to the Op is to see a therapist ASAP. Before he looks back at his life at 40 and realise he wasted his lif
Re: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by Nobody: 9:24am On Sep 01, 2020
Sirfemisky:
I am in HND l.

My life has been in a mess since when I was a child. My parents did care much for me when I was a child. I was a victim of child bully.

I wasted many years after my secondary school.

I now steal from them as a revenge for not teaching me self love

Generally 70% of Nigerian Parents are Sadistic, Narcissist, Educated & Uneducated illiterates, Tyrants, Egoistic Fools and Unrepentant Evil People. Most of them keep on turning over how their parent treated them to their offsprings, foolish people. I'do envy those people whom their parents showed them love and stood by them In all season. Some of these peeps doesn't even know the huge favour God did for them. See let me tell you, You are not alone, Even most of the bast,ards condemning you on here are having It worst than you. Most of them are from extremely damaged and broken homes. There are too many frustrated and broken people In Shiithole these days. I will just advise you keep your heads up and focus and take charge of your life.

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Re: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by stormborn28(m): 9:42am On Sep 01, 2020
Sirfemisky:
.
You said I am very mad right.
No problem
please visit me.. You need to take two slaps from me
Re: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by Nobody: 9:45am On Sep 01, 2020
grin grin grin grin grin grin
AntiWailer:
You are mad Bro.

No need for plenty stories.

You were bullied and u did not grow up to be Dwayne Johnson or Tyson Fury but u decide to be a petty thief not even an Armed Robber.

Your victim mentality get PHD.

You are mad once again bro.
Re: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by Teespice(f): 9:47am On Sep 01, 2020
You are not serious.

Stop justifying your bad habit.
Re: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by uwajeh123: 10:30am On Sep 01, 2020
I have not wokeup from reality of life.you have killing yourself with lizines
Re: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by Chidexsco8448(m): 10:38am On Sep 01, 2020
Bros no get joy at all... grin
Re: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by chaloskyx: 10:43am On Sep 01, 2020
EYA THERE IS STILL HOPE TO CHANGE YOUR WAYS....WHAT WOULD YOU SAY ABOUT OUR POLITICIANS WHO ARE ABOVE SIXTY AND STEAL FROM NIGERIANS
Re: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by Jen96: 10:50am On Sep 01, 2020
MrHandsome2013:
..
Yes mail
waiting for ur reply sir
Re: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by PrincewithGod(m): 11:03am On Sep 01, 2020
Sirfemisky:
I am in HND l.

My life has been in a mess since when I was a child. My parents did care much for me when I was a child. I was a victim of child bully.

I wasted many years after my secondary school.

I now steal from them as a revenge for not teaching me self love
REPENT AND GIVE YOUR LIFE TO CHRIST TO AVOID HELL FIRE. NO EXCUSE IS ACCEPTABLE FOR A LIFE OF SIN.
Re: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by Jen96: 11:06am On Sep 01, 2020
MrHandsome2013:
..
Yes mail
replied..go through my old Post. Add me on Instagram
I v tried. Let's do video call
Re: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by merits(m): 11:33am On Sep 01, 2020
Sirfemisky:
I am in HND l.

My life has been in a mess since when I was a child. My parents did care much for me when I was a child. I was a victim of child bully.

I wasted many years after my secondary school.

I now steal from them as a revenge for not teaching me self love
Hahaha lol

Re: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by ICEWIN: 11:38am On Sep 01, 2020
To me u are still saying dust.
u are stupid simple.
AntiWailer:


Your type raise those kind of children.

He said he was stealing to revenge. Not like he cnt control the urge.

What help does he need ?

I know u want to sound different but u are making no sense.

Stop wearing pampers for an adult and free me.

As for who is stupid, your post already sold u out so I dnt need to emphasize.
Re: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by AntiWailer: 12:00pm On Sep 01, 2020
ICEWIN:
To me u are still saying dust.
u are stupid simple.

Yea I get it.

Shouting it several times can transfer ur stupidity to some one else.

Good strategy.
Re: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by GOOOGLE504(m): 12:10pm On Sep 01, 2020
daddytime:


The only consolation be say na China get us by then and stealing go be corruption punishable by death.

Someone here is already preparing for what's coming, lols
Re: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by ICEWIN: 12:37pm On Sep 01, 2020
U are still stupid.
AntiWailer:

Yea I get it.
Shouting it several times can transfer ur stupidity to some one else.
Good strategy.
Re: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by rapid101(m): 12:46pm On Sep 01, 2020
AntiWailer:
You are mad Bro.

No need for plenty stories.

You were bullied and u did not grow up to be Dwayne Johnson or Tyson Fury but u decide to be a petty thief not even an Armed Robber.

Your victim mentality get PHD.

You are mad once again bro.
he is really mad bro grin grin grin
Re: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by Nobody: 12:50pm On Sep 01, 2020
At 35 U Still Talk & Reason Like A Little Child. U Still Expect Ur Mother 2 Pamper U Like A Baby. Too Bad.
Re: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by stchinedu: 12:52pm On Sep 01, 2020
AntiWailer:
You are mad Bro.

No need for plenty stories.

You were bullied and u did not grow up to be Dwayne Johnson or Tyson Fury but u decide to be a petty thief not even an Armed Robber.

Your victim mentality get PHD.

You are mad once again bro.

I was going to lash him when i read this...

You hit the nail.
Re: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by AntiWailer: 1:18pm On Sep 01, 2020
ICEWIN:
U are still stupid.


Lol. Pained low life.
Re: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by ymstar(m): 1:29pm On Sep 01, 2020
henryokafor0:
same here bro, growing up was a nightmare for me but thank God we've passed all that
we thank God

do u know the funny thing?
the funny thing is dat he was now trying to come close, but make i no lie u, for me o, d connection and d bond was not there
i just try to help him in my own way and ignore him, make person no go offend God
Re: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by josiah27: 1:54pm On Sep 01, 2020
Go and listen to Pastor Joel Osteen.Thank me later.
Re: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by henryokafor0: 1:55pm On Sep 01, 2020
ymstar:

we thank God

do u know the funny thing?
the funny thing is dat he was now trying to come close, but make i no lie u, for me o, d connection and d bond was not there
i just try to help him in my own way and ignore him, make person no go offend God
same here bro, I don't feel connected to him at all, recently he's been trying to get intimate with me by discussing how close he was with his old man and how envious he's colleague was of his closeness to his dad and blah blah blah, he even put it in our morning prayer on different occasions ( let our kids come closer to us and realize their parents are not there enemies) but that didn't move me.. I don't hate him but tbh with ya bro, the parental cord / tie don cut like bet9ja ticket.. still feel him tho but he's too rigid for my liking
Re: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by darichlife: 2:08pm On Sep 01, 2020
Sirfemisky:
I am in HND l.

My life has been in a mess since when I was a child. My parents did care much for me when I was a child. I was a victim of child bully.

I wasted many years after my secondary school.

I now steal from them as a revenge for not teaching me self love

Brother i feel for you but you are still wearing a very old shell, i will tell you what you need and have to do to break free just whatsap me. 07065557292
Re: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by Kingbuhari(m): 2:19pm On Sep 01, 2020
heartyheart:


GUY U TOO HARSH NA...
nah truth I talk nah
Re: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by ICEWIN: 3:07pm On Sep 01, 2020
You are still stupid.
AntiWailer:

Lol. Pained low life.
Re: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by AntiWailer: 3:09pm On Sep 01, 2020
ICEWIN:
You are still stupid.
tongue low life.
Re: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by ICEWIN: 3:20pm On Sep 01, 2020
U are still stupid..
AntiWailer:
tongue low life.
Re: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by vickydevoka(m): 4:12pm On Sep 01, 2020
Some parents de make me laff. De Don't know any bad dat happens to a child as he grows come back to them.

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