Re: At 27: I Don't Know Where Am Heading To. Am So Bleeped by Nobody: 5:50pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
Well you work peanut to gain experience .
Most people started from collecting peanut till they work their way up. |
Re: At 27: I Don't Know Where Am Heading To. Am So Bleeped by Nobody: 5:55pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
spartan117:
Psalms 119:105 Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.
Your story is not over. Jesus is still interested in you, he is the only solution to your problem.
What he wants is to put his word in you and make your life a testimony that will draw men to him. Above all he wants to develop a personal relationship with you! Draw close to him today! Will jesus give him job. Why are you not realistic. Even jesus fed the people before teaching them 1 Like |
Re: At 27: I Don't Know Where Am Heading To. Am So Bleeped by Leoneo(m): 6:03pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
Sorry Lag is not my location Ucee1999:
What skill please? I also want to learn a skill. Am in Lagos |
Re: At 27: I Don't Know Where Am Heading To. Am So Bleeped by maiiilooo(m): 6:04pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
Work hard and have faith, ur beans still dey don.. |
Re: At 27: I Don't Know Where Am Heading To. Am So Bleeped by AllMan4Himself(m): 6:15pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
Poster, don't put unnecessary pressure on yourself. Some people graduated at 22 yet they didn't land their dream job till they were 30+. You might be lucky to get a good job straight outta school. Aje. Just be focused. Get something doing to fetch you money (no matter how little), so as not to depend on your old folks totally. U suppose be sabi boy nah at 27. Wise up brother. 2 Likes |
Re: At 27: I Don't Know Where Am Heading To. Am So Bleeped by spartan117(m): 6:19pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
thebosstrevor1:
Will jesus give him job.
Why are you not realistic.
Even jesus fed the people before teaching them He gave them the word first before feeding them with food because the word is more important. 1 Like |
Re: At 27: I Don't Know Where Am Heading To. Am So Bleeped by Nobody: 6:22pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
spartan117:
He gave them the word first before feeding them with food because the word is more important. Whaeva, feed him first then preach your so called gospel |
Re: At 27: I Don't Know Where Am Heading To. Am So Bleeped by spartan117(m): 6:27pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
thebosstrevor1:
Whaeva, feed him first then preach your so called gospel Hmm. Now I see where your problem lies. |
Re: At 27: I Don't Know Where Am Heading To. Am So Bleeped by Sweetcrude19: 6:36pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
manychallenges: I ain't looking for any sympathy, I just thought maybe this is a place I can actually pour my heart out to.
At 27: .. Still in higher institution, I still have 3 more years to graduate .. Can't boost of a skill .. Not in relationship or have any girl I can call mine .. Battling with an infection, not STDs, for like a decade but no money to go for proper treatment, I ain't asking anyone for money here .. Papa already retired and Mama still in service .. Still ask Mama for money for haircut .. Really pitying these amazing parents but its also a pity I haven't found myself yet .. At this age, I still see myself as a teenager, I mean I have seen many men my age doing quite well even having their own wives and children but why am I different? .. Lazy? I ain't lazy, I have worked at some places before I got admission but the money was just a peanuts. I stays in small town .. Mama is gonna be on a mountain now praying so hard, yeah, she's a prayer warrior but she don't know one shi.t spirit have been pinning me down in my sleep for years! .. You see am so bleeped .. Giving up? Nah, I ain't
Mr purple don't give up, just stay focus on ur academics and learn a skill. If u think too much it will affect ur academics, and if ur academic is affected ur parents won't be happy with u and that might lead to suicidal attempt in ur own path. It's not late bro to learn something. Never give up 1 Like |
Re: At 27: I Don't Know Where Am Heading To. Am So Bleeped by jeph19(m): 6:40pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
I'll be 27 next year.
The Nigeria today is where you need a skill(z) +degree - pride to remain sane. learn one bro, and follow up with it; youtube, udemy, shaw academy and a host of others can be an avenue for learning. ... know what you're good at(hobby, talent) and develope it more into a merchandise ... leave girls first; no lady with vision would want to date a man that is yet to define his path to being a MAN When you're done fixing yourself, then u can get a lady ... broaden your horizon; from the small town u are, and with a smartphone and data, u can see the world. Read about places, people, cultures, events (download books fro pdfdrive.com) ... lastly, seek the GUIDANCE OF THE HOLYSPIRIT. Pray, ask GOD 4direction. b4 sleeping bind the spirit pressing u in jesus name Know the power that avails to a believer in the name of JESUS. give me feedback sir cheers, you'll overcome. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At 27: I Don't Know Where Am Heading To. Am So Bleeped by manychallenges: 6:56pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
Leoneo: What's your location?, I might be of help if we stay in the same state. That's if you're willing to learn. I stay in Osun Privatepart00: @ manychallenges I am doing fine . I am working presently in a Federal Institution. The day our class representative saw me there he was speechless, just laughing all this laugh you know that’s not from the heart . Himself been applying for work in same place I am working but wasn’t successful. Another of my friend finished with a nice grade , but he’s working in a hotel . If I was told it will turn out like this for me , I won’t believe. Don’t lose sleep , all gonna fall in place. Good. Happy For You Brother TechExpertise: I'm 30 years of age and still a student, this lockdown has actually worsen things. my parents have retired and at my age I'm supposed to be taking care of them but rather they're still the one feeding me with their meagre pension. I couldn't graduate earlier because I had some health challenge. Honestly I feel like giving up but can't because I need to make them proud. Are you on WhatsApp let's communicate and motivate each other Oh, Sorry, I Can't Post My Digits Here |
Re: At 27: I Don't Know Where Am Heading To. Am So Bleeped by merieam16(f): 7:01pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
ShitStain:
Never happened to me o abeg do u kno wat sleep paralysis is |
Re: At 27: I Don't Know Where Am Heading To. Am So Bleeped by TechExpertise: 7:13pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
manychallenges: I stay in OsunGood. Happy For You BrotherOh, Sorry, I Can't Post My Digits Here same here |
Re: At 27: I Don't Know Where Am Heading To. Am So Bleeped by Ayoade19993(m): 7:16pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
TechExpertise: I'm 30 years of age and still a student, this lockdown has actually worsen things. my parents have retired and at my age I'm supposed to be taking care of them but rather they're still the one feeding me with their meagre pension. I couldn't graduate earlier because I had some health challenge. Honestly I feel like giving up but can't because I need to make them proud. Are you on WhatsApp let's communicate and motivate each other seems we gather dey bro.. 08072079720 if there is a group to link up and get motivated am in 1 Like |
Re: At 27: I Don't Know Where Am Heading To. Am So Bleeped by CaptainStephen(m): 7:30pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
manychallenges: I ain't looking for any sympathy, I just thought maybe this is a place I can actually pour my heart out to.
At 27: .. Still in higher institution, I still have 3 more years to graduate .. Can't boost of a skill .. Not in relationship or have any girl I can call mine .. Battling with an infection, not STDs, for like a decade but no money to go for proper treatment, I ain't asking anyone for money here .. Papa already retired and Mama still in service .. Still ask Mama for money for haircut .. Really pitying these amazing parents but its also a pity I haven't found myself yet .. At this age, I still see myself as a teenager, I mean I have seen many men my age doing quite well even having their own wives and children but why am I different? .. Lazy? I ain't lazy, I have worked at some places before I got admission but the money was just a peanuts. I stays in small town .. Mama is gonna be on a mountain now praying so hard, yeah, she's a prayer warrior but she don't know one shi.t spirit have been pinning me down in my sleep for years! .. You see am so bleeped .. Giving up? Nah, I ain't
Hey bro don't give up, you have the most important thing which is life. Lemme tell you something, at 28 I had all a young man will wish for but I was fighting in a war and getting shot at almost everyday. I lost mates and colleagues and that thought me everything didn't matter if there was no life. It's not too late to start learning a skill, some are free online, my sister sent me a link for Google digital marketing and I have been taking that too, anything can happen you know. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At 27: I Don't Know Where Am Heading To. Am So Bleeped by TechExpertise: 7:35pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
thebosstrevor1:
Will jesus give him job.
Why are you not realistic.
Even jesus fed the people before teaching them I support what spartan117 said. he needs to draw close to Jesus to get the desired miracle. A doctor can't come to your home to treat you, you go to the doctor rather. The people Jesus fed came to him 1 Like |
Re: At 27: I Don't Know Where Am Heading To. Am So Bleeped by TechExpertise: 7:35pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
Leoneo: Sorry Lag is not my location your location please |
Re: At 27: I Don't Know Where Am Heading To. Am So Bleeped by RealEzee(m): 7:40pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
My guy no reason say u dey competition with anybody ooo, that's depression 2.0
Life dey, hope dey
Chaii woman Matter no b here but I wont rule it out cos there some angels among us guun,me sef get some like Dat, man needs real friends, no wonder one senior man asked for Sunday school some years back if adults really have true friends sha
Try out new things, update ursef on current happenings Sha.
God bless ur hustle bro Las Las we all go dey aiit 1 Like |
Re: At 27: I Don't Know Where Am Heading To. Am So Bleeped by manychallenges: 8:09pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
CaptainStephen: Hey bro don't give up, you have the most important thing which is life.
Lemme tell you something, at 28 I had all a young man will wish for but I was fighting in a war and getting shot at almost everyday.
I lost mates and colleagues and that thought me everything didn't matter if there was no life.
It's not too late to start learning a skill, some are free online, my sister sent me a link for Google digital marketing and I have been taking that too, anything can happen you know. Learning ain't gonna be a problem but the tools. One gonna need enough and good working system which I don't have any |
Re: At 27: I Don't Know Where Am Heading To. Am So Bleeped by Leoneo(m): 8:22pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
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Re: At 27: I Don't Know Where Am Heading To. Am So Bleeped by stare: 9:19pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
manychallenges: I ain't looking for any sympathy, I just thought maybe this is a place I can actually pour my heart out to.
At 27: .. Still in higher institution, I still have 3 more years to graduate .. Can't boost of a skill .. Not in relationship or have any girl I can call mine .. Battling with an infection, not STDs, for like a decade but no money to go for proper treatment, I ain't asking anyone for money here .. Papa already retired and Mama still in service .. Still ask Mama for money for haircut .. Really pitying these amazing parents but its also a pity I haven't found myself yet .. At this age, I still see myself as a teenager, I mean I have seen many men my age doing quite well even having their own wives and children but why am I different? .. Lazy? I ain't lazy, I have worked at some places before I got admission but the money was just a peanuts. I stays in small town .. Mama is gonna be on a mountain now praying so hard, yeah, she's a prayer warrior but she don't know one shi.t spirit have been pinning me down in my sleep for years! .. You see am so bleeped .. Giving up? Nah, I ain't
don't be surprised if there's no spirit pinning you down. Probably just lack of information.. A d it's very easy for people to just advice you to learn a skill"some don't know how hard that decision is". Drop your number so I can suggest something you can be making and selling. troway shame |
Re: At 27: I Don't Know Where Am Heading To. Am So Bleeped by TechExpertise: 9:21pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
Leoneo: Enugu what's your expertise? |
Re: At 27: I Don't Know Where Am Heading To. Am So Bleeped by purples25(f): 10:41pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
Lol why does everyone call this guy Mr Purple? I just clocked twenty something ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) and if i dont laugh, I'll cry. Learning like five different things here and there , going for diff skills. Don't give up bro. 1 Like |
Re: At 27: I Don't Know Where Am Heading To. Am So Bleeped by stanliwise(m): 10:43pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
manychallenges: I ain't looking for any sympathy, I just thought maybe this is a place I can actually pour my heart out to.
At 27: .. Still in higher institution, I still have 3 more years to graduate .. Can't boost of a skill .. Not in relationship or have any girl I can call mine .. Battling with an infection, not STDs, for like a decade but no money to go for proper treatment, I ain't asking anyone for money here .. Papa already retired and Mama still in service .. Still ask Mama for money for haircut .. Really pitying these amazing parents but its also a pity I haven't found myself yet .. At this age, I still see myself as a teenager, I mean I have seen many men my age doing quite well even having their own wives and children but why am I different? .. Lazy? I ain't lazy, I have worked at some places before I got admission but the money was just a peanuts. I stays in small town .. Mama is gonna be on a mountain now praying so hard, yeah, she's a prayer warrior but she don't know one shi.t spirit have been pinning me down in my sleep for years! .. You see am so bleeped .. Giving up? Nah, I ain't
Stop living inside your head 1 Like |
Re: At 27: I Don't Know Where Am Heading To. Am So Bleeped by manychallenges: 11:00pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
stanliwise:
Stop living inside your head Gosh, how did you know that? That's what am really going through. I think a lot, sometimes I find it difficult to concentrate due to too much thinking. Only God knows how many mansions and Range Rovers have bought in my head. I've achieved everything in my head, like one living in fantasy. Wish someone can really understand me. Maybe I need psychologist. I ain't insane cos once someone mentioned psychologist, people gonna think maybe the fellow is mad 1 Like |
Re: At 27: I Don't Know Where Am Heading To. Am So Bleeped by atheistandproud(m): 11:23pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
hmmm this life no balance. |
Re: At 27: I Don't Know Where Am Heading To. Am So Bleeped by LikeAking: 11:50pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
manychallenges: I ain't looking for any sympathy, I just thought maybe this is a place I can actually pour my heart out to.
At 27: .. Still in higher institution, I still have 3 more years to graduate .. Can't boost of a skill .. Not in relationship or have any girl I can call mine .. Battling with an infection, not STDs, for like a decade but no money to go for proper treatment, I ain't asking anyone for money here .. Papa already retired and Mama still in service .. Still ask Mama for money for haircut .. Really pitying these amazing parents but its also a pity I haven't found myself yet .. At this age, I still see myself as a teenager, I mean I have seen many men my age doing quite well even having their own wives and children but why am I different? .. Lazy? I ain't lazy, I have worked at some places before I got admission but the money was just a peanuts. I stays in small town .. Mama is gonna be on a mountain now praying so hard, yeah, she's a prayer warrior but she don't know one shi.t spirit have been pinning me down in my sleep for years! .. You see am so bleeped .. Giving up? Nah, I ain't
sorry |
Re: At 27: I Don't Know Where Am Heading To. Am So Bleeped by LikeAking: 11:57pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
manychallenges: I ain't looking for any sympathy, I just thought maybe this is a place I can actually pour my heart out to.
At 27: .. Still in higher institution, I still have 3 more years to graduate .. Can't boost of a skill .. Not in relationship or have any girl I can call mine .. Battling with an infection, not STDs, for like a decade but no money to go for proper treatment, I ain't asking anyone for money here .. Papa already retired and Mama still in service .. Still ask Mama for money for haircut .. Really pitying these amazing parents but its also a pity I haven't found myself yet .. At this age, I still see myself as a teenager, I mean I have seen many men my age doing quite well even having their own wives and children but why am I different? .. Lazy? I ain't lazy, I have worked at some places before I got admission but the money was just a peanuts. I stays in small town .. Mama is gonna be on a mountain now praying so hard, yeah, she's a prayer warrior but she don't know one shi.t spirit have been pinning me down in my sleep for years! .. You see am so bleeped .. Giving up? Nah, I ain't
Sorry |
Re: At 27: I Don't Know Where Am Heading To. Am So Bleeped by stanliwise(m): 12:06am On Sep 02, 2020 |
manychallenges: Gosh, how did you know that? That's what am really going through. I think a lot, sometimes I find it difficult to concentrate due to too much thinking.
Only God knows how many mansions and Range Rovers have bought in my head. I've achieved everything in my head, like one living in fantasy.
Wish someone can really understand me. Maybe I need psychologist. I ain't insane cos once someone mentioned psychologist, people gonna think maybe the fellow is mad I am a counselor by self study and by profession. Not certified per se. I do a lot of child counseling. Your problem is that you have a perfect picture of how things should happen or be. You wish things could be like you have always seen it work for other people. The truth is this, your story isn’t the first, there are thousands and one that has had your same experience. Although some of your actions/decisions could have helped make things better but had you known. You need to start accepting what is real and what is possible. The good news is this.... in your case, a lot of good things are still very possible. But to reach there, you need the best of yourself, and you need to do what has to be done. So stand up and while you are not comfortable in your skin yet and your legs still wobbles and is till shaky. You need to still have to do what has to be done. The feeling never gets better until things start to fall into places and for this to happen those things needs some of your commitment and actions. 1 Like |
Re: At 27: I Don't Know Where Am Heading To. Am So Bleeped by manychallenges: 6:21am On Sep 02, 2020 |
stanliwise: I am a counselor by self study and by profession. Not certified per se. I do a lot of child counseling. Your problem is that you have a perfect picture of how things should happen or be. You wish things could be like you have always seen it work for other people. The truth is this, your story isn’t the first, there are thousands and one that has had your same experience. Although some of your actions/decisions could have helped make things better but had you known. You need to start accepting what is real and what is possible. The good news is this.... in your case, a lot of good things are still very possible. But to reach there, you need the best of yourself, and you need to do what has to be done.
So stand up and while you are not comfortable in your skin yet and your legs still wobbles and is till shaky. You need to still have to do what has to be done. The feeling never gets better until things start to fall into places and for this to happen those things needs some of your commitment and actions. Thank You |
Re: At 27: I Don't Know Where Am Heading To. Am So Bleeped by ShitStain(m): 10:27am On Sep 02, 2020 |
merieam16: do u kno wat sleep paralysis is No I don't...womansplain it for me
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Re: At 27: I Don't Know Where Am Heading To. Am So Bleeped by Onlysage: 12:38pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
Wow |