Sequel to my advise on the application of ten plagues incident to chase any girl out from your apartment, here are they.


1. Cut of water supply for two days. Let her not see water to bath!

2. Cut off electricity supply. Lie to her that your gen has packed up. No light for three days, heat will make her have a rethink.


3. Introduce cockroaches in the bathroom. Yeah you can use sniper to kill it afterwards. Don't bother yourself


4. Cut short food supply.


5. Apply the silent treatment.


She will pack her bags and leave your house

dangerousdaddy:
.... A little advise from experienced people will go a very long way because i feel lost, frustrated and confused all at the same time .... A little advise from experienced people will go a very long way because i feel lost, frustrated and confused all at the same time

You didnt mention if you really Love Her or if She really Loves you.

Money shouldnt define your relationship.

Bluntguy:
You are seeking for advice now because you don't have money in your pockets at the moment. Once you receive your pay now, she will welcome you home warmly and you will forget you ever asked for advice concerning her.
Now here is my advice:
Be patient till the next payday, you will soon smile again. Olodo!!!

I swear your name says it all. You are just telling the truth bluntly. This is the true colour of every married man.

dangerousdaddy:
..... I have a job that i work till 11am,how else do you want me to hustle?? And with which time??

But it is not paying the bills.

Can you figure something else out? For your daughter sake and will you make an honest woman of this girl who gave you her womb?

Surrogate mothers charge upwards of 3.5m

You go die quick oo .. Run ooo .. I’ve been there so I know what I’m talking about.

dingbang:
Sequel to my advise on the application of ten plagues incident to chase any girl out from your apartment, here are they.


1. Cut of water supply for two days. Let her not see water to bath!

2. Cut off electricity supply. Lie to her that your gen has packed up. No light for three days, heat will make her have a rethink.


3. Introduce cockroaches in the bathroom. Yeah you can use sniper to kill it afterwards. Don't bother yourself


4. Cut short food supply.


5. Apply the silent treatment.


She will pack her bags and leave your house

Lolz ... you people for this nairaland are very funny with weird thoughts. Thanks anyway.

I hate poor girls.they feel once baby don come.i need car,i need iphone x,i need smart tv. O obs run if not u go broke. I know oc one lady that uses 700 naira dispenser water to cook and baff her child. So the husband burns about 5k weekly on just only water.i dont go to open market. Supermarket only.ok o. Madam beyounce

dangerousdaddy:
Good evening people. Please don't mind my English. My post is actually out of pains and frustration and i may not type with the correct words.

I'm a 31 years old guy. I'm actually very bad with spending because when i have money, whoever asks from me gets. I am under alot of pressure lately especially from those around me. I am the 1st child of my parents and have so many responsibilities.

I got my girlfriend pregnant and she moved in with me. My parents were never there for me so i vowed i was going to be there for my kids. Hence i do all i can to make sure my daughter and her mum are OK.

The girl in question is a torn in my flesh. Totally different from when we were dating without a child. Nowadays, as soon as i get my salary, she wants to buy this, she wants to buy that even though she knows i receive less than a 100k and i have multiple loans i am paying back because we moved out of our old apartment due to space constraints especially after she delivered.

Whenever i don't have money, there is never a happy moment in my home. But if i come home and bring money, we become very good friends. She wants to live a good life which is not wrong but I feel when she knows how i am managing, she ought to understand and bear with me.

The last straw that broke the camel's back was, i was yet to be paid, i had 700 with me. I gave her to make some food because we had the basic food stuff in the house.... Rice, beans, ogbono, spaghetti, garri, Egusi.... Palm oil. So basically all she had to buy was fish or something to put inside the food.

I came home after a hard day at work and met an empty kitchen. When I asked for my food, she asked me what i expected her to cook with 700 naira. I got so mad and left the house but since it was late (it was close to midnight), i decided to come back. In my anger, i started asking her why she's treating me badly. And the next thing is, she called her mum to say I'm fighting with her and that i pushed her to the ground. Her mum replied and said that if anything happens to her daughter, she would hold me responsible. That she didn't give me a wife......

Now I feel i should just end everything and let's go our separate ways before it becomes a case of domestic violence. I never want to see my child grow up to see me fighting with her mum always and being unhappy. I believe a child that grows up in an unhappy home is always at a disadvantage. Please help me guys. I am in pains.

I hope this makes front page

First of all i am 4years in my marriage.
Now, from you post, it obvious your baby mama is not working. So what I want you to know now is that any lady who wants to leave a beautiful life but is not working and do not appreciate what the husband bring home or politely express her dissatisfaction when necessary, such lady will likely ruin the man's life. Why do I think so?
1. The man will never be treated like a husband.
2. The man's efforts will never be appreciated and this affects every man psychologically.
3. The woman is a potential cheat because she wouldn't mind offering herself to get what she wants.
4. Over time, the man will lose his self esteem.
Finally, if you allow yourself to pass through all these, you cannot be the best father to the child you want to protect by taken all that.
No matter how small your income is, no matter how ugly you are, make sure the woman you take for a wife is the woman that respect and see you as her husband, a crown of honour by grace not by your own making.
If God don't want you to be that crown of honour, he would have made you a woman.

Finally, don't keep someone's daughter in your house if you have not pay the necessary dues.

I never hear your wife story o ,but qith what you said , if it's the truth .. Oga tell her to go meet her mama ,afzerall the mum said she no give you wife, leave your baby with her and start giving your baby money every month...

Why TF do you all follow broke and jobless girls with high demand. Na una dey f.vc.k up.

When money dey she go do friendship with you but once money no dey the roof will be on fire meanwhile she's jobless and doesn't have a dime. F.vck! . Una go open eye dey put hand for fire.

UDOKABESTLUV:
Bro, Start Blogging Business Now And Thank Me Later, that's My advice for you, In 2020 you are making less than 100k as monthly salary, Bro You need another source of income, Get In touch with me.

Bro please a interested

Bro You Xposed Your Weakness To Her, You Also Xposed Your Lavish Spending On Her Cos Of Your Child. My Advice And The Remedy; Focus On Your Child And The Needs Most Necessary, At Ths Time You Need Her To Take Care Of The Child. Disregard Her Personal Needs Which May Frustrate Her To Get Sense. Make The Needs Of Your Child Your Priority. Ignore Her Needs And Stop Spending Lavishly Bro. olaskitchenok@gmail.com

Reaping the fruits of your labour... Fornication brings regrets....

Have sense

Bluntguy:
You are seeking for advice now because you don't have money in your pockets at the moment. Once you receive your pay now, she will welcome you home warmly and you will forget you ever asked for advice concerning her.
Now here is my advice:
Be patient till the next payday, you will soon smile again. Olodo!!!

First thing.... is the child yours. Get a DNA test. If she refuses to let it happen... she knows the child is not yours. You saw the signs... clear as day... you are not 'fighting' her only... but her entire family. You have seen the colour of the beast.... move on.

Ybaby:


Anyone that prays the man that impregnates thier daughter will give her 700N to cook soup - raise your hand let me say Amen!

A kilo of Titus is N1100. If she buys half kilo for N550 she will buy rodo N100 and use the ogbono at home, then cook it for free for a man who has not paid a single dowry on her head and yet used her womb to bring his lineage forth. Her labour is N50

E ti mad but no one to tell you.

You are a manipulator how can you drop 700 for food and still say you had a hardworking day? Hardwork picking beans or what? Baba arrange yourself biko... hardworking men will never drop N700.


she has over given to you that is you are indebted to her. You need to stop playing the victim and go get some money.... baba hustle! You now have a child to look after and let me remind you she is not your wife: she does not owe you any sacrificial love because thier is no contract.


1 problem here: she is not your wife

2 problem here: your income needs to be increased ASAP.

Waiting for you people' s amen and any silly girl who is sleeping with a man who can barely look after himself - do you want to scatter his life ?

For your mind now you get sense .

Guy you he "purely" good guy nai just de worry you. You neck no de turn well face back.

To be a really good guy as the world want, You have the be a bad guy. So when you wan do some things you have to be heartless and zero your mind do am. But only you know the end you de pursue.

Some good can be bad,some bad can leads to good in the end. Just learn the manipulate both.

You said something pecular which is you just saw the real her. How do people use that line got me wondered. Yes women pretend alot but i think You wrong here. Women are baby in nature they would misbehave. From My calculation that woman feels you have money. I guess she too was scared with your uproar. Sending her packing is because of food 700 is wrong. Talk to her make her know what's in and out trust me. You would be a happy man. Lemme tell you a woman who carries your baby loves You. Don't be a simp. Love is a warzone don't expect it to be rosy even with your millions real wife gives love, peace and headache(dramas). Thanks

merieam16:
I feel ur pain bro buh wat exactly do u want us to do

Don't be wicked naaa... advise Him naaa....Don't hopd back any words or sentences of advise

Ybaby:


But it is not paying the bills.

Can you figure something else out? For your daughter sake and will you make an honest woman of this girl who gave you her womb?

Surrogate mothers charge upwards of 3.5m

Lol.
....scam

.....surrogate mothers leave the child and go....they have no benefit to reap

This one will stay and enjoy from the child when grown....so she shud get up and hustle with him for the future of the child....na she go still enjoy am pass....na dem two get the pikin biko

in fact,we are in dxame shoe as my case,but the only different is DAT I was late to discovered we are not compatible bases on our genotype (AS and AS)She is leaving with her parent now together with my child pregnancy. I urge u to exercise Patience and pray over the bad side that happen between u because of your child.its not an easier task for a child that her parent are not together ooo.I can tell u what I face right now cos am victims.

dangerousdaddy:
Good evening people. Please don't mind my English. My post is actually out of pains and frustration and i may not type with the correct words.

I'm a 31 years old guy. I'm actually very bad with spending because when i have money, whoever asks from me gets. I am under alot of pressure lately especially from those around me. I am the 1st child of my parents and have so many responsibilities.

I got my girlfriend pregnant and she moved in with me. My parents were never there for me so i vowed i was going to be there for my kids. Hence i do all i can to make sure my daughter and her mum are OK.

The girl in question is a torn in my flesh. Totally different from when we were dating without a child. Nowadays, as soon as i get my salary, she wants to buy this, she wants to buy that even though she knows i receive less than a 100k and i have multiple loans i am paying back because we moved out of our old apartment due to space constraints especially after she delivered.

Whenever i don't have money, there is never a happy moment in my home. But if i come home and bring money, we become very good friends. She wants to live a good life which is not wrong but I feel when she knows how i am managing, she ought to understand and bear with me.

The last straw that broke the camel's back was, i was yet to be paid, i had 700 with me. I gave her to make some food because we had the basic food stuff in the house.... Rice, beans, ogbono, spaghetti, garri, Egusi.... Palm oil. So basically all she had to buy was fish or something to put inside the food.

I came home after a hard day at work and met an empty kitchen. When I asked for my food, she asked me what i expected her to cook with 700 naira. I got so mad and left the house but since it was late (it was close to midnight), i decided to come back. In my anger, i started asking her why she's treating me badly. And the next thing is, she called her mum to say I'm fighting with her and that i pushed her to the ground. Her mum replied and said that if anything happens to her daughter, she would hold me responsible. That she didn't give me a wife......

Now I feel i should just end everything and let's go our separate ways before it becomes a case of domestic violence. I never want to see my child grow up to see me fighting with her mum always and being unhappy. I believe a child that grows up in an unhappy home is always at a disadvantage. Please help me guys. I am in pains.

I hope this makes front page

If we talk una go say we dey form saints.
The point is,you guys playing away match without informing the officials will always run back to where you were running from.

Sort your problems out yourself.
I don't have one single pity for you.

Next time you will learn to keep your thighs close before the legit thing happens.

dangerousdaddy:
Good evening people. Please don't mind my English. My post is actually out of pains and frustration and i may not type with the correct words.

I'm a 31 years old guy. I'm actually very bad with spending because when i have money, whoever asks from me gets. I am under alot of pressure lately especially from those around me. I am the 1st child of my parents and have so many responsibilities.

I got my girlfriend pregnant and she moved in with me. My parents were never there for me so i vowed i was going to be there for my kids. Hence i do all i can to make sure my daughter and her mum are OK.

The girl in question is a torn in my flesh. Totally different from when we were dating without a child. Nowadays, as soon as i get my salary, she wants to buy this, she wants to buy that even though she knows i receive less than a 100k and i have multiple loans i am paying back because we moved out of our old apartment due to space constraints especially after she delivered.

Whenever i don't have money, there is never a happy moment in my home. But if i come home and bring money, we become very good friends. She wants to live a good life which is not wrong but I feel when she knows how i am managing, she ought to understand and bear with me.

The last straw that broke the camel's back was, i was yet to be paid, i had 700 with me. I gave her to make some food because we had the basic food stuff in the house.... Rice, beans, ogbono, spaghetti, garri, Egusi.... Palm oil. So basically all she had to buy was fish or something to put inside the food.

I came home after a hard day at work and met an empty kitchen. When I asked for my food, she asked me what i expected her to cook with 700 naira. I got so mad and left the house but since it was late (it was close to midnight), i decided to come back. In my anger, i started asking her why she's treating me badly. And the next thing is, she called her mum to say I'm fighting with her and that i pushed her to the ground. Her mum replied and said that if anything happens to her daughter, she would hold me responsible. That she didn't give me a wife......

Now I feel i should just end everything and let's go our separate ways before it becomes a case of domestic violence. I never want to see my child grow up to see me fighting with her mum always and being unhappy. I believe a child that grows up in an unhappy home is always at a disadvantage. Please help me guys. I am in pains.

I hope this makes front page

Guy, I feel your pains but I must be very honest with you that I am going through worse your situation. just please be calm and try to learn how to make yourself happy first, your life and your happiness first before anyone else.... My wife has not spoken to me for weeks because she demanded for huge amount that i do not even have, despite the fact that she knew i'm just recovering from sickness..

She's your wife. You just can't throw her back in the street and pick another girl. No! it doesn't work that way. You were the one that gave her a wrong impression in the first place, why are you surprise? You've trained her pretty well and here's the result. Just so you know, without discipline all women are the same. Go home, tell her you're sorry for given her a wrong impression and that you were young and stupid. Never start a race you know you can't run to the end. You can now start a fresh, do the "reality-check" forget about the "make-believe". You don't want another man to raise your child. Get a new pan and create a new mould for her, this time, make sure you cut your coat according to your size.

Juliearth:







Blessed are you amongst other men to know your wife's true colours. Marry a woman that can support you through thick and thin... Is she handicapped? What is stopping her from setting up a small business to support you? That you didn't have the best childhood experience doesn't mean you should be a dunce and a fool for love.

You have a child with her, you can cater for that child's wellbeing, but that doesn't necessarily mean marrying the mother of that child, especially since she has shown traits that you cannot cope with. Work out an arrangement with her to go back to her parents' house. Your mother can cater for your daughter for the time being...



You also need to work on your cheerful giving spirit. You are not God, stop playing God in people's lives by trying to help them. Learn to hear from God before helping and you should also know that there is a factor called "the rainy day". If your savings culture was topnotch, you may not have resorted to taking loans to pay rent and other things... People take loans for investments and not to sort liabilities. There is a video by pastor Smart Adeyemi. Its on giving. I would implore you to look for that video and pay heed to the content.

U are a genius.

alllivesmatter:



Don't be wicked naaa... advise Him naaa....Don't hopd back any words or sentences of advise

I later advise him,i hope his able to make the right decisions

aminusodiq:
lol do d needful with all dos red flags? Op... Ignore dis lady abeg!!!

Broda, take ur time..Lolz

That's not ur wife man

Emylex:

Bro please a interested

I don't even know why you guys think blogging is easy.. that you will start today and begin to earn tomorrow.

merieam16:
Oga go and do the needful, even if its as little as only the bride pride.Its obvious that ur mother in law is nt happy with u and its nt a good sign

just listen 2urself..

Baba, deep inside you, you know exactly what to do, you're just afraid to do it. Marry this lady and you'll be raising kids you never put inside her.

Bro Your Case be like Team wey wan win olympic, but doesn't have stamina to win a Qualifier... Firstly, she isn't your wife.. You are a temporary PROVIDER, that's who you are to her and her FAMILY... If you love your SANITY... JAPA , but make sure you send UPKEEP for that INNOCENT CHILD... Then RETRACE your step , Marry PROPERLY , don't IMPREGNATE another MAN'S DAUGHTER.. GOD BE WITH YOU...