| Re: How Do I Handle This Kind Of Woman? by aminusodiq(m): 10:07pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
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| Re: How Do I Handle This Kind Of Woman? by Ybaby: 10:13pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
Kaeboy:
For your mind now you get sense  . Say amen that your daughter will marry man like OP 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Kind Of Woman? by Fawklicant: 10:16pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
Your name says it all about your personality. You are a danger to yourself. What I don't understand is why young people feel the need to cohabit with women they aren't married to. It beats me.
Go and marry her already.
Your woman can do what she does because she knows that you are weak. Don't get me wrong, this is no redpill blue pill crap, it's just my observation. Stop putting yourself in a position where a woman leeches off you.
If you want to marry her, put your affairs in order, otherwise, send her back to her parents and go see your daughter from time to time.
All these excuses of "my parents were never there for me" that some folks give is becoming stale. It's like it has become an excuse for aberrant behaviour. Is that supposed to make us empathize with you for living with a woman who isn't your wife? If you so much want to be there for your child, why not marry her mom? You impregnate her, cohabit with her having her perform wifely duties, but refuse to do the needful. Why won't she act up?
You need to get your sh1t together because even if you marry someone else now, you'll still have similar problems.
Why would her parents even allow her to live with a man that isn't her husband? I'm sorry to say this but all parties involved in this are mentally effed up. No offense intended. 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Kind Of Woman? by Mrlouis: 10:20pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
You acted foolishly by taking an unmarried lady to live with you in your house. And from what I sense, you have made it clear to her that there is a burnt bridge between you and your parents so as it is, you have no cover. You are open to attacks both from her and her people. |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Kind Of Woman? by dview001(m): 10:21pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
How are you sure the child is yours?... There's no DNA test to confirm it. So stop beating yourself over nothing . One truth you must know is, women don't like serious men. Start being unserious and see things change.
Send her away !!! 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Kind Of Woman? by bekwugha: 10:23pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
My advice is that you ignore her and pray that God blesses you and increase your pay so to have more cash to take care of your family.It's not easy to raise kids.
Only very few women can manage with cash.
Also note that as you care for your daughter, you are also meant to take care of her mum, you can't separate both, abi I lie ?
Once you have small cash try to pay for her marriage rites.
God wld increase you and give you more cash to fend for your family. |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Kind Of Woman? by Mrlouis: 10:24pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
Las Las, original Durex would have prevented all these gbege happening Sha oo |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Kind Of Woman? by bekwugha: 10:25pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
dview001:
How are you sure the child is yours?... There's no DNA test to confirm it. So stop beating yourself over nothing . One truth you must know is, women don't like serious men. Start being unserious and see things change.
Send her away !!! Don't ever deny a child. You know what happened between you both. If the child is yours she wld never forgive you, if you abandon them. |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Kind Of Woman? by dview001(m): 10:28pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
bekwugha:
Don't ever deny a child. You know what happened between you both. If the child is yours she wld never forgive you, if you abandon them. No child is yours until proven so. Stop being unnecessarily emotional. |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Kind Of Woman? by mentored: 10:37pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
dangerousdaddy:
Good evening people. Please don't mind my English. My post is actually out of pains and frustration and i may not type with the correct words.
I'm a 31 years old guy. I'm actually very bad with spending because when i have money, whoever asks from me gets. I am under alot of pressure lately especially from those around me. I am the 1st child of my parents and have so many responsibilities.
I got my girlfriend pregnant and she moved in with me. My parents were never there for me so i vowed i was going to be there for my kids. Hence i do all i can to make sure my daughter and her mum are OK.
The girl in question is a torn in my flesh. Totally different from when we were dating without a child. Nowadays, as soon as i get my salary, she wants to buy this, she wants to buy that even though she knows i receive less than a 100k and i have multiple loans i am paying back because we moved out of our old apartment due to space constraints especially after she delivered.
Whenever i don't have money, there is never a happy moment in my home. But if i come home and bring money, we become very good friends. She wants to live a good life which is not wrong but I feel when she knows how i am managing, she ought to understand and bear with me.
The last straw that broke the camel's back was, i was yet to be paid, i had 700 with me. I gave her to make some food because we had the basic food stuff in the house.... Rice, beans, ogbono, spaghetti, garri, Egusi.... Palm oil. So basically all she had to buy was fish or something to put inside the food.
I came home after a hard day at work and met an empty kitchen. When I asked for my food, she asked me what i expected her to cook with 700 naira. I got so mad and left the house but since it was late (it was close to midnight), i decided to come back. In my anger, i started asking her why she's treating me badly. And the next thing is, she called her mum to say I'm fighting with her and that i pushed her to the ground. Her mum replied and said that if anything happens to her daughter, she would hold me responsible. That she didn't give me a wife......
Now I feel i should just end everything and let's go our separate ways before it becomes a case of domestic violence. I never want to see my child grow up to see me fighting with her mum always and being unhappy. I believe a child that grows up in an unhappy home is always at a disadvantage. Please help me guys. I am in pains.
I hope this makes front page Hei idiot You are a man Behave like one She is a baby mama Not a wife Get that into your skull |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Kind Of Woman? by oluwabolafunmi(m): 10:39pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
dangerousdaddy:
Good evening people. Please don't mind my English. My post is actually out of pains and frustration and i may not type with the correct words.
I'm a 31 years old guy. I'm actually very bad with spending because when i have money, whoever asks from me gets. I and me. I am the 1st child of my parents and have so many responsibilities.
I got my girlfriend pregnant and she moved in with me. My parents were never there for me so i vowed i was going to be there for my kids. Hence i do all i can to make sure my daughter and her mum are OK.
The girl in question is a torn in my flesh. Totally different from when we were dating without a child. Nowadays, as soon as i get my salary, she wants to buy this, she wants to buy that even though she knows i receive less than a 100k and i have multiple loans i am paying back because we moved out of our old apartment due to space constraints especially after she delivered.
Whenever i don't have money, there is never a happy moment in my home. But if i come home and bring money, we become very good friends. She wants to live a good life which is not wrong but I feel when she knows how i am managing, she ought to understand and bear with me.
The last straw that broke the camel's back was, i was yet to be paid, i had 700 with me. I gave her to make some food because we had the basic food stuff in the house.... Rice, beans, ogbono, spaghetti, garri, Egusi.... Palm oil. So basically all she had to buy was fish or something to put inside the food.
I came home after a hard day at work and met an empty kitchen. When I asked for my food, she asked me what i expected her to cook with 700 naira. I got so mad and left the house but since it was late (it was close to midnight), i decided to come back. In my anger, i started asking her why she's treating me badly. And the next thing is, she called her mum to say I'm fighting with her and that i pushed her to the ground. Her mum replied and said that if anything happens to her daughter, she would hold me responsible. That she didn't give me a wife......
Now I feel i should just end everything and let's go our separate ways before it becomes a case of domestic violence. I never want to see my child grow up to see me fighting with her mum always and being unhappy. I believe a child that grows up in an unhappy home is always at a disadvantage. Please help me guys. I am in pains.
I hope this makes front page |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Kind Of Woman? by oluwabolafunmi(m): 10:43pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
Without further delaying if what you said is true, let her Mom visit you i believe she will see things her self..
So you will just mount on that and explain to her Mom what you are passing through with her..if this doesn't work bro let go of her, you still have a lot of way to go..in this country wey we dey if you dey huslte you need someone to compliment your efforts via understand or even financially,so take quick action |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Kind Of Woman? by abisolagladys(f): 10:49pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
I don't know where you guys see all this kind of ladies o and you are funny, you want her to perform wifely duties like cooking but you are not ready to take care of her. it is plain that you guys are not compatible, please send her back to her mother and send her monthly upkeep for your daughter, you can also make arrangements to see your daughter often
Abisola Mart is here with your foldable iron at just #4,000 pere
call/Whatsapp 09018990181 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Kind Of Woman? by AdeolaOmoOba(m): 11:01pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
At this point, we can't leave you to Paddle your own canoe
Threaten to Ditch her and hold on to your
daughter. Invite your mom to hold a meeting with her in your presence, that your family have decided that your mom will be taking custody of your daughter while she (your baby mama) returns to her life and you return to the drawing table in search of a wife material. Your final decision should not be informed by her reaction and Negotiations, Her reconciliation move or claiming of rights (entitlement mentality). Take your stand and be firm. This is a training process and if you fail to handle it rightly, you might have to live with a parasite for life. |
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| Re: How Do I Handle This Kind Of Woman? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:04pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
dingbang:
Sequel to my advise on the application of ten plagues incident to chase any girl out from your apartment, here are they.
1. Cut of water supply for two days. Let her not see water to bath!
2. Cut off electricity supply. Lie to her that your gen has packed up. No light for three days, heat will make her have a rethink.
3. Introduce cockroaches in the bathroom. Yeah you can use sniper to kill it afterwards. Don't bother yourself
4. Cut short food supply.
5. Apply the silent treatment.
She will pack her bags and leave your house A truck of bullcrap. Try better.  |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Kind Of Woman? by dingbang(m): 11:06pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
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| Re: How Do I Handle This Kind Of Woman? by CAPSLOCKED: 11:07pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
dangerousdaddy:
Whenever i don't have money, there is never a happy moment in my home. But if i come home and bring money, we become very good friends.
MORAL OF THIS STORY IS....
NEVER HESITATE TO "KICK 'EM OUT". IT'S REALLY THAT SIMPLE.
IF YOU MARRY PEOPLE LIKE THIS YOU CAN NEVER LIVE LONG. IN FACT AGE 35 WILL BE A MIRACLE. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Kind Of Woman? by Astrologyfact: 11:08pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
dingbang:
Sequel to my advise on the application of ten plagues incident to chase any girl out from your apartment, here are they.
1. Cut of water supply for two days. Let her not see water to bath!
2. Cut off electricity supply. Lie to her that your gen has packed up. No light for three days, heat will make her have a rethink.
3. Introduce cockroaches in the bathroom. Yeah you can use sniper to kill it afterwards. Don't bother yourself
4. Cut short food supply.
5. Apply the silent treatment.
She will pack her bags and leave your house sir, you just made my day, especially no. 2 girls and heat are enemies, it scatters and arranges their thinking..please make it up to 10 sir please...some women are agent to brokenness. |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Kind Of Woman? by Ashirioluwa: 11:10pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
SmellingAnus:
You are going through what many married couples go through...
All I can say is that you are not married to that girl... Use your tongue to count your teeth and advise yourself... I like this. So deep in meaning |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Kind Of Woman? by dingbang(m): 11:11pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
Astrologyfact:
sir, you just made my day, especially no. 2 girls and heat are enemies, it scatters and arranges their thinking..please make it up to 10 sir please...some women are agent to brokenness. |
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| Re: How Do I Handle This Kind Of Woman? by raphy(m): 11:12pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
when that girl.kill you ur spirit will run come herr and ask for another advice..as u never marry her send her back to her parents house abi na konji make u put her for house.?
Mr man no let that girl kill.u
her type them full ths.shit hole na him make me de go for white girls now...
stay woke niggah slawomir will think u no be a real niggah u Neva smoke smoke enough weed yet... |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Kind Of Woman? by OgaLanister(m): 11:27pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
UjuJoan2:
I don't understand? You think what she's doing is right?
I guess you also think getting pregnant before marriage is 'normal'  I love you already. |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Kind Of Woman? by yak(m): 11:33pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
dangerousdaddy:
Good evening people. Please don't mind my English. My post is actually out of pains and frustration and i may not type with the correct words.
I'm a 31 years old guy. I'm actually very bad with spending because when i have money, whoever asks from me gets. I am under alot of pressure lately especially from those around me. I am the 1st child of my parents and have so many responsibilities.
I got my girlfriend pregnant and she moved in with me. My parents were never there for me so i vowed i was going to be there for my kids. Hence i do all i can to make sure my daughter and her mum are OK.
The girl in question is a torn in my flesh. Totally different from when we were dating without a child. Nowadays, as soon as i get my salary, she wants to buy this, she wants to buy that even though she knows i receive less than a 100k and i have multiple loans i am paying back because we moved out of our old apartment due to space constraints especially after she delivered.
Whenever i don't have money, there is never a happy moment in my home. But if i come home and bring money, we become very good friends. She wants to live a good life which is not wrong but I feel when she knows how i am managing, she ought to understand and bear with me.
The last straw that broke the camel's back was, i was yet to be paid, i had 700 with me. I gave her to make some food because we had the basic food stuff in the house.... Rice, beans, ogbono, spaghetti, garri, Egusi.... Palm oil. So basically all she had to buy was fish or something to put inside the food.
I came home after a hard day at work and met an empty kitchen. When I asked for my food, she asked me what i expected her to cook with 700 naira. I got so mad and left the house but since it was late (it was close to midnight), i decided to come back. In my anger, i started asking her why she's treating me badly. And the next thing is, she called her mum to say I'm fighting with her and that i pushed her to the ground. Her mum replied and said that if anything happens to her daughter, she would hold me responsible. That she didn't give me a wife......
Now I feel i should just end everything and let's go our separate ways before it becomes a case of domestic violence. I never want to see my child grow up to see me fighting with her mum always and being unhappy. I believe a child that grows up in an unhappy home is always at a disadvantage. Please help me guys. I am in pains.
I hope this makes front page Guy, u ain't married to her or anyone so I suggest u start planning for a life without her. u are currently paying back loans secured to pay for a new apartment.... remember that rent will b due again in matter of months. it's time to borrow ursef sense. 1. set a target of what u must save from Ur income n stay true to it 2. Give her what u know is reasonable enough for the house keeping and borrow another person ear 3. Start planning Ur life without her... how u will manage Ur baby, where to keep the baby etc. 4 don't rush into another relationship after her. take Ur time, wash Ur eye clean b4 u enter another hell. once u withhold funding, she will japa... "ANY WOMAN THAT WANTS TO LIVE BIG SHOULD EITHER GET A JOB OR START A BUSINESS" |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Kind Of Woman? by xest(m): 11:53pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
Why must she stay with you just because she had your Baby. What she is exhibiting is just the preamble of what to come. She can be at her mum's home and you will b visiting and sending money for ur kids upkeep. And finally remove any thoughts of marrying that girl,she can't make a good wife for you. |
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| Re: How Do I Handle This Kind Of Woman? by Jimmyld231: 12:07am On Sep 03, 2020 |
dangerousdaddy:
Good evening people. Please don't mind my English. My post is actually out of pains and frustration and i may not type with the correct words.
I'm a 31 years old guy. I'm actually very bad with spending because when i have money, whoever asks from me gets. I am under alot of pressure lately especially from those around me. I am the 1st child of my parents and have so many responsibilities.
I got my girlfriend pregnant and she moved in with me. My parents were never there for me so i vowed i was going to be there for my kids. Hence i do all i can to make sure my daughter and her mum are OK.
The girl in question is a torn in my flesh. Totally different from when we were dating without a child. Nowadays, as soon as i get my salary, she wants to buy this, she wants to buy that even though she knows i receive less than a 100k and i have multiple loans i am paying back because we moved out of our old apartment due to space constraints especially after she delivered.
Whenever i don't have money, there is never a happy moment in my home. But if i come home and bring money, we become very good friends. She wants to live a good life which is not wrong but I feel when she knows how i am managing, she ought to understand and bear with me.
The last straw that broke the camel's back was, i was yet to be paid, i had 700 with me. I gave her to make some food because we had the basic food stuff in the house.... Rice, beans, ogbono, spaghetti, garri, Egusi.... Palm oil. So basically all she had to buy was fish or something to put inside the food.
I came home after a hard day at work and met an empty kitchen. When I asked for my food, she asked me what i expected her to cook with 700 naira. I got so mad and left the house but since it was late (it was close to midnight), i decided to come back. In my anger, i started asking her why she's treating me badly. And the next thing is, she called her mum to say I'm fighting with her and that i pushed her to the ground. Her mum replied and said that if anything happens to her daughter, she would hold me responsible. That she didn't give me a wife......
Now I feel i should just end everything and let's go our separate ways before it becomes a case of domestic violence. I never want to see my child grow up to see me fighting with her mum always and being unhappy. I believe a child that grows up in an unhappy home is always at a disadvantage. Please help me guys. I am in pains.
I hope this makes front page God go give you another wife |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Kind Of Woman? by Wingarnium: 12:29am On Sep 03, 2020 |
dangerousdaddy:
Good evening people. Please don't mind my English. My post is actually out of pains and frustration and i may not type with the correct words.
I'm a 31 years old guy. I'm actually very bad with spending because when i have money, whoever asks from me gets. I am under alot of pressure lately especially from those around me. I am the 1st child of my parents and have so many responsibilities.
I got my girlfriend pregnant and she moved in with me. My parents were never there for me so i vowed i was going to be there for my kids. Hence i do all i can to make sure my daughter and her mum are OK.
The girl in question is a torn in my flesh. Totally different from when we were dating without a child. Nowadays, as soon as i get my salary, she wants to buy this, she wants to buy that even though she knows i receive less than a 100k and i have multiple loans i am paying back because we moved out of our old apartment due to space constraints especially after she delivered.
Whenever i don't have money, there is never a happy moment in my home. But if i come home and bring money, we become very good friends. She wants to live a good life which is not wrong but I feel when she knows how i am managing, she ought to understand and bear with me.
The last straw that broke the camel's back was, i was yet to be paid, i had 700 with me. I gave her to make some food because we had the basic food stuff in the house.... Rice, beans, ogbono, spaghetti, garri, Egusi.... Palm oil. So basically all she had to buy was fish or something to put inside the food.
I came home after a hard day at work and met an empty kitchen. When I asked for my food, she asked me what i expected her to cook with 700 naira. I got so mad and left the house but since it was late (it was close to midnight), i decided to come back. In my anger, i started asking her why she's treating me badly. And the next thing is, she called her mum to say I'm fighting with her and that i pushed her to the ground. Her mum replied and said that if anything happens to her daughter, she would hold me responsible. That she didn't give me a wife......
Now I feel i should just end everything and let's go our separate ways before it becomes a case of domestic violence. I never want to see my child grow up to see me fighting with her mum always and being unhappy. I believe a child that grows up in an unhappy home is always at a disadvantage. Please help me guys. I am in pains.
I hope this makes front page I don't blame u I blame the girl. Why girls no dey get sense. U like to be comfortable yet u get pregnant for a guy that cannot take care of u. And u as the guy is it fair. Imagine dropping peanuts for feeding. She can't work she's nursing baby. I'm sure she's already looking tattered. How can she save and buy small thing for her self with this peanuts. God help us o. The truth is bro. U can never have a happy home with those peanuts you're dropping. Even if she pretend it won't last. How u give her Belle without even planning. Up your game, hustle harder. She's low-key suffering is that fair. At her age. She will soon start looking like grandma now |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Kind Of Woman? by hkidola00(m): 12:32am On Sep 03, 2020 |
Facidio:
Stop giving her money,.... Or tell her you are going for outside job for 2 weeks and they have not paid you,... Give her like N1500 only that that's all you have. Only her will pack out. I don't have to chase her yourself. Just withhold ur money. And wen she does park out.... Just be giving her money for ur child's upkeep. Hahahahaha..bro.. ur a strategist |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Kind Of Woman? by Happyguy201: 1:06am On Sep 03, 2020 |
gone are the days when women were women . nowadays what we have is lazy jobless and unproductive women litered every where looking rich men and helper using fake love and sex as tool to achieve their selfish desire . i always say this . you will know how much a woman loves you when you go broke . . fear women in general . our mothers were the last breed of GOOD women . |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Kind Of Woman? by Nobody: 1:08am On Sep 03, 2020 |
sharpwriter:
Lolz ... you people for this nairaland are very funny with weird thoughts. Thanks anyway. Lol silent treatment is the worst 1 Like |
