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Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by naughtycallgirl: 4:15am On Sep 06, 2020
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by LikeAking: 4:16am On Sep 06, 2020
Oyolohi24:
correct my person. My old man used to say that 80% of beautiful wives are other men's girl friends. This is cos they are always on men's eyes that even when the woman is not even interested, some (men) can still go Xtra mile to get them. Back to the topic. The op is actually trying cos as for me, I can't cope. God gave me a virgin who is very religious especially that area. Is a divine gift to marry a faithful wife my people.

yOUR WIFE GET SISTAS?
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by One4me: 4:17am On Sep 06, 2020
KristaPretty:
Find a way to catch her red handed, let her know that she has been caught in the act.

Secondly this needs a deep conversation between you both. During your discussion questions like what you are not doing right should be asked from you to her or what you are lacking that she needs you to work on in order to be better. Remember women are easily fooled by words they are told, try to complement her often give her enough nacks that she will be cripple. In general just converse with her heart to heart when there is a good mood in the house or at night.

Finally, please use magun on her so that she and any man she straffs will gum together grin grin grin grin
This is not a joking matter and infidelity should never be tolerated in Marriage. This is to save you from unnecessary heartaches and diseases!
If she is tired it's better for her to leave so she can do whatever ahe wants without hiding or giving you emotional
torture
. she cannot eat her cake and have it!

I gave you options, chose one. Option 3 is fastest. grin grin angryno time.

You better act fast before she is brainwashed like baby fish and conive with her lover to kill you or take your money and render you useless.

When l started reading your Post, l looked up and saw that your handle places you as "Female"!
That really got me wondering because l know women always try to justify this sort of thing and even blame the man for his spouse cheating in the marriage..
Reading further, l would bet you are MALE. Females dont give their peers three factual options.
But eitherway, l give you three Gboosas, for being straight and objective.

The moment a wife starts cheating, the life of the husband is in grave danger, the best option is to leave that woman.
Dont have sex with her again, just RUN for your dear life before she connives with her lover to either kill you outrightly or poison you little-by-little until your Organs fail and you die, in a Nigeria where Autopsies are not automatic.

The Magun Option needs to be made readily available (like DNA tests), to teach Men who make it their life ambition to sleep with married. women
. One variety of the Magun also ensures the woman pays the ultimate price wit her life.
Our forefathers where always right
. undecided undecided

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Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by safetyInspector(m): 4:18am On Sep 06, 2020
If you have the money all you need is to subscribe for spyphone and install it on her phone since you have access to her phone. With this you will have access to everything she is doing and will see her live if you so wish.
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by One4me: 4:31am On Sep 06, 2020
owo8184:


You have analysed me perfectly bro. I think I am too weak a man. She can easily predict me. She noticed my countenance tonight and started trying to play around me. I have decided I am going back to my work station this weekend without informing her. My present financial situation also doesn't help. embarassed

This is where 80% of your effort should go to FIRST.
Women dont easily give their body to a Man they have not fallen in-love with, but once they do, it is over. She has shifted her love for you, o another man and it aint coming back! undecided cry
You have reached a stage we call "See-Finish", your marriage will only go downhill from here and if you dont act fast, you will follow it downhill!
Money-Go, Woman-Go.
The current emotional turmoil will not allow you to focus on making more money and the "See-Finish" will get worse.

Make more money (legit, please), Behind up yourself, start dating a new woman, learn to accept that your wife has been taken away.
Divorce her as soon as possible, if you are legally married but if not, just dump her.
Stay more in your base, send money to her for the kids, come to see them once in a while (Children wil survive, whether you live or die, that is a fact, dont let anyone use your love for your children to arm-twist or press your Muumu button).

Look for a woman in your Base area and let her give you emotional comfort + sex, to keep your head level because l dont want anger to overcome you.

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Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by dgwarri: 4:47am On Sep 06, 2020
This can make you kill her or kill yourself, tell her to go those men will not marry her. Be with your children

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Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by BigHULK: 4:49am On Sep 06, 2020
cnonyechi:


You will be shocked one day.
.
Lol, normally I don't usually comment on this forum but your comment just made me.
Help me tell that Brother again. "E go shock You". If you know how sexy and handsome I am (no bragging) , to avoid all these kind of drama I decided to date a less pretty lady back in school (till date, my admirers still ask me what I saw in her) .
My Dear when She started to show me pepper, I became a mad man. I looked like an idiot.
I even asked myself,"na me dem do like this?" . Woman wey I fine pass come use me take dey play, and I was helpless at the time because I had chase away all the pretty girls that used to hang around me (I think say I don see wife. I even sew matching outfit for us grin ) . so it's not by being handsome that assures not getting cheated on or being heartbroken.
To OP, may God give you the courage to go on and do what is right.
God Bless.

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Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by frog12: 4:50am On Sep 06, 2020
this man, you get casual open relationship like will smith. your wife fit date somebody while una never divorce. you be nigerian at all?
this man, you get casual open relationship like will smith. your wife fit date somebody while una never divorce. you be nigerian at all?
this man, you get casual open relationship like will smith. your wife fit date somebody while una never divorce. you be nigerian at all?
this man, you get casual open relationship like will smith. your wife fit date somebody while una never divorce. you be nigerian at all?
this man, you get casual open relationship like will smith. your wife fit date somebody while una never divorce. you be nigerian at all?
this man, you get casual open relationship like will smith. your wife fit date somebody while una never divorce. you be nigerian at all?
this man, you get casual open relationship like will smith. your wife fit date somebody while una never divorce. you be nigerian at all?
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by One4me: 4:50am On Sep 06, 2020
frozen70:


Honestly, it's not a good experience to.have your wife date another man, men should just avoid anything that will lead her to such life Beyonce they test it out side ,it takes the grace of God to bring her back

Just keep monitoring her until you catch her and that is if you can catch her

Live your life and don't allow her attitude lead you to depression

Every man must make sure his wife doesn't need another man, if her problem is love give her enough, if it's sex give her enough, if it's care give her and if it's attention give it to her

Dont just give her room to get it else where because she will definitely get a better one than yours



Good Advise but a Man's life should not all be about Pleasing a Woman, you never know where it will end.
Sometimes, in the attempt to please a woman, a man's life ends in the grave.
A cheat will still cheat, even if you gave them your Life on a Plate
. undecided undecided
You cant MAKE SURE your Wife will not need another Man because she will, if she will.

[b]If your wife is not contented with what is on offer from you, then you better save your life by freeing her.

No one is perfect, No one can please the other 100%, every marriage is a "management of the best what is available".
I cant kill myself o, l cant kill myselfat all because of trying to please a wife[/b] shocked grin

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Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Samade7: 4:54am On Sep 06, 2020
JerryLekki:
Uncle sir, You are in an open marriage. There is nothing wrong with it. Except your notion that you must not accept it. Probably programmed into you.


Oya, come and swear that since you married, you have not had something with another person. Especially in that university environment that you claim to hustle. Bros, come off it. There are things bigger than your ego




Mumu comment..........I guessed u are not yet married cos if u are, u will understand d feeling.
If she continues like dat two are possible
It's either she kill herself or she kill d husband.

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Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Nobody: 4:54am On Sep 06, 2020
flyingpig:
Just imagine, you're very wicked. So he should be sharing his wife with a man from her past? You're very wicked.


He might be the SAID guy....

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Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by BigHULK: 4:55am On Sep 06, 2020
Vince77:


It's low self esteem. He probably thought he couldn't have gotten anyone better.
.
Not totally true. The fear of starting all over again with someone new and the stress that comes with it, a major reason why majority continue with whom they're used to.

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Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by frog12: 4:57am On Sep 06, 2020
people should not feel pity for idiots like this. look at the rubbish he is writing here. you too dey cheat on her. that's why she's doing this.
you be ashawo man!

owo8184:


Thanks but if you asked me before now, I will tell you she's not a cheat. We dated 6yrs before marriage. I took her virginity at the age of 27. I think she's been influenced by social media.

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Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by KristaPretty(f): 4:59am On Sep 06, 2020
One4me:


When l started reading your Post, l looked up and saw that your handle places you as "Female"!
That really got me wondering because l know women always try to justify this sort of thing and even blame the man for his spouse cheating in the marriage..
Reading further, l would bet you are MALE. Females dont give their peers three factual options.
But eitherway, l give you three Gboosas, for being straight and objective.

The moment a wife starts cheating, the life of the husband is in grave danger, the best option is to leave that woman.
Dont have sex with her again, just RUN for your dear life before she connives with her lover to either kill you outrightly or poison you little-by-little until your Organs fail and you die, in a Nigeria where Autopsies are not automatic.

The Magun Option needs to be made readily available (like DNA tests), to teach Men who make it their life ambition to sleep with married. women
. One variety of the Magun also ensures the woman pays the ultimate price wit her life.
Our forefathers where always right
. undecided undecided

I am female, I say things just the way they are without sentiments irrespective of the gender involved.

Thank you smiley smiley
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by KristaPretty(f): 5:00am On Sep 06, 2020
DaddyGngeess:





So this is coming from a woman or am i wrong?

A woman, any problem??
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by gbagyiza: 5:07am On Sep 06, 2020
Palema007:
Your foundation was faulty. While dating/courting she got intimate with a guy, you guys settled and got married. Did you make sure she cut off the guy before marrying her?

See, while I try as much as possible to be forgiving, two things I don't take is betrayal and cheating. While I may let go of the former with precautions i cant the latter. Cheats don't change! Let no one tell you otherwise, except the person gives his or her life to Christ sha. cheesy

It's all about someone's conscience. Most of the men n women you see today don't have a conscience. How could a man sleep with a married woman n feel comfortable? Something should tell him that this is totally wrong. I had a lot of experience with married women around my office. I don't know what they see in me but I tell you the truth, I don't give in to their evil desire. I turn them down immediately. Do you know that I don't even give my ex n opportunity to be communicating with me? If she has n issue that warrants my assistance, she needs to open up n I most involved a third party like my wife to avoid issues in the future. Men, should man up n stop behaving like kids, what u do to someone today it will surely come back to you tomorrow.

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Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Ademoore07(m): 5:08am On Sep 06, 2020
What happens to "Magun"?
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by triangulation: 5:11am On Sep 06, 2020
christopher123:


not yet....don't confront her....wait until you get evidences. I would advise you clone her phone especially WhatsApp...it is easy,you would get the whole calls and chats
.
Honourable, please I will need you to intimate me on this.
Please gimme your contact sir
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by gbogboija: 5:15am On Sep 06, 2020
This is too much, but I still wonder why some men are comfortable with sleeping with another man's wife. My advice, try to catch her red handed. This is possible if you can take your time to study her very well, don't let her suspect you. Without you catching her red handed, confronting her will amount to fruitless effort. If you want me to give you clue on how to catch her, send me a mail: olufemiadeoye22@gmail.com
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Collins4u1(m): 5:17am On Sep 06, 2020
Malik1338:

The one your Father Breed from


Stop reading through your anus! Now get lost.
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by lereinter(m): 5:22am On Sep 06, 2020
owo8184:


Thanks but if you asked me before now, I will tell you she's not a cheat. We dated 6yrs before marriage. I took her virginity at the age of 27. I think she's been influenced by social media.

How come she didn't outgrow youthful exuberance

Maybe she only gives her bf head reason she was a virgin to you

Cos you stated that she has known the man before you married and still continue chatting and calling him

Your wife is just looking for where her bread will be buttered she don't want to persevere again

She's doing runs
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by larryking540: 5:25am On Sep 06, 2020
MansoryMX:


The truth is married women are faced with infidelity challenges everyday, it’s left for you to protect your marriage, I always tell my wife. I will not cage you, I am not overprotective. I play my part as a romantic, loving, attentive and caring husband. 4years and we have quarreled a couple of times but I always make sure it does pass the night because it gives room for mistakes and vulnerability. That’s where a lot of couple go wrong. Women are vulnerable when quarreling with their spouse.
nice one man , though ur thought were brief but with lots of point
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by larryking540: 5:28am On Sep 06, 2020
KristaPretty:


A woman, any problem??

so u believe in this magu stuff ,I believe most men in Nigeria will soon opt for it as the new tread

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Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Hades2016(m): 5:29am On Sep 06, 2020
owo8184:
I am a young married man with 2 kids. The marriage is 6yrs now. Due to the situation of the country, we’ve not been staying together. I hustle in a University environment in one of the states in Southwest while she works as a freelance for some organizations in Lagos.

I normally come home (Lagos) on monthly basis. But during this lockdown, I have been in Lagos with my family.

Prior to our marriage, there is this guy she met when we had some misunderstanding. They started a date but later called it off when we settled. She didn’t give me the details but based on what I read on her phone back then, I knew they made out together. The said guy is now in Port Harcourt but I am aware he normally comes to Lagos.

Just today, I heard my wife giving someone a description of where they will meet somewhere in Agege (where she uses as her office). I was curious to know the person. I didn’t ask her because she would find a story to cover up. I found a way to check her phone and saw that her ex - the said guy was the one who called. May I say that we have fought over this guy several times even before and after our marriage. She won’t let this guy be in her past. She’s either calling the guy or the guy is calling her. This time, I chose not to raise my voice but monitor her closely. She left home for work today. I may not be able to give details but every surrounding clue indicates that my wife has a date today. She returned home and I found a way to check her whatsapp but alas she has deleted her chats with the guy.

Just this night again, she received a call from another man asking her when she would come to his office. She once told me that the man was asking her out. In all these, I want to believe my wife is up to something. Infidelity is the last I would accept in this marriage.

Should I confront her with all these observations? Please, I am confused.
confront that hoee and chase her out of your house now bro

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Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by larryking540: 5:29am On Sep 06, 2020
gbagyiza:


It's all about someone's conscience. Most of the men n women you see today don't have a conscience. How could a man sleep with a married woman n feel comfortable? Something should tell him that this is totally wrong. I had a lot of experience with married women around my office. I don't know what they see in me but I tell you the truth, I don't give in to their evil desire. I turn them down immediately. Do you know that I don't even give my ex n opportunity to be communicating with me? If she has n issue that warrants my assistance, she needs to open up n I most involved a third party like my wife to avoid issues in the future. Men, should man up n stop behaving like kids, what u do to someone today it will surely come back to you tomorrow.

bro ,some guys see it as a thing of joy when they date married women o ,no be lie oo,,,but it's worthless ,many guys have gone to early grave because of this
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Mayflowa(m): 5:35am On Sep 06, 2020
Prof0fficial:
what do you expect when you marry a pretty woman. I can't see myself getting jealous for my woman when I'm 100% more cute..

Then you never see anything! Those that their benevolent spirits have cracked their palm kernel should should not rely on their strength

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Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by obembet(f): 5:38am On Sep 06, 2020
KristaPretty:
Find a way to catch her red handed, let her know that she has been caught in the act.

Secondly this needs a deep conversation between you both. During your discussion questions like what you are not doing right should be asked from you to her or what you are lacking that she needs you to work on in order to be better. Remember women are easily fooled by words they are told, try to complement her often give her enough nacks that she will be cripple. In general just converse with her heart to heart when there is a good mood in the house or at night.

Finally, please use magun on her so that she and any man she straffs will gum together grin grin grin grin
This is not a joking matter and infidelity should never be tolerated in Marriage. This is to save you from unnecessary heartaches and diseases!
If she is tired it's better for her to leave so she can do whatever ahe wants without hiding or giving you emotional
torture. she cannot eat her cake and have it!

I gave you options, chose one. Option 3 is fastest. grin grin angryno time.

You better act fast before she is brainwashed like baby fish and conive with her lover to kill you or take your money and render you useless.



Haaaaaaa u are wicked o maagun ke? Why can't u hear the other side story.. Why must u judge that way.
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Welllock: 5:38am On Sep 06, 2020
The best is to confront her...
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by obembet(f): 5:46am On Sep 06, 2020
owo8184:
I am a young married man with 2 kids. The marriage is 6yrs now. Due to the situation of the country, we’ve not been staying together. I hustle in a University environment in one of the states in Southwest while she works as a freelance for some organizations in Lagos.

I normally come home (Lagos) on monthly basis. But during this lockdown, I have been in Lagos with my family.

Prior to our marriage, there is this guy she met when we had some misunderstanding. They started a date but later called it off when we settled. She didn’t give me the details but based on what I read on her phone back then, I knew they made out together. The said guy is now in Port Harcourt but I am aware he normally comes to Lagos.

Just today, I heard my wife giving someone a description of where they will meet somewhere in Agege (where she uses as her office). I was curious to know the person. I didn’t ask her because she would find a story to cover up. I found a way to check her phone and saw that her ex - the said guy was the one who called. May I say that we have fought over this guy several times even before and after our marriage. She won’t let this guy be in her past. She’s either calling the guy or the guy is calling her. This time, I chose not to raise my voice but monitor her closely. She left home for work today. I may not be able to give details but every surrounding clue indicates that my wife has a date today. She returned home and I found a way to check her whatsapp but alas she has deleted her chats with the guy.

Just this night again, she received a call from another man asking her when she would come to his office. She once told me that the man was asking her out. In all these, I want to believe my wife is up to something. Infidelity is the last I would accept in this marriage.

Should I confront her with all these observations? Please, I am confused.

Pop! If your story is real, u need to check your self first, there is no way u can see snake without fire. Women don't just misbehave. Then its a must to work in distance place.. U need to work more on your communication. I believed that communication is the heart of relationship. And try your best to safe your marriage. Just do everything to save your marriage all in the name of your beloved kids. One of the reason why we have useless youth today is cos most of them train by either father alone or mother alone. Do this findings your self. Don't allow ur kids to see their mom has bad mother. Save your home. That's your cross.

God bless ur home

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Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by adelekeolu(m): 5:48am On Sep 06, 2020
Hope she is not a Nairalander����
Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by MondayOsunbor(m): 5:49am On Sep 06, 2020
owo8184:
I am a young married man with 2 kids. The marriage is 6yrs now. Due to the situation of the country, we’ve not been staying together. I hustle in a University environment in one of the states in Southwest while she works as a freelance for some organizations in Lagos.

I normally come home (Lagos) on monthly basis. But during this lockdown, I have been in Lagos with my family.

Prior to our marriage, there is this guy she met when we had some misunderstanding. They started a date but later called it off when we settled. She didn’t give me the details but based on what I read on her phone back then, I knew they made out together. The said guy is now in Port Harcourt but I am aware he normally comes to Lagos.

Just today, I heard my wife giving someone a description of where they will meet somewhere in Agege (where she uses as her office). I was curious to know the person. I didn’t ask her because she would find a story to cover up. I found a way to check her phone and saw that her ex - the said guy was the one who called. May I say that we have fought over this guy several times even before and after our marriage. She won’t let this guy be in her past. She’s either calling the guy or the guy is calling her. This time, I chose not to raise my voice but monitor her closely. She left home for work today. I may not be able to give details but every surrounding clue indicates that my wife has a date today. She returned home and I found a way to check her whatsapp but alas she has deleted her chats with the guy.

Just this night again, she received a call from another man asking her when she would come to his office. She once told me that the man was asking her out. In all these, I want to believe my wife is up to something. Infidelity is the last I would accept in this marriage.

Should I confront her with all these observations? Please, I am confused.


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