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Appreciating With Se_x. by Nobody: 3:56pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Honestly I don't understand. Why do most men see s.e-x as a form of appreciation? They help you submit your CV, get you a job, help you submit a business proposal, give you a ride, dash you money, generally render help, they want s.e-.x appreciation. Even if they're clergymen, Elderly, married, about to we'd, DGs, Directors etc it doesn't stop them. Why? To me, I believe there're so many ways we can pay back, but the idea of putting us in a tight corner to offer our appreciation, is not good enough. So, men why do you do that? Do women do the same to you? |
Re: Appreciating With Se_x. by thorpido(m): 3:58pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Op,if women offer intimacy,do many of them expect the man to reward them materially?Be honest. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Appreciating With Se_x. by donbachi(m): 4:01pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
"Thank you" is enough.any appreciation shown in cash and sex..becomes transactional. 1 Like |
Re: Appreciating With Se_x. by Nobody: 4:01pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
thorpido:Offer Se.-x in what context? As your partner or as a strange? Not all women that offer se,-x do it for money. |
Re: Appreciating With Se_x. by Nobody: 4:03pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
donbachi:That's it. |
Re: Appreciating With Se_x. by thorpido(m): 4:07pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Mbdovey:Offer sex to get 'something'....get a job,win a contract,get a promotion.etc The same way some men give favours for sex is the same way some women give sex for favours. Not all men also want sex after doing favours 2 Likes |
Re: Appreciating With Se_x. by decatalyst(m): 4:19pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Mbdovey: Those people you give your CV to are dogs. Stop seeking help from dogs!!! |
Re: Appreciating With Se_x. by Zabiboy: 5:06pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
OP, if you want them to stop asking for sex, then STOP ASKING FOR THEIR HELP..... Asking for sex is the only way to stop women from turning men to their workaholics bcz when they see a guy that doesnt ask for it, they'll want to turn him to their help puppy.... The few women i help are those with something worth far more than sex....As i always say, Sex is worth $0.00.. 6 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Appreciating With Se_x. by Richy4(m): 5:33pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
There's always a room to say no, I don't need the ride.. no I will submit the CV myself.. no the Lord is my shepherd therefore I will lack no job ![]() Every woman has the choice to say no I am a strong independent woman therefore I don't need the favour that will lead to "sexual gratification". . Therefore thanks but no thanks because I got this. OP no one is pushing anyone to a tight corner.. In life U make various kinds of choice.. if the opportunity cost outweighs the choice u have made, u got no one to blame for it... U don't expect a man who is not your father, brother or uncle to give you money. Day in day out.. u needed sanitary pad, u rushed to him, u needed to buy airtime, u rush to him.. the clothes u were wearing was him.. and u expect nothing from him in return.. haba!! 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Appreciating With Se_x. by seyigiggle: 5:41pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
naso i help one lady get job. the next thing na full vocal green light to pant. maybe her own way of showing appreciation, but i turned her down. this has happened with two separate ladies. 1 Like |
Re: Appreciating With Se_x. by Nobody: 6:25pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
decatalyst:How do you know dogs? |
Re: Appreciating With Se_x. by bukatyne(f): 6:58pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Richy4: The whole post 100% The bold, Gbam! 1 Like |
Re: Appreciating With Se_x. by sirjamesjnr(m): 7:22pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Stereotype is a crime, stop it stop it now. Not all men. |
Re: Appreciating With Se_x. by crackhaus: 8:40pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Mbdovey:But come here fess, lemme ask you something... Why is it that you people don't like to ask for these kinds of help from your fellow womenss dem? Must it be from men? 12 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Appreciating With Se_x. by Nobody: 8:58pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
sirjamesjnr:Majority |
Re: Appreciating With Se_x. by Nobody: 9:56pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
very silly people,just because I asked one i met here to help me do something related to my project topic at ibadan,he no let me rest again,oya kuku forget about the help,he no gree,they act as if they will die without sex 1 Like |
Re: Appreciating With Se_x. by Nobody: 1:53am On Sep 15, 2020 |
crackhaus:Hmmmmmm mm. It's obvious, you're in full support. |
Re: Appreciating With Se_x. by crackhaus: 6:51am On Sep 15, 2020 |
Mbdovey:Well if this what you interpreted from my comment, no wahala... Lol But still answer the questions, nor vex ![]() Why don't you people ever ask these favours from women like yourself who will probably never require sex from you? Why must it be from men? 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Appreciating With Se_x. by crackhaus: 7:22am On Sep 15, 2020 |
Richy4:Don't you know a man has to be a gentleman and give of himself freely to any woman who requires his help? Men owe these things to women. ![]() Lol... I swear down, most of these ladies are entitled AF. Damnnn! 7 Likes |
Re: Appreciating With Se_x. by Richy4(m): 7:23am On Sep 15, 2020 |
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Re: Appreciating With Se_x. by Nobody: 5:56am On Sep 24, 2020 |
crackhaus:I can't go into details right now, but you and I knows men are more in position than women. Moreover, so many of you willingly offer to help even without asking you to, but why don't you people render that help without expecting intimacy back? |
Re: Appreciating With Se_x. by Nobody: 6:00am On Sep 24, 2020 |
sirjamesjnr:Not all, not all. Is the same word I've been hearing, but where exactly are those one who don't? Maybe they're not in This country. |
Re: Appreciating With Se_x. by crackhaus: 6:18am On Sep 24, 2020 |
Mbdovey:Please be refusing it now that you know it comes with conditions. This should not be too hard. ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: Appreciating With Se_x. by ABOVEDELAW: 8:52am On Sep 24, 2020 |
IT'S VICE VERSA, WHAT ABOUT WOMEN WHO THINK OF NOTHING ELSE TO OFFER YOU FOR DOING THEM A FAVOUR OTHER THAN SE-X? 1 Like |
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