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| Re: The Red Truth by cappucino925(m): 9:22pm On Sep 15, 2020 |
Dpsychologist:Very nice But i'd like to ask about the sigma male, What do you think about this personality? Is he some kind of loser too like the beta male? |
| Re: The Red Truth by Pstarogood0100: 12:41pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
[quote author=Rilwayne001 post=93941167] Endeavor to add source to all these. Don't be a Plagiarist.  [/quoteI don't think he plagiarized anything. And more every knowledge has a source even those you learnt from also plagiarized it elsewhere. I believe the OP is an authority in this Field. But one thing this articles are lacking is solution to all this problem. Because, all this are problems men are facing but, they also need a way to emancipate themselves not just knowing the problems but the solutions should be unveiled. I have the solutions to all this problems long time ago. Perfect and accurate solutions. But OP should give them the solutions for the benefits of those who don't have it. Its my honor to be part of this emancipation movement. KUDOS to the OP ] 4 Likes |
| Re: The Red Truth by softguy1: 1:07pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
[quote author=Pstarogood0100 post=93983222][/quote] I think the solutions are already here, the only solution is by doing the opposite of all those things they have being mentioning(those things we thought was right at first). Mean while if you still have any other solutions as regards to this, you can drop it here or better open a new thread to inculcate and emancipate the simps from all this Virgina people  Thanks in advance. We are waiting to learn from you also. |
| Re: The Red Truth by Pstarogood0100: 1:30pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
softguy1: I properly understand you blood. Just like you said, doing the opposite of what the SIMPs do. But the fact is knowing how to apply what you already know. Knowledge is good but the application is better and the right application is best. However, the information in this trend can never be found anywhere both online and offline. That is why I give kudos to who ever that stumble on such information. Anyone who who mistakenly find such information even without proper application is consider a GENIUS. That is why I will indisputably consider the OP of this thread as a legend plus genius. And everybody that follow this thread is also a genius. Because it is not easy to find such information. To those who will never find such will eventually find a solace in the world beyond. Am part of this thread to join forces in other to bolden the weak mind , to emancipate the SIMPs from the shackle of slavery. So therefore, if the op gives permission, it implies that I won't have to create another thread. Am not much popular on NAIRALAND that is why I would consider to stay in this thread to support the OP to share the little of my knowledge in the application of red pills. But, permission most be granted first. 23 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Pstarogood0100: 1:34pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
When a man is able to handle the issues of women, 50% of his problems in life is automatically solved. 8 Likes |
| Re: The Red Truth by Pstarogood0100: 1:54pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
cappucino925: A Sigma male is a man who lives outside the hierarchy. He does his own thing and dances to his own beat. A Sigma Male is also very attractive to women, at the top of the socio sexual hierarchy alongside the Alpha There is a male hierarchy, where men stratify themselves on a totem pole, and the higher up the totem pole you are the more rewards of life, social and sexual, accrue to you. Please note that Sigmas are just as high up the sexual Totem pole as Alphas – but are outside the hierarchy by choice. 7 Likes 1 Share
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| Re: The Red Truth by butterfly777(m): 2:57pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
I think I'm a sigma male. |
| Re: The Red Truth by softguy1: 3:19pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Pstarogood0100: You are right brother, and am very sure that the OP will give you the permission to support and share your knowledge on this thread, for the fact the contents you want to release is related or is talking about saving the gentlemen (SIMPs) from pvssy slavery (redpill). However, if the permission is not granted, I will advise you to open a new thread regardless of how unpopular you might think you are, and I will assure you that with the appropriate heading (redpill on it) and also the contents in it, the thread will attain a greater heights and popularity in no distant time... The op and others was once unpopular on naiiraland, but it was due to the contents they released that made them popular here, and I believe u will do the same if you can deliver the same. We are always ready to support anyone comming up with redpill contents, we support each other's view, so far the redpill is concern. Nevertheless, let's still wait for the OP to see what he is going to say regarding this. 1 Like |
| Re: The Red Truth by JasperVII(m): 5:21pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Pstarogood0100:Create the thread and tag us bro. You just have to be posting the real stuff, then watch how ur thread will be flooded. Ahịa oma na-ere onwe ya. |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 6:59pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: A lot of people new to red pill philosophy generally, younger people, think specific decisions are “beta” or “alpha” these are things they confuse with “assertive” and “passive.” You use passiveness strategically and come out on top, that’s alpha because you’re winning at life despite the lack of chest showing and overt shows of manliness. When a general pulls his troops out of a warzone where the fight is being lost, the general isn’t “being a beta”, he’s still a smart, respected man. In fact it is by choosing to keep his troops in there, out of pride, that this move of aggression “is the beta move” as this results in higher losses and thus heightened failure. Failure is never “alpha” unless it’s tactically planned, in the case of a sacrifice or compromise it must be intended and must produce some kind of dividend, if the sacrifice or compromise was not beneficial or intended, you’re a casualty . It is only an Alpha that can act like a beta and still remain alpha. He is an undercover beta but a true alpha. Whether you use passive or dominant moves to achieve your goals has nothing to do with whether you are an alpha or a beta, you can use either to win, winning at life is what makes one alpha, losing at life (and/or with women specifically) is what makes one “a beta.” A beta is synonymous with failure and a lack of success socially (can’t make friends), sexually (can’t build attraction) and financially (can’t do much of anything!) 23 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:00pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Mehnnnnn!
I am just coming out from ban a 2nd time. |
| Re: The Red Truth by Regex: 7:01pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: Welcome to the biased site. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:34pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
41.) LOVE IN STRANGE PLACES : In movies and fairytales, a woman will fall in love with a sweet nice guy who is the man of her dreams (they are perfect for each other) and they leave happily ever after. But in reality women have strange love for badboys. Most women are mostly attracted to criminals, outlaws, fraudsters, druglords, badboys, thugs, troublemakers, etc This is exemplified in Hybristophilia, Scelerophilia, Stockholm syndrome and Dark Triad traits. Hybristophilia involves attraction to men who are inclined to committing crimesWomen appear to have a simultaneous preference for physical threat and romance in men, the former for protection and the latter for provision . Both are a consequence of a sex difference in parental investment. Hybristophilia appears to be an almost entirely a female phenomenon. Women are also obsessed with romance novels about dangerous and criminal men and also have a keen interest in crime reports. In fact, almost every high profile male notorious criminal in US has been bombarded with love notes from women and even marriage proposals. Examples include Josef Fritzl, Ted Bundy, Joran Van der Sloot, Chris Watts, James Holmes, John Wayne Gacy etc Scelerophilia is characterized by attraction to savage characters. It is similar to hybristophilia , except that the subject of attraction is not necessarily a criminal. He does however, possess several anti-social tendencies. In laymen's terms, scelerophilia is more commonly known by the phrase "going for the bad boy" " or "aiming for thugs". It is also one of the reasons why the idiom "nice guys finish last" gained currency. Stockholm syndrome is defined as the desperate need to love someone in spite of their abusive nature. She believes the one that likely loves her the most, hurts her the most. This may stem from being punished by love ones during childhood. The role of a lover becomes distorted. Thus wheb she gets hurt by a bad boy, she associates the hurt to the same hurt her parent/friend/ex exhibed on her. Dark Triad consist of 3 personality traits including narcissism, Machiavellianism and psychopathy . A study by Nicholas Holtzman and Michael Strube of Washington University found that narcissists, are better at making themselves look physically appealing. Additionally, those within the dark triad were found to be, “more likeable and had more confident body language, and more attractive facial expressions,” than their counterparts. When we find someone super hot, we tend to assume they’re also smart, kind, and confident (even if it isn’t true) which is an advantage to dark triad men. 14 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:57pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Mehnnnnn! 1 Like |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:01pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Conclusion The average woman reading the previous paragraphs will simply dismiss these observations and suggest that its a myth, that women actually go for good men rather than bad men. That women are competent at making moral romantic choices. Yet if thats true, we should have no qualms about testing who women go home with, mingle with, or give their numbers to on a night out right? However, making a formal research on this is way too controversial, especially in the early 21st century western world. Until then, society is free to live in its bluepill bubble where the nefarious aspects of human nature remain hidden among bluepill delusion. 17 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:24pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Regex:I just hope it will not end up being a barrier. 1 Like |
| Re: The Red Truth by Regex: 8:28pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: It will definitely be. You just have to use em as breaks. Anytime they ban you, you relax. After the ban, continue posting. Ask ubunja how he rolled. |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:30pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Before i go deeper on Bad boy theory. Lets first observe Alicia Keys Lyrics on the song "Fallin'" dedicated to her husband Swizz Bitz. Observe the emotional rollercoaster he makes her undergo. In the lyrics. I keep on fallin' In and out of love With you Sometimes I love ya Sometimes you make me blue Sometimes I feel good At times I feel used Lovin you darlin' Makes me so confused I keep on Fallin' In and out of love with you I never loved someone The way that I love you Oh, oh, I never felt this way How do you give me so much pleasure And cause me so much pain Just when I think I've taken more than would a fool I start fallin' back in love with you I keep on Fallin' In and out of love with you I never loved someone The way that I love you Oh baby I, I, I, I'm fallin' I, I, I, I'm fallin' Fall I keep on Fallin' In and out of love with you I never loved someone The way that I love you I keep on Fallin' In and out of love with you I never loved someone The way that I love you I keep on Fallin' In and out of love with you I never loved someone The way that I love you 9 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by AndreSalvatore: 7:04am On Sep 17, 2020 |
Get them young and naive and you wont regret a thing... Imprinting on a girl first keeps her glued to you.. Washed up ladies are bad investment in what so ever form. Brothers, go hit the gym today and stay in shape! You sure gon' need it in the long run. 28 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:52am On Sep 17, 2020 |
AndreSalvatore:Yea. Right on spot 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: The Red Truth by sweet7oyin(m): 12:15pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
When does the attention your giving a girl becomes too much |
| Re: The Red Truth by olatayo8296(m): 1:24pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Dpsychologist:I just started reading this thread earlier this week, I stumbled on it while rummaging through the romance section of this forum and I just finished reading it to the end today, Kudos to you @Dpsychologist  1 Like |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 2:39pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
olatayo8296:Of course not bro We ride till the end 1 Like |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 2:48pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
42.) BAD BOY THEORY One of the main tenet of the red pill is that ladies love bad boys Do ladies want a bad boy? Yes, women like those guys. It’s just something genetically predetermined. They want to have the healthiest guy to have a good offspring. I noticed that most women like books where a hero (aka the bad boy) meets a girl. The girl falls in loves and so on. In the end, the hero stays a bad boy but he’s committed to her. They leave happily ever after or they die. The sales of these books have increased over the last couple of years and should we be surprised by this fact? Guys have less testosterone than 100 years ago so girls are constantly looking for a hero. They don’t find one in real life so they go and look for them in the books.This alone should tell you why Women love 50 shades of grey. Girls do not like bad boys just because they’re bad. Girls love the qualities of most bad boys over qualities of nice guy . 22 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 2:52pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
It happens all the time, without fail. The sweetest girl goes for that terrible worthless bad boy. She has so much to offer, the perfect catch, yet she chooses a boy (we can’t even bear to call him a man). We cringe when we see our girlfriends, sisters, and daughters make the same mistake of picking up bad boys over, and over again. What could possibly cause a beautiful, well rounded, bright-futured female to stoop to the levels of an unaccomplished unqualified bad boy, that would treat her nothing even remotely close to what she is worth? Well, in reality there is an endless number of reasons that could cause a good girl to fall for a bad boy: 14 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 2:58pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
As i mention each qualities that attract ladies to bad boy. Take note of those qualities as they are your gateway to attraction. ¶ They associate love with hurt This is perhaps the most common of them all. It could be a parent, sibling, friend, or even a past hurtful relationship that breeds this association. The one that loves them the most - or is supposed to love them the most - hurts them the most. The role of a lover becomes distorted. When a good girl gets hurt by a bad boy, she associates the hurt to the same hurt her parent/friend/ex lavished her with, and expects that because she is feeling the same hurt, she will also feel that same love. ¶ Women are scientifically attracted to rebels it's been shown that women are actually scientifically more attracted to men with deviant personality types. A study of nearly 1,000 men and women revealed that people with a particular personality characteristics , such as impulsivity, imprudence, and narcissism, had more sexual partners and an increased number of children when compared to those who didn't share these same personality traits. In other words, these seemingly negative characteristics can in reality be beneficial toward drawing more people toward these bad boys in a romantic way. And as a result, bad boys who live their lives as renegades who are up to no good are often perceived as more attractive and appealing . 12 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:02pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
¶ Ovulation A study researcher Kristina Durante of the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology in 2012 found that women who are ovulating perceive men who are handsome and rebellious as more appealing mates. She asserts that ovulating women also believe that these kinds of quintessential bad boy characteristics, including an adventurous attitude and an alpha male mindset, make these men far better candidates as fathers and providers for their potential children. However, viewing bad boys through this type of ovulation lens can often lead to heartache and heartbreak, as many women can end up choosing to procreate with a man whose rebellious tendencies make him highly appealing and attractive, but in reality, he's unwilling or unable to provide a lifelong commitment because of these misbehaving ways. It’s hormonal. ¶ His confidence As noted in a study in the International Journal of Cosmetic Science , people who feel good about themselves and have high self-esteem can appear more physically attractive to others. Specifically, a bad boy's highly confident demeanor helps him look even more handsome and appealing to the women around him. Plus, confidence is incredibly sexy , and self-assured bad boys often ooze a kind of sex appeal that keeps women intrigued. In other words, a bad boy's confident nature helps him attract and appeal to more women while also deterring other men from competing with him for the affection and attention of these women. ¶ She thinks she can change him In many instances, women often fall for the bad boy because they believe they can change his rebellious and renegade ways. Many women are under the false impression that they can fix a bad boy's tendencies and mold him into the caring, considerate, and committed person they want him to be. 11 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:06pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
¶ Dating pattern Many women who started a relationship with a boy or was deflowered by him will find herself end up over and over again. On the flip side, many women find themselves liking a bad boy as a way to break free from their monotonous relationship history. For instance, she is used to being with safe, predictable, and seemingly boring guys in the past, a bad boy can provide a thrilling new deviation from this dull and dry norm. ¶ Opposites do attract One reason why women like bad boys is that many women are often attracted to men who are very different from themselves. Research has shown that there's actually truth behind the saying "opposites attract." ¶ Addicted to the drama Women may also find themselves highly attracted to a bad boy because they're addicted to the drama that being in a relationship with an unpredictable, arrogant, and egotistical person can provide. After all, dating a bad boy can put her on an emotional rollercoaster filled with highs and lows that can be both exciting (good) and disheartening(bad) all at once. And in many instances, experiencing the thrill, drama, and anxiety that come from dating a bad boy can actually stem from her innate desire to get attention from others. 11 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:14pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
¶Very attractive with great fashion Bad boys really are good looking. Unsurprisingly, they are better at making themselves look physically appealing. Bad boys always makes a statement in their clothes, making him more attractive compared to other guys. Bad boys also have a strong body language to compliment it with it. I suggest investing on one's dressing, shoes etc ¶ They’re more fun. Bad boys know how to have a good time. A 2016 study conducted at the Hospital Clinic of Barcelona showed that a number of women were attracted to bad boy types because they were considered captivating. “Despite being selfish, rule-breaking, imprudent, and rebellious, they are also brave, independent, and self-reliant—and they live frantic, galvanizing lives,” said lead researcher Fernando Gutiérrez. He added that this behavior could function as “a signal that the subject has such good genetic quality and condition as to live dangerously without suffering harm.” ¶ Bad boys do whatever the Bleep they want. They are confident, very straight forward and most importantly they are not afraid to flirt or tease a girl. Basically bad boys aren’t shy to tell girls what they want. Being a bad boy is a difficult work to do, they automatically assume that every girl likes them even without significant proof. Without any hesitation they’ll go for it, if they got rejected they aren’t gonna be upset by it either. What I wanted to say here is that girls more often to like YOU if you are in control of the situation. DON’T ask a girl on what you’re going to do, just do. 16 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:22pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
¶ Bad boys are decisive. Most of them already planned on what they’re going to do, and ultimately they share a common goal which is to get laid. Most of the nice guys are indecisive because they over think too much stuff. Being decisive means you’re being determined of what you wanted to happen, displaying no or little hesitation. The thing here is always make up your mind. Now that’s a bad boy trait! ¶ Bad boys are enigmatic Bad boys are unpredictable, the man is mystery himself. Girls likes it if the boy keeps them guessing on what he’s gonna do next. This is quite appealing and interesting compared for some normal guys. A bad boy will leave on the middle of their conversation, mostly won’t reply on her text messages, and if she wanna hangout, he’s probably busy and not available. Bad boy don’t put girls on top of his priorities, which makes her like him even more, which makes her chase him, instead of him chasing her. You need to be more mysterious and not always available. Unreactive is attractive In conclusion bad boys are self-centered . Bad boys are coldhearted more like an ice. They do not display emotions. Do nice guys really finish last? While there are many different reasons why women like bad boys, it's important to understand where nice guys fit into this romantic equation. A study in Evolutionary Psychology revealed that women place higher importance on altruism over good looks when it comes to choosing a partner for a long-term relationship/marriage. This is to tell you that bad guys get the ladies are their most fertile years but when they reach the wall, they will settle for nice guys. To the question above. Yes, nice guys finish last 19 Likes 6 Shares |
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