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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:58pm On Sep 19, 2020

PSYCHOPATHY :

Psychopathy can simply be defined as callousness and low empathy. It refers to not caring about what society thinks of you and only thinking about what will benefit yourself.

Psychopathy defined in relation to the dark triad is the inherent ability for the dark triad individual to show no aversion for immoral or harmful behaviour, predominantly because they feel no empathy, guilt or remorse when doing what is considered bad by society .

Psychopathy is how your brain connects your behavioural choices to your sense of guilt/remorse. These are essentially the body’s way of morally provoking you to cease immoral activity.

As such they are sexually promiscuous, incapable of Love, do what ever they want however they want and whenever they want.

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Re: The Red Truth by Kalatium(m): 6:18pm On Sep 19, 2020

Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:05pm On Sep 19, 2020

How psychopathy is attractive

Psychopathy is very closely linked with the Machiavellian component.

This lack of ability to feel guilt or fear is a great source of the dark triads power. The sheer unpredictability and audaciousness of the psychopathic element is what addicts women to these individuals, the spontaneity and impulsivity is electric. It’s like crack to them.

The constant highs and lows psychopathy generates is the drama that women crave for.

Psychopathy is the delivery system of the Machiavellian core, the spontaneity, the audaciousness, the guile; it’s the creme da la creme in executing a tactical manoeuvre.

How to emulate the psychopathic trait.
Due to the magnetic nature of the psychopathic trait. It is perceived as a skill which can be used to navigate this unfair modern world but is medically defined as a mental disorder.

You can mimic a psychopath with high degree of success, but neurologically you will not be one.

You can use suppression and self-control to turn down your emotions either after performing an action, or prior to an action.

However, you will still have to deal, introspectively, with the emotional consequences of your actions, something an actual dark triad individual does not. Hence your efforts will make you an imitation, not an actualisation of that which you lust to become.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:21pm On Sep 19, 2020

Uniting the 3 traits

A degree of narcissism is necessary for confidence, a degree of machiavellianism is necessary to navigate this transactional world and a degree of psychopathy is necessary to confront fears. It is only when the traits are in high amounts before they are considered dark triad. — Dpsychologist

Due to the psychopathic element of the triad, a person cannot become “fully dark triad” as this element in particular appears to be something imbued either genetically or in the development stages of childhood brain formation.

Dark triad individuals cannot be “fixed,” a dark triad individual will remain one for the entirety of their lives.

Most of them don’t want to be fixed as they’re addicted to their own power and sense of self-importance.( This is the mistakes women make when they want to change him)

They can only be emulated, you cannot “become one” but you can “become like one.”

With training and study, one can demonstrate borderline dark triad qualities and that is much the purpose of the section of this thread.

Summary:
Dark triad individuals tend to pull people in with narcissism, control them with machiavellianism and then addict them with the emotional rollercoaster previously described. The final element of the triad complements machiavellianism quite brilliantly in how it aids in forming emotional addictions to the manipulator, that element is psychopathy.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:08pm On Sep 19, 2020

44.) RUDE AWAKENING OF THE RED PILL:

“Being continuously angry will not help you improve yourself. For the sake of your own mental health, you have to look past the flaws of modern women by being extremely selective with which ones you’ll reward with relational commitment. Ultimately, you must employ RP strategies to hold frame and maintain dominance with women who do manage to make the grade.”

Most of us were raised within the blue pill sphere of influence, our mothers raise us to be good husbands, which is a synonym for SIMP. We are raised on “ happily ever after ” from the first fairy-tales such as cinderalla.

The blue pill fantasy is an intoxicating one, with assertions that for every man there is a woman who is his perfect mate, and she will find him.
This woman will ensure that his life is according to what he has been told is the greatest experience a man can have in this world, a loving, doting wife and children. He will never lack sex again, as his perfect mate will fulfill his fantasies, and he will fulfill hers.(Remember, the soul mate myth)

However, problem begins when an individual lives the majority of his life in the bluepill delusion, as such the redpill becomes a rude awakening.

The reaction to red pill philosophy depends very much on both the sender and the receiver of information .

¶ Some men see the Red pill philosophy as helping them finally make sense of their troubles, and gives them a framework for fixing the problems they are experiencing.

¶ Others reject the philosophy and rides it off as misogyny, or fables.

¶ Some seek to adopt some principles, but reject others, collectively this group is referred to as “ Purple Pill “.

¶ Others turn MGTOW. MGTOW is Men going their own way and basically are guys who have swear off marriage or relationships with women entirely.

¶ Others rather blame their inability to get laid based on fixed characteristics like their looks, height, race, and the fact that women are increasingly empowered; and thus declare there is nothing that can be done. They don't belief in self-improvement and thereby giving up on getting women . This is the black pill.

Many times the reaction to the philosophy is strongly correlated with the situation man is in when first presented with the red pill.

Changing your core philosophy is akin to changing your core programming. Once you change a foundation belief, all your other beliefs starts to be examined.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:53pm On Sep 19, 2020

The Red Pill Aftereffects: 5 stages of grief

An object in a vacuum remains in motion or remains inert unless acted upon by an external force— Isaac Newton

The five stages of grief in many ways represent the journey that most men pass through before finally accepting the philosophy and being willing to make the substantial investment required to re-align their life with their desires.

One has to put one’s old beliefs in a casket, and move on towards a new philosophy of life.

However this 5 stages of grief does not only apply to Redpill philosophy but to every truth we encounter in life:

¶ Denial
The first stage of red pill awakening is denial. Some of the cardinal truths of the red pill such as female hypergamy, solipsism, blame shifting, and the female penchant for manipulation and deception, are often what triggers the worst reactions when introducing a man to the red pill.

The realization that if the red pill is true, then it follows that he was to blame for many of his issues, it has little to do with women, who are just acting out their social and biological programming in a predictable way.

His respect for women will have to take a decline drastically as he has to stop putting them on a pedestal, and starts to view them in a more reality-oriented manner.

He becomes unwilling to view the woman as an agent who is engaging in her natural programming, but will instead lambast the male giving him the info for acting in a non-honorable manner.

In blue pill conditioning he is not made in a manner where they hold a woman accountable to the same level as a man, to do so would shatter his illusions of the feminine.
The denial can be caused by many unconscious perspectives, from accepting that he is from nature worth nothing, and that his entire value to the world is a function of his accomplishments.

That he must undertake grand demonstrations of worth, build value and earn what women are granted for merely existing.

That no woman will ever love him as he dreams of being loved, and that they are in fact incapable of such love.
The fact that his life, will be constant work and performance if he wants to realize his desires, and that everything he was told he could have only comes as a result of hard work.

This is too much to take.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:57pm On Sep 19, 2020

Pstarogood0100:

I properly understand you blood.
Just like you said, doing the opposite of what the SIMPs do. But the fact is knowing how to apply what you already know. Knowledge is good but the application is better and the right application is best.

However, the information in this trend can never be found anywhere both online and offline. That is why I give kudos to who ever that stumble on such information. Anyone who who mistakenly find such information even without proper application is consider a GENIUS. That is why I will indisputably consider the OP of this thread as a legend plus genius. And everybody that follow this thread is also a genius. Because it is not easy to find such information.

To those who will never find such will eventually find a solace in the world beyond.

Am part of this thread to join forces in other to bolden the weak mind , to emancipate the SIMPs from the shackle of slavery. So therefore, if the op gives permission, it implies that I won't have to create another thread. Am not much popular on NAIRALAND that is why I would consider to stay in this thread to support the OP to share the little of my knowledge in the application of red pills.

But, permission most be granted first.

Thanks bro
As for permission you were asking.

Bro permission granted.

In the first page i said questions and contributions are welcomed. You are allowed.

Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:59pm On Sep 19, 2020

softguy1:

You are right brother,
and am very sure that the OP will give you the permission to support and share your knowledge on this thread, for the fact the contents you want to release is related or is talking about saving the gentlemen (SIMPs) from pvssy slavery (redpill).
However, if the permission is not granted, I will advise you to open a new thread regardless of how unpopular you might think you are, and I will assure you that with the appropriate heading (redpill on it) and also the contents in it, the thread will attain a greater heights and popularity in no distant time...
The op and others was once unpopular on naiiraland, but it was due to the contents they released that made them popular here, and I believe u will do the same if you can deliver the same. We are always ready to support anyone comming up with redpill contents, we support each other's view, so far the redpill is concern.

Nevertheless, let's still wait for the OP to see what he is going to say regarding this.[/i]

As far as it is not against what i am saying here. Permission is granted.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:11pm On Sep 19, 2020

¶ Anger
The second stage of being exposed to red pill philosophy is frequent anger. Some manifest anger at womanhood in general for the dual sexual strategy of “ Alpha Fvcks/Beta Bucks“, others at fathers for not “ raising them right“, or the world for not informing them.

When a man is presented with evidence that most of the resources he spent towards getting laid, and much of the associated frustration when she just wanted to be friends after 11 dates with no sex, are because he triggered her provider instinct and thus she put off sex while deciding if she was ready to settle down. He becomes upset.

Anger is a natural reaction, both at himself, at women and at the society that told him that he was doing the right thing for his goal, but that misled him.

It was a case of the principal and the agent , where he was raised not to be someone’s one night stand, but the man his mother wanted his father to be.

His social programming has been one that sets him up to realize the worst possible deal for himself, but the best one possible for the woman and the social group.

In this manner, he may find himself experiencing feelings of being deceived, not only by the society without a face, but also by those in which he has the most trust.

Perhaps the most sinister is the realization that much like the unknowing population of the Matrix, that were slowly being drained of bio-energy to power other creatures, the man within the blue pill framework is slowly being drained of his energy to enable and power the society to which he belongs.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:16pm On Sep 19, 2020

¶ Bargaining
The bargaining stage is perhaps the most interesting, this is the realm of the purple pill, where fully aware of the depths of red pill philosophy, the man refuses to let go of the fantasy offered by the blue pill.

Outlining that the woman he has found to be his perfect soul-mate is actually the exception that proves the rule, or for some reason is different from other women. The fact that this is classic idealization and a trait of blue pill
thinking appears to escape notice, through various bias.

The bargaining stage is a challenge, as the dream of the blue pill is deeply ingrained in most men as is the fantasy that is spoon-fed to most throughout their childhood.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:22pm On Sep 19, 2020

¶ Depression
Depression hits predictably and comes from the fact that “ unplugging ” requires that all former fantasies must be discarded as just that. Being a red pill man, in no way means that a wife or a long-term relationship must be rejected, however it means in fact an increased performance burden rather than a lesser one.

Once locked in a long-term relationship, especially one where the parties are living with each other, means constantly having to be aware of shit tests and maintaining an alpha frame.

Furthermore, it means that the man also must accept the performance burden increase caused by now being the sole accountable party for both himself and his partner.

For a man who was sold the fantasy of a relationship without the performance burden as the ultimate reward from the world for his good behavior, the reality of the situation is often unexpected.

It is not uncommon for the man to regress into the bargaining stages, and intermittent visits to anger. At this point, the awakening appears more like staring into an abyss as one faces down the monster, and reevaluates every aspect of one’s philosophy.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:26pm On Sep 19, 2020

¶ Acceptance
The acceptance of the red pill is a constant decision that must be affirmed, it is very easy to slip back into comfortable patterns.

As many who have gone on diets or started exercise programs know, it takes much longer to build a habit than to for it to break down.

Accepting the red pill means that the man accepts that he will always be expected to be the caretaker and enabler of women, at his own expense.

The rejection of this unstated foundation of civilization will often result in social backlash.

A man who elects to live for his own betterment, rather than that of women and his social group may suffer large amounts of scorn and derision.

One must bear in mind that most people are heavily invested in blue pill conditioning, especially the men who are most invested in it and the women who rely most heavily on it.

The Western Romantic narrative is one of fairly recent invention, yet it has gained a remarkable amount of traction in few years.

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Re: The Red Truth by Pstarogood0100: 10:30pm On Sep 19, 2020

Dpsychologist:

Thanks bro
As for permission you were asking.

Bro permission granted.

In the first page i said questions and contributions are welcomed. You are allowed.

This is what i have been waiting for, so therefore I will be dropping some application of red pills in accordance to the topic of these thread.

Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:40pm On Sep 19, 2020

Redpill aftereffects
The five stages of grief is an apt model for describing awakening to the red pill.

Men do not always go through all the 5 stages, on occasion they will enter directly into the anger stage, often as a result of coming face to face with red pill truths in their lives.

Often the result of such manifests either in the form of depression, bargaining or anger, that serves to jolt the person from their social conditioning.

There are many different journeys that can be taken to red pill acceptance, ranging from the divorce after 30 years of marriage, to eventful and emotionally frustrating relationship with a selFish lady and an eventual hurtful breakup or being cheated upon.

Anger is the force that will drive through the barriers of bargaining, depression and to the goal of acceptance. A point in which most of the work still is a head of him as he starts rebuilding himself and his mind to embrace the new philosophy.

Perhaps the greatest red herring in this race will be the belief that without the blue pill utopia his life will be a series of meaningless, but sexually fulfilling experiences with a variety of women. Where he may never become a father, or partner and otherwise his dreams of the house and cars will have to be left behind.

This is not the case, in fact the red pill perspective is what facilitates this in reality, rather than purely as an illusion.

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Re: The Red Truth by Kalatium(m): 10:51pm On Sep 19, 2020

Mehn. Redpill overdose

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Re: The Red Truth by Kalatium(m): 10:52pm On Sep 19, 2020

I can see red everywhere cool

Re: The Red Truth by Kalatium(m): 10:54pm On Sep 19, 2020

sweet7oyin:
When does the attention your giving a girl becomes too much

It will always be obvious.
She will start showing signs of not needing you.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 11:05pm On Sep 19, 2020

Kalatium:
I can see red everywhere

One of the reasons i use the red ink is so that one will know specifically when i am dishing out the red pill (Noting all my teachings) even if the thread is being derailed.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 11:08pm On Sep 19, 2020

At this point in time i will like to urge my fellow red pillers, those who are reading this incognito, infact everyone to input and share their redpill knowledge.

I believe no man is an island of knowledge as such your contributions are welcomes

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 11:09pm On Sep 19, 2020

A teacher can learn from a student also.

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Re: The Red Truth by softguy1: 11:12pm On Sep 19, 2020

Dpsychologist:

As far as it is not against what i am saying here. Permission is granted.

The bolded is the area am also interested on,
Because I know too well u will grant him
the permission so far he won't come against the things you are saying.
In the other news, anything for us tongue

we need some pills to keep us active cheesy

Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 11:17pm On Sep 19, 2020

softguy1:

The bolded is the area am also interested on,
Because I know too well u will grant him
the permission so far he won't come against the things you are saying.
In the other news, anything for us we need some pills to keep us active

Rather what do you have for us.

I can also learn from you cheesy

Re: The Red Truth by softguy1: 12:23am On Sep 20, 2020

Dpsychologist:

Rather what do you have for us.

I can also learn from you

Lol

Am just an upcoming redpiller oo, am still learning, I have nothing to offer yet,
on less you want me to reverse your redpill knowledge to simp knowledge grin

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Re: The Red Truth by Humble59(m): 3:28am On Sep 20, 2020

Dpsychologist:

One of the reasons i use the red ink is so that one will know when i am specifically Note all my teachings even if the thread is being derailed.

Smart move...

Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 12:51pm On Sep 20, 2020

softguy1:

Lol
Am just an upcoming redpiller oo, am still learning, I have nothing to offer yet,
on less you want me to reverse your redpill knowledge to simp knowledge

Lol i will love to see that cheesy

However, what i mean is not for you to lecture me but based on what you have read here. What have you learnt, just say it in short sentence or in form of a quote.

The Next, topic we will be discussing is TIMELESS QUOTES ON WOMEN. That is why i will like as many as possible to contribute.

Re: The Red Truth by IghravweIG(m): 2:01pm On Sep 20, 2020

Dpsychologist:

Like i said before the red pill classifies men into either an alpha or beta. It was VOX that try to expand the classification ( a socio-sexual hierarchy). Both of the classifications are right but its not what is important.

A Sigma male is also an alpha male only that he is introverted and is on his own lane. Its all a label.

I prefer simplicity, to me Alpha and Beta dichotomy is better.

Thanks.

Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:23pm On Sep 20, 2020

IghravweIG:
Thanks.

Uwc

Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:43pm On Sep 20, 2020

45.) TIMELESS QUOTES ON WOMEN

Those who don't learn from history are doomed to repeat them.

What man learn from history is that man don't learn from history

That is why books are indispensible, they make you learn what happened years ago.

I will be dropping timeless quotes on nature of women and the relations between the sexes from various eminent figures throughout history: political figures, sages, philosophers, scientists, artists, and writers.

These quotes starts from page 12-19

Feel free to add yours.

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Re: The Red Truth by JustBeingFrank(m): 5:45pm On Sep 20, 2020

A message for you today.

https://www.nairaland.com/2705292/seeing-demons-angels-fallen-angels

Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:46pm On Sep 20, 2020

JustBeingFrank:
A message for you today.

https://www.nairaland.com/2705292/seeing-demons-angels-fallen-angels

Re: The Red Truth by JustBeingFrank(m): 5:47pm On Sep 20, 2020

A message for you today.

https://www.nairaland.com/2705292/seeing-demons-angels-fallen-angels

Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:48pm On Sep 20, 2020

For the wages of a simp is self-destruction, but the gift of Redpill is emancipation —Dpsychologist

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