my story goes this way
there was a day my friend told me that his brother (blood brother from the same parents) who he live with is traveling back to the village that his brother is selling all his property, so told me that he has no were to go that he wants to come and live with me so i agree, not up to four months he told me that his cousin sister( she live with them before) wants to come over my place i told me no but after he beg me i later agree
last year December my friend travel to the village i told him to take his sister along with him that i can't live with her alone the same house (just one room) but she refused and I all so that her same thing she later live
last month she called me she is coming back to my place i told him is brother my friend wants to travel work for the past couple of months now and he is not yet back that we can't be living alone my friend then called me she just wants to come over for her to finish her work
but ever since she came she has not been going to work she doesn't sleep house always. the problem is that my neighbors, my friends are thinking that am sleeping with her which am not
i need your advice because I can't continue to live with her anymore

na your house..


send her packing. inform your dad

Pursue her jare

You're pained cos you're not sleeping with her

What's your point now in all these?
Why did you want to pursue her away?
Did she do anything bad? you just want to pursue her cos of what your neighbors are saying?

Or are pained cos you're not sleeping with her?

Ok

Kriss216:
You're pained cos you're not sleeping with her

am not she has been sleeping out side with boys i don't even know

charlyexkid:
am not she has been sleeping out side with boys i don't even know

What is the issue exactly? Why don't you want her living with you?
Just talk type, no body will beat you.

tundchip2:
What's your point now in all these?
Why did you want to pursue her away?
Did she do anything bad? you just want to pursue her cos of what your neighbors are saying?

Or are pained cos you're not sleeping with her?

first am still young on my 24 yrs old she is live with me is like am a married man because i feed she sleeps out two to four days she will still be asking me to borrow her money
second no one believes me that am not sleeping with her

Your posts are just full of errors that I can't understand you.

What kind of living arrangement is this? A grown up lady comfortable to join a total stranger in a one room.. So if u have finished taking a shower and she was inside what do u guys do? Ask her to excuse u? Vice versa..

I don't think you should provide money for her, especially if you want to sleep with her.

Imagine the kind of risk you're putting yourself in. If anything happens to her, how will you explain?

charlyexkid:
am not she has been sleeping out side with boys i don't even know

Why are you finding it difficult to tell her to move out of your place? With the boys she is mixing with, should anything happen to her e.g gets missing, botched abortion etc how do you intend explaining yourself out of it with the Nigerian Police?

Brachaa:
Imagine the kind of riak you're putting yourself in. If anything happens to her, how will you explain?

that is what am worried about, and up to three days now she is not back

charlyexkid:
that is what am worried about, and up to three days now she is not back

You see?

In the meantime call and let the brother know of his sisters Waka about" now. Then as soon as you see her, gently and firmly explain and make her see reasons why she has to leave.

It's not even advisable for two singles of opposite sex to be cohabiting. In one room for that matter.

I pray she finds a more suitable place though.

It is well.