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Re: Marriage: Before And After by brownemmanuel43(m): 10:10am On Jun 02, 2020 |
UjuJoan2:Madam I don't agree with u on abuse of power. If women were to be men, believe me they would HV done worst than men, I mean abuse of power in their marriages. |
Re: Marriage: Before And After by Asour: 11:00am On Jun 02, 2020 |
UjuJoan2: Children are not the Central reason for marriage though. Would you have deemed your marriage unsuccessful if (God forbid) you failed to have children after a long while? |
Re: Marriage: Before And After by UjuJoan2: 11:47am On Jun 02, 2020 |
Asour: I think I would have. But that's just me! |
Re: Marriage: Before And After by Asour: 12:22pm On Jun 02, 2020 |
UjuJoan2:Wow! |
Re: Marriage: Before And After by ArcToyin(m): 7:55pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Carchoice:Jesus will help you 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: Before And After by Spicywify: 7:18pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
@dyt, Married for 10+ here, The best advice is to marry your bestie. That man you can fart in front of and you make a joke about it, who as no problem cooking when you can't, who has a good career going on and won't be intimidated by your success and who will even push and be supportive enough for you to achieve more of your dreams. I can say I am still in my marriage because of my kids. I came from a separated home and I know how it felt like as a kid. So I don't want my kids going through same. I feel choked and controlled. If I ever leave my marriage, I won't be remarrying for anything. @Ujujoan,are you a pisces? 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: Before And After by Dyt(f): 8:10pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
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Re: Marriage: Before And After by pakingzzzzz(m): 4:11pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
liberalchick: Marriage is full of the inevitable unknowns |
Re: Marriage: Before And After by Tokenism: 3:22pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
Dyt: Nairalanding while in class ![]() |
Re: Marriage: Before And After by Luak(m): 9:13pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
Dyt:I think the challenges in marriage outweigh that of a boy-girl relationship. Working more on yourself and the marriage at the early stages involves a lot of sacrifices. One ought not be disappointed if you are not lucky to fulfill your fantasies soon after saying I do |
Re: Marriage: Before And After by Dyt(f): 6:07am On Aug 24, 2020 |
Luak: But sometimes we need to apply the boy and girl relationship to keep it moving as some are different after marriage ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: Before And After by oluwatosin070: 7:52am On Aug 24, 2020 |
Marriage is much more than what we think we know. It requires so many things. I've seen the good, the bad and the ugly scenarios even from people I hold in high esteem. I think it takes God to make marriage successful. I've seen partners that aren't Godly have a successful marriage whereas partners that are Godly have broken marriages. For me, once I see a good lady and I get married to her and with God on my side; we would face every challenges together.. #NogoingBack.. BTW I'm still single 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: Before And After by Dyt(f): 1:54pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
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Re: Marriage: Before And After by oluwatosin070: 3:05pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
Re: Marriage: Before And After by LewsTherin: 4:55pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
Marriage is easy. Once you both are willing to do the work. It's a lot of work. It's compromising. It's sacrificing. It's submitting. It's providing. It's tolerating. It's more than this. But once you put in the work, it becomes very easy and very satisfying. |
Re: Marriage: Before And After by Jullima(f): 4:59pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
LewsTherin:LoL. The “work” in marriage is what makes it not easy and most people underestimate how much effort of “work” you have to put in a marriage to make it work for BOTH. What you just said is like saying “it’s easy to make money, once you are willing to do the work” duh. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage: Before And After by Dyt(f): 5:03pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
oluwatosin070: Nice to meet you 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: Before And After by LewsTherin: 6:05pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
Jullima: That is the point. People think the work is too onerous, too stressful. It isn't. While it takes effort, the result makes that effort seem insignificant. Same with making money. An example I give is sports. Let's say the players of Bayern Munich. How much effort do you think they put in their game against Barcelona. But thrashing a team like Barcelona 8-2! Do you think they'll see their effort as stressful? More likely the joy of such success will remove all thoughts of that effort. Same with marriage. However, both partners need to put in the work though. |
Re: Marriage: Before And After by oluwatosin070: 8:09pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
Re: Marriage: Before And After by bukatyne(f): 8:21pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
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Re: Marriage: Before And After by Dyt(f): 4:59am On Aug 25, 2020 |
LewsTherin: You couldn't have used another example? On my thread still lashing my team? Bekiaful arakunrin ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: Before And After by LewsTherin: 7:26am On Aug 25, 2020 |
Dyt: Apologies ma'am. It's the thought that counts ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes
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Re: Marriage: Before And After by deewhytee: 2:21am On Aug 28, 2020 |
TripleOh7:For the salvation and redemption of your soul. |
Re: Marriage: Before And After by deewhytee: 10:17am On Aug 28, 2020 |
shakespere: Honestly, your post here is one of the most reasonable and realistic posts I've ever read on Nairaland. You're so mature and you know what it takes to keep a peaceful home. (your wife is so lucky to have someone like you, sincerely speaking). Other guys should take a cue from you, and know that a happy wife is a happy life. GOD bless you and keep your home. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: Before And After by airminem(f): 1:26pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
. . . 'give it you best shot' babythug:Thanks for that. Wish you better days. |
Re: Marriage: Before And After by Fvcknames: 11:46pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
Dyt:Do you have enemies, 'cause I'm wondering how someone can hate you |
Re: Marriage: Before And After by Dyt(f): 2:14am On Sep 20, 2020 |
Re: Marriage: Before And After by TheCork(m): 4:18pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
Dyt: Yes I no. Tanks Hey . Are u interested in become a high paid nollywood star for a movie audition role? all u simply needs to do is stand naaaaked in front of me for only 10 minute so our company can no if u get the role. Deal? ![]() |
Re: Marriage: Before And After by Dyt(f): 4:29pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
TheCork: I am not lightskin Mr.cork ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Marriage: Before And After by TheCork(m): 4:30pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
Re: Marriage: Before And After by TheCork(m): 9:05pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
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