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Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by missyblissy: 10:27pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Divanona: You better run for your life and move in with I ur life. He can be in his sons life but not yours. Don't say I didnt warn you. Think with your head and not your heart. You need a man that will help lighten your burden not add to it. Madam If he's wants solace and comfort direct him to his family. You don't need a parasite now oooo. Think with your head and don't make a great mistake. You know what to do inside you. If it is forgiveness he wants. Forgive him and.let him leave your family house. He abandoned you and your child for 8yeara... Karma is a dish best served cold. Now he has retraced his steps back to you as nothing is working for him. Do not listen to his excuses and that's all you will ever get from him. Please do it for your son. Run run run and keep running oooo oooo 3 Likes |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Sarang(f): 10:27pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Ask yourself would he have come back if he had made it? Well, therein lies your decision. All the best 4 Likes |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by GOFRONT(m): 10:27pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Well, I hope he is not come back to apply Okafor's law of CongoElasticity..... |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by sirbabajoe: 10:29pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
[color=#770077][/color]For The eight did he tried to communicate with you? If no dnt accept him back |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by stagger: 10:29pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
What many women do not understand is that a man has to first BE A MAN taking on a woman and a child or children to go with it. What you have is not a man but a liability seeking for who to lean on. Very soon his inadequacies will show up and become a real problem. 6 Likes |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Sarang(f): 10:30pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: And marriage with nothing. Phew! Nah sand sand go dey pay una rent I pity you if you stay with him We all know that’s a second phase of suffering Nah so you like suffering reach ni Ps: sorry wrong quote. Was meant for op |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Nobody: 10:30pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: Well.. people are different. I have a value of repaying good deeds but that's just me. |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by luscioustrish(f): 10:30pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Forgive him, allow him be a father to his child while you move on with your own life. You don't have to be romantically involved with him. 4 Likes |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by jameel6: 10:31pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
He is here cos he has nothing, if he had made money you won't ever see him.be careful what you do with him, he is a stranger. 5 Likes |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Sarang(f): 10:31pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Diariess: Kindness ontop sufferhead She needs someone to take care of her Period! |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Iamsane: 10:31pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Whatever you do. Please don't get pregnant if the man is not capable of providing for the family. Goodnight 1 Like |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by jaxxy(m): 10:32pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Divanona: There is NO CONFUSION HERE. He wants to come back and be with his only family after abandoning them. It’s fine bt nobody shud be rushed into any serious or formal arrangement. Let him have anything u can afford him to get back his life on track. When he gets his life on track then u can talk about any serious or formal arrangements if he still wants to. For now it’s to observe and help him gather his plans. 3 Likes |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Sarang(f): 10:32pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Divanona: Don’t let him into your life He will impregnant you and dump you AGAIN! When people show you their color the first time, believe them. You did not come into this world to suffer And your son can have a good relationship with this man WITHOUT marriage Run for your life! RUN! Plus he is penniless! What exactly was he doing with his life all these while to turn out this bad despite his aspirations?! They wean.. his aspirations are dead! 1 Like |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Xixtie(f): 10:34pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Zzor:Most Nairaland guys are just bunch of biased idiots. 6 Likes |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Nobody: 10:34pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Xixtie:lol |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by eenai(m): 10:35pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Young Lady, leave that man alone. He is just falling back to the last resort. Better still give it time, don't start showing emotions immediately. Be sure he is genuine. He should not be talking about marriage when he has nothing. That's a red flag. Meaning he just wants you to shoulder every thing because he has figured out that you are yet to be married and may find it a bit difficult to cos of the child. Babe shine your eyes. It is wrong to marry out of pity. No start wetin you no go fit finish O. 5 Likes |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by luminouz(m): 10:35pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Zzor:K |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Nobody: 10:35pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
I do feel your pain but I am happy you do let him see his kids.Eight years is a long time but it takes one year of Grace and Mercy to forget all the pains.He needs you,if you're a great woman you do format his brain properly and mould him well Besides kids do have great angels. |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Onyxunlimited(f): 10:35pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
You took care of his son alone including feeding, clothing, shelter, hospital bills after delivery and when sick, school fees etc that should cover for the school fees he paid for you over 100 times. Now what do you want to do with a jobless man? Do you want to be the man and the woman in the family when you are not a widow? Will you raise your kid with your money and eventually get pregnant and raise other kids too by yourself? Will you cook, clean, do laundry and do all the duties of a wife and still hustle like a man to feed your children and your husband? When your family grows, do you know that you may have to move out of your brother's house and pay rent? My candid advice is for you to allow the father of your kid visitation right and that's all. If you like start dating him and get pregnant again for him, don't say nobody warned you ooo. 8 years is too long to be away from you guys. He only came back because no other woman will accept him. Be wise, woman! 6 Likes |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by adecz: 10:36pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
The guy has nothing to offer, he only came back because go no go for am. If he gets an alternative, he will leave again.. Meanwhile, how come you sef never marry?? 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by calmnquiet(m): 10:36pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Divanona: Any decision you take is right But, you can use this simple method, flip a coin. It works not because it's just a coin, but in that few seconds the coin is in the air, you would know in your heart what you really want or should do. |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by franchasng: 10:37pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
ComrDaprince:then he should quit playing useless games and tell her straight how much billions he has acquired since the past 8 years he went to oblivion What kind of nonsense test is that If you don't know, many guys don't have shame, they are so foolish...there are many of them. You send them to school they go there to join cult and be forming big boys....like play like play, they will be rusticated from school or run away from school for fear of reprisal attack from their rivals they have damaged their people. How can you tell your sister to trust such a foolish guy that used his life to gamble It is hunger that's making him act loyal now....the lady should caution him seriously whenever he mentions marriage with that his empty pocket. Having a dick does not qualify a man as a husband . If he have any money, he should go and bring it and start to spend on his son first. 8 Likes |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Nobody: 10:37pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Sarang: She doesn't have to take him back and I didn't insinuate that in my post. I'm just saying one good turn deserves another no matter the length of time that has passed. If she can help him find his footing without harming herself, I don't see any reason why she shouldn't. |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by luminouz(m): 10:37pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Lmaoooo... The ladies really poured into this thread oh... |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by MissprudenceD(f): 10:37pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
I think he is back because as you have said, he has nothing. Let him go, so that you do not carry his burden on your head but let him have a relationship with his son 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Nobody: 10:37pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
luminouz:K |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by abbey621(m): 10:37pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Let's leave him for a minute, his case is still loading with his village people. Woman, what have you been doing for 8 years? Do you mean you still reside in your family home? You didn't marry? No serious relationship? If you had moved on with your life, there would be no need of you entertaining the devil. Look at it this way, people make mistakes, it is conceivable that a guy ran away for a year or maybe 2 or 3 but woman 8 freaking years! Come on woman, you're smarter than that! If you use your child as an excuse to settle down with him then be prepared for him to leave once again when his village people strarts calling. The guy never gave a flip about that child so don't even entertain the thought, the major factor here should be you! Why haven't you moved on? Are you deformed? Do you have a mental illness? Evaluate yourself and determine why you've not been able to move on and then look at the guy and decide for yourself are you guys a match made in heaven or hell? I don talk too much 5 Likes |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by midolian(m): 10:39pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
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Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Oyerinde16(m): 10:39pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
The story is full of Want of What than, worth of Who he his... It seems he came back after all this years with nothing and that's the crux... If he had come back with E500, and works offshore earning #10M monthly, he would have being welcome back and Married immediately, we for no they hear he came back with nothing. Abeg if you love him without money accept him, but if you know you want him with money and he doesn't have it, send him parking asap... 4 Likes |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by almarthins(m): 10:40pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Zzor: Na men dey enjoy? The story is incomplete without the guy's side of it. Some tin mouth and eyes cant phantomed had happened to this guy. The lady still love him because d guy is a good guy. Na because d guy no fit guarantee fanancial security thats she dey confuse. |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by pocohantas(f): 10:41pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Stay there and be doing mumu love. Men always looking for fixers like you. After moving upandan like evil spirits in their youth, when they are old and broke- they will now come back to that virtuous woman. Same thing you see in marriages. Womanize in youth, come back to their wives with Nigerian used penis and damaged internal organs. Your work will now be to cook vegetable soup without pepper and spices. You will also learn to turn wheat and pound unripe plantain for him. Ndi virtuous women. I don’t blame him, na you I blame. 8 fcking years... Pfftttt!! 14 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by franchasng: 10:41pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
adecz:it's not easy for a single mother to marry in Nigeria and in fact all over the world. That thing no good. It limits a girl's future. Ladies please always advice your daughters to be very careful with unprotected sex to avoid getting pregnant out of wedlock, it limits a girls goals. Ladies without kids never see husband nowto marry, talk more of a lady with a child, it takes the special grace of God To happen 2 Likes 1 Share |
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