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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by CanadianNaija: 4:50pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
situationreport: Next time he wants to flog you collect the cane and break it, then para for him. He’s not serious, flogging an adult that what happened. 18 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Acidosis(m): 4:55pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
If you were my child, I'll also whoop your arse until you cry like a baby. Don't take stup!d risks in another man's home. It is very very unfair. If you were in my area last night, you'll probably be cooling off in SARS or DSS cell this minute. Some cult boys decided to count scores last night and SARS ensured they cleared the entire neighborhood. Of course, innocent ones like you who went to "watch match late in the night" were arrested. Don't put your parents and guardians through unecessary fear and trauma. If anything happens to you, the world will blame your father. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by mrblessed(m): 4:57pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Righteousness89:What do you benefit cancelling the comment of someone just because it doesn't sit well with you? This graveyard has become a stronghold for people who can't accept divergent or conflicting views without throwing tantrum. Note that the correct rendering of this sentence is: "If I were your father, I will cane you for uttering this." 30 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Oizee(f): 5:00pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
light099:lol, this your advice is on point but full of humour 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Lawsaite: 5:08pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Richy4: Lolz, I was in op shoe. Just last year. I was 21, my case is my step mom. She still flogs me like a criminal, worse still in front of her own children. I couldn't take it and and I did what you said, tho twas while defending myself. That was my last day in that house. Only God knows what she told my father to make him ask me out to literally nowhere the following day. Life has been hectic, but God has been Good 51 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Suzie1(f): 5:09pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Righteousness89: What's this one saying? Flogging a 26 year old (being it man or woman) is inappropriate even if he's not independent. It's a domestic violence and shouldn't be condoned! That's why the number of broken people keeps increasing (from narcissists to people living with bipolar, PTSD and so on). Dear OP, it is either you talk to your Dad (father to son talk) with respect though or report him to whom he fears (your Mum, one of his "respectable" friends or family members) if you're afraid of talking to him (most likely). I still believe that there're some things to be busy with that could generate income than to be waiting for white collar jobs. Hence, I would like to implore you to create values with your time. Don't just keep waiting for an employer you can sell your time. 35 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Lawsaite: 5:11pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Righteousness89:You lost all my respect today. If you are a good father, then you'd know that they are other ways to discipline than constantly using a whip, worse still on someone who has come of a reasonable age. I was a victim and let me tell you, you certainly have no idea what it feels like. To me if you're constantly whipping your child like an animal, it tells a lot about the upbringing you gave the child. I know and have seen responsible parents, with stellar children. 46 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Oizee(f): 5:12pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Lawsaite:eyya, God will c u tru. Your dad no just try, he didn't hear from you and sent you out, who does dat? 9 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Lawsaite: 5:13pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Oizee: My dad did oo. We never really had a father/son relationship, 1 Like |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Oizee(f): 5:25pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
OP, I'm curious to know if that's how he handles others or just u? If u feel is the inability to have something doing that's making him treat u like a baby, call him one day and politely ask him to stop. Nawao, funny enough, in future he would be wondering and be comparing the way u treat him and d way u treat ur mom special, considering how he toiled day and night to sponsored your education. 1 Like |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by realestate99: 5:50pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Righteousness89:you are very wrong!! this is a very big low from you, replying someone in this manner is not cool, you must be able to tolerate other people's point of view, beating a 26 year old guy is not the wisest of decision, it is even dangerous to the old man, there are other ways of putting children on the right path, our parent's obsession with beating every time still did not absolve Nigeria from the moral decadence ravaging the country. 40 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Richy4(m): 6:00pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Lawsaite: I'm sorry about your case dear but sometimes it's better to eat mushroom in freedom than to eat meat in slavery.. In Op's case, I see it as bullying.. @ 26, what kind of correction was that.. What about ABC, I have warned you not to return late in the night, if anything happens to you, I will not bla bla bla.. Without some kind of stubbornness, he might still be flogging him at 40.. 17 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Ishilove: 6:31pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
light099:Your laidback prose style is captivating. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Ishilove: 6:35pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Righteousness89:Why? |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by joseph1832(m): 6:39pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Ishilove:because he hasn't affirm himself as a man. 3 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Karleb(m): 6:39pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
So many people here cheering a dad flogging a 26yr old guy would change tone if OP were a girl. 25 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by mariahAngel(f): 6:43pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
situationreport: Forgive your dad eh? He loves you...even though he shows it in a very harsh way. If you have a friend living alone, you can go squat with him while you look for something to do to sustain yourself. 6 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Righteousness89(m): 6:44pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Ishilove:It's a Crime for Your Father to Discipline you because your 26 yrs? 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by mariahAngel(f): 6:57pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
light099: Your words are more brutal than op's dad's ass whooping! 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by merieam16(f): 7:20pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Richy4:@op follow this advice at ur own peril 1 Like |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Ishilove: 7:21pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Righteousness89:Discipline you by flogging a full grown adult, irrespective of whether he is contributing to the family income? That's no longer discipline. That's criminal assault. 27 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Efewestern: 7:22pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
OP I think you should challenge your dad, flogging a 26years old man is so so wrong. Stop being this docile. Lawsaite: How are you fairing now? how about your maternal family? can't you locate them for assistance. Stories like this are very common. Women are terrible when dealing with kids that aren't theirs. 12 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by thorpido(m): 7:25pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Righteousness89:There are other ways to discipline a grown man than flogging. 14 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Righteousness89(m): 7:26pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Ishilove:I don't agree with that at all! Discipline does not Have age.. More Especially when you are still under your Father's Roof.. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by mariahAngel(f): 7:33pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Righteousness89: What does the bible say about fathers not provoking their children? What if op had reacted violently on impulse, who would be to blame? The bible says "...our God is not the author of confusion" Everything should be done in accordance. There's an appropriate time for everything. 23 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Ishilove: 7:33pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Righteousness89:The problem with many African parents is they don't know where to draw the line. See the young man here lamenting and resenting his father because he is being treated like a little kid. Will you say this so-called discipline worked? No! Instead the father is driving his son to despair, just as the bible warned. The bible exhorts us to respect and honour our parents, but the same bible also warned parents not to provoke their children. Many men are married at 26 and are living in family homes so your position does not hold water 42 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Righteousness89(m): 7:34pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
mariahAngel:Disciplining you child for wrong doing is Provocation! My dear do not Misinterpret the Bible.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Righteousness89(m): 7:36pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Ishilove:My Sister no Sane Father will do anyhow to his son! If something happens to a child under you Roof , who will bare the Cost? The days are Evil! Parents could be Hypertensive for that.. What he would have done is to communicate with his parents.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Ishilove: 7:42pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Righteousness89:And what stops his parents from communicating with him? If the child is being foolish, must the parents also be foolish? 33 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Righteousness89(m): 7:45pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Ishilove: My Sister, the young Man complaining should be the one to be asked! His dad didn't come here to Complain! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Nobody: 7:47pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Righteousness89:What happens to the part of your Bible where Parents were instructed not to provoke their children? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Ishilove: 7:57pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Righteousness89:You're still not getting the point. You say the young man should have communicated with his parents, but I am asking that why didn't the parents communicate with the young man? Why must the father resort to assaulting him? Is that not the provocation the bible warned against? If the young man should react and disrespect the dad in the process everyone will condemn him while ignoring the fact that this is an adult being whipped like a baby. The father's actions is very bad. 21 Likes 2 Shares |
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