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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by kelvindj98: 10:11pm On Sep 29, 2020
Righteousness89:


I am very Sorry for Replying u!
I thought you were a Reasonable young man..
Go and take your medication, lunatic.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Tobex31(m): 10:11pm On Sep 29, 2020
light099:
Seems your dad is a perpetual ass whooper and since you're not yet making him feel proud to be a father, by travelling down home in a sleek car, perhaps on some weekends and dropping fat envelope in his hands, the only other way he feels like a father is by whooping your ass.

Like people say, age is just a number, your parents start to regard you as an adult, the moment you're able to survive on your own and they can live off on you.
If you're 50 years old still living under your parents and also living off them, then you're still a kid to them anytime any day, and your sorry ass can be whooped real bad, if situation warrants it. You don't amount to shiit to them, and they can fvck you up big time, if you trespass.
Since, you're yet to clock the criteria of an adult, the only choice left is to continue enjoying the ass whooping, while you work hard in order to gather enough escape velocity to break away from all the gravity of joblessness, grounding your ass in your parents' house.
guy, your mouth enh? E long pass 3rd mainland bridge.lolz

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Champneys: 10:11pm On Sep 29, 2020
situationreport:
Please is there anyone else experiencing what I'm passing through now, because it's making me sad and depressed I can't believe my dad still whips me at my age.. I don't want to confront him because, he's still my father even though I feel gutted for his actions

Yesterday I went to watch liverpool vs Arsenal match in a viewing center, and came back late at night by 9:55 pm, As soon as I came in, he was still awake in the parlor, what he did next was to use the cain he hid to start whipping me...i think is because I'm still living with him, at my age with no meaningful contribution right now, that's why

I have no where to go to, It seems I'm now a burden to them in our house...because I 'm currently jobless now and unemployed for six months now, due to this pandemic... I was initially working in the hospitality industry as a waiter, but was laid off at the beginning of the covid-19 pandemic, ever since then things have gone from bad to worse for me..... I'm broke to hell at the moment

I'm seriously depressed, I just wish I could relocate far away and look for something else to do, and fix my life back, but no where to go, I don't have anyone to help... � May God forgive me if I can't bear this anymore....




Ok.
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Mac2016(m): 10:12pm On Sep 29, 2020
situationreport:
Please is there anyone else experiencing what I'm passing through now, because it's making me sad and depressed I can't believe my dad still whips me at my age.. I don't want to confront him because, he's still my father even though I feel gutted for his actions

Yesterday I went to watch liverpool vs Arsenal match in a viewing center, and came back late at night by 9:55 pm, As soon as I came in, he was still awake in the parlor, what he did next was to use the cain he hid to start whipping me...i think is because I'm still living with him, at my age with no meaningful contribution right now, that's why
you're very right as you said it all
I have no where to go to, It seems I'm now a burden to them in our house...because I 'm currently jobless now and unemployed for six months now, due to this pandemic... I was initially working in the hospitality industry as a waiter, but was laid off at the beginning of the covid-19 pandemic, ever since then things have gone from bad to worse for me..... I'm broke to hell at the moment

I'm seriously depressed, I just wish I could relocate far away and look for something else to do, and fix my life back, but no where to go, I don't have anyone to help... � May God forgive me if I can't bear this anymore....

1. You're very right. A source of good income will change your story

2. God won't forgive you if you do something stupid. Pls don't... Many have gone thru this before and eventually became a blessing. Your story will never be less of this.


Stay blessed!

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Ibime(m): 10:12pm On Sep 29, 2020
situationreport:
Please is there anyone else experiencing what I'm passing through now, because it's making me sad and depressed I can't believe my dad still whips me at my age.. I don't want to confront him because, he's still my father even though I feel gutted for his actions

Yesterday I went to watch liverpool vs Arsenal match in a viewing center, and came back late at night by 9:55 pm, As soon as I came in, he was still awake in the parlor, what he did next was to use the cain he hid to start whipping me...i think is because I'm still living with him, at my age with no meaningful contribution right now, that's why

I have no where to go to, It seems I'm now a burden to them in our house...because I 'm currently jobless now and unemployed for six months now, due to this pandemic... I was initially working in the hospitality industry as a waiter, but was laid off at the beginning of the covid-19 pandemic, ever since then things have gone from bad to worse for me..... I'm broke to hell at the moment

I'm seriously depressed, I just wish I could relocate far away and look for something else to do, and fix my life back, but no where to go, I don't have anyone to help... � May God forgive me if I can't bear this anymore....







Money stops nonsense.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Farki: 10:12pm On Sep 29, 2020
Acidosis:
If you were my child, I'll also whoop your arse until you cry like a baby. Don't take stup!d risks in another man's home. It is very very unfair.

If you were in my area last night, you'll probably be cooling off in SARS or DSS cell this minute. Some cult boys decided to count scores last night and SARS ensured they cleared the entire neighborhood. Of course, innocent ones like you who went to "watch match late in the night" were arrested.

Don't put your parents and guidance through unecessary fear. If anything happens to you, the world will blame your father.

The chilling effect in action, we are now aiding the authorities to oppress each other rather than fighting the actual problem.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by edoairways: 10:12pm On Sep 29, 2020
light099:
Seems your dad is a perpetual ass whooper and since you're not yet making him feel proud to be a father, by travelling down home in a sleek car, perhaps on some weekends and dropping fat envelope in his hands, the only other way he feels like a father is by whooping your ass.

Like people say, age is just a number, your parents start to regard you as an adult, the moment you're able to survive on your own and they can live off on you.
If you're 50 years old still living under your parents and also living off them, then you're still a kid to them anytime any day, and your sorry ass can be whooped real bad, if situation warrants it. You don't amount to shiit to them, and they can fvck you up big time, if you trespass.
Since, you're yet to clock the criteria of an adult, the only choice left is to continue enjoying the ass whooping, while you work hard in order to gather enough escape velocity to break away from all the gravity of joblessness, grounding your ass in your parents' house.
What can of you useless criteria is that? Do you realize that an 18 years person is an adult

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Xcrapeekoko(m): 10:13pm On Sep 29, 2020
Righteousness89:
Your Father is your Father! He can correct as he wants !
My GrandFather Dealt with his sons who Where Married..
More so when you are still under his Roof!
ogbeni carry yourself comot here abeg. above all else get wisdom na so the holy book talk. when the bible said you should train up a child in the way he should go, it never mentioned a 26 year old. at OP. abeg forget people like this. the day you learn to stand up against him, is the day you become a man.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Fmghewzy(m): 10:13pm On Sep 29, 2020
[quote author=Righteousness89 post=94436374][i]Your Father is your Father! He can correct as he wants !
My GrandFather Dealt with his sons who Where Married..
More so when you are still under his Roof!

No wonder !!!!
I always knew something was definitely wrong with your brain,but I won't be surprised if I see any of your senseless post as usual.
I can now see were it all originated from.

Your brain is completely useless that you think it is right for your grandfather to beat his children who are married.
And some mumu would be listening to what you are saying, Many mad people in this country.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by aspirebig: 10:14pm On Sep 29, 2020
Some guys are going round with name fortune promotion.They said they do advertisement and marketing for facebook, Amazon and other big online outfit.

They are scammers. Beware, they just come and collect money and promise 50% return in a short time and disappears.

Anyone telling you to invest and get 50 % within one week, please run ooooo

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Fucsheetup(f): 10:14pm On Sep 29, 2020
midehill:


Just ignore d guy Mr righteousness...
Clown

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by McAausim: 10:15pm On Sep 29, 2020
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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Fucsheetup(f): 10:15pm On Sep 29, 2020
Acidosis:
If you were my child, I'll also whoop your arse until you cry like a baby. Don't take stup!d risks in another man's home. It is very very unfair.

If you were in my area last night, you'll probably be cooling off in SARS or DSS cell this minute. Some cult boys decided to count scores last night and SARS ensured they cleared the entire neighborhood. Of course, innocent ones like you who went to "watch match late in the night" were arrested.

Don't put your parents and guidance through unecessary fear. If anything happens to you, the world will blame your father.
26year old man is a child?


You need to go back to school because you clearly wasted your time there’s.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by lastclaire4(f): 10:15pm On Sep 29, 2020
Kriss216:

That’s good.

You are 26, your father should accord you some respect. Flogging you like a kid should come with Resistance. You’re in your father’s house, when next your father misbehaves, tell him to move to his fathers‘ house.

Lol you are something else.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by hstar: 10:16pm On Sep 29, 2020
light099:
Seems your dad is a perpetual ass whooper and since you're not yet making him feel proud to be a father, by travelling down home in a sleek car, perhaps on some weekends and dropping fat envelope in his hands, the only other way he feels like a father is by whooping your ass.

Like people say, age is just a number, your parents start to regard you as an adult, the moment you're able to survive on your own and they can live off on you.
If you're 50 years old still living under your parents and also living off them, then you're still a kid to them anytime any day, and your sorry ass can be whooped real bad, if situation warrants it. You don't amount to shiit to them, and they can fvck you up big time, if you trespass.
Since, you're yet to clock the criteria of an adult, the only choice left is to continue enjoying the ass whooping, while you work hard in order to gather enough escape velocity to break away from all the gravity of joblessness, grounding your ass in your parents' house.
Wonderful
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by jelraj(m): 10:16pm On Sep 29, 2020
Terryindeed:
if you wanna use your brain to make money but you gotta to be humble and loyal then hit me up.
do you have a laptop? where are you residing?
Bro I have a laptop, is there anything I can learn from you?

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by linearity: 10:16pm On Sep 29, 2020
Kriss216:
You’re a good writer.

How you managed to skip your gender all through the post is orgasmic.

.... I was initially working in the hospitality industry as a waiter....that gave the gender out.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by edoairways: 10:16pm On Sep 29, 2020
Righteousness89:
Your Father is your Father! He can correct as he wants !
My GrandFather Dealt with his sons who Where Married..
More so when you are still under his Roof!
That is not right. Canning an adult as a result of wrongdoing is insane. The best that dude's dad would do is to use other strict deterrent approach rather than cane.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Slurity(m): 10:16pm On Sep 29, 2020
Kriss216:
You’re a good writer.

How you managed to skip your gender all through the post is orgasmic.
You probably don't check his gender through his name and the story. And to make the matter worst your contribution is more likely to kill him than encouraging him.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Hoojay(f): 10:17pm On Sep 29, 2020
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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Camos: 10:17pm On Sep 29, 2020
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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by gunners160(m): 10:17pm On Sep 29, 2020
Righteousness89:


you are Speaking English..
When you Become a father you will understand better the Importance of Discipline..
so what are u speaking? Cambridge I guess.
a child of 26 is an adult and free to do as he pleased. wat sort of yeye discipline are u encouraging. The dad na just sadist

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by iammolise(m): 10:17pm On Sep 29, 2020
Pls uncle bear it oh, u are a man, its called ups and downs... If u can't bear this small one what about when ur children grow up and misbehave coupled with other responsibilities and storms in marriage, don't even think of taking sniper, u will wake up in the under world flogging ur self by ur self for being a weakling.

I'd only advice u to move out, if its a friend's place or relations, or just get out for quite a long while. Ur dad is a no nonsense (I don't care if u are grown)type, he will continew like that if ur still there.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by PresidentJosh20(m): 10:18pm On Sep 29, 2020
situationreport:

I'm a guy...
well,guy I empathise with you but my take on this is that you should try as much as possible to limit your nocturnal outings to watch football matches as you are still under your parents.Also,try and get in contact with old friends and acquaintance to solicit their assistance in getting a legitimate job.Please don't be hoodwinked into doing yahoo yahoo stuffs.I'm sure you will not want your problems piling up through that.Remain blessed!

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Righteousness89(m): 10:18pm On Sep 29, 2020
edoairways:

That is not right. Canning an adult as a result of wrongdoing is insane. The best that dude's dad would do is to use other strict deterrent approach rather than cane.

You are Wrong!
You Have no right to tell a Man how to Discipline his son!

Caning is Discipline!
Punishment is Discipline!

When you get your child leave them to do as they want!

You will Reap it!

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Fucsheetup(f): 10:18pm On Sep 29, 2020
merieam16:
@op follow this advice at ur own peril
Op follow that advice to the letter. This one doesn’t know anything.
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by chatinent: 10:18pm On Sep 29, 2020
Start becoming a man.
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Anaerobi(m): 10:19pm On Sep 29, 2020
It's actually painful. I really understand your pain. but it all depends on the relationship u have with your dad, your behavior and how you does things.
though sometimes my mom tries to stop me from going to watch ball, due to d environment we stay... very quiet, I go and comes back alone in d dark night... so she doesn't like me taking such risk but she have never lay hands on me because of that ever since I clocked 18. but as for Dad, he is also a sport Man, we gist football with him...
But your Dad should stop that, and u on ur own side, you need to amend some stuff.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by PresidentJosh20(m): 10:19pm On Sep 29, 2020
iammolise:
Pls uncle bear it oh, u are a man, its called ups and downs... If u can't bear this small one what about when ur children grow up and misbehave coupled with other responsibilities and storms in marriage, don't even think of taking sniper, u will wake up in the under world flogging ur self by ur self for being a weakling.

I'd only advice u to move out, if its a friend's place or relations, or just get out for quite a long while. Ur dad is a no nonsense (I don't care if u are grown)type, he will continew like that if ur still there.
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by LikeAking: 10:19pm On Sep 29, 2020
situationreport:
Please is there anyone else experiencing what I'm passing through now, because it's making me sad and depressed I can't believe my dad still whips me at my age.. I don't want to confront him because, he's still my father even though I feel gutted for his actions

Yesterday I went to watch liverpool vs Arsenal match in a viewing center, and came back late at night by 9:55 pm, As soon as I came in, he was still awake in the parlor, what he did next was to use the cain he hid to start whipping me...i think is because I'm still living with him, at my age with no meaningful contribution right now, that's why

I have no where to go to, It seems I'm now a burden to them in our house...because I 'm currently jobless now and unemployed for six months now, due to this pandemic... I was initially working in the hospitality industry as a waiter, but was laid off at the beginning of the covid-19 pandemic, ever since then things have gone from bad to worse for me..... I'm broke to hell at the moment

I'm seriously depressed, I just wish I could relocate far away and look for something else to do, and fix my life back, but no where to go, I don't have anyone to help... � May God forgive me if I can't bear this anymore....








You dad is a bully.

Him wan control you,and the end he has destroyed your life.

No gree for him.

Confront him with agression what ever want to happen should happen.His parents didnt treat him that way.

You have to man uo and confront him.Dont worry he will respect you after that encounter.

You fight for happiness, it not free.

He wants to dominate you,instead of encouraging you to be bold and fearless like a lion.

He is the main reason you are employed.He brought u up like a chicken.your energy level is too low.

Stand up to him now,even thou you make money or get old he will still disrespect you.

Real bring up their sons to be fearless.
Not to be timid.

Bad father.
No be through socialization you take take succeed?.

Abobi make som tin touch your fada.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Hoojay(f): 10:19pm On Sep 29, 2020
Oya oooo...na EVening order dey sweet pass grin

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