Joskiro50:
Guys I have a question oh

There's a tendency for the red pill to affect your relationship negatively if moderation is not applied. Take for instance, to keep the spark in your relationship going, you have to meet the love language of your partner especially the crave for attention and to be listened to.

Most times, you cannot help but stop giving your woman attention when you discover the red pill and to be honest, this affects the relationship negatively. She starts looking for the attention somewhere and with time, you lose whatever you had on her.

How can one BALANCE the knowledge of red pill with meeting your woman's love language?

Dpsychologist:
Conclusion
Next time you argue with a woman, remember the agenda at hand is to appear the most credible and maintain a superior reputation in Comparison to your own.

If she tries to bait you into reacting emotionally (and she will, she is dependent on your anger to have a chance at beating you to a pulp with your own words) do not take her seriously and just laugh off her words, because really, they are nothing more than baseless Machiavellian tactic that will drive you to insanity should you take such words seriously and attempt to engage them at face value.

EaglesEyes1:
are you trying to say we just have to tolerate women when they dish out their insults?

Riener:

Hope you are alright now man?

Dpsychologist:

You are taking it out of context.

I was talking about arguments with ladies when they are trying to use triggering your emotions to win an argument.

Dpsychologist:
Men are taught to worship women, whilst women are taught to distrust men. Men are taught to serve women, whilst women are taught to deceive men. Society believes it morally reprehensible for a man to dupe a woman, and yet bares no such disdain when the polarity is reversed, often going to extreme lengths to rationalise aesthetically pleasing justifications for immoral female behaviour.

NeduLuiZ:
Cardi B came out to say she drugs men and rob them during her stripper days ...nobody coughed!

Dpsychologist:
57.) BAD GIRL /GOOD GIRL
What is the difference between a bad girl and a good girl?

Dpsychologist:
✅She has not yet being caught

Ever vouch that a girl is decent only to be surprised when you found out she was not who she appears to be?

Dpsychologist:



A story
During my naïveté days specifically in 100L,i got acquainted with a decent looking lady who i always taught she was chaste. Our fellowship organized a talk show on pre-marital sex and she was among the speakers.

She condemned pre-marital sex tanishing it as wrong not only spiritually but even physically due to risk of STI and Pregnancy. In upcoming election i even nominated her as vice president.

Some days before announcement of the new excos, i forgot what brought about our discussion about her between me and one my friend. The greatest shock of my life is when he told me he use to see the girl in their compound at least 3 times a week in the evening.

On further probing, he told me she usually meets guy who smokes in their compound who bangs her anytime she comes.

I was shocked to the spine, i was like he was just lying. This guy went further with proves. Since that day anytime i look at the girl i just wonder at the double lifestyle.

BTW

She still became the vice president

Meedon:
In this life I no go marry.

TheUndercover:
Sorry if this will derail the thread

What's your take on exes giving gifts after breakups?

We've known each other for 4 years plus. My girlfriend brought me a cloth gift today, she said because she didn't give me gift on my birthday which was couple months ago that she decided to bring this for me and we've broken up long before my birthday and this is not the first time this kind of scenario occurred. She's generally hot tempered but she cares or so I thought lol.

This is actually what happened after the last breakup. Although we've broken up a couple of times too before this one but we keep coming back again

When we reconciled, she told me when we were apart (breakup), some bleeped up things happened, I said some bleeped up things as what? I asked her that did she date another person? did you have sexual relations or romance with another person? she said no. In my mind I said what bleeped up things can be greater than these two reasons? I let it slide and we resume the way we normally do. ( you should understand lol)

I started noticing some changes in her character. She protests when I touch her, she complains and there was a time when she said I shouldn't touch her anymore, I was shocked but I decided to play along I didn't react. my mind was already looking for options then. Sometimes she act cool also like she normally does but those changes I saw was glaring

After a while, she confessed that when we broke up she met a guy blah blah blah that she was waiting for me to call her lol (someone that said she should have broken up long ago with me on the day it happened) that I didn't show, she told me that she later met a guy after a long while of waiting for me, the guy gave her shoulder to cry on blah blah. she said that they made out but no sex. I just kept my cool, because in my mind she has already broken my protocols, there's no way she's getting back with me

After she landed her rantings, she said she later realised that the guy is not serious with the relationship that they broke up 3 days ago (not from today's date) so she decided to tell me lol I said okay. I asked her what do you now want me to do? she said nothing lol. I know she didn't wanna appear desperate .. she was expecting me to flare up with her story but I kept my cool and didn't react or act surprised.

She said she thought she could eat her cake and have it or she thought I would tell her what she needed to do to regain back my trust lol. I said she can't eat her and cake nor have it. I thanked her though for opening up and after that I zeroed her.. but we still talk though she tries to get close to me, make me notice her lol but I just act normal around her and I didn't act pained. I still talk to her normally but now on a platonic level.

She wanted me to say something which I know I won't lol but I act as if I'm gonna say it this will keep her mind burning up, I'm starving her of attention. What do you think.?

Dpsychologist:

Seems she want you guys to get back