Meedon:
In this life I no go marry.

I said same thing on ashewo but someone was insulting like its his marriage.

fattprince:

I said same thing on ashewo but someone was insulting like its his marriage.

That is their problem bro.

If you don't follow them to do what the society dictates for them, they will see as evil person - or better still a worthless person.


But that is their problem

#singlelife

Dpsychologist:

Lol you are going MGTOW already?

From way back.

#MGTOW
#MGTOW_MONK.

TheUndercover:


Love is just stressful sometimes. I'm still in my development phase. I don't wanna commit for now. She can get along with other guys. I will still keep the relationship in a platonic way.

Whatever you do its your choice, as far as you don't get emanculated its fine.

Meedon:


From way back.

#MGTOW
#MGTOW_MONK.

Although i don't always support MGTOW MONKING but its your choice.

It's your life. Thats why the Red pill is not a Religion.

TheUndercover:
Sorry if this will derail the thread

What's your take on exes giving gifts after breakups?

did you have sexual relations or romance with another person? she said no. In my mind I said what bleeped up things can be greater than these two reasons? I let it slide and we resume the way we normally do. ( you should understand lol)

After a while, she confessed that when we broke up she met a guy blah blah blah that she was waiting for me to call her lol (someone that said she should have broken up long ago with me on the day it happened) that I didn't show, she told me that she later met a guy after a long while of waiting for me, the guy gave her shoulder to cry on blah blah. she said that they made out but no sex. I just kept my cool, because in my mind she has already broken my protocols, there's no way she's getting back with me

She said she thought she could eat her cake and have it or she thought I would tell her what she needed to do to regain back my trust lol. I said she can't eat her and cake nor have it. I thanked her though for opening up and after that I zeroed her.. but we still talk though she tries to get close to me, make me notice her lol but I just act normal around her and I didn't act pained. I still talk to her normally but now on a platonic level.

Everything to me seems to be planned by her but you didn't allow her to execute it her way i.e u outsmarted her to her game kudos to you.

At the emboldened, are you sure she didnt have s3x with the other dude if she did red card straight up and if she didn't and you are 100% sure not 99% biko continue the relationship with her...

At the italicized dont allow her to play the victim card for u and dont be lenient with her.

The part she said she was waiting for u b4 she allowed the dude, never accept any mediocre behavior/attitude from a lady who left u for another guy. Shes trying to shift the blame on you for the stupid act she does dont fall for the guilt shit.

The part she said she realized the other dude is not serious dont mind her she came to understand that you were better than the guy in all ramifications she's weighed you both and she realized u are a better man to the other dude.

The gift, I think she's trying to use it to soften your mind for you to relate with her i.e trying to hook your attention with the gift.

Note: if you found out she fvcked another dude biko dont hesitate to help her with her loads to the nearest park.

My observation based on what you typed up there Good nyt bro!

Dpsychologist:

Although i don't always support MGTOW MONKING but its your choice.

It's your life. Thats why the Red pill is not a Religion.

Yeah.

I understand, but as you rightly - it is my choice.

Akinbahm:


Everything to me seems to be planned by her but you didn't allow her to execute it her way i.e u outsmarted her to her game kudos to you.

At the emboldened, are you sure she didnt have s3x with the other dude if she did red card straight up and if she didn't and you are 100% sure not 99% biko continue the relationship with her...

At the italicized dont allow her to play the victim card for u and dont be lenient with her.

The part she said she was waiting for u b4 she allowed the dude, never accept any mediocre behavior/attitude from a lady who left u for another guy. Shes trying to shift the blame on you for the stupid act she does dont fall for the guilt shit.

The part she said she realized the other dude is not serious dont mind her she came to understand that you were better than the guy in all ramifications she's weighed you both and she realized u are a better man to the other dude.

The gift, I think she's trying to use it to soften your mind for you to relate with her i.e trying to hook your attention with the gift.

Note: if you found out she fvcked another dude biko dont hesitate to help her with her loads to the nearest pack.

My observation based on what you typed up there Good nyt bro!

That's just it. That's women nature, they will still find a way to push the blame. She wanted to be emotional so I could pity her not knowing that I've already calculated her steps with red pill lenses. Even if she bleeped or not that's none of my concern because to be honest I feel like I should let her be.

She's just trying win me back and even if we are to get back together she's gonna play by my rules or she's out completely! If I'm to be a cruel guy, I will just toy with her emotions and dump her later but I don't do that. I will just let her be.. Thank you Sir

TheUndercover:


That's just it. That's women nature, they will still find a way to push the blame. She wanted to be emotional so I could pity her not knowing that I've already calculated her steps with red pill lenses. Even if she bleeped or not that's none of my concern because to be honest I feel like I should let her be.

She's just trying win me back and even if we are to get back together she's gonna play by my rules or she's out completely! If I'm to be a cruel guy, I will just toy with her emotions and dump her later but I don't do that. I will just let her be.. Thank you Sir

Exactly they will find ways to shift the blame, always hold her for her actions she's is a human not animal that's why The Creator gave us thinking faculty to think b4 doing things.

If she gonna play by ur rules nd u wanna marry her true true u can reconsider her provided she never fvck another dude and if shes willingly to submit to you biko never break her heart

fcdgrand:
romance is not for you if you are true redpiller because romance bring love in you and love bring weakness and weakness bring you down. no attension for over used pussy, make her a baby mama and take the child but if she is a virgin i mean hymen intact virgin marry her

The guy still lacks deep understanding of the red pill. From his write-up, you could tell that he is still in his one-itis phase and worrying about his girl - classic feature of a beta.

To be able to have a girl, you must be ready to lose her. Personally, I'll advise the guy to ignore the red pill and worship his special woman. Men in love are poorly receptive of the red pill or even aggressively against it. I stopped making mention of TRP to them as they find it absurd. The good thing is that women will always punish them for their weakness and they run back to the red pill. By that time, the homeboy would understand it better.

NeduLuiZ:
Cardi B came out to say she drugs men and rob them during her stripper days ...nobody coughed!

Why would anyone cough when the society worships her type as the Strong Independent Woman

The bîitch has taken her slutty ass to onlyfans to get some of that valuable simp money and attention. When hoes marry, they never retire, they only go on vacation.

fattprince:

I said same thing on ashewo but someone was insulting like its his marriage.

You shouldn't care what they say, though, it's unexpected. However, do try not to make it known to everyone that you have an aversion to marriage. A lot don't care and a lot don't understand and might start to get at you. Also, if you are in business, you might lose money from married beta clients who may call you "irresponsible". Your money or business connections is the most important. The rest is personal. Keep it to yourself.

I've been on my purpose and making a decent life (by Nigerian standards) for myself. I've had the the so-called good, loyal soulmate wives of my friends flirt secretly with me for a good fûck. Things that I have seen from women in marriages and long term relationship of my male acquaintances and friends eeehhhhnnnn, I don't envy the marriage or married folks. I've seen some guys open thread discussing their sexcapades with married women. If you have a good game, and a very low-key discreet personality, the married women to these betas are easier to get laid than a street hooker.

Meedon:



That is their problem bro.

If you don't follow them to do what the society dictates for them, they will see as evil person - or better still a worthless person.


But that is their problem

#singlelife

can you handle the pressure

milann:
can you handle the pressure

I can't lie the pressure is very much

Akinbahm:


Exactly they will find ways to shift the blame, always hold her for her actions she's is a human not animal that's why The Creator gave us thinking faculty to think b4 doing things.

If she gonna play by ur rules nd u wanna marry her true true u can reconsider her provided she never fvck another dude and if shes willingly to submit to you biko never break her heart

I always let her face the charge when she does something wrong and I applaud her when she does something right. She respects me for this.

Yes, that was my plan for her. Although this was what I had in mind, if she fvcked, then she's a gonner already.

Skepticus:


You shouldn't care what they say, though, it's unexpected. However, do try not to make it known to everyone that you have an aversion to marriage. A lot don't care and a lot don't understand and might start to get at you. Also, if you are in business, you might lose money from married beta clients who may call you "irresponsible". Your money or business connections is the most important. The rest is personal. Keep it to yourself just like the OP.

I've been on my purpose and making a decent life (by Nigerian standards) for myself. I've had the the so-called good, loyal soulmate wives of my friends flirt secretly with me for a good fûck. Things that I have seen from women in marriages and long term relationship of my male acquaintances and friends eeehhhhnnnn, I don't envy the marriage or married folks. I've seen some guys open thread discussing their sexcapades with married women. If you have a good game, and a very low-key discreet personality, the married women to these betas are easier to get laid than a street hooker.

True. I should keep it to myself from now on. Thanks for the insight to now think I've always thought to tell girls I'm planning on laying that I'm not cut of for marriage. Foolish me, where is the mystery if I tell them from the onset. Once again thanks man.

One other thing. I like how you explain things to we that one to become redpilled. No insult or shaming. You are a real Alpha.

fattprince:

True. I should keep it to myself from now on. Thanks for the insight to now think I've always thought to tell girls I'm planning on laying that I'm not cut of for marriage. Foolish me, where is the mystery if I tell them from the onset. Once again thanks man.

One other thing. I like how you explain things to we that one to become redpilled. No insult or shaming. You are a real Alpha.

Thanks for the compliment. If you insult or just aggressive for no reason, you are still insecure and not comfortable in your own skin.

Brother, do understand that staying unmarried or avoiding long term relationships like cohabitation comes with its own negatives too. The real question should be is can you cope with and overcome this negatives. I've made up my mind to accept the consequences because when I weigh it with the benefits, the benefits favour me and my ambitions better. It may not be the same for the next man.

When it comes to telling people about your decision not to give out your commitment to an exclusive woman, it should be only with friends/acquaintances that vibes with you on a deeper closer level and family. Family would often object but with time as you better yourself as a man, they'll most likely accept you for being yourself. With others, you can deflect by telling them that you are still on the search for a good woman, trying to make more money to impress your woman (pretending to be a beta to throw them off) etc. Sometimes, you can fake it (for me, I do wear a wedding ring on my 4th finger to prevent them asking me these silly questions. You may also find ladies giving you mating signals too as long as you are fit and look good. A man with a wedding ring gives a signal to other ladies that you have resources and capable of attracting women).

Not giving out commitment doesn't mean you can't get sex or engage in short term relationships. You have the benefits of being in control of your time, space with room to manoeuvre.

In all, make sure you stay on your purpose and making moves (hustle and health) to always be better.

Skepticus:


Thanks for the compliment. If you insult or just aggressive for no reason, you are still insecure and not comfortable in your own skin.

Brother, do understand that staying unmarried or avoiding long term relationships like cohabitation comes with its own negatives too. The real question should be is can you cope with and overcome this negatives. I've made up my mind to accept the consequences because when I weigh it with the benefits, the benefits favour me and my ambitions better. It may not be the same for the next man.

When it comes to telling people about your decision not to give out your commitment to an exclusive woman, it should be only with friends/acquaintances that vibes with you on a deeper closer level and family. Family would often object but with time as you better yourself as a man, they'll most likely accept you for being yourself. With others, you can deflect by telling them that you are still on the search for a good woman, trying to make more money to impress your woman (pretending to be a beta to throw them off) etc. Sometimes, you can fake it (for me, I do wear a wedding ring on my 4th finger to prevent them asking me these silly questions. You may also find ladies giving you mating signals too as long as you are fit and look good. A man with a wedding ring gives a signal to other ladies that you have resources and capable of attracting women).

Not giving out commitment doesn't mean you can't get sex or engage in short term relationships. You have the benefits of being in control of your time, space with room to manoeuvre.

In all, make sure you stay on your purpose and making moves (hustle and health) to always be better.

I'm on the fence on this issue. I haven't made up my mind yet, but a part of me wants me to pick this mgtow part. It's been a year since I last been in a relationship and to be honest, with everyday I get a clearer view of what I want. Within this one year, I learned to control my anger, learned a powerful skill (information Marketing) and I picked up programming too which rn I'm very conversant with python as a language and now I'm learning Javascript to become a web developer (goal is to become full stack). A year without any woman, no calls from anyone, no ups no downs no keeping my mind preoccupied with "what is she doing right now" or "who knows who she's with" thoughts. I'm planning on going another one year because I have a lot of goals I want to accomplish like hitting the gym, learning PHP, getting a job as a programmer getting another source of income and I fear one year would not be enough.

I didn't pick this path because women rejected me, no! I'm very good looking even gay guys hit on me but I'm not gay. It's just, I realized I spent my love on the wrong person instead of on me. I'm the right person to spend my love on. I should have loved me!

Well what I'm saying is, after next year June (because that's when I started this journey) I'd check if I'd continue or not. But from the look of things, I might disappoint my momma in giving her a daughter in-law.

Regex:


I'm on the fence on this issue. I haven't made up my mind yet, but a part of me wants me to pick this mgtow part. It's been a year since I last been in a relationship and to be honest, with everyday I get a clearer view of what I want. Within this one year, I learned to control my anger, learned a powerful skill (information Marketing) and I picked up programming too which rn I'm very conversant with python as a language and now I'm learning Javascript to become a web developer (goal is to become full stack). A year without any woman, no calls from anyone, no ups no downs no keeping my mind preoccupied with "what is she doing right now" or "who knows who she's with" thoughts. I'm planning on going another one year because I have a lot of goals I want to accomplish like hitting the gym, learning PHP, getting a job as a programmer getting another source of income and I fear one year would not be enough.

I didn't pick this path because women rejected me, no! I'm very good looking even gay guys hit on me but I'm not gay. It's just, I realized I spent my love on the wrong person instead of on me. I'm the right person to spend my love on. I should have loved me!

Well what I'm saying is, after next year June (because that's when I started this journey) I'd check if I'd continue or not. But from the look of things, I might disappoint my momma in giving her a daughter in-law.

Personally, methinks you'll get back into the dating scene and be purple-pilled. That's perfectly fine. At least, you know what you are getting into, and being the best you can be while committing exclusively to a woman who is worth it. Not some used, out of shape thot. It wouldn't eliminate her manipulations and shit-testing but you can predict patterns and put it in control.

The path you took is the one I admire best which is, going your own way for a while before getting back to the dating scene. I notice that it works better for men in the long run than advising men to game women or rush back into the dating scene immediately after being exposed to the red pill. For the latter, some may be successful but for the former, the beta-conditioning from childbirth that a man can't do without a woman will be broken off and for the first time, the man realizes that he can actually chart a course in his life without worrying about what the society thinks of him in relation to his ambitions and women. Whether he gets back to dating or going his own way, simping, thirstiness and sexual frustration is reduced, destructive behaviours from desperate sexually frustrated men like rape, crimes of passion is eliminated.

Skepticus:


Personally, methinks you'll get back into the dating scene and be purple-pilled. That's perfectly fine. At least, you know what you are getting into, and being the best you can be while committing exclusively to a woman who is worth it. Not some used, out of shape thot. It wouldn't eliminate her manipulations and shit-testing but you can predict patterns and put it in control.

The path you took is the one I admire best which is, going your own way for a while before getting back to the dating scene. I notice that it works better for men in the long run than advising men to game women or rush back into the dating scene immediately after being exposed to the red pill. For the latter, some may be successful but for the former, the beta-conditioning from childbirth that a man can't do without a woman will be broken off and for the first time, the man realizes that he can actually chart a course in his life without worrying about what the society thinks of him in relation to his ambitions and women. Whether he gets back to dating or going his own way, simping, thirstiness and sexual frustration is reduced, destructive behaviours from desperate sexually frustrated men like rape, crimes of passion is eliminated.

I might, like you said. Thing is, my development first.

Good day everyone...
I can see you guys have gone far

Example of c0ck carousel that happen during a relationship is

¶ when she uses an excuse that you guys need space that she wants to discover herself.

¶ Another way is she caused problem for no reason or accused you of something you didn't do and then starts avoiding you for a particular period of time.

¶ Another way is her switching off her phone for a particular period of time and not calling back for no just cause.

Stories of female Promiscuity

Regex:


I'm on the fence on this issue. I haven't made up my mind yet, but a part of me wants me to pick this mgtow part. It's been a year since I last been in a relationship and to be honest, with everyday I get a clearer view of what I want. Within this one year, I learned to control my anger, learned a powerful skill (information Marketing) and I picked up programming too which rn I'm very conversant with python as a language and now I'm learning Javascript to become a web developer (goal is to become full stack). A year without any woman, no calls from anyone, no ups no downs no keeping my mind preoccupied with "what is she doing right now" or "who knows who she's with" thoughts. I'm planning on going another one year because I have a lot of goals I want to accomplish like hitting the gym, learning PHP, getting a job as a programmer getting another source of income and I fear one year would not be enough.

I didn't pick this path because women rejected me, no! I'm very good looking even gay guys hit on me but I'm not gay. It's just, I realized I spent my love on the wrong person instead of on me. I'm the right person to spend my love on. I should have loved me!

Well what I'm saying is, after next year June (because that's when I started this journey) I'd check if I'd continue or not. But from the look of things, I might disappoint my momma in giving her a daughter in-law.

Abeg ooo, no go give her son-in-law instead, dis one that gay community r have positioned there telescope at u.