Regex:


I'm on the fence on this issue. I haven't made up my mind yet, but a part of me wants me to pick this mgtow part. It's been a year since I last been in a relationship and to be honest, with everyday I get a clearer view of what I want. Within this one year, I learned to control my anger, learned a powerful skill (information Marketing) and I picked up programming too which rn I'm very conversant with python as a language and now I'm learning Javascript to become a web developer (goal is to become full stack). A year without any woman, no calls from anyone, no ups no downs no keeping my mind preoccupied with "what is she doing right now" or "who knows who she's with" thoughts. I'm planning on going another one year because I have a lot of goals I want to accomplish like hitting the gym, learning PHP, getting a job as a programmer getting another source of income and I fear one year would not be enough.

I didn't pick this path because women rejected me, no! I'm very good looking even gay guys hit on me but I'm not gay. It's just, I realized I spent my love on the wrong person instead of on me. I'm the right person to spend my love on. I should have loved me!

Well what I'm saying is, after next year June (because that's when I started this journey) I'd check if I'd continue or not. But from the look of things, I might disappoint my momma in giving her a daughter in-law.

PUNAengineOIL:
@the bolded, don't make it a goal. You have to find a way of embedding it into your lifestyle.
Take food for example, you don't make eating a goal, you eat when you are hungry no matter how busy you are. Maintaining a healthy fitness routine is very important for your physical, mental, emotional and even psychological wellbeing.

You can start today with 2 sets of 30 pushups every morning and evening, add 10 - 20 reps of sit-ups to your evening sessions, for the start you can squat 20 reps with your body weight alone, repeat twice.

If you can do this for 30 days consistently, you will notice the changes in you. At that time, you will start getting the urge to lift more. You dont have to hit the gym all the time, but you can stay fit always.

Dpsychologist:
Have You heard of the 11th commandment? Well ladies keep the 11th commandment.

The 11th commandment says, "don't get caught."

Alot of men are cheats. But women make even better cheats.

How a man cheats
Catching a man cheating is as easy as ABC. Men are careless and will leave evidence lying at every corner...a condom in his laptop bag, lipstick on his shirt or cheek,a girls pant in his bathroom, make up kit in his car, earrings in his apartment, a girls hair strands on his carpet etc

Most times ladies caught guys pant down with another lady because for a guy to have sex he usually invites a lady to his house.

If a lady Wants to Caught him she will come to his house unannounced and may see him with another lady. Whereas most ladies visit guys to have sex and so won't get caught easily.

As for social media he will never delete his chat with ladies, maybe he wants to brag about it. Men are terrible at cheating, it takes a smart guy to be good.

kenneth2057:
Dpsychologist
You got Rollo's books on pdf?
How can i get your number?

Brunosamel:
@Dpychologist

Please is there anything wrong with this sms
Cuz my girlfriend broke with me because of it this morning

TheUndercover:


Hmm, to my own opinion, you don't need to acknowledge that women are flocking you, of course she sees that, saying that will just hurt her more. Hope your words is not contradicting with your actions? Like hope you're not doing things that will make her keep questioning your love for her? Its true to always let ladies be on their toes that you can always leave but it has to come in moderation bro but don't be dependent on her and don't let her take you for granted or disrespect you.

Ladies find it hard to trust guys that are ladies man, but since you've assured her but she's still doubting you (I hope you're not cheating also) then just act normal around her and ignore her when she brings it up again, that if she cannot trust you she should let you be. But if she insists, there's a chance she might be cheating also.

Brunosamel:
thanks bro I have tried talking to her but she is not giving me a listening ears, she have refuse to pick my call... I love her and I have never cheated on her although she have been acting lately I guess thats the way she want it to be I can't do other wise...

Brunosamel:
thanks bro I have tried talking to her but she is not giving me a listening ears, she have refuse to pick my call... I love her and I have never cheated on her although she have been acting lately I guess thats the way she want it to be I can't do other wise...

Brunosamel:
thanks bro I have tried talking to her but she is not giving me a listening ears, she have refuse to pick my call... I love her and I have never cheated on her although she have been acting lately I guess thats the way she want it to be I can't do other wise...

Pstarogood0100:



From what you said, you told her how women flocks around you. That's bad of you to be sincere. You don't tell woman. Let them see it theirself in a cunning way. You don't tell them but show them

There are many ways to do it. If you are the type that doesn't double date but then, you just need to let her know that you have options. You want to prove to her that you choose not to double date her not because you can't or not because other ladies are rejecting you.

Its too mediocrity to tell your partner that other ladies wants to get along with you. Let her see it and believe it not by telling her.

Let me share my recent story with you. A day after the boyfriend day, I was chatting with my girlfriend. She asked me about how I spent my boyfriend day. I took the opportunity to make her jealous and to prove to her that I have options. But I didn't tell her directly.

I waited for the conservation to suit my plan. I was lucky when she asked me how I spent it and who did I go out with. I sent her a picture of a beautiful lady and I. I asked if she recognized the lady in the picture. Immediately, I deleted the picture. She became uncomfortable and asked me why I deleted the picture. I claimed I didn't have the intention of sending the picture, Infact "am not interested in the conversation any more".

She insisted that I must resend the picture. That was how I ended the chat with her. She called me a cheat. I told her different story entirely about the girl. She claimed I went out with her on the boyfriend day. I told her something differently about the lady.

At the end of the day, after much quarrels and argument. I admitted that the lady in question called me and forced me on that very boyfriend day to go out with me. I apologized to my girlfriend and told her that it won't happen again.

NOTE: the story about going out with another lady was framed up. It didn't happen. Naturally, I don't have time for ladies let alone flirting around. Am much into what will profit me financially and self development than chasing ladies around. However, getting ladies is never a problem to me.

But, sometimes we just have to do certain things just to balance up, which you were trying to do. But to me you messed up by telling her directly.

@ Brunosamel
There are many ways to communicate it to her by telling her you have options or other ladies want you. You just need to play your card well.

DONT TELL BUT LET IT BE SEEN.

TheUndercover:


Then ignore her, if she's not giving you listening ears then it's her headache not yours. Don't call her. Don't let any girl to emotionally drain you. Just focus on yourself bro and keep handling productive activities.

When she comes around, Don't be so cheap, let her chase you then after a while calm her down and hurt her with the truth. Tell her you won't tolerate that type of attitude any longer. If she doesn't trust you or she brings up any similar issues like this that you won't have any choice than to stop the relationship with her since you can't be with who can't trust you. I guess you guys are in a sexual relationship right? Hope she's faithful also sha ?

Brunosamel:
yes we are, she gave me her virginity...

Brunosamel:
thanks bro I won't be direct next time, but for what is worth I have learn my lesson... But I guess our time together is due

Pstarogood0100:




EASIER SAID THAN DONE

From what you said, she gave you her virginity. It implies that you have both come a long way, sweet memories and you have both shared a lot in common. So, how do you think you can do without such person easily. It won't be easy for you bro . You can't let go of the feelings you have for her easily. Try as you can, you won't be able to suppress the feeling for too long even when you try to forget her completely, its not just possible. Trying to forget her will work for you for sometime but won't last for a long time. And if you are not careful enough, you will be the one to beg her for reconciliation. I have been there before and I know how you feel right now.


But, at this point you need to swallow the redpill and accept the truth.

You have both come a long way, you disvirgin her right? You have both share sweet memories and all the good time.

At this time, you need to sit and analyse the situation. you need to ask yourself this questions and answer it by yourself.

1. Who is misbehaving between the two of you.

2. Are you sure you are not the one overreacting?

3. Are you sure she is not beginning to cheat on you? Because ladies start to misbehave when cheating you with another person.

Now, relax and take a deep breath. Don't take it too far as you are taking it.

Sometimes, in a relationship the partners tend to loose interest in each other because of too much availability. We might want to try something new, that's human nature. The relationship might become boring sometimes, you know...

Now listen. From your write up, she is the one misbehaving. Because, for you to tell her to her face that you can get any lady anytime you like shows that she must have been doing something worth suspicious of cheating. And for she to start avoiding you because of telling her that you have the capable of getting another lady without stress. Its a clear indication that she is up to something nasty before you told her, but she want to use what you told her to her advantage. Don't fall for it.

Even though, you told her you have options, is not enough for her to take it to the level she is taking it to. DON'T FALL FOR SUCH TRICK . she's only doing what she has in mind to do and now you have given her reason to do it. At the end of the day she would want to play the BLAME GAME.

IF YOU ASK ME OF MY OPINION ABOUT THIS.

For me, she is your girlfriend and you truly love her, even if you deny this FACT .I know that you truly love her. So, breaking up with her is not what you should consider.

In as much as redpill doesnt preach manipulating or treating women badly . I won't advice you to hate her for her action rather, you need to take the bold action and command the situation to your favour. She is your woman, so is your duty to take what belongs to you and that's what you truly want. But, because you are clueless of what to do to get her back that's why you are considering breakup.

There is always bitter feelings when we break up with our partner when they are the one that facilitate the breakup. But, we feel fulfilled when we successfully break up with them because we don't want them again. The later is always better.

Now, in your case. She is the one trying to cause the breakup but it would have been better if you break up with her rather than she breaking up with you. It is always good when you are the one breaking up with her than she breaking up with you.

THIS IS WHAT YOU WILL DO IF YOU STILL WANT HER BACK.

Swallow the redpill and accept the truth. You are not married to her and that doesn't make her your property. So, she has the right to explore other things out there. And may be that's what she has been trying to do and now she wants to make you see that you have given her reason to do that.

As for you, you need to have abundant mentality. Not by saying it but by doing it. You need to make yourself scarce at the moment and you must ensure it 100%. This is the only way to get her back. For what she wants to explore out there won't favour her. However , it will favour her if you can't let go of her at the moment. THIS IS NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH swallow the truth has a man. For I know for sure that it won't be easy for you to let go of her. But you need to do it at the moment if you want to get her back. She will definitely come back to you.

While she keep flirting with another guy. Use this opportunity to brush yourself up and soak yourself up into the ocean of redpill and upgrade your game to the highest level. Life is too short to worry about those who don't want us.

Understand those things that must have make her to consider cheating and make yourself better in those things. Lean to improve yourself, focus more on yourself than focusing on her. You must not always assume she will be with you because of the love she has for you, instead always make yourself better and work on yourself to suit what your partner desires. Try to become who your partner want instead of building your relationship on love. Even though this is not a sure guaranteed to keep her forever but it will enable you to move on faster after break up and life in general.

WHAT SHOULD YOU DO FROM HERE.

Always go close to her and pretend as if you have nothing against her. Don't ever you quarrel with her over anything until you see any tangible something to accuse her with. Accuse her if you find any evidence and prove and if you don't see anything it will worsen the case if you accuse her, by then it will all become your fault.

Any which way, if she keeps annoying you and avoiding you, quarrel her over it and just ignore her by all means. Keep distance with her. By all means avoid her call. Delete her number from your phone for this will help you avoid any temptation of calling her. PLEASE, make sure you keep to this attitude until she comes back to you. And if she didn't come back, move on with your life. There are many fishes in the river. You are a man and you must learn to move on in life.

For , I know for sure that she will come back. SHE WILL DEFINITELY COME BACK. You don't have anything to fear about loosing her, she is still yours if you play the game right. She will come back. But make yourself unavailable for her for she to miss you and regret her action.

Brunosamel:
I went out to eat while I was In the shop and she called me and told me that she's in the shop I told her to wait for me that am coming.. When I got the shop a customer was already there I didn't give any attention I just ignored her for the time being to attend the the customer.. She was looking at me but I didn't utter any word...

The next thing I did was to say am sorry and now asked why she acted that way, breaking up with me just like that, she said i caused it that she was sick and I was busy texting another girl... That she needed my attention and I didn't give it her, when she saw the text she was devastated...

Anyway I talked sense into her and explained my ordeal although she was still acting up, I just ignored her cuz all she needed more attention, i did withdraw it a bit.... The next thing she did was to cuddled me from the back, I turned and kissed her and reassured her that there's nothing to worry about, I told her I love her and am not cheating on her and that was it

I had to fixed an appointment the go out on a date this evening, to make it up to her...

I can't afford to loose her, I know am being too hard cuz all she ever wanted was my attention but I failed to keep up to that, I was too hard on her I guess I have learned my lesson

Thanks allot you are indeed a true unknown friend and a wonderful adviser... I appreciate!

PhillipPHD:
Once a female is no longer a virgin, she’s like a car put on neutral gear, she has no bearing of her own. She will sway according to the direction a capable male swings her to.

Pstarogood0100:




EASIER SAID THAN DONE

From what you said, she gave you her virginity. It implies that you have both come a long way, sweet memories and you have both shared a lot in common. So, how do you think you can do without such person easily. It won't be easy for you bro . You can't let go of the feelings you have for her easily. Try as you can, you won't be able to suppress the feeling for too long even when you try to forget her completely, its not just possible. Trying to forget her will work for you for sometime but won't last for a long time. And if you are not careful enough, you will be the one to beg her for reconciliation. I have been there before and I know how you feel right now.


But, at this point you need to swallow the redpill and accept the truth.

You have both come a long way, you disvirgin her right? You have both share sweet memories and all the good time.

At this time, you need to sit and analyse the situation. you need to ask yourself this questions and answer it by yourself.

1. Who is misbehaving between the two of you.

2. Are you sure you are not the one overreacting?

3. Are you sure she is not beginning to cheat on you? Because ladies start to misbehave when cheating you with another person.

Now, relax and take a deep breath. Don't take it too far as you are taking it.

Sometimes, in a relationship the partners tend to loose interest in each other because of too much availability. We might want to try something new, that's human nature. The relationship might become boring sometimes, you know...

Now listen. From your write up, she is the one misbehaving. Because, for you to tell her to her face that you can get any lady anytime you like shows that she must have been doing something worth suspicious of cheating. And for she to start avoiding you because of telling her that you have the capable of getting another lady without stress. Its a clear indication that she is up to something nasty before you told her, but she want to use what you told her to her advantage. Don't fall for it.

Even though, you told her you have options, is not enough for her to take it to the level she is taking it to. DON'T FALL FOR SUCH TRICK . she's only doing what she has in mind to do and now you have given her reason to do it. At the end of the day she would want to play the BLAME GAME.

IF YOU ASK ME OF MY OPINION ABOUT THIS.

For me, she is your girlfriend and you truly love her, even if you deny this FACT .I know that you truly love her. So, breaking up with her is not what you should consider.

In as much as redpill doesnt preach manipulating or treating women badly . I won't advice you to hate her for her action rather, you need to take the bold action and command the situation to your favour. She is your woman, so is your duty to take what belongs to you and that's what you truly want. But, because you are clueless of what to do to get her back that's why you are considering breakup.

There is always bitter feelings when we break up with our partner when they are the one that facilitate the breakup. But, we feel fulfilled when we successfully break up with them because we don't want them again. The later is always better.

Now, in your case. She is the one trying to cause the breakup but it would have been better if you break up with her rather than she breaking up with you. It is always good when you are the one breaking up with her than she breaking up with you.

THIS IS WHAT YOU WILL DO IF YOU STILL WANT HER BACK.

Swallow the redpill and accept the truth. You are not married to her and that doesn't make her your property. So, she has the right to explore other things out there. And may be that's what she has been trying to do and now she wants to make you see that you have given her reason to do that.

As for you, you need to have abundant mentality. Not by saying it but by doing it. You need to make yourself scarce at the moment and you must ensure it 100%. This is the only way to get her back. For what she wants to explore out there won't favour her. However , it will favour her if you can't let go of her at the moment. THIS IS NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH swallow the truth has a man. For I know for sure that it won't be easy for you to let go of her. But you need to do it at the moment if you want to get her back. She will definitely come back to you.

While she keep flirting with another guy. Use this opportunity to brush yourself up and soak yourself up into the ocean of redpill and upgrade your game to the highest level. Life is too short to worry about those who don't want us.

Understand those things that must have make her to consider cheating and make yourself better in those things. Lean to improve yourself, focus more on yourself than focusing on her. You must not always assume she will be with you because of the love she has for you, instead always make yourself better and work on yourself to suit what your partner desires. Try to become who your partner want instead of building your relationship on love. Even though this is not a sure guaranteed to keep her forever but it will enable you to move on faster after break up and life in general.

WHAT SHOULD YOU DO FROM HERE.

Always go close to her and pretend as if you have nothing against her. Don't ever you quarrel with her over anything until you see any tangible something to accuse her with. Accuse her if you find any evidence and prove and if you don't see anything it will worsen the case if you accuse her, by then it will all become your fault.

Any which way, if she keeps annoying you and avoiding you, quarrel her over it and just ignore her by all means. Keep distance with her. By all means avoid her call. Delete her number from your phone for this will help you avoid any temptation of calling her. PLEASE, make sure you keep to this attitude until she comes back to you. And if she didn't come back, move on with your life. There are many fishes in the river. You are a man and you must learn to move on in life.

For , I know for sure that she will come back. SHE WILL DEFINITELY COME BACK. You don't have anything to fear about loosing her, she is still yours if you play the game right. She will come back. But make yourself unavailable for her for she to miss you and regret her action.