Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 8:10pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
[quote author=Birdeyeview post=94844834][/quote] she's not remorseful probably because she doesn't see nothing wrong,you shouldn't too,I know we don't like it when our friends date our siblings but you need to be mature and overlook it |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by nasir101(m): 8:10pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
Slawormir: Damnnn niggarrr ....
Isoright...friends go always loose guard us...but that nor mean say we nor go keep friends because say one or two friends don first loose guard us before...
Me way one of my guy loose guard in 2016....the guy wake up the morning of the day he want travel to Abuja go meet he boss for huzzle kingdom....he wake up to realize say he laptop nor green on...immediately na im he beg me for my hp laptop( the only laptop when I dey use as at that time unto say man pikin broke)...but i no reason am..i just give am....unto say my kind heart This guy reach Abuja...good six months he nor collect anything...na so hungry dey beat am...he go dey call me I go dey give am hope..even send am small small money make he take dey support he feeding unto say their boss dey feed them only once in a day.. God run am for am...na im the guy pick...but the boss percentage too much......I come advice am make he return to Benin come dey huzzle on he own afterall he don learn some work, tools and format... The guy enter Benin...before you know it my guy dey collect am steadily... Surprisingly or rather i shock when this guy start to dey loose guard me....if I call am he nor dey pick and return call...and funny enough the reason I dey call am na make we dey together as we dey do before dey smoke weed and most importantly make he help me tie weed....because as at that time I nor sabi tie weed...and na him introduce me to weed smoking....by constantly tieing it for me.... but the idiot was thinking because he now has a little money that is why am calling him and wanting to be around him The one that reallly got to me or rather got me annoyed was the day I called him three times and he didn't pick ...from that day I stopped calling him...for one year I didn't call him...when he realize his mistake he called me one day but I picked and we talked but deep down inside me our friendship can never remain the same And thank God..I can tie weed now....am a professional in weed tieing as am typing now bad man |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Goalnaldo(m): 8:11pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
Kccheechy: Mine was in exam hall. Final year 2nd semester exams. We were writing MTH425. After reading for so long, my head just went blank. I couldn't assimilate anything anymore. My friend who I had taken as a brother studied with me. I got into the exam hall as saw the questions. You know how exam questions can be na, 1 question will have so many children under it. Out of four we are to answer, I knew just 1 and even that 1 I couldn't answer it completely. if I failed that course, it would earn me an extra year in school. I was confused and spent. Most of the questions came from our handouts but to solve one question can take a full page of A4 paper on both sides. My brain just couldn't take it anymore. My friend was sitting behind me and was already on his third question. You know how we communicate in the hall na. I asked him to help me with one question so I can answer two in total. He assured me that he would help me with the answers to one question. My hopes were high. Only for my guy to stand up to go and submit and left the hall. Went out and started laughing. If he was laughing at me I can't remember. I was shocked!!! If he didn't want to help me, he should have told me then I know what to do. He left me hanging. Till today I can't understand why he did that. The thought of spending another year in school because of 1 course really broke my heart. when I saw there was nothing else I could do, I went to submit my almost blank answer booklet. Long story short, I got a D grade in that course. That was far better than repeating another year. My ex-friend got a D grade to upon everything. A coursemate of mine did the same thing to me. We agreed on helping each other when the need arises. She asked me the ones she didn't know and I told her but when I asked her, she keep covering her work I'm not among the best in my department but I don't depend on people. 1 Like |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Mickeydray(m): 8:12pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
Life has its own way of teaching you... Those three bastard stole my money and later tried to accuse my twin brother (he has access to my account) of their crime. I was only trying to be a good person. That incident really caused me a lot. But one thing i have come to understand is; man will always be man (selfish, egocentric and opportunistic). 9 Likes |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by virginprincess(f): 8:12pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
Aaaaarghmed: A rapist should be reported no matter what,he might do it to someone else.If he had succeeded wud u still be keeping mute because of his friendship with ur bro.There wud be no next time but learn from this. Thanks very much for the advice. |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by emkz: 8:13pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
When I did one deal and got small doe. This guy came with plenty tricks to collect a pie. I cut him off. 2 Likes |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by OrjiAlex(m): 8:14pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
He was squatting in my room @skull and I had issue with my babe and he was advising me to let her go wen she comes 2 see me and maybe am still in skull he and the gal were fucking behind my back I never said anyfin 2 him or her I just left them 2 be fucking she eventually came back 2 me with some stupid story and she later confessed wen I was serving (NYSC). Till now I HV not discussed it with my so called friend I just gradually gave him some space and place him were he belongs. Friends r good and important but we need 2 be very careful. 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Birdeyeview: 8:14pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
fabiano09: she's not remorseful probably because she doesn't see nothing wrong,you shouldn't too,I know we don't like it when our friends date our siblings but you need to be mature and overlook it It's been years past now. We're better grown-up's now |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by NihiIist(m): 8:15pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
Tenshades:
Same here bro.
That thought just came to my brain earlier today.
No time.
If they say make I bring best man I don't even know who to use because the person I'll bring can never use me during his own. He'll use someone else. So it's better I just go for a relative. Probably a cousin or my brother as best man. 3 Likes |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Preye1599(m): 8:16pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
Back when I still Dey trust people, my second year in university, me and my 2 guys Dey my house, my second phone loss��♂️ |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 8:16pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
Birdeyeview:
It's been years past now. We're better grown-up's now wow years past and you still holding that grudge ,it's a big baggage you're carrying o,what's your age bracket ? |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by virginprincess(f): 8:16pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
Fussion1000: .
Friends! With little experience on earth is more of problems than good, the more you have friends, the more problems from friends, when there is money friends will show face, but during time of hardship, the same friends will be the one to backbite you first. Very through. |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by krownie: 8:20pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
Slawormir: Damnnn niggarrr ....
Isoright...friends go always loose guard us...but that nor mean say we nor go keep friends because say one or two friends don first loose guard us before...
Me way one of my guy loose guard in 2016....the guy wake up the morning of the day he want travel to Abuja go meet he boss for huzzle kingdom....he wake up to realize say he laptop nor green on...immediately na im he beg me for my hp laptop( the only laptop when I dey use as at that time unto say man pikin broke)...but i no reason am..i just give am....unto say my kind heart This guy reach Abuja...good six months he nor collect anything...na so hungry dey beat am...he go dey call me I go dey give am hope..even send am small small money make he take dey support he feeding unto say their boss dey feed them only once in a day.. God run am for am...na im the guy pick...but the boss percentage too much......I come advice am make he return to Benin come dey huzzle on he own afterall he don learn some work, tools and format... The guy enter Benin...before you know it my guy dey collect am steadily... Surprisingly or rather i shock when this guy start to dey loose guard me....if I call am he nor dey pick and return call...and funny enough the reason I dey call am na make we dey together as we dey do before dey smoke weed and most importantly make he help me tie weed....because as at that time I nor sabi tie weed...and na him introduce me to weed smoking....by constantly tieing it for me.... but the idiot was thinking because he now has a little money that is why am calling him and wanting to be around him The one that reallly got to me or rather got me annoyed was the day I called him three times and he didn't pick ...from that day I stopped calling him...for one year I didn't call him...when he realize his mistake he called me one day but I picked and we talked but deep down inside me our friendship can never remain the same And thank God..I can tie weed now....am a professional in weed tieing as am typing now |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by IamAsiri: 8:22pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
Kccheechy: Mine was in exam hall. Final year 2nd semester exams. We were writing MTH425. After reading for so long, my head just went blank. I couldn't assimilate anything anymore. My friend who I had taken as a brother studied with me. I got into the exam hall as saw the questions. You know how exam questions can be na, 1 question will have so many children under it. Out of four we are to answer, I knew just 1 and even that 1 I couldn't answer it completely. if I failed that course, it would earn me an extra year in school. I was confused and spent. Most of the questions came from our handouts but to solve one question can take a full page of A4 paper on both sides. My brain just couldn't take it anymore. My friend was sitting behind me and was already on his third question. You know how we communicate in the hall na. I asked him to help me with one question so I can answer two in total. He assured me that he would help me with the answers to one question. My hopes were high. Only for my guy to stand up to go and submit and left the hall. Went out and started laughing. If he was laughing at me I can't remember. I was shocked!!! If he didn't want to help me, he should have told me then I know what to do. He left me hanging. Till today I can't understand why he did that. The thought of spending another year in school because of 1 course really broke my heart. when I saw there was nothing else I could do, I went to submit my almost blank answer booklet. Long story short, I got a D grade in that course. That was far better than repeating another year. My ex-friend got a D grade to upon everything. You mean he got a D upon all his effizy? But you have to thank your lucky stars he didn't teach you anything o. 1.He could have ensured you failed by giving you one of his wonderful solutions or 2. He might have gotten angry if he had taught you and you eventually got probably a B or a C. 4 Likes |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by angelfallz(m): 8:22pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
DasaintHope: Earlier this year someone I called my best friend for about 7 years now betrayed me. Nigga came to me at my house and asked me to help him process a loan application inn the cyber cafe. I told him to wait till I finished sewing some items, since I also needed to print out something. I finished, went to the bathroom and came out naked to dress. unbeknown to me this Nigga had taken my nude pics, luckily it wasfrom the back, but it was still recognizable sha.. This guy didn't tell me nothing, he passed the photo to one of our other guy and gave this guy his phone to log in Facebook and post the pic. The worst part was that this Nigga tagged me on the post. And we were together that morning laughing together, as a busy man I hawad no time for social media. It was my family members that saw the pic and informed me. I couldn't get angry or anything. I just walked to niggaz house told him in presence of his mom DAT I won't fight him but he has lost a true friend. This Nigga was who I taught was my ride or die. Nigga came later begging, I forgived him but told him i can never be friends with him. since then I promised to quit friends Again, i ask, when did men start behaving like women? smh |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by PrinceKeny: 8:23pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
EdmundChidera: It is once said that the devil you know is better than the Angel you don't know.
Friends is good no doubt, having a lot of friends makes someone gets connected in the society. There are many advantage coming from having many friends, meanwhile some people still want to keep the circle of their friends small to avoid unnecessary drama.
I once seek an advice from my friend on how to leave Nigeria for a better livelihood outside the country. He gave a lot of reason why I shouldn't leave the country which I somehow was convincing. To my greatest surprise, I saw my guy on Facebook taking pictures with white folks like Osuofia in London . He left for Canada after telling me story for the gods on how Nigeria will be heaven later. I later travelled sha.
Another experience, when I went to pageantry with my friends, though I never planned to partake, my schoolmate told me to replace him looking how fresh I was then sha, but I needed to look more dope. I had to borrow my guys necklaces and wrist watch immediately. While awaiting for result, these guys decided to take away those stuff in the public, just to shame me. I later won sha, And decided not to borrow again.
In my hood then when i had a fine babe and she was so proud of me posting me everywhere as the main guy. I know some guys in pain about her actions but will never believe that my real paddy wants the babe too. The guy toast the babe she refused, the nonsense guy came to me to call the girl names. With this experience I avoided public relationship.
Many experience though, is it when you ask your classmate how you preparing for exam, he will tell you, I'm yet to open my book. Or is it those that say love na scam, getting married. Or those saying school na scam, furthering their education. And so on
Share your experience When they start having meetings and calling me die minute saying ..... aaahhhh no vex I forget to call you..... bros me I park 1 Like |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 8:25pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
emkz: When I did one deal and got small doe. This guy came with plenty tricks to collect a pie. I cut him off. Bad peeps everywhere.... |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by angelfallz(m): 8:28pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
Fussion1000: The last close friend that broke my heart this year that made me put full stop from anything called close friend.
we became close friend last years November, we shared so many secret, though he shared his secret more for me, thank God I have not shared my deepest mind for him, he claimed to be a prophet and I adored him a lot to the extent that whatever he asked me not to do, I called it off immediately
the lady I have bleeped and dumped, the guy went to leak every lies I told the girl before I Bleep and after I bleeped her, the guy revealed everything for her, he even told the girl where my wife works and my house.
Everything the guy knew about me for that shot Period we knew, my close friend revealed them,
If this guy knows my enemy he will tell them how to catch me.
Again, i ask, when did men start behaving like women? |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by UndauntedYOCA(f): 8:28pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
The ones I loaned money when they needed it but never paid back. For the love of Christ, I also need money!!! I don learn sha. 3 Likes |
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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by missidy: 8:30pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
I don't know why girls do this rubbish, please don't even bother yourself. Even if you had suffered to go, she will still treat you the same way when she is tired of you. That was how I suffered on the road to abuja from lagos for a friend's wedding, even took her insults and annoying bride attitude. Today she hardly talks to me, na only happy birthday when she sees my status once in a year. I can never stress people to travel for my wedding and ever since then I don't travel for any friends wedding. I will just tell you congratulations, finish. The suffering is not always worth it. blesoh: I just lost one two months ago, I was sick and couldn't attend her wedding in the village, I explained to her and transfered money to her, after the wedding she started throwing shades at me, even uploading her supposed best friends on her status. I called severally she didn't pick or return my calls Long story short, I don't have any friend 6 Likes |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 8:34pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 8:38pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
Even though I no get money much but I get big heart So I do give money and stuff to people both close friends and those that are not close but since money stopped coming in since like 2019 up till now everybody don run leave me and my depressed sef ; The thing now is some of those people wey I call friend don get real money o but they don leave me since they probably think I'm a failure that can amount to anything again. So even if I become a million tomorrow it will be hard for me to just help anyhow 26 Likes |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Oizee(f): 8:38pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
Interesting experiences, that means I'm on the right path, no best friend but I'm always positive minded person, I can't betray anyone close to me, but I completely trust no one. What ever they say behind me or do doesn't even bother me at all. @virginprincess I understand u well, similar thing happened in our own house but couldn't tell anyone, and that man was even a colleague to my late Mum. I don't know d spirit of being unnecessary quiet when it comes to things like dat. I can't point specific reason for not letting my mum known or anyone else in d house. And d idiot man normally call mumsi big sister den, I was little but I remember everything vividly. 2 Likes |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Goldencheese(m): 8:40pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
Fact1: A very long story ,,,,,,,,,,,,
Hago brief ham,,,,,,,,,,,,,
They wanna see me finish,,,,,,
Moya look away,,,,,,
Dem wan finish my biscuits,,,,,,, me wey sabi,,,,,,,,,,,,, Very funny |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by 15ssDRIVE(m): 8:41pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
Oya take you chair, with your bottle of origins to laughs offfff my ordeal.
My best Guy come claim his ride on wedding day,from party location.
Imagine say the first call be say ... guy I need to use that ride for some cash moves.... and he cut all the flashings on the car,to everyone eyes oh....
And you he called me on the high table like,guy you don use my fuel finish. As a correct guy wey know say..... any time wey your own person Mis yawrn and show muscle...... all you need is breath down and smile...
Thanks God madam dey update to the matter of the car,na soo I call my weed dealer ...... he come with him 1984 Merci Oloye.Immediately ....... after everyone dey halla .... Oko Iyawo come and be going oh.... so you can go and rest .....
Dem don start to push the ride .... the fuel tank dey near the driver.......
So immediately the car start ... fire just blow up...... we put off the fire and still roll in that ride.... alone with my real Gees...
One of my guys shed tears !!!! I just call madam ... tell am say ... relax Baba God is preparing a big table for us ....
Come see as love sweet without money....
She works @ a super market as a cashier,she quickly got me flight ticket.......
This Mf will come and tell her all kind story.......that guy ain’t coming back.... for 1 year nothing,so imagine his upper hand with his story looking valid.
The guy own the MoneyGram center where she always send me 100$ and he would be like .... na only you dey send? You no dey receive ?
I believe Baba heard the cries of my honorable wife,not minding being a badooooo...
My people na so so shark and dolphin i dae kill.....
Na so so approval code : 00
Imagine from economy to first class and much swag.... imagine after much drynessssss ororooo come flow..... see smiling �
Everything bling and humble oh .....
Wen I come back .... my guy don sell him ride ...... I make sure I paid him with good coin..... and believe me it was a blessing to me and a curse to him.... the car he choseed with all his experience keep giving one wahala to another ... till he finally sold the ride...
Ever since,I am a one man soldier........ big respect to affiliates though ....... 8 Likes |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 8:44pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
sonnie10: My friend and I were involved in a business which I initiated but he later decided to join when he saw the outcome. In fact I accepted just to help him increase his little capital. His contribution was not even up to 10% of the total amount in the business. Upfront, I told him he would have 30% of his invested amount every 4 months. The first condition I give him was that I won't share the details of the business with him. The second condition I gave him was that he should never ask question regarding the operations of the business. All he has to do was wait for his 30% every 4 month. The first 4 months came, he got his 30%. Again, the second 4months came and he got his 30% as well. Things were going really well until the third 4 months. The shipper overseas delayed the shipping of the good because he travelled so the good were just stocked in the shippers warehouse overseas. The shipper stayed about 3 months before returning. Remember, it takes about 2-3months for the container to arrive when shipped. Unfortunately, it was pass the 4months interval for my friend to get his 30%. I tried to explain to him why he wont get it on time but he became very furious.
He said he doesn't want to hear anything about the business operation, all he wanted was his 30%, and to return his principle. No amount of explanation would calm him down. He went on to report to everyone, and dragged my name around and threatened all sorts. Eventually, the container arrived after 5 months plus, and goods were sold. His money was paid in full including his principle amount. Since then, he has been begging me to forgive him and allow us continue, but I have made up my mind not to help anymore. Well he did no wrong. You call him a friend but you refused to reveal the business operation but you expect him to calm down when he didn't get his money as at when due. If you had reveal to him how the business work he wouldn't have being impatient with you. 17 Likes |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Lizzydonnah(f): 8:46pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
Kccheechy: Mine was in exam hall. Final year 2nd semester exams. We were writing MTH425. After reading for so long, my head just went blank. I couldn't assimilate anything anymore. My friend who I had taken as a brother studied with me. I got into the exam hall as saw the questions. You know how exam questions can be na, 1 question will have so many children under it. Out of four we are to answer, I knew just 1 and even that 1 I couldn't answer it completely. if I failed that course, it would earn me an extra year in school. I was confused and spent. Most of the questions came from our handouts but to solve one question can take a full page of A4 paper on both sides. My brain just couldn't take it anymore. My friend was sitting behind me and was already on his third question. You know how we communicate in the hall na. I asked him to help me with one question so I can answer two in total. He assured me that he would help me with the answers to one question. My hopes were high. Only for my guy to stand up to go and submit and left the hall. Went out and started laughing. If he was laughing at me I can't remember. I was shocked!!! If he didn't want to help me, he should have told me then I know what to do. He left me hanging. Till today I can't understand why he did that. The thought of spending another year in school because of 1 course really broke my heart. when I saw there was nothing else I could do, I went to submit my almost blank answer booklet. Long story short, I got a D grade in that course. That was far better than repeating another year. My ex-friend got a D grade to upon everything. Wow, this is so touching. |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 8:47pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
angelfallz:
Again, i ask, when did men start behaving like women? Men have being behaving like that for long, but we guys normally loud it if girls that disappoint and break our hearts. I have closed doors for anything called close friendship. 4 Likes |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by emerged01(m): 8:48pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
fabiano09:
why do you need to look up to someone ? you're all you got man,only trust in Jah My word may sound somehow to you. When you have a good friend, you will take him as an angel from God. |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Kccheechy(m): 8:49pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by yomi007k(m): 8:51pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
virginprincess: I don't follow science, i follow the bible, if there is no such thing as virginity, then why do women have hymen. Good to know. Do you also know that God supports science? He is an inventor , the Almighty Creator. Learn from wisdom. Well, the hymen is a "partial membrane" that covers the entrance of the vagina. It changes it shape according to the females age due to hormanal fluctuations. It can be thin,thick etc. The state of the hymen is not a reliable indicator of virginity. A child who has not had sex can have a partially open hymen. Please read the following; https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hymen |