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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Offpoint1: 10:06am On Oct 12, 2020 |
mirabel9:Cool, you rock!
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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Eaglefine(f): 10:50am On Oct 12, 2020 |
DasaintHope: this is damn bad. I can't believe is your fellow guy that did this 1 Like |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by lenghtinny(m): 10:54am On Oct 12, 2020 |
jagorinho:I dey with you guy..... Sometimes I wish I could rewind and relive my childhood. These days, there is so much pressure on a male figure and those you call friends are not helping matters.... To me, friendship is overrated... What we call friends nowadays are nothing but competitors subtly working to put us down in order to feel better about their miserable selves..... I used to keep a small circle of friends right from time but Las Las the small circle still fvck me up real bad...... Now, na acquaintances I get... No friends 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Eaglefine(f): 11:00am On Oct 12, 2020 |
I am very much careful with friends now cos someone I opened my door whole heatedly, betrayed me. Am much comfortable with male friends than women. I mean responsible male-friends. Bcoz is my fellow woman kept me where I am now. 4 Likes |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by crownfitsme(f): 11:01am On Oct 12, 2020 |
Àwọn ọrẹ werey.... |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by SnOOpERr: 11:09am On Oct 12, 2020 |
Slawormir: ������ |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by durasome(m): 11:20am On Oct 12, 2020 |
otobasin2323:. that saying "there is love in sharing"never reach your side? |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Harddiskng(m): 12:08pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
Vikalinda: Stay very far away from this person, have nothing to say/do with him. He doesn’t want your progress and can hitch a plot to kill you. A word is enough for the wise sir. 3 Likes |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 12:24pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
sonnie10: Lolz maybe you should call me a psychologist... Just be very careful and stay very far away from him. Try NEVER to counter him or explain to people he's soiling your name with.(these people are called 'flying monkeys' in psychology. Google 'the narcissists and his flying monkeys. They are usually gullible or shallow minded people sympathetic to him, that can't separate facts from crap. People that won't bother to ask him, "guy this one you carry e matter for head like this, move on na". They're actually enjoying the show while he's enjoying the drama and attention he badly craves. He believes the attention will increase his value. Trust me when I say he secretly strongly wishes you react. Don't dare, say nothing, do nothing, mind your business. Why? He's better at the game. You're not the first he has betrayed and won't be the last. Narcissists like him always have a deep dark fantasy to hurt others (usually the closest but vulnerable people to them). Narc only use people to achieve an end( usually to use you to shine or collect stars) You were never really friends. The goal is to use you to shine. He will even screenshot your messages (selectively) and broadcast it lol And he will stalk you, hack your phone where possible. But why will a narc stalk or hack your privacies? To track your progress. It gives them joy if they discover you're not progressing without them. They will also hack to broadcast your private business. If he hasn't yet, it's because he hasn't found the means. Such is the life of a narc. Another thing about the narc is that they want to be friends again not because they like you but because it didn't end on their own terms or they ain't the ones that ended it or they have a revenge they want to finalise or they want to continue to use you as they wish while gathering more info for use against you when things go south. Should you be angry with a narcissist? No. Should you be angry with someone who spends 94% of their time discussing about you or monitoring you? You should feel pity for him but he will never change. Take him back and watch him finish off the plan he has been hatching from day one. Next time, pick your friends wisely. I hope you have learnt your lesson. Cheers! 1 Like |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Thenorth(m): 12:40pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
Slawormir:I like this guy |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Greatfullheart: 1:00pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
Clicked:thanks so much i appreciate. 1 Like |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Linez: 1:16pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
Well, in my case, the young chap is a young boy who grew up in our neighborhood. We all consider ourselves family till date. He's married now. He's always been a careless spender. Loves to look so expensive even when he doesn't have money. Anyways, in August this year, he came crying to me and my husband. Husband himself had sworn never to loan people money he can't forfeit. So for the sake of his new wife being a woman like me, and their preemie, I begged oga and begged him for a long time to loan this guy what he needed to complete the house rent for his new family as they were still staying at her mom's one bedroom and he was squatting with them. He is an admin staff in a fed tertiary institution. He also makes clothes for people. Agreement was, every first week of the month, pay 33k October , 33k November and 34k December. Mr wise man paid in 10k, and days later 6k. No apologies for the breach in agreement. We signed one for obvious reasons. Worst part is he hasn't rented the house till now. Now hubby is like, I warned you, didn't I? Now I regret helping them. Obviously the over 20years of knowing him and his family doesn't count. I am yet to decide on how to get my balance back, if he can just fail at this first installment. This my kind heart will not put me in trouble again. 1 Like |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Covenant97(m): 1:38pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
EdmundChidera:Actually my own case with friends is kinda different I keep small circles of friends who i know i will have something to benefit from them vice versa. The most important thing in any friendship is to be careful and know who u are dealing with and make sure that it is not a one sided friendship. Both parties have to be beneficial to one another... My opinion though. 2 Likes |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by lenghtinny(m): 1:39pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
Kweensavvy:You know them too well I used to have a frenemy that fits your description perfectly..... This one run me down sotey the only thing e no fit take away from me was the air I breathe.... I free the matter lock up and kept my distance from him..... He began to spread malicious tales about me to anyone that cared to listen. Just they garnish sweet story give dem to look like a better person as per say I don commot for the environment. I later got wind of his actions and I texted and warned him that if I ever hear that he mentioned my name again then e go see the anger wey e Dey try wake in me. Na so the idiot fem. Few months later, he begin famz me on WhatsApp forming meekness because I just lock him out of anything wey concern me. When the how far became uncomfortable, I blocked him cos I no get short term memory... Till today e still Dey try use scope to monitor me by proxy but e don burn that bridge tey tey 2 Likes |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by DasaintHope(m): 1:46pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
Eaglefine:I never felt more betrayed In my entire life In this life Be good to all, keep acquaintances, but be friends with none. 1 Like |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by tot(f): 1:57pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
Powerfly: As in, I read that comment and just shook my head. A cheat complaining about karma, lol. Irony. 1 Like |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 2:08pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
lenghtinny: Ahahah lolz proper case study of a narcissist. It's fine you blocked him. Narcissist go definitely monitor you. Na their life be that. Funny enough it will be a continuous circle for them. You no be the first person. You no go even be the last person. |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by marwanafrica: 2:36pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
Starboytwo: This is how it all started bro. Listen and learn. |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by marwanafrica: 2:49pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
ifyy07: Please guys correct me if i m wrong. Those that see themselves lucky when woman flocks around them, to me they are unwise and shortsighted fellow of life, there is more to life than womanizing, 1) Aim Big success. 2) Impact lives. 3) Marry And wait for devine calling to meet the lord your God. |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by angelfallz(m): 2:54pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
Linez: Don't blame your kind heart. We need more kind hearts in this wicked world. |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by marwanafrica: 2:59pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
virginprincess: You ladies can be funny many atimes. And leter now you guys will be shouting feminism. Madam report him to appropriate person to avoid reoccurrence unless you are lying or derived fun from his attempt. |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by virginprincess(f): 3:05pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
marwanafrica:Reporting him wouldn't be possible again because this happened last year. |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Realhommie(m): 3:11pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
Eaglefine:Oya na, let's be friends then. I'm male and I'm responsible. ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by marwanafrica: 3:18pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
DasaintHope: Na you do yourself ooh, why will you allow yourself to appear naked in his present, bro you just shut yourself on the foot. 1 Like |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by marwanafrica: 3:22pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
angelfallz:your head get oil is as simple as that 1 Like |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by krownie: 3:22pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by DasaintHope(m): 3:24pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
marwanafrica:This was my guy well a, I didn't see the harm in it. we once worked together in a factory, after work when we bath we do see each oda naked. PS: We ain't gays though. 1 Like |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by krownie: 3:27pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
The only bestie I know since KG to secondary days I shared my belt, socking,food almost everything in secondary didn't seek me out when I had a terrible problem so I stopped walking in 2009 conscience judge am until he finally came to see me in 2014,we just smile and talk about the old days. when he left I reviewed my life and disassociated myself from him #fuckfriends the guys wey I dey call my guys na I call because my grandpa die and they gats bury am immediately I call one base on transport matters because I been use wheelchair he picked but hang up as I be like pest, the 2nd one wey I think say go do for me tell me sorry o.. I come tell am say I get big challenge he nor reply still just to now now... good news I was able to attend the burial base on God I later learnt in life that don't expect anything from someone you once helped,nobody fit be like you .... oboi I never smoke better weed since August. Las Las na Buhari cause am |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Powerfly(f): 3:31pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
tot: My dear. The matter follow shock me oo. Just imagine. 1 Like |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by tot(f): 3:33pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
Powerfly: Haha ![]() 1 Like |
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by beebe007: 3:40pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
my xperience about friends f*ckd up not 10 bt I Knew it is this that mks me do the best I can for my self and my family... it's my intention to run a post in my office which I informed my friend s, not up to a week that I disclose my mind I just see my phone ring on one afternoon pick is one of my junior inviting me to a gardrin, telling me it's another contestant who who running for secretary that invite us although m for vice-chairman. on the very day I get another call from that Same guy changing the location and I said no pro. to my greatest surprised I met all contestant from one group (meanwhile I never belong to any group) with three friends of my, bt among the three there is one that we are more close than the rest. after introduction I realize that another lady is also aiming my post and getting affraid of loosing into my hand cus of my little porpularity. emediately they all stands up and started Begin me to leave the post for the lady with much pressure on me, emediately I left the place all I realize from my friends is I should let her go while I step down. I left the venue. its later later that I started treatning the junior that called me for the meeting for biting he now confess that is my friend that ask him to call me in collaboration with other group to silent my campeign. |
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