Zabiboy:


Every single Human on this earth is a Hypocrite..
Both Me, you, the O.P, our parents e.t.c ...
Even our children, grandchildren and generations to come would still be hypocrites...
Denying the above further highlights the hypocrisy in you

MhisTahrah:
Some Nigerian men are always quick to generalize and bash Nigerian women whenever a lady makes the news for something bad for example, a married woman having extramarital affairs.But one will never see this set of hypocrites judge cheating married men in such manner.They make senseless comments and the really dumb ones go ahead to insult the wife for her husband's inability to remain faithful.

You might want to go through this thread and see for yourself
https://www.nairaland.com/6174273/cheating-some-men-something-else

MhisTahrah:
Some Nigerian men are always quick to generalize and bash Nigerian women whenever a lady makes the news for something bad for example, a married woman having extramarital affairs.But one will never see this set of hypocrites judge cheating married men in such manner.They make senseless comments and the really dumb ones go ahead to insult the wife for her husband's inability to remain faithful.

You might want to go through this thread and see for yourself
https://www.nairaland.com/6174273/cheating-some-men-something-else

jericco1:


You've mistaken me for someone else

FearlessOG:


Lol!!! The same can be said of "some Nigerian women" on this forum. It's imperative to realize that "both genders" are largely biased in favor of their own gender. However, if you sincerely think that your post and the link that you put up there suffices for a cogent argument supporting your assertion, then I'll gladly play the "Devil's Advocate" and let you know the following:

1. I can provide links on Nairaland showing you where the reverse was the case i.e. some Nigerian women being quick to generalize and bash Nigerian men whenever a man makes the news for something bad for example, a married man having extramarital affairs. But one will never see this set of hypocrites judge cheating married women in such manner. They make senseless comments and the really dumb ones go ahead to insult the man for his wife's inability to remain faithful.

2. I can provide links on Nairaland showing threads where a man was at the receiving end of female brutality (either the man was maimed or killed) and there were very few comments from females that condemned the woman's action. But that's not all; I can even go further and provide links on Nairaland showing threads where a man was at the receiving end of female brutality, and there was NO comment from even a single female condemning the woman's action. Not even from the so-called gender equality advocates (feminists). And to make things more interesting, I'm referring to threads that have at least 3 pages of comments or more. Just imagine that.

3. In contrast to point number 2, there is no single thread on Nairaland that I have come across since when I started viewing as a guest in 2014, that reports male-on-female brutality/violence, and has at least 3 pages of comments or more, that I didn't see men condemning the action of the man. Even if it is just a handful of men that condemned the action of the man.

4. I'll make things more interesting though; I can provide links on Nairaland where the thread is about male-on-female brutality/violence, and the only people that commented and condemned the action of the man were men, despite the fact that this is one of the topics were females and Nairaland feminists usually abound. Contrarily, there is no thread on Nairaland that reports female-on-male brutality/violence and the only people that commented and condemned the action of the woman were women. I haven't come across even one of such threads in my 6+ years as a Nairaland guest/viewer.

There is so much more I can say, but it's definitely not necessary. The bottom line is that if one person is trying to prove misogyny and another person is trying to prove misandry, there are more than enough links, even within Nairaland alone to prove either case.

MrCork:



...ok so u calling homebase Nigeria people hypocrate?. correct? Is this because they spek pigeon English? R u trying to say they r elitrate?
Do u realise am from London & I ain't one of them homebase people? But y u keep calling the hypocrisy?

ZIINI:

Only a stupid man will side his fellow man when he's cheating or doing something wrong
Cheating is bad and wrong for both genders as you've said.
Now you heard recently the case between lil frosh and his girlfriend I remember reading the news on FP every male that read the news accused him of hitting that girl. Not a single male side him or excuse his error look at the drastic step Davido took about the case
So no man in his right sense will side or excuse his fellow man when he's cheating be it in relationship or marriage. We reason too and we're not animals

virginprincess:
Maybe, but i'm sure i know you, is your mum from umunede in delta state?

jericco1:


Hmm this is shocking.
I can't disclose that here

virginprincess:
You can see that i known you, your name is jeremiah but you are popularly known as jerry.

jericco1:


That's not true
Well you should share your picture so that I can confirm if I know you or not

MhisTahrah:
I see you modified.
The burden of wedding expenses is on both groom and bride.The fact that the groom VOLUNTARILY decides to finance it is his own problem.Some men feel shouldering financial responsibilities makes them more manly and subsequently feel emasculated if their partners have more financial power.

Are you kidding me?This varies individually but from most things we see online, it's obvious
women invest more emotions in relationships than men.

You guys don't encourage women to make the first move.In fact she is often disrespected.

Refer to the above for this.

MhisTahrah:
I'll be replying only number 1 as the rest are irrelevant as far as this thread is concerned.
I personally have never seen such, post the link if you have.I don't see the females going on about how cheating is second nature to us.As a matter of fact, their comments on such threads are usually about advising the wife to pray, be patient, endure, meet a cleric for counselling and so on which I find somehow but this is a topic for another day.I'm not trying to prove misogyny or disprove misandry, my point is why the double standards?Judge an unfaithful wife with the same yardstick you use for unfaithful men.

virginprincess:
You shouldn't lie, because am very sure of that face, do you have a cousin named Uju.

jericco1:


Nope
I don't
Although I'm from Delta
You speak ika (agbor)?

DamnnNiggarr:
until you ladies start taking equal part of the expenses in marriage, and taking equal part of the responsibility in every day family life, is when you shall be regarded equal with men.

who's the borden of marriage expenses on?? it's always men.

who worries most in the betterment or moving forward of relationship?? always men.

who tells a woman how he feels about her?? until I see women do that, still always men.

who's ready to sacrifice both financially in relationship?? always men.

you ladies want to be accorded the same respect as men but don't want to reason like men

jericco1:


Nope
I don't
Although I'm from Delta
You speak ika (agbor)?

Gerrard59:


MhisTahrah,

Here lies the issue: men invest financially more than women in a typical Nigerian married life. He who pays the piper dictates the tune. Until modern day women start investing as much as men do, it would be hard to fight against the privilege that come with men cheating. Unfortunately, women are hypergamous species. Fortunately, we live in a time where both men and women have equal rights. So if your man (boyfriend or husband) cheats on you, nothing stops you from leaving him. And when you do, don't give a fvck about what people say.

jericco1:


Nope
I don't
Although I'm from Delta
You speak ika (agbor)?

Shortyy:

I think you guys bring this bride price issue up everytime to excuse your callous behavior towards women. It's not cool seriously. I know women that struggle in their respective homes. Work hard just like the hubby to make their marriages work. Some even work hard more than the hubbies, yet the so called hubbies go about misbehaving just cuz they paid bride price? Oh c'mon that's a silly excuse. No one forced you to marry this girl, y'all fell in love, dated, then married. Made promises to each other. Then because you paid bride price, you decide to be irresponsible? That's not cool.

If a woman suggests to pay bride price I'm pretty sure 95% of y'all won't agree, because of your ego.

MrCork:




babe call her sef Virginprincess (sweet sexxy name)...instead of toasting her to see if u can smash...u askin if she spek aka Gbon gbon..
bro r u ok? (no oofense)

DamnnNiggarr:
Abagi! stop shifting goal post,

your comment now make it looks like only the men are the bad eggs and women are saints,
c'mon let me not go deeper in it,
we read every day about paternity fraud (like I said earlier, I don't want to go deeper) and other atrocities perpetrated by women against men,

now, based on your comment, men are the bad and dangerous ones in relationship.
issoright.

MhisTahrah:
Some Nigerian men are always quick to generalize and bash Nigerian women whenever a lady makes the news for something bad for example, a married woman having extramarital affairs.But one will never see this set of hypocrites judge cheating married men in such manner.They make senseless comments and the really dumb ones go ahead to insult the wife for her husband's inability to remain faithful.

You might want to go through this thread and see for yourself
https://www.nairaland.com/6174273/cheating-some-men-something-else

MhisTahrah:
Some Nigerian men are always quick to generalize and bash Nigerian women whenever a lady makes the news for something bad for example, a married woman having extramarital affairs.But one will never see this set of hypocrites judge cheating married men in such manner.They make senseless comments and the really dumb ones go ahead to insult the wife for her husband's inability to remain faithful.

You might want to go through this thread and see for yourself
https://www.nairaland.com/6174273/cheating-some-men-something-else

MrCork:




babe call her sef Virginprincess (sweet sexxy name)...instead of toasting her to see if u can smash...u askin if she spek aka Gbon gbon..
bro r u ok? (no oofense)

MrCork:




babe call her sef Virginprincess (sweet sexxy name)...instead of toasting her to see if u can smash...u askin if she spek aka Gbon gbon..
bro r u ok? (no oofense)

virginprincess:
No need to say that ! if really what am saying is true, that means jerrico1 happen to be my cousin brother, so no need of toasting.

virginprincess:
Yes i am from ika(paternal), but i no what i am saying, does your mum has a sister named Philo?