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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by fati2001(m): 8:21am On Oct 13, 2020 |
Ikillbrokehoes: AS I SAID EARLIER === UR BRAIN ACCESSORIES ARE LOCATED AROUND UR PELVIC AREA. GUY KEEP DISPLAYING YOUR STUPIDITY IN THE NAME OF DISSING OR CATCHING FUN. I'M USING CAPITAL LETTERS SO THAT YOU CAN READ MY LINES CORRECTLY. |
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 8:29am On Oct 13, 2020 |
fati2001:K |
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by fati2001(m): 8:33am On Oct 13, 2020 |
Ikillbrokehoes: LAME! THAT'S WHY I SAID YOU AND SENSES ARE ENEMIES. CLEARLY EDITED VERSION OF MY COMMENT.... YOU NEED TO TRY SOMETHING DIFFERENT... IF YOU WANNA EDIT... DO IT PROPERLY PLS. |
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 8:37am On Oct 13, 2020 |
fati2001:k |
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by fati2001(m): 8:39am On Oct 13, 2020 |
Ikillbrokehoes: YEAP, YOU TALKING ABOUT URSELF... SELF DISSER... DISSING HIMSELF BY EDITING COMMENTS.... PLS TRY ANOTHER ONE. |
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 8:55am On Oct 13, 2020 |
fati2001:k |
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by fati2001(m): 8:58am On Oct 13, 2020 |
Ikillbrokehoes: LAME! SOUND LIKE A MOSQUITO REPELLENT. ITS A DISGRACE FOR A MAMA TO SEE HER RETARDED BASTARD CHILD SHE CALLED SON... SPILLING OUT ALL HER DARK SECRET. 1 Like
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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 8:59am On Oct 13, 2020 |
fati2001:k |
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by fati2001(m): 9:06am On Oct 13, 2020 |
Ikillbrokehoes: YEAH, YOU ARE DUMB AND UNPRODUCTIVE THIS IS THE RESULT OF A WATERY SEMEN THAT LACK ALL THE NECESSARY GOOD STUFFS OF PRODUCTION BEEN MIXED UP WITH AN INFECTED OVA THAT HAS BEEN CONSUMED BY FUNGI AND ALGAE |
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 9:55am On Oct 13, 2020 |
fati2001:k |
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by fati2001(m): 9:57am On Oct 13, 2020 |
Ikillbrokehoes:MORE LIKE WAYWARD HEGOAT. |
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 9:58am On Oct 13, 2020 |
fati2001:k |
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Cherez: 10:30am On Oct 13, 2020 |
But going through the thread the pics below was what I saw too So, not all men support cheating don't make it seem so
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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Nobody: 10:32am On Oct 13, 2020 |
DamnnNiggarr:Are they forced to do it?Be honest It's like you're not living in Nigeria.The women that tried it in the past got burnt. ![]() |
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Nobody: 11:03am On Oct 13, 2020 |
FearlessOG:I failed to state clearly that this thread is based on just one example and its evidence; the 'cheating' thread which I provided the link for, I apologize.I do realize that the double standards and hypocrisy meted out on women by their male counterparts extends beyond the cheating example I gave.This thread will address only cheating as it is the only one I have provided evidence for. If you would be honest with yourself, you'd see that the instances where females are the oppressors are few and far between.One thing worthy of note is that these females are almost always tackled(even by other females), insulted and have their comments hidden/reported while the males guilty of the same offence are cheered with many likes and quotes.Herein lies the problem. Defend as you may, you cannot deny the fact that a lot of male nairalanders are hypocrites and exhibit double standards on sensitive issues such as infidelity among married couples, that should be condemned by all and sundry. |
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Nobody: 11:22am On Oct 13, 2020 |
Alexaonfleek:Lmao, nairaland Alfa males are really something else. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Magnoliaa(f): 11:27am On Oct 13, 2020 |
Gerrard59: Please, shut the fuvk up! Shut up with these baseless, stupid lies y'all peddle. In which typical Nigerian married lives?? Invest what?? Where?? Is it the women that are becoming men and heads in their homes that are lazy?? Do not contribute?? Their emotional investments alone are not enough consideration for the men to respect them, abi?? Hypergamous species and we are still broke lots?? Lmaoo. Why I never marry rich/abrodian man since, or did not descend from a royal family? Your last sentences are about the only things you said right. |
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by CosmicPhoenix: 11:52am On Oct 13, 2020 |
mango how far Magnoliaa: |
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Nobody: 11:54am On Oct 13, 2020 |
Gerrard59:And I'm telling you that it goes beyond financial responsibilities on the husband.It is much deeper because in some homes where the women are the breadwinners, their husbands often feel emasculated and they deliberately frustrate their wives.How do you want to explain the rising incidence of gender-based domestic violence among Nigerian families in diaspora(USA), the husbands sponsor their wives migration, wives come with their nursing degrees and get a better paying job than their partners and they(husbys) suddenly flip and murder their wives.Money is just one of the various tools men use to subjugate women. Hypergamy is not gender specific.Besides, associating with something/someone we perceive to be of a higher status than us is not limited to romance, everyone wants that connection, higher paying job, e.t.c. I couldn't agree less with this, there are loads of women who earn more than their husbands but no outsider and even their children would ever know. |
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Magnoliaa(f): 12:03pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Gerrard59(m): 12:05pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
MhisTahrah: That is hypergamy playing out. How many newly wedded couples do you see the woman earning more than the man or being richer than the man? Then you said hypergamy is not gender specific? ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Magnoliaa(f): 12:06pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
DamnnNiggarr: Then we become shameless; chest our misdemeanors, and scatter everything. From the expectations on both genders to the consequences they get. |
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Gerrard59(m): 12:07pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
Magnoliaa: You are a feminazi, so I am not surprised by your outbursts. I have come across you ilks on Twitter. I am here to tell you that I am not the cause of your frustration. Take it elsewhere. Unam ikot! 1 Like |
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Nobody: 12:24pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
Gerrard59:Men can also be said to be hypogamous, your argument goes both ways in fact.They go for women they are richer than in order to subjugate them.One can infer from your post that the majority of men deliberately get married to women who are of lower financial status than them, it also supports my statement that when these women get financial breakthrough and earn more then their husbands, the husbands feel emasculated and misbehave. |
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by CosmicPhoenix: 12:38pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
Stressed out and angry I'm guessing you're a feminist now judging by your signature Magnoliaa: 1 Like |
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Lordfave98: 12:40pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
Zabiboy:I won't agree with everything you just said, well it's true no woman would want to enter a home where they would bear much or any responsibility but some marry their spouse even knowing they are better than him for the sake of love, even believing that the guy has a bright future ahead of him and later go on regreting ever entering such home because the potential they saw in him didn't manifest leading to them bearing the bulk of the responsibilities in the family. I have witnessed such upfront in several families which sometimes leads to strife in the family. 1 Like |
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Lordfave98: 12:43pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
DamnnNiggarr:Won't ever let my wife do such. BTW I ain't married yet. |
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by bukatyne(f): 12:48pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
Zabiboy: Hahahahahahaha This was hilarious! |
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Lordfave98: 12:51pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
Silentgroper:Which is what lead to me saying such that there are thousands out there who not only own close to d percent of d man but more than the man. lets end this argument please. I consider it a huge disgrace to the man for a woman to be d breadwinner of an home when there is nothing wrong with him. well grace differs. |
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Magnoliaa(f): 1:00pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
CosmicPhoenix: Eyahh. By the country we find ourselves in, abi?? Izz alright. We're all stressed and angry. At the corruption, killings, everything. Hehe. Maybe it's good I put it out there... How/why/where did you get the idea that I was never one? |
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by FearlessOG: 1:05pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
MhisTahrah: Lol!!! I can now see and understand why you chose to restrict the premise of your argument to “just one example.” Superficially, it seems to lend credence to your argument and perhaps, may make sense to you. When examined deeply though, it fails woefully to establish cogency. There’s a very good reason there’s something called a “weight of evidence approach.” Otherwise, anyone can just come up with an assertion/hypothesis, provide one or, at most, two examples, then give themselves a pat on the back for a job well done. Secondly, the link you provided does not necessarily do justice to your argument, since, as a couple of commenters have rightly noted in this thread (including one with a screenshot for proof), there were also lots of comments from men that condemned cheating in that thread. Furthermore, it is imperative to realize that continuous back and forth between a few monikers with dissenting opinions on a subject matter, thus stretching the thread into several pages, is distinctly different from a preponderance of one gender wholly supporting one specific opinion/school of thought. Learn the difference between the two!!! When you say that “the instances where females are the oppressors are few and far between” are you again referring to just one specific example? And what is your definition of oppressors? It’ll be important to know these, before I even reply to that statement, so you do not start “side stepping” again, as one Nairalander accurately put it. Your comment – “these females are almost always tackled (even by other females)” – goes both ways. And permit me to state boldly that there are actually fewer instances where females tackle other females. But I’ll make it even more interesting – In threads with the most vile, hateful, and misogynistic comments from some men, there is no shortage of other men who are tackling them. In threads with the most vile, hateful, and man-hating comments from some women, it is a rarity to see other females tackle their own. A quick example that is very common on Nairaland: When a man makes a downright degrading comment about women, there are other men (and definitely women) that tackle him and apply that same comment to his mother/sister/female relatives. On the contrary, would you be kind enough to show me a thread on Nairaland where a woman makes a downright degrading comment about men, and other females (not men) tackle her and apply that same comment to her father/brother/male relatives? I’ll gladly wait… Talking about comments being hidden/reported, it also goes both ways. In fact, the last instance of this scenario that I witnessed was a female that reported a male on a “SARS-related thread” and the male’s comments were hidden. This happened just a few days ago. I have chosen not to mention the monikers involved. Do not even dare think that reporting/hiding of comments is a one-way-street. Lastly, would you be “honest with yourself” (using your own words) and kindly address the irony that the title of your thread (The Hypocrisy of Nigerian Men) is actually a generalization on its own? Thank you. 1 Like |
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by CosmicPhoenix: 1:29pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
I have never seen you talk about it anywhere or maybe I missed it somewhere Magnoliaa: |
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