Ikillbrokehoes:
Lolz look at this small Yarinya dat was betrothed to a Mallam with big prick, u too dey get mouth talk too abi?

btw who in their right state of mind uses, Caplocks to post? did u finish secondary school at all?

fati2001:


AS I SAID EARLIER === MY BRAIN ACCESSORIES ARE LOCATED AROUND MY LOOSE VAGINA AREA.


I WILL KEEP DISPLAYING MY STUPIDITY IN THE NAME OF DISSING OR CATCHING FUN.


I'M USING CAPITAL LETTERS BECAUSE I'M DUMB.

Ikillbrokehoes:
K

fati2001:



STUPID!


THAT'S WHY I SAID ME AND SENSES ARE WORST ENEMIES.


I DON'T THINK I WILL HAVE COMMON SENSE, BECAUSE THEY HAVE USED IT FOR SUYA....

Ikillbrokehoes:
k

fati2001:



YEAP, I'M TALKING ABOUT MYSELF...


I'M UNPRODUCTIVE... A NONSENSE PERSON WHO MARRIED AT THE AGE OF 13....

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Ikillbrokehoes:
k

fati2001:

LAME!

I'M TOO DUMB AND UNPRODUCTIVE.

Ikillbrokehoes:
k

fati2001:



YEAH, I'M DUMB AND UNPRODUCTIVE


THIS IS THE RESULT OF A WATERY SEMEN THAT LACK ALL THE NECESSARY GOOD STUFFS OF PRODUCTION BEEN MIXED UP WITH AN INFECTED OVA THAT HAS BEEN CONSUMED BY FUNGI AND ALGAE, I'M A VERY STUPID YARINYA

Ikillbrokehoes:
k

fati2001:
I'M
MORE LIKE A WAYWARD SHEGOAT.

DamnnNiggarr:

sorry for the late reply I got stuck in hold-up while coming back from work,

now, @the bolded green, I'm not talking about emotions, I'm talking about financial and responsibility sacrifices, men do that more than ladies...who emotions epp!

now @the bolded serif, that's a blatant lie from the pit of hell, any man that takes a woman who professed her feelings to him for granted, is not just a slowpoke but also a Playboy, believe me that he can also play any girl that comes his way.
ladies should give it a try before starting to complain.

FearlessOG:


Lol!!! This is typical. Your title is: "The hypocrisy of Nigerian men." Then you go on to talk about how some Nigerian men generalize and bash Nigerian women whenever a lady makes the news for something bad. And then you cited an example of such a case (the key phrase here being "an example". Then after I have played the Devil's Advocate to show you that such generalization and bashing goes both ways, also citing other examples of scenarios analogical to yours (key phrase here being "other examples", you decide to "restrict" the core of your argument (double standards, generalization, and bashing of women) to only cheating, which you only cited as an example.
Pray tell, is your gripe with double standards, generalization, and bashing of women restricted to only cheating (I seriously doubt this), or you realized that there are far more instances of double standards, generalization, and bashing of men committed by women that you are either not aware of or have chosen to ignore? More importantly, do you realize that "an example" (which you gave) is only one out of numerous other instances (examples) that supports an argument?

Alexaonfleek:
Lols don't mind NL alfa makes ooo.
They're always living out their fantasies on NL.
They have fantasies of marrying 7 women at will and having those 7 women feed and take care of themselves and their children.
For some their fantasy is to have a babe that will be providing for herself and him at the same time,kneeling down to serve him food and tolerating his excesses and cheating behaviour at the same time.
In real life they are sending campus girls [/i]the urgent 2k[i] and more for the few of them that have the money
They can't say all these their rubbish they said on that thread in real life.
So pls don't take them seriously.
Just allow them live their dreams till they wake up to reality.

Gerrard59:


MhisTahrah,

Here lies the issue: men invest financially more than women in a typical Nigerian married life. He who pays the piper dictates the tune. Until modern day women start investing as much as men do, it would be hard to fight against the privilege that come with men cheating. Unfortunately, women are hypergamous species. Fortunately, we live in a time where both men and women have equal rights. So if your man (boyfriend or husband) cheats on you, nothing stops you from leaving him. And when you do, don't give a fvck about what people say.

Magnoliaa:



Please, shut the fuvk up! Shut up with these baseless, stupid lies y'all peddle. In which typical Nigerian married lives?? Invest what?? Where??

Is it the women that are becoming men and heads in their homes that are lazy?? Do not contribute?? Their emotional investments alone are not enough consideration for the men to respect them, abi?? Hypergamous species and we are still broke lots?? Lmaoo. Why I never marry rich/abrodian man since, or did not descend from a royal family?

Your last sentences are about the only things you said right.

Gerrard59:


Yes. He who pays the piper dictates the tune. Same applies in daily situations. Anyone who is a major provider naturally wants to make the rules and do whatever he or she likes. The vast majority of Nigerian men are the ones taking care (the bulk part) of their families, at least during early stages of married life. BTW, how come you dodged the hypergamous aspect? Does that not play a role in a woman choosing a reliable payer while she is the piper?

In cases where wives earn more than their husbands, the wives become domineering and exerting control, which corroborates my earlier point of paying the piper and dictating the tune. I don't get why she was bashed, quite unfortunate but that is her problem not mine.

Well, someone mentioned testosterone as a reason which is plausible. As for the "wife must be doing something wrong" or people casting aspersions on the female gender, well, you should know by now that many Nlders are mad but few are roaming.

CosmicPhoenix:

mango how far

MhisTahrah:
And I'm telling you that it goes beyond financial responsibilities on the husband.It is much deeper because in some homes where the women are the breadwinners, their husbands often feel emasculated and they deliberately frustrate their wives.How do you want to explain the rising incidence of gender-based domestic violence among Nigerian families in diaspora(USA), the husbands sponsor their wives migration, wives come with their nursing degrees and get a better paying job than their partners and they(husbys) suddenly flip and murder their wives.Money is just one of the various tools men use to subjugate women.
Hypergamy is not gender specific.Besides, associating with something/someone we perceive to be of a higher status than us is not limited to romance, everyone wants that connection, higher paying job, e.t.c.

I couldn't agree less with this, there are loads of women who earn more than their husbands but no outsider and even their children would ever know.

DamnnNiggarr:
I'm not in support of cheating but women shouldn't cheat because their men cheated, at the end of the day they get all the blames and are likely to be on the losing part and may also be on the receiving end of every negative judgements from the society.

what I'm saying in essence is that, even you Shortyy cheats because your husband cheated, you'll be shocked to see your own mum pin all the blames on you.

men have their own way of getting judged which is quite different from the judgement women receives.

Magnoliaa:



Please, shut the fuvk up! Shut up with these baseless, stupid lies y'all peddle. In which typical Nigerian married lives?? Invest what?? Where??

Is it the women that are becoming men and heads in their homes that are lazy?? Do not contribute?? Their emotional investments alone are not enough consideration for the men to respect them, abi?? Hypergamous species and we are still broke lots?? Lmaoo. Why I never marry rich/abrodian man since, or did not descend from a royal family?

Your last sentences are about the only things you said right.

Gerrard59:


That is hypergamy playing out. How many newly wedded couples do you see the woman earning more than the man or being richer than the man? Then you said hypergamy is not gender specific? C'mon, the average female is hypergamous. It has been studied for eons so saying it is not gender specific whereas it is exhibited by every female globally across status, race, cultures and countries is a lie, and you know it. Yes, everyone desires the best but in relationships, females go the extreme because that is their natural state.

Magnoliaa:


Sour and suck dry as hxll.

You?

Zabiboy:


Let's not deceive ourselves NO WOMAN WOULD ENTER A MARRIAGE WHERE SHE WOULD BEAR THE WHOLE FINANCIAL BURDENS ( most wont even enter at a 70%(man)-30%(woman) split)..

DamnnNiggarr:
what about your own family,
who foots the bill, you or your wife??

Zabiboy:


Every single Human on this earth is a Hypocrite..
Both Me, you, the O.P, our parents e.t.c ...
Even our children, grandchildren and generations to come would still be hypocrites...
Denying the above further highlights the hypocrisy in you

Silentgroper:
Hol up! .. All what his write up entails is nt 4 d woman to own up d larger percent of d responsibities but to own as much or close to. Get me!

CosmicPhoenix:
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Stressed out and angry

I'm guessing you're a feminist now judging by your signature

MhisTahrah:
I failed to state clearly that this thread is based on just one example and its evidence; the 'cheating' thread which I provided the link for, I apologize.I do realize that the double standards and hypocrisy meted out on women by their male counterparts extends beyond the cheating example I gave.This thread will address only cheating as it is the only one I have provided evidence for.
If you would be honest with yourself, you'd see that the instances where females are the oppressors are few and far between.One thing worthy of note is that these females are almost always tackled(even by other females), insulted and have their comments hidden/reported while the males guilty of the same offence are cheered with many likes and quotes.Herein lies the problem.
Defend as you may, you cannot deny the fact that a lot of male nairalanders are hypocrites and exhibit double standards on sensitive issues such as infidelity among married couples, that should be condemned by all and sundry.

Magnoliaa:



Eyahh. By the country we find ourselves in, abi??

Izz alright. We're all stressed and angry. At the corruption, killings, everything.


Hehe. Maybe it's good I put it out there... How/why/where did you get the idea that I was never one?