addexx:


Congratulations. You did the right thing. So why you depressed. Madam get up, wipe your bumbum and move on . Try and forget the memories, delete everything about him. You will be fine.

Mrscarter:


Everyone has their preferences but U can't always tell how much sex a girl has had.
I do agree tho that there is no allure in knowing Ur girl has had half the city inside her. I can understand that.
However it don't make the girl any less valuable as a person

SmartPolician:


This is trashy

Some guys can give everything just to sleep with a girl for years. When he is tired, he will dump her and go

The best bet is for a girl to be strong enough to withstand the heartbreaks from breakups.

More importantly, value your husband, respect him and appreciate him. The reason is that he is the one who chose to stay when others left.

Nobody can stop each party from leaving when they are tired.

The vagi.na assessment nonsense is a talk for another because that's not the topic here

Kobicove:


I'm not condoning what he did but I think you should have given him a second chance...

Heavensent01:


it doesn't determine the number of guys that want to go into a relationship without sex, it has to do with your principles and your stand in relationship


the woman I got married to, resisted me with all words and actions for 3years before we had sex, I wasn't her first man but I'm sure after her assessment and my zeal to introduced her to my people and urge to know her people she felt trust and it was after 3years of relationship


why can't other ladies adopt such? ladies should stop opening legs for men under whatever disguise, priority must be set rights. a man that can't stick to your policies is not fit to ride with though I know lady in their late 20's and early 30's might want to do all things to pleased men because of age but priority must be set right

Angelacruz:
I didn't cheat on him,but y would he cheat on me?

sweet7oyin:
you are saying it like she is doing a favour..
Ladies open their legs because they also want to have sex and enjoy it.

So i guess ur point is ladies should not want to have sex unless they are sure that they will get married to the guy..

Stop making it seem like she dint want it and just opened her legs for the man alone

Alexaonfleek:
Nawa for you ooo.
You wan make your girlfriend open thread like op.

Heavensent01:



then men like you should stop abusing non virgin ladies, as for me even in my next life I will never marry non virgin lady


so it will be height of hypocrisy to be fúcking someone daughter and still be hoping to marry virgin


go and marry your olosho and let me marry dignity and value now, after all we aren't from the same family

Angelacruz:
Tanks dear

Angelacruz:
I just broke up with my boyfriend of 2yrs. He cheated on me with another babe. It's hard to move on. I wrote this with a bleeding heart.

Why do some men like cheating? I was never a liability to him nor a bad girl. Y would he treat me like this? Am going insane.

What should i do nairalanders?

sweet7oyin:
wasnt even going this direction

So because she is not a virgin is a prostitute lol

I guess u are a virgin or u married one
if not you are also a prostitute

And about marriage
If she i can deal with her past then we move
If not she would Bleep off

But my point still is
Don't come here talking like a gal sexng a guy is the ultimate price .
They both sexed each other

Leave that mentality

Angelacruz:
Once

Angelacruz:
tanks...he is an igbo

Heavensent01:



any unmarried non virgin lady doesn't have dignity and when dignity is lost, where is the value?


go and find the meaning of dignity and value Madam

Heavensent01:



any unmarried non virgin lady doesn't have dignity and when dignity is lost, where is the value?


go and find the meaning of dignity and value Madam

Angelacruz:
I just broke up with my boyfriend of 2yrs. He cheated on me with another babe. It's hard to move on. I wrote this with a bleeding heart.

Why do some men like cheating? I was never a liability to him nor a bad girl. Y would he treat me like this? Am going insane.

What should i do nairalanders?

Mrscarter:


And what dignity is there in a man who's had numerous sexual partners n exchanged bodily fluids with them?
Or had sex with women not intending to marry them but then expecting to marry a virgin girl for himself therefore (as U say) devaluing those other women?

Mrscarter:


Lol. We live in a modern world not the 17th century. People have sex with more than one person
Virginity is just a bit of flesh. U don't notice the difference when it's gone.
All U get is a bad reputation if U sleep around. Doesn't devalue U as a person.
I agree it's not a nice thing for a girl to be a slutt but she's still a person n still has value. a male not being a virgin is no different. Yes it's not as bad as a girl sleeping around but it's not much different.
What value is the virginity really.
Most ppl don't care bout that kinda thing these days the world has changed

nwaezeemmanuel:
Move on. I personally don't advice dating for that long without courtship - as a Christian.

Boyfriend/Girlfriend relationships can easily be terminated any time. Be strong

Ekzoba:
Just move on but don't jump into another relationship yet ok.With time you will heal.

Angelacruz:
I just broke up with my boyfriend of 2yrs. He cheated on me with another babe. It's hard to move on. I wrote this with a bleeding heart.

Why do some men like cheating? I was never a liability to him nor a bad girl. Y would he treat me like this? Am going insane.

What should i do nairalanders?

Ekzoba:
Just move on but don't jump into another relationship yet ok.With time you will heal.

flokii:
You are back to square one.. start re-packaging yourself and pray a reasonable guy finds you attractive.

Some of you will allow guys you're not married to useless you, slacken the elastic in your veejay, make you go out of shape from series of pregnancies and abortions. To see faithful guy go come turn wahala after everywhere don slack finish.

PraiseGodNoTime:
So boyfriend is your problem as you dey now? You better repent and do a meaningful thing with your life and stop fornication! Accept Jesus Christ .Before you go turn to chop and clean mouth.

KayCee92:

SORRY ABOUT THAT, UYO GUYS ARE LIKE THAT