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What House Chores Do You Help Your Girlfriend With?(guys Only) by cfree14(m): 9:49am On Oct 26, 2020 |
Personally I don't like doing house chores as I see it as a lady's job. If I'm providing the money and paying almost all the bills, then these little things(house chores) shouldn't be a problem for the lady I'm dating. I decided to create this thread because I'm always having issues with my girlfriend when it comes to house work. She is complaining that I don't help her in any way at home. This is someone that I assist at home sometimes when I deem it necessary. I wash plates, sweep the house, sometimes cook when I know she needs help. It becomes a problem when I refuse to assist her on a daily basis. I try to make her understand the fact that for me assisting her, doesn't make it my job. The funny thing is, she always makes this statement "if its like this, then I don't think it would work between us". I just want to know if other guys are experiencing something similar and what's the best way to resolve it |
Re: What House Chores Do You Help Your Girlfriend With?(guys Only) by Officialgarri: 9:55am On Oct 26, 2020 |
Why should you be cohabiting with a girl you aren't married to, talk more of talking about chores? She should do her chores in her house while i do mine.. 2 Likes |
Re: What House Chores Do You Help Your Girlfriend With?(guys Only) by Fountainofyouth(f): 9:58am On Oct 26, 2020 |
Girlfriend? As in girlfriend? I blame you not, I blame the girl for cohabiting with you. 2 Likes |
Re: What House Chores Do You Help Your Girlfriend With?(guys Only) by collinsfhk(m): 9:59am On Oct 26, 2020 |
cfree14: The best way to resolve it is get married. Dont live with someone's daughter whom you are not married to. Proverbs 31:3 Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings. |
Re: What House Chores Do You Help Your Girlfriend With?(guys Only) by cfree14(m): 9:59am On Oct 26, 2020 |
Officialgarri:Its funny but you need to live with a Nigerian girl to actually know who they really are. Of course this is for a girl you have a serious relationship with that might lead to marriage |
Re: What House Chores Do You Help Your Girlfriend With?(guys Only) by Fountainofyouth(f): 10:01am On Oct 26, 2020 |
Officialgarri: You dey sell garri? As an official Buhari asslicker and deputy zombie-in-chief, you suppose dey work for FIRS or NNPC, how come dey sideline you like this? Pele. 2 Likes |
Re: What House Chores Do You Help Your Girlfriend With?(guys Only) by Temmylee01(m): 10:01am On Oct 26, 2020 |
shoooooooooooooooters issokay!!!!!! |
Re: What House Chores Do You Help Your Girlfriend With?(guys Only) by Fountainofyouth(f): 10:03am On Oct 26, 2020 |
cfree14: Who preached that lie to you? Most cohabiters don't end up getting married cos of see finish, and it most definitely doesn't guarantee a successful and long lasting marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: What House Chores Do You Help Your Girlfriend With?(guys Only) by cfree14(m): 10:05am On Oct 26, 2020 |
Fountainofyouth:Anty calm down. We've been dating for about 2+ yrs. I don't see anything wrong if we stay close to each other, especially if she is not being a burden. Its all part of courtship |
Re: What House Chores Do You Help Your Girlfriend With?(guys Only) by collinsfhk(m): 10:07am On Oct 26, 2020 |
Beyond that, it blinds you from reality. Thats where you get 'love is blind' cos you can't really know the person, its illusive. Make a paradigm shift bro |
Re: What House Chores Do You Help Your Girlfriend With?(guys Only) by Fountainofyouth(f): 10:08am On Oct 26, 2020 |
cfree14: Everything is wrong dude, whether relationship or courtship, so far you haven't paid bride price or made it legal, it is wrong. 2 Likes |
Re: What House Chores Do You Help Your Girlfriend With?(guys Only) by davien(m): 10:11am On Oct 26, 2020 |
None. I live a traditional life, she does the chores, I go to work, can't be feeding you more than your usage to my life. |
Re: What House Chores Do You Help Your Girlfriend With?(guys Only) by Oluromantic: 10:12am On Oct 26, 2020 |
Pant washing |
Re: What House Chores Do You Help Your Girlfriend With?(guys Only) by Nobody: 10:12am On Oct 26, 2020 |
I don't even have one but if I had ehn, I would gladly help in clearing her bush and eat her clit out till she screams to orgasm |
Re: What House Chores Do You Help Your Girlfriend With?(guys Only) by Officialgarri: 10:36am On Oct 26, 2020 |
Fountainofyouth: Na so we see am o my dear |
Re: What House Chores Do You Help Your Girlfriend With?(guys Only) by ImpregnaTor(m): 10:48am On Oct 26, 2020 |
Bedroom chores... If you know you know |
Re: What House Chores Do You Help Your Girlfriend With?(guys Only) by fuckaholic25(f): 11:01am On Oct 26, 2020 |
chores? with ur girlfriend? not even ur fiancé? both of u are mad 1 Like |
Re: What House Chores Do You Help Your Girlfriend With?(guys Only) by oladipo81606: 11:39am On Oct 26, 2020 |
Beyond that, it blinds you from reality. Thats where you get 'love is blind' cos you can't really know the person, its illusive. Make a paradigm shift bro |
Re: What House Chores Do You Help Your Girlfriend With?(guys Only) by Nobody: 11:51am On Oct 26, 2020 |
I help her Service her Engine |
Re: What House Chores Do You Help Your Girlfriend With?(guys Only) by mosdii(m): 12:32pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
Your past gestures or help don't count if you cannot provide the immediate help or support she needs. First mistake, you are paying the bills and still doing house chores when she's not contributing anything to the bills. Second mistake, you showed her that you can do house chores and she capitalized on that to manipulate you to do more of it. Third mistake, she is giving you the sign that she wants you to be paying the bills and still be doing house chores because you must help her (entitlement) and you have totally falled for it. lastly, instead of you to cushion her and put her in her place kitchen remember; W= Women E= Education E= Ends in the K= Kitchen Solution Tell her that you cannot help her do her duties since you are fulfilling yours. if she continuously Insinuate that you help her out, tell her to help you with the bills too and hear her response. NB: She has already given you the red flag with her statement. |
Re: What House Chores Do You Help Your Girlfriend With?(guys Only) by ABANGWABOI(m): 12:55pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
cfree14: #ILMOVON #Attitude #Bliv Her statement, if it is like this, then I don't think it is going to work between us" it shows that she is the one in charge.. one day she would abandon you in that relationship, the person that cares less in a relationship controls it.. I wonder why it is hard for you guys to read in between the lines and also smell the coffee .. I am no prophet of doom, but it would end in premium Tears for you.. na just time.. but she go dump you, I use that same lines she use on you on My girlfriend, you know why, she loves me more and I love her less.. I hold the key to the Affair.. As for the chores.. I do my chores myself, I hate someone doing chores for me and I live alone, so if you are cohabiting then I got nothing to say on it.. My peace..I leave you. |
Re: What House Chores Do You Help Your Girlfriend With?(guys Only) by JONSYN7154: 1:32pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
Cooking because I like it. what I hate to do is washing of opts and plates. |
Re: What House Chores Do You Help Your Girlfriend With?(guys Only) by cfree14(m): 2:13pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
mosdii:I appreciate u taking out time to look into my situation man. By d way, she is actually a good person, I don't know who has been giving her advice lately |
Re: What House Chores Do You Help Your Girlfriend With?(guys Only) by Nobody: 2:16pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
When I was staying with my dude Whenever the babe comes to visit us She sweep the floor and she cooks but we help in the kitchen also. Yes the maintenance of the house is for the ladies but since you don't have kids yet You should help somehow If she's sweeping,you can help with the dishes and if she's cooking you can stay with her and help her in picking whatever she needs. No Go date girls wey no fit take care of house or cook ooo. Also it's stupid when you think a girl should not do chores in her boyfriend's apartment because they are not married but you feel it is appropriate for the boyfriend to give her money and take care of some of her needs. Na placenta dey ur head no be brain If u dey reason like that. 1 Like |
Re: What House Chores Do You Help Your Girlfriend With?(guys Only) by mosdii(m): 2:22pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
cfree14: You don't know a woman until you marry her. Nobody is good even Jesus Christ said there's only one that is good and that is his father in heaven. She has given you the signal, stand your ground and correct your mistakes or bounce. |
Re: What House Chores Do You Help Your Girlfriend With?(guys Only) by 2dice01: 2:31pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
cfree14:Why is she in your house everyday ? Even a fiancée shouldn't be in my house everyday See finish will enter body the equation @ the bolded If any Lady am dating says such to me I will just tell her to go to her house .. |
Re: What House Chores Do You Help Your Girlfriend With?(guys Only) by jasman1: 3:04pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
You must be a complete idioot to think that cohabitation is something to be proud of. What a wasted spermmm |
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