Choski78:
You travelled to be with your mother while your hubby is in a critical State, you must be a big clown, why not invite your mum over, meanwhile I don't support taking your properties but you should have stayed with your hubby!

Most of you don't know how to read.

I will like to hear from the other side. The woman's story doesn't jive. Where was she when the husband was sick?. Where was she when the burial is taking place?. She didn't raise alarm when all the above was happening. Now, she is raising alarm because of property. I wish she would have raised this alarm then and not now.

I use to pity some of all this widows until I figure what some families figure. That is they are in it for money them self.

If you struggle with any man, the family know and you earn respect. But not when in a communual Africa, the mother sell her gold and wrapper and the brothers borrow him money to pay rent at some point and a distant uncle paid his 200level school fees. Then you the woman emerge half way to claim everything. No way!

communual it came communual it will return. If she has a child she will be Cartered for and seizable portion given to her. But to say the family should not get anything is unAfrican like.

Even before reading it, I know the culprit will be from Igbo. The same thing they are trying to do with my sister in-law that was killed in this #endsars protest. The family has been informed since Monday 15-10-2020 about the incident. Non of them has shown up. Only for his father and one of his brother to surface yesterday 29-10-2020, saying rubbish about property and the man's bank accout. Not even where the corpse of his son is lying and how to give him a befitting burial. They can do that bullshit with others but not to a full blown Delta man.

sylve11:


As A traveler and a dweller, all my life, i haven't seen anywhere where this stuff is so prevalent if not the Eastern part of this country. I always believe they have their reasons so i will not talk ill of them. I will not talk ill of any tribe..

You are not far from the truth, it's rampant in the Eastern part of the country. The wickedness and greed is just too much.

JidennaJason:
The siblings of the late civil engineer are just being tribalistic.... They don't want a "stranger" to have control of their brothers property. If the lady happens to come from the same village with the husband, this nonsense abduction and seizing of property wouldn't have happened.


Your wife or son should be your Next Of Kin.

Women are notorious for killing their husbands to inherit property.... just be careful that you dont marry/trust the wrong woman.... a woman recently cut off her finger in Europe so she can claim insurance money....

OkoNDOoBo:
The last one that made the news happened in imo, this one in Ebonyi.
If you re non-igbo girl that want to marry igbo man just have it back of your mind that in the event your husband dies, his property belongs to his family. Dont let anyone sugarcoat it for you.
Even igbo ladies re not allowed to inherit their spouse or father property not to talk of non-igbo.

How many plots does Ur married sisters have in your family?

The Imo story u are talking about. I hope u read about the true story. Will you allow Ur brother to be treated like the woman and her stupid daughter?
Stop being silly

The experts in. I know they really came in here to. Insult the east. Now just see

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Ibadansun1:
@ emboldened

Tribal bigot, it's as if you don't know how to read.

He died August 2018

Go back and read the story properly sir.

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I won't give a senseless nuisance the benefit of reply

Ignored

sylve11:


As A traveler and a dweller, all my life, i haven't seen anywhere where this stuff is so prevalent if not the Eastern part of this country. I always believe they have their reasons so i will not talk ill of them. I will not talk ill of any tribe..

As a traveller and dweller, all my life, I haven't seen anywhere where this stuff is so prevalent if not in black countries. The black man is more wicked than the level of wickedness that obtains internationally on average - this is a statistical fact - you can see it from thus thread, female pant for ritual, looting of private businesses, army opening fire on civilians for personal gain of Tinubu son etc.

Irony of life, she is a CATERER but could not CATER for 5 children . My question is why did she leave her husband at home and went to Ondo when he was that terribly sick.

onez:
I will like to hear from the other side. The woman's story doesn't jive. Where was she when the husband was sick?. Where was she when the burial is taking place?. She didn't raise alarm when all the above was happening. Now, she is raising alarm because of property. I wish she would have raised this alarm then and not now.

You are intelligent.

A woman whose sick husband was taken away for treatment without her knowledge until the husband died.

A woman that did not take part in her husband's burial

These are signs they were not in good terms till he died or she abandoned the man and was staying with her family in Ondo.

Why didn't she raise alarm if her husband was abducted? Why didn't she raise alarm if she was denied to partake in her husband's burial?

Why is it now after the coast is clear, and she wants property that we are hearing this?

I won't judge until I hear from the other side. The imo story opened my eyes.

IkpuNnegiEwu44:



Red flag! I won't judge until I hear from the other side.

Your husband had crisis and was taken care of by his siblings(abduction according to u) what effort did u make? Are u sure u didn't abandon Ur husband?

He died in 2008, why us this story coming up now?

I won't judge this until i hear from the other side.

Playing the tribal card won't sell.

A woman whose sick husband is being taken care of, should give an intelligent person hindsight that all is not well with the marriage. If you dig deep, u may find out she abandoned the husband until he died, she now came to claim property.

I'm not in support of the man's siblings, but a wife that abandons a sick husband or was in dispute with a deceased husband must not be allowed to near the man's inheritance.

Guy you get sense.


When I saw that part I was shocked to my marrow. Your husband is severely Ill and that's the time to go visit your mum.

She absconded joor. What rubbish.

Full time housewife is a problem. Marriage is between both families, so if your in-laws don't like you, you will be in hot soup but bear everything for now cos when they grow up you will be proud of them.

My thoughts:

Wife abandoned her husband in his critical condition and travelled with her children to be with her parents.
Husband's sibblings came and took him to hospital.
His case had become too bad that he couldn't pull through.
Man died and the sibblings became embittered and wanted to punish the woman.
The wife can still pursue her case in court.
She is/was a bad wife nonetheless.

Odidigboigbo:
Even before reading it, I know the culprit will be from Igbo. The same thing they are trying to do with my sister in-law that was killed in this #endsars protest. The family has been informed since Monday 15-10-2020 about the incident. Non of them has shown up. Only for his father and one of his brother to surface yesterday 29-10-2020, saying rubbish about property and the man's bank accout. Not even where the corpse of his son is lying and how to give him a befitting burial. They can do that bullshit with others but not to a full blown Delta man.

you should have said "even without reading it" now that you have posted you stupidity for the world to see can you now go back and read out the post? Useless things everywhere you go

loveth360:
Yoruba and wickedness.


You abandoned your husband when he was sick,now you want to come and claim property.



Truth is her Children deserved
to inherit their father properties,because what am seeing from this story is a typical yoruba gold digger who run away but want to come inherit property.

But why is she crying i thought yorubas also give landed properties to their women,Or is it their normal lying way.

You are obviously the man's sister, Princess

I knew it had to be Igbo. Virtually most Igbo traditions have it. That Is why I will Swear with Juju before I die anyone who touches my property and is not my immediate family, will die!!!

ERockson:
They do worse to themselves talkless of you Yoruba, This woman most have disobeyed her parent. You can marry their ladies if you have money though they will almost kill you with demands and responsibilities but don't near igbo men because you will pay for it. My cent to the Yorubas

Igbo and weird customs I have witnessed two of such dealings with their own ladies. They are heartless. When my Landlady's daughter's husband died, the husband's siblings took her to the couple's bedroom, allowed her to take her clothes and jewelleries sent her and her children packing, and sized the husband's businesses. This lady is a Master degree holder. The husband would not allow her to work. God forbid any of my children bringing yamirin home for marriage.

She stated, “I travelled home to Ondo State to be with my mum when I was pregnant with my twin girls and by the time I returned to Abuja, my husband had been taken away to an unknown location, because he had a crisis. We were not allowed to see him until we were informed that he had died in August 2018."

Your husband was critically I'll and you travelled and leave him, then his siblings found out and took him for medication.

You have said it all

louken:
My thoughts:

Wife abandoned her husband in his critical condition and travelled with her children to be with her parents.
Husband's sibblings came and took him to hospital.
His case had become too bad that he couldn't pull through.
Man died and the sibblings became embittered and wanted to punish the woman.
Wife wasn't really legally married to the man. That's why she couldn't pursue her case in court.

sylve11:


As A traveler and a dweller, all my life, i haven't seen anywhere where this stuff is so prevalent if not the Eastern part of this country. I always believe they have their reasons so i will not talk ill of them. I will not talk ill of any tribe..

I have a friend from Kogi whose brothers took away property from their brother wife.

Same story happened in Ogoja Cross River State. It happens, it's not about tribe.

nedekid:

Dont think it is a tribe issue. I hear same happens within marriage of same tribe also. It happens all over the country. It's either the full story is not being disclosed by madam or the man's family are just bad people.

I read through her story and I felt bad, the in-laws were wicked and should be dealt with accordingly but her bringing tribalism to this is uncalled for. Many Igbo women have suffered in the hands of their in-law as a result of their husbands demise though they were Igbos. There several examples of this in the past so she is not the first nor the only woman to have suffered this fate. Let her do her best via court proceedings to get back her properties, thank you. NB not all Yoruba women that married Igbo men have this same issue, my late uncle married from Osun and the woman is fully in charge of all his properties.

Look at what Nnamdi Kanu and Ipob have caused

Now we can see the importance of having siblings. Imagine that man didn't have siblings? He would have died and decayed in his house when the wife was not around. Well, the family should give the woman the property. Their brother is worth more than material things.

Based on my knowledge of Nigerians the family believe she was the cause of her husband's ulcer and that she did it with juju. They were warned by the juju con man not to allow her see the dead body and other stupid things.

lindareep:
“I am a caterer, but my husband didn’t allow me to work when he was alive. Now, I have five children to cater for and I have been reduced to begging to survive; I have been hustling and struggling."


Lesson: Allow your wife to work biko, nobody knows tomorrow

Meanwhile, I Will deliver men enlargement gel to your preferred location within Lagos (Same day delivery)

Allow?

As a woman always have your own

If you don't tell your husband to create accounts for the kids with long term savings

Protect you and yours, always

JidennaJason:
The siblings of the late civil engineer are just being tribalistic.... They don't want a "stranger" to have control of their brothers property. If the lady happens to come from the same village with the husband, this nonsense abduction and seizing of property wouldn't have happened.


Your wife or son should be your Next Of Kin.

It's not by next of kin.

Leave a will.

I don't know this kind of thing still happen..
If you make money or have any property have a will oohh..
Death is inevitable