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Ruling On Woman Refusing Sexual Intercourse With Her Husband by Realismailakabir: 12:53am On Oct 30, 2020 |
If wife does not allow his husband to have intercourse than what will happen to women? Praise be to Allah. If a woman refuses her husband’s request to come to bed with no Islamically-sound reason (such as sickness, or his being drunk, for example), what happens is as described below: Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘If a man calls his wife to his bed and she refuses [and does not come], and he spends the night angry with her, the angels will curse her until morning.’” (Reported by al-Bukhaari, 4794; the additional phrase quoted in square brackets is from Abu Dawood, al-Sunan, Kitaab al-Nikaah, Bab haqq al-zawj ‘ala’l-mar’ah). In the phrase “if a man calls his wife to his bed,” the word “bed” is obviously a metaphor for intercourse. Metaphors are used in the Qur’aan and Sunnah to refer to things about which people usually feel shy. Does this apply only to the nighttime, or does it include daytime too? The answer may be found in a hadeeth narrated by Muslim: “By the One in Whose hand is my soul, there is no man who calls his wife to his bed and she refuses, but the One Who is above the heavens [i.e. Allaah] will be angry with her, until he (her husband) is pleased with her.” Ibn Khuzaymah and Ibn Hibbaan report a hadeeth narrated by Jaabir: “There are three whose prayers will not be accepted and none of whose good deeds will ascend to heaven: a runaway slave, until he returns to his master; a drunken man until he becomes sober; and a woman with whom her husband is angry, until he is pleased with her.” These are general terms, which include both night and day. The phrase “and he spends the night angry with her” refers to the cause of the angels’ curse, because this confirms that she is a sinner, which is a different matter than if he accepts her excuse and is not angry with her, or lets the matter drop. Is she to blame if he keeps her away from his bed? The answer is: no, unless she is the one who started the separation and he is keeping away from her because of it, and she did not apologize but prolonged the separation. But if he is the one who started it, and is thus treating her unfairly, then she is not to blame. In one report, instead of the words “the angels curse her until morning,” the wording is “… until she returns” – and this is a useful variant. This hadeeth tells us that denying a spouse’s rights – whether physical or financial – is something that will inevitably bring about the wrath of Allaah, unless Allaah grants His mercy to the sinner. We also learn that the angels will pray against a sinner so long as he or she persists in the sin. The hadeeth also directs a wife to help her husband and seek his satisfaction, because a man is less patient than a woman when it comes to doing without intercourse. The most disturbing thing for a man is his sexual impulse, so Islam urges women to help their husbands in this regard. https://islamqa.info/en/answers/2006/a-woman-refusing-to-have-intercourse-with-her-husband 13 Likes |
Re: Ruling On Woman Refusing Sexual Intercourse With Her Husband by piffond: 12:56am On Oct 30, 2020 |
May Allaah be pleased with him 11 Likes |
Re: Ruling On Woman Refusing Sexual Intercourse With Her Husband by Realismailakabir: 12:57am On Oct 30, 2020 |
piffond:Ameen 7 Likes |
Re: Ruling On Woman Refusing Sexual Intercourse With Her Husband by AntiChristian: 6:34am On Oct 30, 2020 |
Alhamdulillah for Islam. The only religion authorised by Allah for mankind and Jinns. A woman is to obey his father till he married her to her husband. After Nikaah she is to obey her husband. And both of them have rights according to the Shari'ah! 33 Likes |
Re: Ruling On Woman Refusing Sexual Intercourse With Her Husband by marvin906(m): 11:04am On Oct 30, 2020 |
To fvck na by force.. Shooooooooo make una calm down na 179 Likes 13 Shares
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Re: Ruling On Woman Refusing Sexual Intercourse With Her Husband by Factfinder1(m): 11:05am On Oct 30, 2020 |
Una don start una nonsense 134 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Ruling On Woman Refusing Sexual Intercourse With Her Husband by Factfinder1(m): 11:06am On Oct 30, 2020 |
When will i see a ruling on Islam fighting for allah and marrying underage children and being religious fanatics and bigots 158 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: Ruling On Woman Refusing Sexual Intercourse With Her Husband by Jirehz(m): 11:07am On Oct 30, 2020 |
If you think Christianity is bad... Try Islam And you’ll come back thanking Jesus for being merciful and kind Nairaland feminists am I communicating? 182 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: Ruling On Woman Refusing Sexual Intercourse With Her Husband by Iamsane: 11:07am On Oct 30, 2020 |
Factfinder1: You have choosen to be extra ordinarily stupid every Friday more than any other days online. Continue 31 Likes |
Re: Ruling On Woman Refusing Sexual Intercourse With Her Husband by Adlac(m): 11:07am On Oct 30, 2020 |
Factfinder1: Why not venture into your book for further details! 5 Likes |
Re: Ruling On Woman Refusing Sexual Intercourse With Her Husband by Joshmanuel10(m): 11:08am On Oct 30, 2020 |
To comment on this thread I was asked to confirm if I believe Y It's totally absurd 58 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Ruling On Woman Refusing Sexual Intercourse With Her Husband by Nobody: 11:09am On Oct 30, 2020 |
Islama couples refusing themselves sex is not my business...my own is that you people should stop reciting stuffs on your diiick before force mounting innocent kids on the street 71 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Ruling On Woman Refusing Sexual Intercourse With Her Husband by Charleys: 11:09am On Oct 30, 2020 |
What's the ruling on borrowing money from an atheist nation (China). A country that discriminate against uyighar Muslims? Burns their mosques. And is changing the Quran as we speak. 100 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Ruling On Woman Refusing Sexual Intercourse With Her Husband by advocatejare(m): 11:09am On Oct 30, 2020 |
What's the ruling on a man who refuse to sleep with his wives? Because Muhammad denied his wives sex for one month just because they caught him sleeping with Hafsa's slave on Hafsa's bed. Sahih Bukhari 7:62:130. "Narrated By Um Salama The Prophet took an oath that he would not enter upon some of his wives for one month." 44 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Ruling On Woman Refusing Sexual Intercourse With Her Husband by Adlac(m): 11:11am On Oct 30, 2020 |
marvin906: Yea bro, We have been guilded Not to offend each other(Husband & Wife) thank you! 4 Likes |
Re: Ruling On Woman Refusing Sexual Intercourse With Her Husband by Joshmanuel10(m): 11:12am On Oct 30, 2020 |
What if she's tired? 14 Likes |
Re: Ruling On Woman Refusing Sexual Intercourse With Her Husband by Joshmanuel10(m): 11:13am On Oct 30, 2020 |
kaluxy007:Mad ooooooo 14 Likes |
Re: Ruling On Woman Refusing Sexual Intercourse With Her Husband by marvin906(m): 11:14am On Oct 30, 2020 |
Adlac: She doesn't have to be sick or tired to reject sex.. When someone mind isn't there it isnt unless he's happy screwing a wood 35 Likes
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Re: Ruling On Woman Refusing Sexual Intercourse With Her Husband by Sterope(f): 11:15am On Oct 30, 2020 |
What a simplistic and unrealistic approach to affairs between a man and his woman! One has to question the lack of logical thought of some hadiths, especially those relating to women. Very sexist and dismissive! 42 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Ruling On Woman Refusing Sexual Intercourse With Her Husband by NaijaOlosho(f): 11:17am On Oct 30, 2020 |
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Re: Ruling On Woman Refusing Sexual Intercourse With Her Husband by Nobody: 11:18am On Oct 30, 2020 |
Sterope:they’ll never see the hypocrisy in most of the rulings. Religion is something else, not just Islam 16 Likes |
Re: Ruling On Woman Refusing Sexual Intercourse With Her Husband by womenareapes: 11:18am On Oct 30, 2020 |
behead her! she is an infidel 7 Likes |
Re: Ruling On Woman Refusing Sexual Intercourse With Her Husband by ednut1(m): 11:18am On Oct 30, 2020 |
These rulings most times are archaic 13 Likes |
Re: Ruling On Woman Refusing Sexual Intercourse With Her Husband by Adlac(m): 11:18am On Oct 30, 2020 |
marvin906: Of cos a normal Human lifes revolve around that, there is always ways to express that to your partner. 5 Likes |
Re: Ruling On Woman Refusing Sexual Intercourse With Her Husband by sarahade(f): 11:19am On Oct 30, 2020 |
Mtcheew 4 Likes |
Re: Ruling On Woman Refusing Sexual Intercourse With Her Husband by donatus101(m): 11:19am On Oct 30, 2020 |
Islamabad ndi uchu 14 Likes |
Re: Ruling On Woman Refusing Sexual Intercourse With Her Husband by inoki247: 11:22am On Oct 30, 2020 |
Why she go refuse in the first place you must obey ur Husband 1 Like |
Re: Ruling On Woman Refusing Sexual Intercourse With Her Husband by eddynaira125: 11:22am On Oct 30, 2020 |
I like this people but them they offend me for this country 5 Likes |
Re: Ruling On Woman Refusing Sexual Intercourse With Her Husband by Ifeann(f): 11:24am On Oct 30, 2020 |
You muslims treat women like property. Why didn't Allah tell Mohammed that he will be displeased with men who deny their wives sex. Everything about Islam is fear and control. Realismailakabir: 19 Likes |
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