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... by Nobody: 10:04pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
We have settled our differences, thanks for ur advises 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ... by doris4u(f): 10:08pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Confuzedman:If that is the only reason she called off the wedding, that means she wasn't really interested in getting married to you. 112 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: ... by Nobody: 10:10pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
doris4u:That is the only reason she gave me. she said I expect too much from her in a relationship and she wonders what will happen when we marry 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ... by Innobee99(m): 10:11pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
U are the first man that's angry for dodging a stray bullet 280 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: ... by nifemi25(m): 10:14pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
@poster. God intentionally remove future problem from your head and you are here complaining 65 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: ... by Munzy14(m): 10:15pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
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Re: ... by Nobody: 10:15pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Innobee99:The thing juz weak me.she is a nice person generally 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: ... by Justmye26: 10:15pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
There is definitely something else aside from the cooking stuff, cause I see cooking or doing chores for someone she’s getting married to shouldn’t be a big deal... However, you should try talk to her probably through any of her family members, probably she’s not used to doing stuffs like that.....and please pray about it too, God might be saying something to you through the whole situation... Wish you the best 2 Likes |
Re: ... by Openbusiness: 10:17pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Innobee99:He didn't dodge a stray bullet, he dodged a meteorite bigger than the sun. and the guy is still deliberating on it, maybe he wants problem in his life by force, mtchwwwwwww 70 Likes |
Re: ... by pocohantas(f): 10:19pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Confuzedman: If all you said is true, permit me to say, your fiancee is not a smart human. She asked how you have been coping before she came? Well, now she is there, she should make herself useful!! Sometime ago I was having a chat with my friend. He claims to be a strong defender of the patriarchy, but I still consider him one of the most rational Nigerian men. Anyway, he asked me a question; 64 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: ... by Dtruthspeaker: 10:19pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Confuzedman: Aha, rejoice that you have caught her Wickedness and laziness. She thought to sneak in and she was sure that you were going to marry her with her "error codes", which you were until you caught her and now she is playing you because she knows you are hooked. If you love good things for and to your soul, put her away if you love lamentations and sufferings, do that which you have in mind to do. As you lay your bed.. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ... by Nobody: 10:19pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Confuzedman:From my observation, marriage is likely to go extinct soon. I think the practice of feminism is making almost all the ladies of this generation think men are too harsh on them. A quite percentage of them are just too lazy. Thanks to the new-generation-mothers As if your case is not enough,,, A wedding slated to hold on Dec.19 is dissolved this week because the lady began to behave weirdly, claimed she has no interest again,,, giving flimsy excuses. We got to know that she just met a rich man (married) who promised to get her a befitting apartment if she could get pregnant for him. Some issues came up & her friend had to divulge all the secrets in retaliation for her betrayal, too. While the groom-to-be still finds it so hard to believe/sleep, she is busy littering her WhatsApp stats with the caption ***we move***. OP, I hope you get over it ASAP. I'm used to saying one thing; I definitely can't be sad over someone that's happy somewhere. Do you really think she's worth sacrificing your happiness ![]() Life goes on 37 Likes |
Re: ... by Dtruthspeaker: 10:20pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Openbusiness: Surely, he thinks to tame a crocodile! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ... by SavageResponse(m): 10:21pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Confuzedman: She has met another person who she thinks is better than you. Move on with your life, women full everywhere! ![]() 12 Likes |
Re: ... by Pierocash(m): 10:22pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
What advise do you need again? It is clear she was never into you, rather you were the one into her. Before she said you complained, she was giving you attitude, that is the language of resentment when a woman loses interest in man. God saved you,and you are seeking advise on a testimony of deliverance. Even if she didn't call it off, you should have dumped her with those signs. I dumped a girl 6 years ago for similar thing, I quietly collected my house key from her with one excuse, stopped picking her call, stopped replying her chats, and stopped calling her. It is 6years now, I never told her what was the reason 11 Likes |
Re: ... by princehaxky(m): 10:23pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
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Re: ... by doris4u(f): 10:23pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Confuzedman:I believe God is trying to save you from a failed marriage, pray about it before tieing the knot. 5 Likes |
Re: ... by Nobody: 10:23pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
SavageResponse:she hasn’t,she is stubborn. She told me hw her ex used to tell her to do those things,i thought he was bugging her, never knew it is this bad 1 Like |
Re: ... by Nobody: 10:27pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
pocohantas:Thank u.I suspect her friend is influencing her |
Re: ... by zyzxx(m): 10:29pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Bro, save yourself lot of headache and let the lady go, she still believe she has lot of options So, she won't pay any price to make you happy or for marriage Pls, let her go, if just for now, until life teach her the hard way 4 Likes |
Re: ... by Openbusiness: 10:30pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
As a man, that's one of the early signs you watch out for. I'm 1000000% old school and proud. Any woman that can't do house chores, that can't cook, those are the types you save their numbers with booty call 1, booty call 28....etc, those are the disposables. No time for jonzing. 28 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: ... by pocohantas(f): 10:31pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Confuzedman: Then let her go. It is either her values are fcked or you’re probably not the man she would do those things for. 5 Likes |
Re: ... by SavageResponse(m): 10:35pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Confuzedman: Do you really want to complicate your life by marrying someone who you both agree is a stubborn person?! 6 Likes |
Re: ... by Nobody: 10:36pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
That’s the new generation women for you, they think being a feminist means wearing the same trouser as a man, to save yourself trouble in the future just dump her axx already, she is still lusting for things in the world and she’s not ready to get cuff, I won’t be surprise she’s on tinder,badoo and inmessage since she’s always online. All they know is hookup from morning to night with total strangers. Just get a baby mama and place her on a budget and live your life. 5 Likes |
Re: ... by Nobody: 10:36pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
SavageResponse:You are right broh |
Re: ... by Kobicove(m): 10:37pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Confuzedman: Instead of you to see it as a blessing in disguise you're here whining ![]() 1 Like |
Re: ... by zyzxx(m): 10:40pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Confuzedman:most ladies problems in relationships comes from their suppose friends Don't date nor marry someone with sense Let her go 1 Like |
Re: ... by Nobody: 10:40pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Justmye26: You can’t force someone that doesn’t want to do chores na the fact she couldn’t even pretend just to get married means she’s not down for shit like that, I only see break up as the solution. She will NEVER change, except OP is well to do and can afford a cook and a maid for the rest of their lives. 3 Likes |
Re: ... by sunnitus: 10:40pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
My brother if I were you, I will go to the church and give thanksgiving to God, because God just saved you from a shattered home which might have lead to death. She doesn't know the way to the market and doesn't know how to cook and refused to learn. Brother marriage is not something you enter out of pity and sympathy, or force someone into. love is not everything in marriage so don't be blinded by it, dis is a sign that she is not your wife, thanks to God her true nature has been revealed to you. The reason why we have broken homes today is the ignorant of a sign of compatibility, don't say you will manager her like that because there is not management in marriage. So check whether you guys are compatible or not, but from what I am seeing there, brother you guys are not compatible. You may be ready for marriage but she is not ready, so don't force her into marrying you or say you will manage her like, else you will regret it later. Just keep praying to God for your own flesh of your flesh and bone of your bone, as for her, I don't think she is the right woman for you. 1 Like |
Re: ... by Nobody: 10:41pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
You dodged a bullet.You should be be happy she broke things off. 2 Likes |
Re: ... by Sawzer(m): 10:43pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Confuzedman:I wouldn't call that real love and if you eventually marry her you'll see more of her true colors. Long distance sef usually don't work Thank your stars you don't have to waste your time and that she called the marriage off, she obviously wasn't serious about it. Move on. BTW, why are you guys always saying you created a new account just to ask for advice? ![]() 1 Like |
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