How have you guys been coping with it ?
*That believe that one has to go to school and graduate to get a good job
* That believe that one has to have a car and house to be comfortable and ready for marriage
* That believe that one has to possess some qualities to be a wife or husband materials
* That believe on the need to reproduce so that your offspring can inherit your properties
* The discrimination of one’s religion
* The discrimination of ones races ,tribes and skin color
This is just a few ......
Coupled with that fact Nigeria as whole is not making adulting an easy task it is very Herculean ..
Everything is just depressing and frustrating with the constant needs to have money ..
My Old man try Walai Na just now I sabi why that man they always leave house early in the morning come back late for night and it doesn’t stop..

How are you guys managing your adulting or youthful life ...

I wish I can reverse to ten years back
Many things needs to be corrected

It's a scam when you're broke and can't provide the basic necessities for your family. Don't worry my brother e go better.

Nazgul:
It's a scam when you're broke and can't provide the basic necessities for your family. Don't worry my brother e go better.

haha Savage

God will punish bubu

Nazgul:
It's a scam when you're broke and can't provide the basic necessities for your family. Don't worry my brother e go better.

Some of you just don’t have sense ... how has your input or statement bettered the life of a Nigerian hoping to get inspired on how you surpassed the unforeseen circumstances one has to face growing up .. Are those facts up there based on the need to have money alone ?? .. for your info am not broke and I do live comfortably..

The only family that needs an helper is yours

Adulthood can never be a SCAM. Look here, the present state u are in now is solely based on the DECISIONS you took in the past. Adulthood is the bomb. You sit your ass down and blame whoever for your predicament is not going to help you.
For the future you desire, start working now.

Not forgetting the pussies you will Bleep in your adulthood. No go there.

LIVINGICON:
Adulthood can never be a SCAM. Look here, the present state u are in now is solely based on the DECISIONS you took in the past. Adulthood is the bomb. You sit your ass down and blame whoever for your predicament is not going to help you.
For the future you desire, start working now.

Not forgetting the pussies you will Bleep in your adulthood. No go there.

That last part tho

I swear u on point....back den I cnt wait to be an adult to stay on my own, av privacy n av all d girls i want. ....now I av DM all and it seems like I made d wrong wish back den

U don mean it. How can you say adulthood na scam? When you were young, you had to wait till it is dark to press that girl way you and am dey do mummy and daddy boobi, if u get luck sef u go chok am. But as an adult, you fit book hotel if you never get your own aparte, better still if you get your own place. You go invite am over to spend the night which she will willing come.

You cant drive as a young chap, but as an adult, get the money and maybe you will drive a Bentley.. Both stages have it's own advantage. Just man up and play the game of life.. #iLOVELIFE!

Life itself is scam...

Canalmind:
U don mean it. How can you say adulthood na scam? When you were young, you had to wait till it is dark to press that girl way you and am dey do mummy and daddy boobi, if u get luck sef u go chok am. But as an adult, you fit book hotel if you never get your own aparte, better still if you get your own place. You go invite am over to spend the night which she will willing come.

You cant drive as a young chap, but as an adult, get the money and maybe you will drive a Bentley.. Both stages have it's own advantage. Just man up and play the game of life.. #iLOVELIFE!

The game of life isn’t easy as you think ... why are y’all talking about sex only kilodeee them use pussy swear for una other things that affect us an adult nko ...

Offpoint1:
Life itself is scam...

No be lie the thing be like magic ..

paulolee:
I swear u on point....back den I cnt wait to be an adult to stay on my own, av privacy n av all d girls i want. ....now I av DM all and it seems like I made d wrong wish back den

Those things becomes boring

I wish I can reverse to ten years back Many things needs to be corrected

Wish I'm 16 regret some mistake

Shortcut2life:
How have you guys been coping with it ?
*That believe that one has to go to school and graduate to get a good job
* That believe that one has to have a car and house to be comfortable and ready for marriage
* That believe that one has to possess some qualities to be a wife or husband materials
* That believe on the need to reproduce so that your offspring can inherit your properties
* The discrimination of one’s religion
* The discrimination of ones races ,tribes and skin color
This is just a few ......
Coupled with that fact Nigeria as whole is not making adulting an easy task it is very Herculean ..
Everything is just depressing and frustrating with the constant needs to have money ..
My Old man try Walai Na just now I sabi why that man they always leave house early in the morning come back late for night and it doesn’t stop..

How are you guys managing your adulting or youthful life ...

you are in your 20s, aren't you?

It is only an adult that can do Adult-things, like,***, go to the cinemas, drink..., Eat the biggest chicken with no consequences, Drive and come home at 4am, people call you sir/madam and serve you etc.

Meanwhile na pikin den dey send up and down, shout on top e head say e be idiot...

LIVINGICON:
Adulthood can never be a SCAM. Look here, the present state u are in now is solely based on the DECISIONS you took in the past. Adulthood is the bomb. You sit your ass down and blame whoever for your predicament is not going to help you.
For the future you desire, start working now.

Not forgetting the pussies you will Bleep in your adulthood. No go there.

You were making sense until that line.
Please we are adult here.

Your life decisions make a big part of your achievement but when you say “solely”, you have started to pass in some lies. Last time I checked I didn’t choose the country, parent, race and surname I was given.

Anyway I still support the notion of not playing blame games. Instead we should fight our way through.

lol, forever young

stanliwise:

You were making sense until that line.
Please we are adult here.

Your life decisions make a big part of your achievement but when you say “solely”, you have started to pass in some lies. Last time I checked I didn’t choose the country, parent, race and surname I was given.

Anyway I still support the notion of not playing blame games. Instead we should fight our way through.

Nobody choose his country, parent or race either. So those are not excuses. Trust me, excuses are about the easiest thing to find. This life is what you make of it.

Shortcut2life:


That last part tho

It is the truth. After working ur ass off, one need the pussies to COOL OFF. I don't drink, I don't smoke. But u see dat pussy, it is non negotiable. Adulthood is sweet.

DrFunmisticGlow:
you are in your 20s, aren't you?

Yeap

LIVINGICON:


Nobody choose his country, parent or race either. So those are not excuses. Trust me, excuses are about the easiest thing to find. This life is what you make of it.

Stop just being too hard. I understand those motivational speech bro. Why not take your own advise? You’re indirectly trying to say we should throw all the blames on ourselves! Take your own advice.

It is better to stop blaming yourself nor other people and work things out. Motivational speech gone wrong

Like I said everyone should fight to come out from any situation they find themselves.
People who work things out are the hero. Losers soak and blame themselves to depressions or blame others