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Re: The Red Truth by Jerry59: 12:04pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
Kizito2nv:Lol, now i see why they say it’s hard to advice someone in “love”. Don’t be a coconut head kinda pesin. There are lots of better girls out there besides focus on yourself cos that’s what matters 5 Likes |
Re: The Red Truth by Kizito2nv(m): 12:04pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
Joskiro50:Thanks bro |
Re: The Red Truth by Kizito2nv(m): 12:10pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
Jerry59:Bro I get you, but how person go take marry with all these . I'm in my early 30's , what's the possibility that the next"better girl won't be worse" besides my problem here is my bruised ego thought I was in control all these while. |
Re: The Red Truth by Jerry59: 12:19pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
Kizito2nv:That’s why i said focus on yourself. They’ll come around when they notice you’re doing good yourself then what you decide to do with them is left to you... if you decide to simp again, that’s all on you. Peace! 10 Likes |
Re: The Red Truth by Nobody: 12:24pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
Acceptance is one major big step in the road that leads to recovery. Na wetin see finish dey cause for relationship be this. You no longer have any ace up your sleeve to throw her off guard hence why she said your ideologies are different. Anyway na mumu you be, you no kee person so we no fit dey look you dey suffer like this. The only thing you have to do now is to summon self control, if you don't have, borrow it and if they refuse to borrow you, steal it. You will need the self control to keep you from reaching out to her because nothing irritates a girl more than a guy she lets go who is continually pestering her life for reconciliation. Even if you are dying inside, don't call her. I promise you that if you can hold your side, before the end of the year, she will call you and start picking offence that though you are no longer together, you should at least be checking up on her once in a while as if she resemble bet9ja running ticket. Stop begging her unless you want to beg her all the days of your life because whatever you get a girl with is what you will most likely use to grease the engine of the relationship. Kizito2nv: 17 Likes |
Re: The Red Truth by Kizito2nv(m): 12:35pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
Jerry59:I can't simp anymore not with the little I have found, if only I knew the little I know now I won't even be having this anxiety right now |
Re: The Red Truth by Kizito2nv(m): 12:40pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
alexistaiwo:That's my plan. I'm an introvert so it shouldn't be difficult. |
Re: The Red Truth by Nobody: 1:09pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
"Everybody has a plan till they get punched in the mouth" Kizito2nv: 4 Likes |
Re: The Red Truth by Pstarogood0100: 1:11pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
Kizito2nv: One thing about being too nice in a relationship is that you will be taken for granted. Women hate nice guys subconsciously because they don't have the life of their own. Being nice has its own value when you mix it up with bad boy character which makes you a good bad guy. How can you keep presurrizing a lady consistently to reconcile with you. Relationship is never done that way. In a relationship, begging a lady to reconcile with you is different from when she begs you to come back. When a man presurrizes woman to come back he looks disgusting to her but when a lady presurrizes reconciliation she becomes more attractive to the man because she is now submissive and the guy will be willing to accept her back. But, in the case of a lady the man looks disgusting to her for pressuring her and nothing will make her accept such man. Even if she pitied him she will be in absolutely control and everything will be done in her own term. Let me leave you with this quote : A lady does not want a man to need her but to want her. If your want becomes need then, she no longer wants you. At all time you must keep making her to depend on you for the relationship to exist not you depending on her. This is the rule of relationship. Whenever you break this rule you will suffer it, this is the phonemenon of how relationship works for men. Since you love her and don't want to loose her. no 1. thing to do is to give her some space to miss you like 1 to 2 weeks. She must surly want to hear from you 100% guaranteed. This is the advantage you have got. Keep all your nice attitude to one side and subtly show her that you have moved on. Ladies desire a man that other ladies wants not a man that have never double dated them for once. No matter how handsome and rich you are if she knows you don't have option she would take you for granted. Even if you are not the double dating type, fake it and watch and see how it works. Don't get it wrong, being nice to your woman is good but learn to draw the line let's she will take it for granted. If truly she is your woman, learn to Bleep her very well. it also matters a lot. listen : Not that she doesn't like you but you have killed your relationship with too much of niceness tips: after reconciliation, Don't always pick all her calls. Dont call her all the time. Cause dramas once in a while. Accuse her of cheating on you even if it's not true. And make sure you double date her once in a while not because you like to do it but because all these are the formulas to attract ladies into your life. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Red Truth by rhynoemmie(m): 1:12pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
Kizito2nv: being an introvert won't really help else in the case of building finances maybe by online work or mentally indulging your self in books, but to completely get over her, you need to go out, meet new people, practice what you've read here and up yourself socially from 1-10.. but if you still want her back then you can play the revenge game by going after her friend that is way hotter (this method is not advised sha, just decided to put it up.. okwa maka just in case) 2 Likes |
Re: The Red Truth by Kizito2nv(m): 2:04pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
Pstarogood0100: Thanks boss |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:42pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
3.Game: This is the most important element of a man’s personal power, not just with women but with people/existence. Game is interchangeable with “social skills.” Gaming and building attraction doesn’t just have to mean sexually but it applies non-sexually too. It’s all about cultivating your personality and being real, not needing to act because you don’t like who you are but actually enriching who you are to be powerful and attractive. It makes people value and accept you. This is the stuff that builds your social circles, allows you access into other social circles, allows you to network and gets you the job at the interview. Game is developed over the span of one’s life and never becomes obsolete or irrelevant. I will go further and subdivide game into elements which consists of: ¶ Charm/confidence – this is simple narcissism, self-confidence, self-assuredness, this is what demonstrates non-verbally that you are a high value person. ¶ Machiavellianism/sophistry – knowing how to perceive and play a situation to come out victorious, knowing what’s real and what’s not, why people are doing what they’re doing, knowing when you’re being played either as a pawn or as a theatrical fool in someone else’s game ¶ Humour – Humour is often at the expense of negativity, it produces positive energy from a negative source and communicates non-verbally that you are capable of staring at the face of failure/negativity without becoming unhinged by it. Humour is a cornerstone of power and influence and ties in closely to charm. ¶ Wit – this is what allows you to pass shit tests, essential if you ever want to get anywhere in life, everyone will shit test you when they first meet you so they can personally ascribe value based on their impression of you , your eloquence, the creativity of your communication and a successful delivery style are all elements of wit, this is the cornerstone of a strong frame 19 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: The Red Truth by ToluBolu01(m): 6:26pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
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Re: The Red Truth by JasperVII(m): 7:43pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
I'm starting to feel sorry for Johnny Depp. Man has been going through a lot because of a woman who has so much evidence against her. 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:52pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
JasperVII:Thats the power of a p*ssy. A woman can destroy a man from a king to a slave. Last time i heard, amber heard is dating another lady. 8 Likes |
Re: The Red Truth by JasperVII(m): 8:03pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
Dpsychologist:For some reason I feel really sorry for him. Makes me wonder what I'd do if I ever found myself in a situation like that. Though what I've learnt here so far I don't think I will 1 Like |
Re: The Red Truth by Akinbahm(m): 9:10pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
Kizito2nv: You never drop the full gist, ow you wan make them advise u? |
Re: The Red Truth by DXXMI: 9:22pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
Kizito2nv: You sound like a fellow who is teachable. I love ur straightforwardness n it has earned you my one million dollar advise. If you want to attract butterflies, don't chase after them bro. U may ask, then how do I get them? Plant flowers, colorful flowers and butterflies will come to you in their numbers. Those that have ears, let them hear 19 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: The Red Truth by Kizito2nv(m): 9:44pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
Akinbahm: Bro writing so much and talking about her brought me to this point. I feel keeping things short and simple is the way out for starters I'm one of those guys that loves to write epistle on woman matter but after reading uptil page 10 I realized men they are not worth that stress I'm at page 19 and don't even know if really want her back What are my gaining from the relationship sef mtweeee Have even shared the link to my friends on WhatsApp guys need to wise up our mumu don do 5 Likes |
Re: The Red Truth by Kizito2nv(m): 9:46pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
DXXMI:thanks bro I already feel rebranding Though still angry at the years I have been a fool but nothing spoil shaa 1 Like |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:27pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
Kizito2nv: You are welcome here bro. Some of us were once in your shoes. I Read your story. @bolded that is a thought provoking question. From such question i can deduce that you are the one who invest more in the relationship and as such gives her more power. You are the one investing more in the relationship. You need to know that the one who initiates break up holds 80% power. They can choose either to get back or not with their ex. Bro, relationship is a game of power and she has all the power. Just forget about her for now. Get yourself occupied with other things. Start focusing more on yourself. You came into this world alone and you will go back alone. Love yourself first. 13 Likes |
Re: The Red Truth by Akinbahm(m): 12:14am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Kizito2nv: Sincerely, kudos to you and you must be a fast learner. I still wonder why people tag red pillers misogyny probably because they failed to face reality which is haunting them big time. No need to advice u but the only advice I fit render now is just create that time to read till last page and follow those wordings especially those who seek solution to their relationship ish cause that will aid you better in what to do with your so called girl. Lastly dont forget redpill is amoral in nature its left to u to use it either morally or immorally. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Red Truth by fattprince(m): 7:46am On Nov 07, 2020 |
alexistaiwo:You are a wise man. I remembered my ex though I broke up with her and bwe became friends. One day she told me she was going home (we were in school). So I went home too that evening she was suppose to go in the morning. I didn't have a phone then. Would you believe what I meant when I got back? I put my sim in some else's phone. So she don call me die. I quickly called her as per the simp I was, would you believe the lashing I received claiming I didn't tell her I was going home, I was like it didn't matter because she said was going home too and I even decided to go home after she said that. She problaby fell sick but was that my fault. I told her when she couldn't reach me why didn't she call her boyfriend. Omo I only ended up fuelling the fire oh. I sha apologised before she forgave me. 2 Likes |
Re: The Red Truth by IhateMyDad: 9:11am On Nov 07, 2020 |
please I wanna ask
what's perhaps another word for solipsism or the simplest way one can explain it |
Re: The Red Truth by PhillipPHD(m): 10:37am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Ekwensu e romancia mami wota! 4 Likes
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Re: The Red Truth by binary007: 11:12am On Nov 07, 2020 |
alexistaiwo: Brain, Humor and street all in one expression. I don't know you but I Cap you man. 4 Likes |
Re: The Red Truth by Asekhamid: 1:59pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Kizito2nv:a wise man once said "courage is the ability to stand up and speak,courage is also the ability to sit and listen" I love your courage for coming out while some just let this kill them inside. it seems you loved her genuinely but girls hardly appreciate when someone loves them more..Don't take the redpill and become a monster to girls because you might end up chasing away those that love you genuinely also,take the redpill and know when a relationship isn't going well and its time to MOVE ON. I will tell you something I tell myself when am about to simp(not just to women but in any relationship) and I believe it will be helpful to you and other guys "I DESERVE BETTER" saying that to myself has really helped me when relating with people and see how I am being used or stepped on...if I love a girl,I show her but if she doesn't reciprocate the love I just tell myself that and MOVE ON.. The secret to life is to never settle for less.. Always know that "YOU ARE THE PRIZE" and you will live like a king.... The truth is the dating game is rigged against Men.. ALWAYS INVEST IN YOURSELF AND NOT WOMEN... and remember YOU DESERVE BETTER.... 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Red Truth by Kizito2nv(m): 4:36pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Asekhamid: God help the next unfortunate girl . That's all I can tell you bro. |
Re: The Red Truth by Bedesipop(m): 1:32pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
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Re: The Red Truth by Joskiro50: 3:00pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
Kizito2nv: Nah nah, don't say that. You are unconsciously resorting to hatred for them girls. That's not the goal.. Rather say the next girl will be FORTUNATE. You know why? Because you know better now. You can now handle her better. Trust me, girls don't say it, but they love red-pilled men. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Red Truth by Snow02: 4:06pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
Joskiro50:Funny enough alot of women have started confessing their love for redpilled men they hate that we know so much |
Re: The Red Truth by sweet7oyin(m): 4:35pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
If a girl does something wrong to u in a relationship and ur kindof complaining about it cause u want her to change. Can this be called simping. Cause i know of girls that broke up with their bf causes they felt he complained alot.. 1 Like 1 Share |
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