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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Omoluabi16(m): 10:39am On Nov 07, 2020 |
No wonder marriages or relationship don't last any more. The comments here.. This annoying forced gender war.Nobody wants to even compromise anymore. 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by safarigirl1(f): 10:42am On Nov 07, 2020 |
xana101:it's ok |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by SmartPolician: 10:42am On Nov 07, 2020 |
JoeEeL: Great insight! What do you mean by evolution? |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Glawrie: 10:42am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess:Hmmm My dear that was then o Because in this new era of nigeria. Both partners have to be up and doing. Its even advisable to get a job or learn a trade before getting married so as to support your husband. Stop having that kind of mentality No man wants a liability for a wife. Even if he is a rich man and doesnt want you to work, he will get tired one day and seeing you always sitting at home, eating and getting fat will begin to irritate him, its still better to have a shop you go to. With that, you can share your time the way you want. My dear please hustle oo, its very important because now it is all man for himself. When you are married, you wont have to wait for your husband to come back from work before you buy soap to wash your clothes. Every little contribution you make in the marriage will be very much appreciated. It's not bad if you hustle now and take your own car to your husband's house, you will be well respected by your inlaws infact. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Benbelor(m): 10:44am On Nov 07, 2020 |
foolbuster:"A part of his natural responsibility" can you hear yourself speak? So you sit your ass in the house and do nothing, that's what you want. What kind of generation of girls do we have now? I rather marry the ugu girl at market you talked about and brush her up than marry a girl with your mentality. God bless every support wifes out there! 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Mutemenot(m): 10:44am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Hassanmaye: my hand no dey oh 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Alexaonfleek: 10:44am On Nov 07, 2020 |
WeRblessed:Okay na. For your mind you are a virtuous woman. |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Lalasdiva(f): 10:45am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Oizatobad:hmmm |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by omoharry(f): 10:45am On Nov 07, 2020 |
You guys on nairaland are really confused bunch of people .. Wetin una want sef? Women dey financial independent, una go run away & call them feminist ,una go sey they are too independent minded . Then una see student or unemployed ladies with no money ,una go still complain sey they are olosho or leeches .Wetin una want ? One thing has to give .. Its either you have a liberal mind to date an independent woman where there is no master and slave relationship or go for the one that has no money that will be totally submissive to you ; where you can be the man of the house . Most men prefer when they are in charge of all affairs in the home, especially in the areas of finance.They don't like it when thier women earn more than them...It makes them highly insecured and less relevant..so they rather date a woman they earn better than ..So guys what do you people want? 5 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by shapman: 10:47am On Nov 07, 2020 |
ZIINI: God bless you for this. |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Alexaonfleek: 10:48am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Fussion1000: Heu There is too much sense in your head. God bless you and the fortunate woman that will end up with you. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by 123Map(m): 10:48am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: Are you really a virgin?? |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Ghostmode2two(m): 10:48am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: I see you here, the billionaire girl |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by specialmati(m): 10:49am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Pelxmiye:please always read your bible ooh.yes bro since some of our ladies dont read the bible they dont know what God said about them. thats why they think being a woman is all about idleness and lazyness looking for who to give them money.the dont know that being a woman is alot of work.may God help our generation 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Ibrahiimo(m): 10:49am On Nov 07, 2020 |
[s] omoharry:[/s] |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kwinesther: 10:49am On Nov 07, 2020 |
As civilization as taken over the world, some men still don't want their wives to work at all. A parent to one of my student confided in me recently that her husband has ordered her not to work despite the fact that she is a graduate. She said she doesn't know what to do anymore because she's just getting fatter and fatter everyday, all she does is to take care of the house and children then watch movies, she has tried talking to him but her husband is so insecure about her meeting other men because of her very curvy body shape. Ogechi my Igbo friend during NYSC told me she has never applied for any job because her successful business man husband want her to stay at home and take care of their two kids. Just early this year, the man bought her a nice car and they are living so comfortably. My point is this, not all women likes to stay idle, I really don't like it and many women don't as well but what choice do they have If their husband wants the opposite? And these are men in their thirties not old men. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by SouthernTaliban(m): 10:50am On Nov 07, 2020 |
omoharry: Most men of nowadays prefer a lady that's earns and contribute to the home bills. Nobody want carry anybody cross again. This is a very honest opinion! |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Jkindness: 10:51am On Nov 07, 2020 |
dominique: chi chi... Dont loud it, it might send a shock observer down the spine. 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Ibrahiimo(m): 10:52am On Nov 07, 2020 |
WeRblessed:the BEST comment so FAR!! CASE CLOSED!!! 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Mizfabulous18(f): 10:53am On Nov 07, 2020 |
You know the issue with Nigerian men is that they want to have it all in life you cannot have it all ...most couples abroad the man works the woman works yes nt all of them but most of them now in a scenario like that the chores in the house are also shared infact the women are allowed to have a life socially regardless of having children or not and if u are divorcing the women it more of a disadvantage to u than an advantage atimes....that y u see Nigeria or African ladies go there and when their African spouse is expecting them to do as we in Africa do there is a separation...Now in Nigeria m nt saying your wife shouldn't work but it possible to marry a woman that is working class nd after children she just chills nd face the home it also possible to marry a woman that is a housewife then after the kids r a bit grown she start working nd even becomes the breadwinner later just like my mom so saying she must be working before u marry her doesn't guarantee anything trust me that a fact ..now Nigerian men will want to hv a working class wife but still expect u to do the chores and not hv a social life outside them ...u hv to be submissive be a wife a mother 100% work and still share the Bill's with them those westerners u use in comparison dont dont do that ..that y thet hire cleaners nannies the women over there basically just works nd in the weekend spend time with the family but will a Nigerian man allow this that the question ..like I said u cant have it all if ur rich enough for ur wife to be a housewife fine if ur nt then get a working class lady but stop with the pressuring..most men nowadays r even lazy compared to our fathers time....if u don't want to marry then dont marry u dont hv to carry a speaker explaining to us why nd blaming it on not seeing good ladies around because there are ...the problem is u r lazy u dont want to work hard enough but u want to be crowned head of the family and still cheat on ur wives....those men who hv made it big before marrying do they hv two heads? I know guys that started from nothing nd r doing very well in this same Nigeria that to tell u ..dere is no need to always generalize things ..look at ur celebrities they have money y r dey not getting and staying married are they not working class?? Nigerian boys nw r just lazy..do u think if Nigeria was like America all the women won't be working?? 6 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by annyz: 10:55am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: But only a man money is supposed to be shared This is outdated mentality & that's why most homes are failing due to selfishness. |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by annyz: 10:56am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: But only a man money is supposed to be shared This is outdated mentality & that's why most homes are failing. |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by vikgreen01(m): 10:56am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Adesolomon2014(m): 10:57am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: Manners is when you are rational in thinking. Do you possess that? Think shout it |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by moskhoe(m): 10:57am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: "Like" 'it' a must" Wack composition |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 10:58am On Nov 07, 2020 |
pocohantas:Lol. Why nt check d car park/garage nd d butcher house to make dz same rough count like d market wasnt going to be dominated by women b4. your point is very invalid 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by makeherscream(m): 10:58am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess:you supposed to be ashamed of yourself . |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by foolbuster: 10:59am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Benbelor: Yes. A woman is not supposed to work and provide for the family unless she wants to. That is exclusively the role of the man. Men that shamelessly advocate for women to work and provide for the family are weak men. And they do not deserve to be called the head of the house. They surrendered and accepted to share that previlege with the woman the moment they decided to share their natural duty of providers with her. These days society is full of broke men who can't fulfill there natural roles so they shift some of the burden to the women and deaperately try to make it the new normal. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by LawyerEmilord(m): 11:00am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess:The most foolish and unreasonable comment I have seen in almost five years. |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by riczy(m): 11:00am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess:ppl like u are worse off Dan Covid-19 |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Sexietharam(f): 11:01am On Nov 07, 2020 |
stacyadams:someone with upto 50 body counts, an oloshi for that matter is here making noise 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by lordally(m): 11:01am On Nov 07, 2020 |
pocohantas: I swear to God you just earned my Respect ...I'm following you ASAP |
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