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Re: Why I Think Is A Must Intending Couples Should Stay Together Before Marriage by brain54(m): 12:33am On Nov 08, 2020 |
DimplesLikeWow:accurate. 2 Likes |
Re: Why I Think Is A Must Intending Couples Should Stay Together Before Marriage by Nobody: 2:51am On Nov 08, 2020 |
How will you feel, if the woman you married as wife, had stayed together with 5 different men before you eventually married her. (If you married such a lady, you are her 6th husband) Nobody can knw ALL characters his/her partner is portrayed and can display in future. Boyfriend that don't use to drink may become drunkard after 10 yrs of marriage. Ur girlfriend who wasn't a nagging girl, may become nagging after into marriage, perhaps because of lack of job or otherwise. The only antidote for break up in marriage is that *The two should continuing struggle to bring income to the family. *They should learn how to quickly reach compromise on issues bothering their differences. 9 Likes |
Re: Why I Think Is A Must Intending Couples Should Stay Together Before Marriage by Aaaaarghmed(m): 6:01am On Nov 08, 2020 |
op everything u posted is true,I've experienced it.Even though she loves you if the money no dey come as she think na steady insult nd frustrations.she can even wake up frowning her face.sometimes when u have issues and because u Dnt hit her she start raising her hand to hit you. 2 Likes |
Re: Why I Think Is A Must Intending Couples Should Stay Together Before Marriage by ednut1(m): 6:05am On Nov 08, 2020 |
Hmmm deep. Men don suffer. In this era of female empowerment. They still want us men to foot all the bills. Sigh 1 Like |
Re: Why I Think Is A Must Intending Couples Should Stay Together Before Marriage by IdJack(m): 6:06am On Nov 08, 2020 |
OP you are 96% right. |
Re: Why I Think Is A Must Intending Couples Should Stay Together Before Marriage by Godoverevery: 6:31am On Nov 08, 2020 |
Fussion1000:check the thread well....my point is intending couples not bf and gf. once the marriage is set I feel is necessary you live together "6month or 1yr" before you marry each other....is like warm excecise before a football match despite all the training you must excecise few minutes before the main match...you just don't jump on the pitch 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why I Think Is A Must Intending Couples Should Stay Together Before Marriage by Godoverevery: 6:37am On Nov 08, 2020 |
DimplesLikeWow:Well my point is directed towards intending couples. I no what am saying.....all you wrote up there things don't work that way...even parent encourage cohabiting this days....I just feel it prepares you into knowing what marriage is about before the really thing. |
Re: Why I Think Is A Must Intending Couples Should Stay Together Before Marriage by Nobody: 6:45am On Nov 08, 2020 |
Since men are only valued for their ability to provide, I wonder what guys find so appealing about this whole marriage business. |
Re: Why I Think Is A Must Intending Couples Should Stay Together Before Marriage by Nobody: 6:53am On Nov 08, 2020 |
Godoverevery: I knw what am saying, if you read my own very well I said if you married such woman its ur 6th wife. You are with a woman for a whole 1 yr (366 days) test running her, is she not ur wife already, oga you are a wicked, in fact spiritually u re husband n wife Before you say something you considered it first, if it were your daughters, sister ,ur own wife... Don't be selfish because you are a man. 3 Likes |
Re: Why I Think Is A Must Intending Couples Should Stay Together Before Marriage by Godoverevery: 7:05am On Nov 08, 2020 |
Fussion1000:oooo don't know you a pastor.....nobody holy not even you bro... |
Re: Why I Think Is A Must Intending Couples Should Stay Together Before Marriage by Sixfeetbelle: 7:14am On Nov 08, 2020 |
SILENTandSMART2: I think it's about time you removed "smart" from your moniker. It's highly misleading. 1 Like |
Re: Why I Think Is A Must Intending Couples Should Stay Together Before Marriage by Sixfeetbelle: 7:16am On Nov 08, 2020 |
dorin27: The shalaye ko necesstri 1 Like |
Re: Why I Think Is A Must Intending Couples Should Stay Together Before Marriage by SILENTandSMART2: 7:17am On Nov 08, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Lol, No problem, |
Re: Why I Think Is A Must Intending Couples Should Stay Together Before Marriage by Sixfeetbelle: 7:21am On Nov 08, 2020 |
Godoverevery: As if engagements don't break up before the wedding date itself. He still has a point. Intending couples living together before marriage can suddenly discover they aren't compatible and call off the wedding a month to the D-day. It's not advisable to cohabit with your intended. You may while dating but not after proposal cause by then, both of you should already be in sync. 3 Likes |
Re: Why I Think Is A Must Intending Couples Should Stay Together Before Marriage by Godoverevery: 7:30am On Nov 08, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:so you prefer they cohabit during the bf and gf rather when things are serious....first all before you engage a lady you 80% sure u want to marry so breaking up an engagement must be for a tangible reasons. Only a lady with bad characters/have secrets will be scared of this....the reason am supporting this is for a man to know what he is getting into. There are something can only know about each other when you live under same roof eg the type of food she like to eat might not go well with you so during this time you start adapting just to mention a few. |
Re: Why I Think Is A Must Intending Couples Should Stay Together Before Marriage by Sixfeetbelle: 7:42am On Nov 08, 2020 |
Godoverevery: I don't know how you see engagements but for me, it's like a mini wedding. By this time, half of your relatives already know you're marrying this person and is already praying for the success of the marriage. If a guy engages me, my parents are meeting him straight away. At this point, he's already my husband and we're just waiting for the official ceremony. So it doesn't make sense for me to agree to marry a man I don't know that well. And for me to know him that well, I must have lived with him at least for a while to decide he's the one. Asides, I believe that a man who has engaged a lady already chose her to be his wife after weighing his pros and cons. He's not "still looking" for a wife. He has already found her. So cohabiting with her to discover whatever else is just the actions of a selfish man in full display. Dating/courtship is there for you to discover who you want to be with and then make a decision you'll stand by. Once you propose, you've stamped on it. Any other thing after that is unnecessary and will lead to more problems than solution for the couple. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why I Think Is A Must Intending Couples Should Stay Together Before Marriage by thunderfirebubu: 7:55am On Nov 08, 2020 |
dorin27:Can you beat your chest and tell me you are different? |
Re: Why I Think Is A Must Intending Couples Should Stay Together Before Marriage by fati2001(m): 7:56am On Nov 08, 2020 |
Shortcut2life:the truth about himself and others like him. 4 Likes
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Re: Why I Think Is A Must Intending Couples Should Stay Together Before Marriage by Godoverevery: 8:04am On Nov 08, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:please can you explain what you think my thread is all about?? because honestly I don't know if my English is that bad to understand. Do you know there are people who get married without even staying 24hrs under the same roof before.. some religion don't permit it..you spending weekend with him isn't enough..and I don't think is sensible to live with man during dating and courtship the lady most likely will have several abortion....Why do most couple have issues first few months of marriage cohabiting after engagement is mainly for adjustment to each other life style and way of doing things and understanding the challenges, demand before things start proper my dear. |
Re: Why I Think Is A Must Intending Couples Should Stay Together Before Marriage by Snitch24(m): 8:14am On Nov 08, 2020 |
Ezi1993: Lmao seriously Wsh part of the universe do u come come from |
Re: Why I Think Is A Must Intending Couples Should Stay Together Before Marriage by Gerrard59(m): 8:34am On Nov 08, 2020 |
danyero: Thank you o! With what I read daily, I ask myself: is it worth getting married? The last thing I want is to intentionally stress myself. |
Re: Why I Think Is A Must Intending Couples Should Stay Together Before Marriage by Gerrard59(m): 8:36am On Nov 08, 2020 |
Going through OP's list again, the term to describe women is hypergamous. Which is why I'm surprised by such threads are created, Nigerian male folks should understand irrespective of the society and development status, the average women is hypergamous. Shikena! |
Re: Why I Think Is A Must Intending Couples Should Stay Together Before Marriage by dorin27(f): 8:38am On Nov 08, 2020 |
thunderfirebubu:beating my chest and telling you I am different is not necessary. You don't know me offline. So there's nothing I'll tell you that you'll believe. 3 Likes |
Re: Why I Think Is A Must Intending Couples Should Stay Together Before Marriage by Nobody: 8:40am On Nov 08, 2020 |
Gerrard59:We have only one life to live and one life to lose, to willingly put ourselves in bondage and depression because of marriage is nothing but madness. |
Re: Why I Think Is A Must Intending Couples Should Stay Together Before Marriage by Godoverevery: 8:48am On Nov 08, 2020 |
dorin27:Everybody is different....no one will come out to admit he/she a bad characters. That word "am different" is a cliche... |
Re: Why I Think Is A Must Intending Couples Should Stay Together Before Marriage by dorin27(f): 8:55am On Nov 08, 2020 |
Godoverevery:True. But I don't remember telling you I don't have my own flaws too. 1 Like |
Re: Why I Think Is A Must Intending Couples Should Stay Together Before Marriage by brain54(m): 9:00am On Nov 08, 2020 |
dorin27:lol..this girl. you always have the right answers... 1 Like |
Re: Why I Think Is A Must Intending Couples Should Stay Together Before Marriage by Samakus(m): 9:00am On Nov 08, 2020 |
Cohabiting with my woman before marriage is a MUST!! I don't care what anybody else thinks about it. I know that I won't know all about her before marriage but I will know much. And she, the same about me. She must not be the snoring type biko. I value my 4hrs of sleep at night |
Re: Why I Think Is A Must Intending Couples Should Stay Together Before Marriage by dorin27(f): 9:01am On Nov 08, 2020 |
brain54: |
Re: Why I Think Is A Must Intending Couples Should Stay Together Before Marriage by brain54(m): 9:05am On Nov 08, 2020 |
dorin27:wanted to quote that person and reply with your exact answer but didn't want to sound like I was defending you...or trolling you so I ignored. |
Re: Why I Think Is A Must Intending Couples Should Stay Together Before Marriage by Godoverevery: 9:05am On Nov 08, 2020 |
dorin27:So what do you mean by saying you are different |
Re: Why I Think Is A Must Intending Couples Should Stay Together Before Marriage by Nobody: 9:15am On Nov 08, 2020 |
Godoverevery:Likewise, my post was directed towards serious couples with the united goal of marriage. Godoverevery:Parents don't encourage their children to live together before marriage. In the Nigerian context alone with the dominant religions of Christianity and Islam, your assertion is false. Cohabitation contradicts the most fundamental doctrines of the Christian faith, thus, I know for sure that practicing Christians are against it. Similarly, in Islam, trial marriage, which is basically what it is, is not permissible. Islam doesn't allow any type of living in or living together before marriage. |
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