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Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by Rockyfancino(m): 10:02am On Nov 11, 2020 |
marttol:Not using that to console myself... I don't really care anymore actually. All I know is I cannot continue to have my peace of mind being messed by someone who can't even reason correctly. |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by omooba969(m): 10:02am On Nov 11, 2020 |
freesoul12: @bolded, This is valuable knowledge, wisdom and understanding. Experience taught you this, you have now attained a higher consciousness. Quite deep! 10 Likes |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by Meliann: 10:03am On Nov 11, 2020 |
galantjoe: Are you saying you never gave your gf money? Even if you didn't, I'm sure you sometimes buy her little gifts or provisions, right? 1 Like |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by marttol: 10:04am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Rockyfancino:if you can stand on what you are saying here in reality it will do you a lot of good. 1 Like |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by Meliann: 10:05am On Nov 11, 2020 |
OMOJOHN001: Deal with your internal homophobia. Be deceiving yourself. |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by omooba969(m): 10:12am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Rockyfancino: Peace of mind is very important. |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by omooba969(m): 10:16am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Gentleman001: That's the difference - 'The Orientation'. Good you spot the difference. cc Momoreoluwa90 1 Like |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by Lucyspa: 10:21am On Nov 11, 2020 |
YESpParticipant: Toor. I say no to stingy and 5s men. #mychoice 1 Like |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by tayewomi(m): 10:21am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Harry81:how did u find out |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by Lucyspa: 10:22am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Ginaz:Am not joking ooo. Nonsense stingy guy |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by mrkings84(m): 10:23am On Nov 11, 2020 |
When she started answering other guys calls right in my presence and be forming it's her life! 5 Likes |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by Ezi1993(f): 10:24am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Rockyfancino:Yeah a person who actually loves you will be happy towards ur success...Anyway she might be frustrated or emotionally down,,,that's why she is putting up such attitudes...Try and have a face to face conversion with her,,ask her if there is anything that's eating her up...hear her response,,if she's not willing to share her problems,,,,You can let her be. 1 Like |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by Sixfeetbelle: 10:29am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Iamthoney: You can't be sure she's getting boned by another guy though. But why did you leave? You don't want a virgin wife again? |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by Ojochogwusunny(m): 10:33am On Nov 11, 2020 |
doggedfighter:you need Jesus bro |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by Meliann: 10:34am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Ezi1993: You are wicked o. The girl was obviously toxic, you're still advising him to have a conversation with her.. about what? Instead of you to advise him to move on. 1 Like |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by mrkings84(m): 10:36am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Samsimple: Watery sperm is coming out of my nose right now cos of this your comment |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by omooba969(m): 10:37am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Rockyfancino: Don't beat yourself up especially on stuff you cannot change. Take it as a learning curve and you will appreciate yourself more coz you now have experience. 1 Like |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by ume1000: 10:45am On Nov 11, 2020 |
omooba969:it's actually the other way round Stop been a SIMP 2 Likes |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by freesoul12: 10:47am On Nov 11, 2020 |
omooba969: Sure boss.. most times we need to experience somethings for us to understand things about life. Now we dey laff at those stuffs. 2 Likes |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by ume1000: 10:48am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Lucyspa:so Says a lability |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by omooba969(m): 10:48am On Nov 11, 2020 |
ume1000: Wot u tryna imply? |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by Lucyspa: 10:49am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by bigcee(m): 10:52am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Meliann:The thing sef tire me. |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by YESpParticipant: 10:53am On Nov 11, 2020 |
In other words, wahala for boyfriend wey no fit sort his girlfriend for he shall be tagged a stingy/5s man. Oshay! Lucyspa: |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by AlphaMajestic: 10:55am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Godada: Even this one you just wrote now get k-leg..but the first write up is not possible to understand 1 Like |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by ume1000: 10:55am On Nov 11, 2020 |
omooba969:your comment promote pussy worshiping Women should count themselves lucky of a man's attention not the other way round Other than procreation they add no value to a man 3 Likes |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by hectorr(m): 10:56am On Nov 11, 2020 |
I can proudly say it that she'll hardly ever find someone like me. I believe you are trying to console yourself thus this statement. Bro no think am.............Nice ( Mumu) guys plenty out there. She'll quickly pitch her tent on one of them before sun dries the washed bedsheet both of you used last before the breakup. |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by ume1000: 10:58am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Lucyspa:So u be 30hrs woman |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by AlphaMajestic: 11:00am On Nov 11, 2020 |
slawormiir: your still a virgin bro..its so obvious |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by Sixfeetbelle: 11:02am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Rockyfancino: I know you won't hear what I have to tell you but I'll say it anyway. I hope it helps you somewhat. When you mention "you tell her about her behaviour", I get the feeling that your "telling" is becoming a "nagging" and people don't like to be nagged. I do nag when things don't go my way but I hate being nagged at. Ironic, I know, but I'll use myself to explain to you why your method of trying to "correct" her won't ever work. I'm very stubborn. No long talk about that. Which means I do stuff when I want to do them, not when you want me to do them. Nagging me to do them brings up in me this angry, defensive spirit that just wishes I could block the person from ever talking to me again, parents and teachers included. I'm more of a person who will only change stuff about me when someone makes a comment in passing about it but from a deep place rather than their constant talk about it. So if you're always talking about how I'm rude or arrogant, I won't ever listen to you unless you say it from a non-judgmental place. I sense your girlfriend is similar too. So stop trying to tell her her behaviour is this or that in that "scolding" tone. To her, it would seem as if she's being scolded again as a child, this time not by her parents, but by someone who's just a few years older. No one wants that. However, you can get your points across to her by randomly throwing it out there when you guys are discussing other unrelated matters. For example, if a friend of hers did something that annoyed her and she told you about it. While advising her on how to handle the matter, you can chip in innocently that her behaviour could have been responsible for the matter that annoyed her. That way, she doesn't see it as a scolding and thus picks up on it. So I implore you, if you guys ever get back together, desist from always talking about her behaviour like you're her parent. Even teachers who had stubborn children as students will tell you flogging them into behaving appropriately almost never works. However when you put special attention on them and encourage them, they learn to behave better. Be kinder. Be less about her behaviour and more about her qualities. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by Lucyspa: 11:06am On Nov 11, 2020 |
YESpParticipant: Yes, he was stingy very stingy and to be honest, very horrible in bed. I am making this up to spite him. |
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