Bash me Nairalanders, I didn’t learn again.

But sit down critically and analyze this, then tell me your thoughts.

Sometime last year, I made a thread https://www.nairaland.com/5461415/it-proper-girlfriend-still-gets where I revealed my girlfriend-cum-business partner still receives financial help from a man she once dated.

Today, another story surfaced. In June 2020, she had produced one million naira saying her brother gave it to her to invest in our business. I even called the brother to say thank you and he told me it wasn’t a bother to him at all. We could pay in six months time. I know we can.

Today, I realized it was her ex-boyfriend, the same man I complained about last year, that gave her the money. He’s 52. She's been confessing more and more about how it’s a loan to grow our business she asked for to pay back in December and she only kissed him as a thank you. My people, what precise, wise, and smart move do I make now?

So you're dating a runs girl... That's a sugar daddy, what else do you want to hear?

She dey give you leg over like Mr. Eazi

Squander the money..they will quarrel and hate eachother.... simple

Chai! Na wa oh. That ur so called girlfriend just hold ur mumu button dey use am do pingpong. Ode meet agbaya. This ur situation remind me of one of one guy wet i know wey him olosho girlfriend dey sponsor him business....the story no end well sha

OP you go soon turn to EX Sooner or later watch out

checkmatez:
Squander the money..they will quarrel and hate eachother.... simple

That’s a successful growing business at stake here Bro

iamadonis2:


That’s a successful growing business at stake here Bro

you need his money too but not ready for the consequence.... then go to your financial adviser for loans

checkmatez:
you need his money too but not ready for the consequence.... then go to your financial adviser for loans

You have a great point here. Having her sell her body for the loan is the same as collecting loan from bank.

This is one of the reasons I dont do love.


So much of a fallacy, so much lack of peace, disloyalty and lies.

Anyway, you have two choices ; walk away or continue with your business while hoping she is telling the truth.

iamadonis2:
Bash me Nairalanders, I didn’t learn again.

But sit down critically and analyze this, then tell me your thoughts.

Sometime last year, I made a thread where I revealed my girlfriend-cum-business partner still receives financial help from a man she once dated.

Today, another story surfaced. In June 2020, she had produced one million naira saying her brother gave it to her to invest in our business. I even called the brother to say thank you and he told me it wasn’t a bother to him at all. We could pay in six months time. I know we can.


Today, I realized it was her ex-boyfriend, the same man I complained about last year, that gave her the money. He’s 52. She's been confessing more and more about how it’s a loan to grow our business she asked for to pay back in December and she only kissed him as a thank you. My people, what precise, wise, and smart move do I make now?

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Mynd44

I bang all my exes whenever I see an opportunity.

It's safe to say that her ex is still banging her

You are not far from contacting HIV

She only kissed him to say good bye

Look beyond the kiss and grow your business


Abi poverty is calling you ni..

But mind you

If you don't have a backup girl..start hunting for one.. Because obviously this your gf is not loyal two cents at all

Find a side chick.

Don't let your current woman go unless you want to be unfortunate. That girl is responsible for your fortune.

You will appreciate her more if you see what it takes to borrow that exact amount from a Nigerian bank.

This is my own financial advice.

That moment when you are sharing woman with your benefactor.

duduade:
Look beyond the kiss and grow your business


Abi poverty is calling you ni..

But mind you

If you don't have a backup girl..start hunting for one.. Because obviously this your gf is not loyal two cents at all

Baba, your head dey there.

Funny thing is, this betrayal is something he can get from a girl he's not getting financial gains from.

The only thing you can do here besides ignoring the arrangement is a breakup. He who pays the piper dictates the tune. It is just a matter of time... This is another definition of infidelity if you asked me.

Hustle very very hard ooo

since she occupied two opposition in your life wife and business partner just remove her as wife unannounced and unbothered about her attitude let her maintain her position as business partner. put all her contribution on record, work very hard, within one & half year separate with her peacefully and give her all her entitlement without cheating her, start your own business.

wear your cap of wisdom and hear this fact.

The man that gave her 1M will not collect only kiss as return ( she might be the man last wife outside mistress )

The lady is not trustworthy as wife and business partner she can kill you or shortchange you when the business grown

your life is at risk rolling with such wide lady, she's wiser than you and ready to manipulate you

she can't be a good wife and a good mother , please safe your unborn children from wrong hand

please do the needful, don't put your self in future problem ..

My advice is simple.

That gal loves you. No doubt about her unconditional love to u. But she is polygamous.
To me nothing is wrong to obtain loan from her sugar dad, close your ears and eye. Don't listen again, just use the money to grow, your business. It is when your business grows to a certain enviable height that you can call her to order if any. By the way, those female politicians are married women with husbands yet their galivanting with other male politicians. Every thing gets price. That loan is your price for loving her despite her polygamous life.

End satisfies the means

Instead of coming here everyday to take advice from people that can't last a week in a relationship

Ask yourself, if your ex gives you a loan will you accept or not?
That's where your answer lies.

1beat:

since she occupied two opposition in your life wife and business partner just remove her as wife unannounced and unbothered about her attitude let her maintain her position as business partner. put all her contribution on record, work very hard, within one & half year separate with her peacefully and give her all her entitlement without cheating her, start your own business.

wear your cap of wisdom and hear this fact.

The man that gave her 1M will not collect only kiss as return ( she might be the man last wife outside mistress )

The lady is not trustworthy as wife and business partner she can kill you or shortchange you when the business grown

your life is at risk rolling with such wide lady, she's wiser than you and ready to manipulate you

she can't be a good wife and a good mother , please safe your unborn children from wrong hand

please do the needful, don't put your self in future problem ..

But if the case was reversed will you give the woman this advice?

If you can see this message
Please don't break up with the girl
And don't confront her

She loves you thats why she is doing all this to help u grow financially

She can easily use the money buy car and dump u but no She didn't

Instead she is using it to help u grow

Women know someone who dey want to spend the rest of there life with She sees future in you

I know it will be very hard for you to fold your hands and watch her flirt and cheat on you

But if a woman can fake relationship and love just to benefit from a guy why can't you Do the Same

The ex will not marry her , she knows that

My advise for u is to find ur own side chick
One day she will catch u and she will be devastated and she will ask why then tell her you know All about her ex trust me she will change over night just gave her a taste of her own medicine

Shoooooooooooooooooots

Issokay

There is this comedy line that goes like you be MUMU

Guy wetin dey work you nah, see forget her ex issue just cash out from the business formulate a plan of ur own and start from scratch, leave her dirty hole puccy in the bin and if she comes shouting yen yen, tell her to go back to that ex of her as much as the money might help in boosting DA business u can't get over the fact that she went and sort help with her ex for this she has broken the trust u have in her and u can't trust her again like you kissed......man that is MouthAction and that is cheating simple. Else no come disturb us here again ooh b4 shango go arrainge better thunder come ur way oooh

Comot dia so my ex gimme loan go kon still seal am with sex abi, cuz my current girlfriend nah wood Wey no get feeling

Shortyy:
Instead of coming here everyday to take advice from people that can't last a week in a relationship

Ask yourself, if your ex gives you a loan will you accept or not?
That's where your answer lies.

Sundrus:
Chai! Na wa oh. That ur so called girlfriend just hold ur mumu button dey use am do pingpong. Ode meet agbaya. This ur situation remind me of one of one guy wet i know wey him olosho girlfriend dey sponsor him business....the story no end well sha

how did it end?

1beat:

since she occupied two opposition in your life wife and business partner just remove her as wife unannounced and unbothered about her attitude let her maintain her position as business partner. put all her contribution on record, work very hard, within one & half year separate with her peacefully and give her all her entitlement without cheating her, start your own business.

wear your cap of wisdom and hear this fact.

The man that gave her 1M will not collect only kiss as return ( she might be the man last wife outside mistress )

The lady is not trustworthy as wife and business partner she can kill you or shortchange you when the business grown

your life is at risk rolling with such wide lady, she's wiser than you and ready to manipulate you

she can't be a good wife and a good mother , please safe your unborn children from wrong hand

please do the needful, don't put your self in future problem ..

chaiii wetin i go give u ooooooh

Bodyodour:
how did it end?

the olosho use juju & thugs take fucck the guy up... The sickness way worry the guy no get part2...

My girlfriend?
I'm not sure that you gat solid plans to marry her.. Maybe you do.
The girl get mind obtain that kind money.. Still carry come give u to add.
so she can't run her own biz?
Pls break up with her and return the money and all she's dued..make she get sense small.

Powerfly:
My girlfriend?
I'm not sure that you gat solid plans to marry her.. Maybe you do.
The girl get mind obtain that kind money.. Still carry come give u to add.
so she can't run her own biz?
Pls break up with her and return the money and all she's dued..make she get sense small.

I know you’re being sarcastic here. But it’s all good....

this is not the time to be emotional how's your business doing with the loan? do you see projected growth with the loan? on the emotional side are you comfortable with someone who lie to you? can you look past her relationship with her ex? if your ex offers you loan,will you collect it? here lies your simple solution.

silento:
I you can see this message
Please don't break up with the girl
And don't confront her

She loves you thats why she is doing all this to help u grow financially

She can easily use the money buy and dump u but no She didn't

Instead she is using it to help u grow

Women know someone who dey want to spend the rest of there life with She sees future in you

I know it will be very hard for you to fold your hands and watch her flirt and cheat on you

But if a woman can fake relationship and love just to benefit from a guy why can't you Do the Same

The ex will not marry her , she knows that

My advise for u is to find ur own side chick
One day she will catch u and she will be devastated and she will ask why then tell her you know All about her ex trust me she will change over night just gave her a taste of her own medicine

Great words here. I’m not concerned about trust in the relationship right now to be honest.

Its me “pretending” to trust her as a business partner that seems like an uphill task for me now