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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by omooba969(m): 5:23pm On Nov 18, 2020
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lkillbrokehoes:
U no get work abi? only u is following 35 females, run along boy!
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Am I that important that you went checking my dp?

Lol cheesy you even counted the number of people I follow - cheesy wahala dey o.

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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 5:23pm On Nov 18, 2020
IamAngelica:
My dear, at least now you know who he truly is and you know the next thing to do is to cut him off..but confront him first about it and hear what he has to say about it..this year has truly been crazy, the last thing you need in your life is unnecessary drama..

Ok dear.

Thanks.
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by purples25(f): 5:24pm On Nov 18, 2020
omooba969:
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Am I that important that you went checking my dp?

Lol cheesy you even counted the number of people I follow - cheesy wahala dey o.

Don't mind this guy cheesy
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by 9jageekz(m): 5:24pm On Nov 18, 2020
Michdaf:
Ok good. For those calling slow, I had something with her then, is just that I messes up. Am ready to do what it takes. I don't judge people. She is a very nice girl and will make a good wife. Am not saying this to get her good side but is the truth. Am not a simp. Have been different relationship so I can tell.




You are already talking about WIFE... nawa ooooo


your SIMPing no be here... you'll learn someday!!

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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by lkillbrokehoes: 5:24pm On Nov 18, 2020
omooba969:


[s]Am I that important that you went checking my dp?

Lol cheesy you even counted the number of people I follow - cheesy wahala dey o[/s].
U are a he-goat it's confirmed, and it's Ur type that will be begging around don't do something tangible with Ur life u hear

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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by omooba969(m): 5:26pm On Nov 18, 2020
CalliDora1:


Nope. You are the slow one here. I won't have you talk about him like that. Ok?

Good to know you're defending him smiley good step in the right direction.

If you think I'm slow, then I wonder how you manage to tie your shoelace. grin
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Michdaf: 5:26pm On Nov 18, 2020
9jageekz:





You are already talking about WIFE... nawa ooooo


your SIMPing no be here... you'll learn someday!!
Guy call me anything you want
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by omooba969(m): 5:27pm On Nov 18, 2020
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lkillbrokehoes:
U are a he-goat it's confirmed, and it's Ur type that will be begging around don't do something tangible with Ur life u hear
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grin grin Tasty tears!

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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by joeekuns(m): 5:29pm On Nov 18, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


So invariably you're admitting the guy jumped into conclusions, which he shouldn't have if he truly cared about her. And if money was his problem, shouldn't he have waited to at least have been billed before disappearing?

And if he is to be forgiven for ghosting her, why is he back? Does he suddenly now have money to feed her?

By the way, she didn't have to tell him she was fasting. My doctrine forbids you from telling people you're fasting especially if it's a personal convenant between you and God.


Please which doctrine is that?? Why do Nigerians like to over do things? Where in the bible (i want to assume you're a christian but i may be wrong) was it ever stated?

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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by IamGreen1(f): 5:29pm On Nov 18, 2020
Rockeet:


100% husband material. How I wish my kid Sis isn't married yet, phew she don become urs foc wink

Realistically I see 2 people who are more than friends and the lady has been expecting the guy up his game and take things to the next stage she throw the test at him to charge him. You guys should drop the ego, stop the blame game and let us know when you're tying the knot.

I want wedding pictures even if I can't be in attendance or wouldn't mind attending via zoom cool

Abi o they should just quit deceiving themselves already and announce the wedding date. Enough of drama and games. grin
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Sixfeetbelle: 5:32pm On Nov 18, 2020
joeekuns:



Please which doctrine is that?? Why do Nigerians like to over do things? Where in the bible (i want to assume you're a christian but i may be wrong) was it ever stated?


Okay, Mr righteous, I've heard you.

If your Bible says you should tell everybody you're fasting, my doctrine says you should do otherwise.

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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by omoadeleye(m): 5:34pm On Nov 18, 2020
Bola146:
grin grin grin I have met a lot of guys in Angel's image and I have met some useless, insane, kids, lazy guys here on nairaland, so I'm not surprised. I think he is looking forward to know much about you financially and materially. Just don't expose all your life to him, he is a pretender looking for sugar mummy ( they are many here especially those kids grin grin ) he knew you couldn't be hungry grin , just play along with him.



He is actually not looking for more bukata in his life again.
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by purples25(f): 5:34pm On Nov 18, 2020
omooba969:
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grin grin Tasty tears!

He's thinks he's doing something tangible by insulting other people , lol.
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 5:36pm On Nov 18, 2020
spiralwedge:


You both are not intelligent enough to keep uo conversations. Imagine, * have you eaten?" What the fvck is that?
Both of you dont have wide interests, exposure to talk about? If you did, there would be no need for assumptions or false expectations, and there would be normal natural flow.
I have to conclude that you both fit each other. Otherwise, you would have blocked him long ago. If he couldn't keep up a conversation, what about you?

Who's talking about keeping up a convo here? This is just one those things that occur in a relationship and it has nothing to do with not being an expert at maintaining good conversation.

You guys should refrain from using derogatory words in your bid to airing your opinion. Biko.

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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by omooba969(m): 5:38pm On Nov 18, 2020
purples25:


He's thinks he's doing something tangible by insulting other people , lol.

Some kids though smiley

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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by omooba969(m): 5:40pm On Nov 18, 2020
CalliDora1:


Who's talking about keeping up a convo here? This is just one those things that occur in a relationship and it has nothing to do with not being an expert at maintaining good conversation.

You guys should refrain from using derogatory words in your bid to airing your opinion. Biko.

Be quiet please.

You tryna wash your dirty linen in public but you wouldn't let folks have their say.

Who does that?

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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by silverkings: 5:41pm On Nov 18, 2020
[quote author=ricson11 post=96174546]The person is born again are you sure is not righteousness89 �[/quoteu] Hahahahaha grin

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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by purples25(f): 5:42pm On Nov 18, 2020
omooba969:


Some kids though smiley

Him and that married man that had the guts to start comparing my boobs and pp when he has no business with that.

Kids!
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by lkillbrokehoes: 5:43pm On Nov 18, 2020
omooba969:
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grin grin [s]Tasty tears!
Get a life cretin
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Mizdah: 5:43pm On Nov 18, 2020
pocohantas:
You are overthinking things.

How can you keep saying you haven’t eaten for 3days without any explanation? Haba! Don’t you know that is Naija babes intro to ask for urgent 2k?

The guy is not psychic to know you were fasting. Whenever I tell a man I haven’t eaten, I always make sure I add the reason (e.g) Busy day, I am trying to watch my intake/weight...etc.

While it wasn’t so nice of him to disappear, we should remember that building relationships is hard in Nigeria because we suspect ourselves too much. Imagine if he kept telling you he is lonely.

It is okay if you want to block him, I just want you to know you are not entirely blameless. It takes time and trust to unlock certain aspects of a friendship...

you are absolutely correct, how i wished we could get the view of the brother involved
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by omooba969(m): 5:44pm On Nov 18, 2020
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lkillbrokehoes:
Get a life cretin
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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by lkillbrokehoes: 5:45pm On Nov 18, 2020
purples25:


He's thinks he's doing something tangible by insulting other people , lol.
Sharap there! I'm sure u are pained, which reasonable Nairalander will chat u self, see as u be like dilapidated building cheesy

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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by omooba969(m): 5:45pm On Nov 18, 2020
purples25:


Him and that married man that had the guts to start comparing my boobs and pp when he has no business with that.

Kids!

Sorry about that.

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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by silverkings: 5:46pm On Nov 18, 2020
MrNipplesLover:
let's be guided.

that's all I have to say.
You sure say you're not the guy in question? grin

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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by gees101(m): 5:46pm On Nov 18, 2020
pocohantas:
You are overthinking things.

How can you keep saying you haven’t eaten for 3days without any explanation? Haba! Don’t you know that is Naija babes intro to ask for urgent 2k?

The guy is not psychic to know you were fasting. Whenever I tell a man I haven’t eaten, I always make sure I add the reason (e.g) Busy day, I am trying to watch my intake/weight...etc.

While it wasn’t so nice of him to disappear, we should remember that building relationships is hard in Nigeria because we suspect ourselves too much. Imagine if he kept telling you he is lonely.

It is okay if you want to block him, I just want you to know you are not entirely blameless. It takes time and trust to unlock certain aspects of a friendship...

babe take one beer for my head Biko, u too much
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by lkillbrokehoes: 5:46pm On Nov 18, 2020
omooba969:
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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by omooba969(m): 5:46pm On Nov 18, 2020
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lkillbrokehoes:
Sharap there! I'm sure u are pained, which reasonable Nairalander will chat u self, see as u be like dilapidated building
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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by purples25(f): 5:47pm On Nov 18, 2020
omooba969:


Sorry about that.

It's all good wink
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by gees101(m): 5:48pm On Nov 18, 2020
purples25:


Him and that married man that had the guts to start comparing my boobs and pp when he has no business with that.

Kids!
wetin dem dey compare? the boil for ur chest? biko go get boobs aunty

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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by laiperi: 5:49pm On Nov 18, 2020
The OP story portrays a callous man that refused to come to the aid of cyber friend that claim she is hungry.

Now, even here on Nairaland, many guys give story worse than this. Some of us pitched in whatever we could. There is no way you can give everyone.

Yes, there is hunger in the land. The worst mistake is when you give the little you can once or twice and they lapped on to you.

In this case, we do not know how many ladies wrote the same to the guy and how many times he gave.

The only problem I see here is if someone you care that much about is hungry, please do whatever you can to reach out and help. If she abused it, cut her out.
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by ymstar(m): 5:49pm On Nov 18, 2020
Ok
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 5:49pm On Nov 18, 2020
BreconHills:


Why do Nigerians ask others if they have eaten? It doesn't happen anywhere else in the world! The only reason would be to take the person out for a meal. How it is done as a courtesy beats me!

My dear, thats most nairaland men for you. Imagine how they picked only that line and are singing all over the place with it as if that was the subject of discussion and cleverly left out the main topic of discussion which my post bears.

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