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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Dreyton36: 1:30pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
You can completely blame him Wahala too much for man on a daily basis To be honest he messed up though but I'm sure if it's a girl he truly have feelings for he'll ask why she's not eaten even though he's got nothing to assist her with That man is the only man on Earth who has successfully dodged a stray bullet and at being dragged for dodging it If you know you know 29 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 1:30pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
usb2016: Nwa nna, o kwa han. Ike guru. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by brain54(m): 1:30pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
pocohantas:sensible woman. 54 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Kaylet: 1:31pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1: I think there's something missing in your story The guy doesn't want bad energy, he also sensed you're lying 11 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by GudluckIBB(m): 1:31pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1: Abadon that guy, im here for you ![]() ![]() i sent a pm |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Ishilove: 1:31pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1:Okay, understood. Switch to the below when responding to his messages- aiit kk kkk Cool Lol Tenks Etc. I believe that is diplomatic and polite enough. Hin body go tell am. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by brain54(m): 1:31pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1:women...always adding emotions to everything... your friends have given you advice na. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by jikins(m): 1:32pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
pocohantas: Aptly put! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by seanwilliam(m): 1:32pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
pocohantas:I wonder if na two people dey operate this pocohantas account sometimes.. not because your submission suits me but because it is very logical.. 52 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by EfFeCtZ86(m): 1:34pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Girl when I been dey broke na so meself been dey run away from little demands from girls... 5 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Hollusilva28(m): 1:34pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Ha, I'm laughing right now. You shot yourself my dearest sister. There are a lot of ways to test him, if he truly like you & you want both to live together. By telling him you're fasting for 3days and still not resume to work, Don't you know majorities of guy don't want a liability nowadays. for example, look at the rate of newly couples wed every Saturday, it has gone down gann. That's to tell you, people are doing low-key wedding sitting room wedding, or some will just invite u for naming ceremony, and you will be wondering how come. The truth to be told, nobody want to date a jobless lady or guy, but in other hand, you need to calm down cos some couple are meant for each other to reach their successful height. Don't test a guy or gal. If you see, you don't like their current situation, I implore you, don't ever talk of love cos it won't enter ear. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by YourCoffin: 1:34pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1: 2k is just a slang for monetary favours requested by ladies as soon as you start chatting with them. It is our experience not Poco's words. We can spot it from a mile before it comes. Guy man spotted it. It's nobody's fault. We are all trying to survive. 61 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by kkins25(m): 1:35pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
pocohantas: DONT MIND HER, she has watched too much Nolly wood... you are absolutely right because the guy has codedly told her that he cant do "urgent 2k" with the lines "he said I'm sorry ( I was just laughing within). I asked him, for what? he said because he couldn't help". The guy is not psychic to know you were fasting. Whenever I tell a man I haven’t eaten, I always make sure I add the reason (e.g) Busy day, I am trying to watch my intake/weight...etc.please i dont understand this issue of "i wanted to test him"why does she want to test a friend? why? abi na tiktok trend? If not that the lady in question also get ulterior motives of turning the gentle man into "urgent 2k" disposing machine. Here we have her try to console her conscience like the entitled brat that she is "Look, my kind of person, if I want to ask for something, I won't beat about. Ill go straight and ask because[b] I believe[/b] we are friends and can share things."Dear CalliDora1 dont "beat about" it and just tell him you are not interested in any intimate relationships however you dont mind him occasionally suppling you the "urgent 2k" that is supposed to be meant for his fuq buddy. 24 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 1:35pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
All these girls wey get small small yansh too dey get problem. 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Splitmind: 1:35pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Idaytesj29: Why didn't she say what the problem was instead of being coy and expecting him to read her mind. Women and their stupid games sha. 31 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by infogenius(m): 1:35pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Bodyodour: Yes, you are right with the bolded. However, a caring guy will ask why you have not eaten for the past three days. That's is care. It is not until he sends her money that makes him care. That guy is not caring probably an opportunist or looking for a babe to pass time with. Infact he is a regular naija guy. My advice to op is to forget him. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 1:36pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1: Pocohantas gave you a very matured response so quit arguing with her. Meanwhile, I think you and that guy should relax on your suspicion on each other because it would choke whatever friendship/relationship both of you are aspiring. You seem to be a very simple lady, that is not so experienced in wiles/deceit but the guy seems to be barricaded with philosophies to protect his hard-earned money (hopefully he's got such) from been "stolen" by some ladies. You can't really blame him. Times are tough for most people (male and female alike) and sometimes affect both thinking and actions. But it is very obvious that you want a real relationship with him by narrating it here on Nairaland, knowing he is a discreet member. So don't feel embarrassed by his condescending response ( "na wa o" ) or his actions (abandonment). Simply laugh them off and consciously make subsequent moments with him fun-filled, cheering him up and brightening his day with lots of joke/laughter. You would also enjoy the merry moments because he would be forced to reciprocate. Moreover, he could start sending some money to your bank account without you ever asking him, simply because you are gaining a soft spot in his heart that is overriding all "barricading philosophies". ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by when2(f): 1:36pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
He is one of those Alpha males we have here in nairaland. Pls do the needful. Block him. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Bodyodour: 1:36pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1 gest=96174622:on a normal,he did what guys normally does (I will run if am d one ![]() 10 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by kkins25(m): 1:36pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
YourCoffin:Dont mind the girl. she be learner!! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by BoboKush(m): 1:37pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
This one is a bit complicated o..... But the guy no try Sha.... U saying u didn't put anything on him But average guys knw wen a lady said I av nt eaten over n over she want money while I wouldn't knw his financial strength I think he shld av offer to help and even if he couldn't he didn't ought to have ghost u for weeks or month.... E no make Experience they say is the best teacher lot of guy avoid doing stuff for new lady we just met because of the syndrome I ate his money n stuff Has average Nigerian girl always want the opportunity to take.... So I won't blame him for thinking you are being smart 2 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by talktrue1234: 1:37pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
slawormiir: Your life go better. they are playing the cat and the rat, but turn out the girl has more trust issue than the guy who is trying to save his penny. Opting to meet would have save their relationship 5 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 1:37pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Idaytesj29: I said he did and asked if I didn't have food but I just replied, I'll be fine. He actually did but my concern is why he went mute and is now coming back asking the same annoying questions. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by mrphate(m): 1:38pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
These girl have found a habit of sustaining themselves on innocent guys, it's only in 9ja u think some guy who's not related or attached to u will help u I mean, what's the wisdom in that, don't this ladies have relatives to ask help from? They think talking to them means, you're automatically a mugu, it balls down to how other guys have be prey to them...not every guy is ur prey...after taking money they'll call the guy mugu within their friend/gosip...dear guys stop giving girls money without strings attached, ur mom, kid sis, dad and relatives need the 2k more...never forget this facts 28 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Terver90: 1:38pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Honestly I feel sorry for this lady, if things are as she presented them. I don't like cheating or fraud be it emotional or financially. Sorry lady GOD will give you a good man. If not that I am married I would have linked up with you. For you to fast means you might be GODly 2 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by TATALoAlaMu: 1:39pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
purples25: Áàti kòfà nle, ifa ti n shé |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by vivalavida(m): 1:39pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
pocohantas: I love u for this 16 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Jaqenhghar: 1:40pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Bola146:[img]https://media1./images/c4d9023b721e0001aa2a888c2db35203/tenor.gif?itemid=17167689[/img] E be like say you don see things for this firum 1 Like |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Beey(f): 1:40pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1:That’s the kind of BS I don’t want in my life. Every year, I re-evaluate my friend list to decide who stays & who goes. I took some classes with a few Africans. I’d always get to work late & lie to my boss that class ended late. Truth is that I was the only one driving & had to drop them off at their homes before going to work. One was a fellow Kenyan so we kept the communication even after the training ended. My family suffered two losses within a short span of time. Each time I messaged this so called friend, there’s be no response.In normal chats, he sees my messages but during loss, he claims not to see. Probably because we Kenyans usually contribute money. Even if he didn’t give me money, I’d have understood he was a student, but ignoring me at times of loss, that’s not a person I can call a friend, so I cut our friendship. On the other hand, I recently chatted with a guy who started borrowing money. Gave him twice & then blocked him. He could have been afraid of being exploited, but if you two were already dating, then I don’t think he’s worth keeping because it shows he’s a fair weather person.Want to enjoy the good times but, don’t look for him in your time of trouble because he’ll have taken off. If your boyfriend can’t support you in your time if need, him being in your life is a big mistake.Can’t be trusted. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Kazim88: 1:40pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
@CalliDora1 If i was the 1, I would have block you on the 3rd instance. Because i would have suspected that 1. You were testing me 2. You are manipulative and arrogantly trying to collect urgent 2k from me. I would be right, cos from your post, it was a manipulative test. I would not want to be a friend with someone that is not straight and fortcoming. Even on a long distance just-friendship. 34 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 1:40pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1: Bad girls have spoiled just few one that remain. Reason why most guys reluctant or refused to send money for girls is that, when you chat with 50 girls 48 will complain of hungry, call card or transport fare. The most annoying tin is that after sending it for them, they would be making jest of the guy as maga. Before I send call card, I would have seen 150% of girl commitment. 18 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Bodyodour: 1:41pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
infogenius:you aren't lying. I did that before but she turned me into her ATM. Me just japa!! Help a girl today, she will come with times 3 of another problem. 8 Likes |
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