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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Raalsalghul: 2:28pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
humilitypays: Oga franchasng, long time no see. ![]() |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by MilkANDpepper: 2:29pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
pocohantas:You deserve something. Females like you are rare. I wish you well. |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by HoluGraze: 2:29pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1: Can you listen to yourself? So you where actually aspiring for the urgent 2k, if not by now you would have open up to him i.e if you're truthful. But you started acting strange even though you don't even know what made him to ghost you. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by johnhood(m): 2:29pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Funny enough you're angry that he didn't contact you during those period maybe he is also feeling the same towards you. Or must he be the one to contact first? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Bbbwings: 2:29pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Thank God for the guy. Guy man get sense ![]() ![]() 11 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by AFONAMARO: 2:29pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1: You cannot just conclude as you did not give him a clue of what was up with you. A man had at least cared to ask about your welfare twice, what stopped you from carrying him along or telling him that you are fine? Just as "most ladies" won't want to keep tab on a perceived jobless man as they assumed he can't foot their bills (like he's their father). So also some men are trying to avoid carrying the load of a leech and a liability. This is just my personal opinion which may not reflect the true intention of the said man. Yoo can only know his intention if you sit him down and have a mature conversation with him instead of bringing it here to us. 8 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by ipobarethieves: 2:30pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by timota(m): 2:30pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1:if u no want make it be like person chop winch ,just start by telling him "as I dey here no be say I chop winch o" |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Lucrativress(f): 2:31pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
infogenius:I think I read somewhere she said he did ask,so yh he asked,answering no consecutively to me actually is somehow,not every man would know how to handle it well.This thing could be both ways you know,she could have been the one asking,I think she made him feel uptight unconsciously |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Duru009(m): 2:31pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Dont be too judgmental, nobody is perfect.... You are just overthinking the issues unnecessarily. if you are still in his shoe you might likely do the same OR even do worse in this part of the country. Give your friendship a chance since you already claimed he is a matured man. Note this, there is NO perfect man out there........ there is always one or two baggage's you need to fight or solve with a man whether you like it or NOT..... 1 Like |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 2:31pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
HoluGraze: Helloooo.. what do you mean by did she ask? Ask for what exactly? All I want to know is why he stopped calling and chatting and not why he didn't offer to help or not. Please! |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Ladycewhy(f): 2:31pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Bodyodour:But how can anyone be fine without money? ![]() |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by johnhood(m): 2:33pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Xisnin:exactly |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 2:34pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
timota: Roflol... Una no go kill person on here o.. |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by trutht828: 2:35pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1: Stop judging people in absentia. It's wrong and immature. What if you are wrong? Do you know if the guys reaction was due to his previous experiences with relationships? You don't know if he had been duped by women pretending to not have eaten before. Or isn't that one of the tricks your fellow women use to siphon money from guys? How will you just generalize that way? What manner of rubbish is this? 8 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Jayuba(m): 2:35pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Nothing to comment on |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Gabriel004: 2:35pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
YourCoffin:Hahahahaha |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by tellwisdom: 2:35pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1: U enter into unplanned fasting because your business de on suspense. Now guy man wan weigh all the circumstances behind your business and connect am with your present hunger situation.. And I sure say the guy did not just wake up one morning, to ask you all these questions if something didn’t trigger it. Ogbeni, u de vex becos guy man don unlock u before u lock am. Try another person for Anambra. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by fourboys: 2:36pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
pocohantas:so ur type still exists ![]() |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by SweetDipBenny(m): 2:37pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Can u blame him alot of hungry gals out der I cant stand broke gals 1 Like |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Ajascolove(m): 2:37pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1:Stay there and be giving excuse till you will start going to mountains for prayer. Why are you doing three days fasting? 7 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Ademoore07(m): 2:37pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Chiquitq:Forget about wrong signal. Why didn't he ask her the reason behind that? That guy is a kid, not a man. |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by omooba969(m): 2:37pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1: It's quite interesting to see that you don't find comfort in Pocohantas' standpoint. ![]() Interesting! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by freakz(m): 2:37pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
[quote author=CalliDora1 post=96174074] Poco bia, I'm not guilty of anything you spotted up there. I already explained I don't like letting people know when I'm fasting that was why I kept it that way and expected him to stop asking the first time I didn't give tangible reasons and didn't request from him either. Ok, why did he keep asking without offering anything? That alone in itself is annoying but I didn't count it. Yet he kept asking, which was why I decided to play him. I don't know the angle you're viewing this from but let me tell you, it's not what you think. Gracias.[/you could have said YES to his questions and that will set him unto the next line. every time he asks all u say is NO it is an indication that you want him to give you food. the guy do well 1 Like |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by omooba969(m): 2:38pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Ademoore07: What's your definition of a man? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Sarita01(f): 2:39pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
I really can't relate to the unnecessary fuss,I think high expectations is the reason you're hurt,you might not have asked him for stuff but you were expecting him to offer cos if he had offered I'm very sure you would'nt have refused. Why must you test him? How are you sure his questions isn't even a test?cos all I see is 2 pple trying to outsmart the other. There are subtle ways you can tell someone you've not eaten,it's either you tell half truths or you evade the question but you continuously saying no,sent the wrong message across,your outright no seemed like coded begging. Am I the only one who thinks asking if someone has eaten is plain annoying and stupid cos I don't see the essence,what if I haven't eaten would you come and feed me,I seriously hate that question and I detest when guys ask such. The guy's continuous asking is enough to put you off. The nigga mAh sef get zero chills,sharp sharp him jakpa,he no want turn pesin papa,just tell him what he did to you that you don't like and then you guys can go ya seperate ways amicably. And babe stop putting people on high pedestal so that when they disappoint you you wouldn't get hurt unnecessarily. 10 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by 4four(m): 2:41pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Op sorry oo, this bubu tym is hard enough make somebody no mistakenly add another person problems join his or her own 7 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by sambo1993: 2:42pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
[quote author=CalliDora1 post=96168639]Long post. Please bear with me. This trait seems to be common among some Nairaland men (with apologies to all the men here though) cos I never really experienced such attitude with men ive met offline. So don't know whether they have a nairaland men's association (not the red pillars or mgtow kinda thing though) where they agree to behave likesome. The way they reason sometimes just baffles me. Ok. So, I met someone here as a friend and I wanted it to stay that way. Along the line, he wanted more than just friendship but I just kept dodging because I don't want any issues as he's a good friend (a born again) and I like our friendly chats and all that. So didn't want anything serious that could jeopardize that but he kept pressing on and stressing until I naturally began to feel relaxed (against my wish) you know how that constant checking on someone tends to make one want to compromise their Stance. PLS DEAR NOT ALL MEN ARE THESAME. HE IS THE TYPE OF JOBLESS MEN |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by omooba969(m): 2:42pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
tellwisdom: Lol ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 2:42pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Michdaf: You should change this attitude in your next relationship. Else you’ll be hurting your partner unintentionally. 1 Like |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by nonut: 2:43pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
purples25:Lots of Naija women beg online. If they're not begging, they're "hooking up" for money. It's nothing new. Like one guy said, she was "watering" the ground for "2k bambiala". All these fasting stories na story for the gods. 13 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Kokaine(m): 2:43pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Chiquitq:There are also guys who have sad stories with women they met online. One looked so cool and appeared all decent to me until she hit me with the buy-me-iphone syndrome thing. Every one got some experience. Nobody wants to be used in 2020 3 Likes |
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