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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Alezy(m): 10:49pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
pocohantas:God bless you |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Alezy(m): 10:52pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
pocohantas:you too get sense. |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by stubbornman(m): 10:55pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Ishilove: Women! Una no dey ever gree say una wrong.... 1 Like |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by IamGreen1(f): 10:55pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Michdaf: I know that you are sorry, time heals so just give her time please she should be tensed right now |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Alezy(m): 10:56pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1:wait, just imagine what u asked here. Why did he keep asking without offering anything? So if he offered you for collect am well abi? That's the reason he gave you space. He saw through that reaction poco was talking about and he didn't want u to even ask probably he didn't have or didn't want to be perceived as a fool. That might not be your intention but sadly, 85% of ladies even here on NL use this strategy to ask. So while he has his own flaws here, you have yours too. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 10:59pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
where i will fault this guy u met online is since he has been asking u out for a relationship then he ought to have been concerned to why u havent been eating and if it was lack of appetite then he would suggest u go to the hospital.the ghosting wasnt cool.but if u were expecting him to send money to u then u should know not everybody is financially bouyant.nigeria right now has economical issues any many nigerians cant even afford one meal in a day not to mention two meals so u cant just expect him to send u cash like that.As far as he didnt try to scam or bug u for money any bashing he recieves here is just an overkill.sometime ago a girl i knew on facebook told me her iphone got stolen and contribution that she was holding in her place of work got missing.that the ppl who have paid the contribution money were threatning her with the police and that also she needs a new iphone since her old iphone got stolen.that in all the total money she needs would be around 350k.that she will be greatful if i could help her and send her the money.i told her straight off i didnt have that kind of money and that the money i have in my account i budget it for rent,food ,light and other essentials.i dont need to prove i am nice and caring by dishing out money to random girls i see on social media.so this ur guy bleeped up by not asking what was the problem since he was asking u out for a relationship.but again if u look at it another angle he might not totally be at fault since he was maybe running away from potential billing.Anyway if u not too comfortable talking to him u can always block him. 1 Like |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by stubbornman(m): 10:59pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1: See you talk too much.... If that guy has said "Oh really, send me your account let me hit you this 20k for lunch" would you have said no?? When it's okay to tell someone I have eaten and I'm okay to avoid plenty talk but you wan use akonuche beg still claim right on top! 4 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by luminouz(m): 11:00pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
omooba969: You dey add petrol to the fire na |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Sniper101(m): 11:01pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
pocohantas: You've said it all, my dear No mind this OP ...Na her types dey make Boys dey worry Guys say Dem wan join dey do Gee I've not eaten! I've not eaten!! I've not eaten!!! At that point, if the guy had asked for your account details for him to credit your account, would you have told him not to bother himself, that you're actually fasting?? The guy acted the way most Nigerian guys who don't have normally act; they ghost you for a while when it seem like you'll soon make a demand PS: The Guy No Get. and he ghosted you because you were making him feel useless due to his inability to send you something the times you kept telling him you've not eaten. |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by omooba969(m): 11:04pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
luminouz: She deserves better walahi coz the foundation is faulty already - surely when the CalliDora1 can take this word to the bank. Peace ✌️ |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by luminouz(m): 11:06pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
omooba969: Lemme guess, the better she deserves is YOU? BAD GUY!!! |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by omooba969(m): 11:28pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
lefulefu: I'm struggling to get your drift. You showed your displeasure at the way the nigga disappeared it at the smell of billing. You also made an argument for him not being at fault 'since he prolly ran away from potential billing'. |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 11:28pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Michdaf:u dont need to explain urself are u owning anybody money? so why feel guilty? the only little part u erred is that u should have asked what could be the issue she wasnt eating if she had said oh she doesnt have money dats why she hasnt eaten then if u dont want to send money u will say dont worry God will provide U shouldnt be pressured into sending money to ppl online if u feel like sending to help out someone then send but if u dont have or u dont feel comfortable into sending dont allow someone to blackmail u into sending him or her money 2 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 11:32pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
omooba969:u move with the tide.if u ask someone why he or she hasnt eaten and he or she tells u that its lack of appetite.suggest to the person to go to the hospital but if the person says its lack of money just say God will provide if u dont feel comfortable sending the money.i am saying this based on the fact that op said the guy he loved her and wanted a relationship. 1 Like |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by omooba969(m): 11:32pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
luminouz: Chai Chief Lumi - calm down abeg. I don't need a controversial woman in my life - I detest drama coz I'm a simple man with simple needs. 1 Like
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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 11:34pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
omooba969:yea based on our nature as nigerians.we always like to make up formats to scam other ppl.thats why i said i cant blame him if he ran away.but in a normal civilized chat u would ask why the person is not eating and if the person says lack of money then just say God will provide.Its as simple as that. 1 Like |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by greggng: 11:34pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1: That person is a gold digger ...you will soon find a real man ...unfortunately most real men are still struggling 1 Like |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by PhillipPHD(m): 11:35pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Ishilove: ”Body go tell him” because she’s the only fish in the ocean. Well done. 1 Like |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by ledaman: 11:35pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Take it or u leave it u messed up big time! How can you say such thing for 3 good days haba for what na. Must you test him with that? There are better ways to test guys maturity not @ that level. It really speak volume of who you are. I don't mean to attack your personality just my opinion though. 1 Like |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 11:37pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
lefulefu: Ok. But I wasn't expecting him to send me money. On one occasion he said he'll send me money I told him not to bother but he insisted that he'll try and send me something so I kept quiet but he didn't send it and I never asked him. Even when he tried to explain that something came up along the line and he used the money, I didn't utter a word of disappointment cos I was in prayer mode that period. I don't just want to be saying everything here but the way everyone is sounding as if it's about the money is just annoying. |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 11:39pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1:ok it was the money he was unable to send that made him feel ashamed and ran away.dont know why some dudes like putting themselves into unnecessary pressure.if u a girl asks for money and u dont have tell her u dont have 2 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by ume1000: 11:41pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Ishilove:na the man be him papa If foolishness could be measured you would be used as its SI unit 6 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by omooba969(m): 11:42pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
lefulefu: Someone mentioned here that it shouldn't have come to that but since they both come across as people with 'no wide interests', they had nothing interesting to talk about to sustain an intelligent conversation. They deserve each other but it appears they have different ambitions... IMO. |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 11:42pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
omooba969: Story. But you keep stalking controversial girls? That's what you'll end up with. I'm not here to please anyone. If you don't like my personality, buzz off! |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 11:46pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
luminouz:
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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by omooba969(m): 11:48pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1: No be fight na - mabinu. 1 Like
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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by ume1000: 11:49pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1:you have got an entitlement problem If you have never assisted him financially but expect him to do so Women like you are usually leeches 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by ume1000: 11:52pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1:shut up its about the money 1 Like |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by ume1000: 11:53pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
greggng:Real simp you mean 1 Like |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 11:54pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
ume1000: Lol.. which one be your own now? Why are you more pained that the man in question? Chilax before I do you mouth baptism. |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 11:55pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
lefulefu:...so they will turn around and start calling us broke men up and down okwaya? Mbanu. We'll rather tell them that fried rice and chicken give us allergies while we crawl back to our face me I face you rooms and drink our garri jejely. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by ume1000: 11:58pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1:Women who feel entitled usually iritates me About mouth baptism I did say you be careful of what you wish for even pocohantas is afraid of me 1 Like |
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