J111333:
...so they will turn around and start calling us broke men up and down okwaya? Mbanu.
We'll rather tell them that fried rice and chicken give us allergies while we crawl back to our face me I face you rooms and drink our garri jejely.

its better u called a broke man than to spending money recklessly to a girl u just met online.abi the money wey u dey earn u no dey see wetin u dey take am do?
u no dey pay rent
u no dey earmark the money wey u go take buy food for the month??
so if a girl tells yu she needs 500k urgently that means u will borrow the money even wen u cant afford it to prove u not stingy or broke right?

ume1000:
Women who feel entitled usually iritates me

About mouth baptism I did say you be careful of what you wish for even pocohantas is afraid of me

O! I've heard you.
Just leave me alone and go!

omooba969:


Someone mentioned here that it shouldn't have come to that but since they both come across as people with 'no wide interests', they had nothing interesting to talk about to sustain an intelligent conversation.

They deserve each other but it appears they have different ambitions... IMO.

different ambition as in op is looking for a moneybag while the dude is looking for a sugar mummy u mean?

24 pages and the OP has refused to learn, unlearn and relearn.

And the above is an even greater flaw to possess than the apparent lack of emotional intelligence that both the OP and the Guy may have displayed according to the OP's narration.

lefulefu:
different ambition as in op is looking for a moneybag while the dude is looking for a sugar mummy u mean?

I no talk anything o!

omooba969:


I no talk anything o!

hahahahahahahhahahhahahhaaa
anyway anybody who wants to do online dating should try facebook or the other sites cos nairaland ehn any minor disagreement one party go come expose the other party by creating threads of their online dating and also bear in mind that most guys here masqurade as females .ppl doing nairlaland dating get mind

ume1000:
Women who feel entitled usually iritates me

About mouth baptism I did say you be careful of what you wish for even pocohantas is afraid of me

Really , why is she afraid of you if I may ask?

lefulefu:
its better u called a broke man than to spending money recklessly to a girl u just met online.abi the money wey u dey earn u no dey see wetin u dey take am do?
u no dey pay rent
u no dey earmark the money wey u go take buy food for the month??
so if a girl tells yu she needs 500k urgently that means u will borrow the money even wen u cant afford it to prove u not stingy or broke right?

Calling a broke man broke be like flogging person on naked bumbum, e dey pain gan.

As I dey here since morning dey beg ATM mek it even pay me on credit, one girl go come call me broke man join. Arrh, you wan mek I jump inside lagoon?

600yrs for any girl wey go tell me she need 500k, Chineke ekwela ihe ojoo.

lefulefu:
hahahahahahahhahahhahahhaaa
anyway anybody who wants to do online dating should try facebook or the other sites cos nairaland ehn any minor disagreement one party go come expose the other party by creating threads of their online dating and also bear in mind that most guys here masqurade as females .ppl doing nairlaland dating get mind

Many lovely ladies here and I've met one actually, she's beautiful, so cool and exciting.

lefulefu:
hahahahahahahhahahhahahhaaa
anyway anybody who wants to do online dating should try facebook or the other sites cos nairaland ehn any minor disagreement one party go come expose the other party by creating threads of their online dating and also bear in mind that most guys here masqurade as females .ppl doing nairlaland dating get mind

Mtcheeewww... Like I don't see you dotting on one girl here. Everyone acting innocent all of a sudden.

Nairaland is not a good place to be but you have been here for decades. Free me abeg. Go and meet your primary school girls on Facebook.

omooba969:


Really , why is she afraid of you if I may ask?

the very same reason you are afraid of me

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ume1000:
the very same reason you are afraid of me

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Waste of space you are... mtcheeew!

Michdaf:
If you want to know why I stopped chatting and calling you, why didn't you tell me yesterday. why did you have to bring it here. I don't know what you wanted me to do then. I ask why haven't you eaten and you said you don't have much. And I was not that buoyant then. And I explained everything to you. Then you start giving me attitude. that period, I was invited to court and you know the reason. I was face with the court issue for six weeks. At first I was arrested and my phone was taken from me. All this period you didn't call. and the best thing you could do is to bring it up here. Am very disappointed

oh u even asked why she hasnt eaten and she said she doesnt have much.ok u did wat any normal guy would do.i dont see why this issue should be dragged except ppl are suggesting that the guy ought to have sent op money

omooba969:
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Waste of space you are... mtcheeew!

if foolishness could be measured you would be used as its SI unit

CalliDora1:


Mtcheeewww... Like I don't see you dotting on one girl here. Everyone acting innocent all of a sudden.

Nairaland is not a good place to be but you have been here for decades. Free me abeg. Go and meet your primary school girls on Facebook.

i play with every one here but when it comes to pm and online dating there is no need for me to do that since there are more than enough ladies where i reside.the girl u say i am dotting on u can ask her if i sent her any private pm .and as for facebook dating i dont do it but i am suggesting to guys who cling to online dating that facebook will be a possible way out for them since facebook is private unlike nairaland where every minor disagreement is brought out to the public .u not the first to bring ur romantic issue with a fellow nairalander and neither will u be the last .

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ume1000:
if foolishness could be measured you would be used as its SI unit

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lefulefu:
i play with every one here but when it comes to pm and online dating there is no need for me to do it since there are more than enough ladies where i reside.the girl u say i am dotting on u can ask her if i sent her any private pm .and as for facebook dating i dont do it but i am suggesting to guys who cling to online dating that facebook will be a possible way out for them since facebook is private unlike nairaland where every minor disagreement is brought out to the public .u not the first to bring ur romantic issue with a fellow nairalander and neither will u be the last .

Don't mind CalliDora1 abeg, she just dey para and I believe she's sorting her mess out.

CalliDora1:




Nairaland is not a good place to be but yo.

i didnt say its not a good place.I said its not a place advisable for romance and online dating cos most ppl who do such get burnt.u can make friends here but not online dating

omooba969:
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where you take dey see pictures when resemble you

First Mr ibu

When would simps ever learn

omooba969:


Don't mind CalliDora1 abeg, she just dey para and I believe she's sorting her mess out.

well the guy don explain why im no fit send money initially na cos nothing gum am at first .na to post im moniker next then probably the guy will deactivate .i pray im no belong to the redpill crew cos e go be hell for am

lefulefu:
oh u even asked why she hasnt eaten and she said she doesnt have much.ok u did wat any normal guy would do. i dont see why this issue should be dragged except ppl are suggesting that the guy ought to have sent op money

Lol

ume1000:
I need a brand new brain coz I'm a simp that would never learn

I agree

NOwazobia:
You disappointed me with this post sincerely. You talk like a woman. Personal secrets you can't keep. If you are a sensitive and intelligent guy, you should have known that this post is uncalled for and wrong in every shade. Too bad.

lefulefu:
yea based on our nature as nigerians.we always like to make up formats to scam other ppl.thats why i said i cant blame him if he ran away.but in a normal civilized chat u would ask why the person is not eating and if the person says lack of money then just say God will provide.Its as simple as that.

She said he asked and she said nothing.

Abeg anybody that has the money should please open a barbing salon for me,I'll be giving weekly returns..anywhere across Nigeria.I'm in bonny now but i can travel and start work immediately.I'm very good with the clipper

Michdaf:
Continuation. Since you this am going to let everything out. Another reason why I back peddled was she had issues on nl. She had been in different relationship in the past that was gave her bad impression here on nl. She had to change her moniker different times. Infact people of her past relationships still hurt her. I just came out of a relationship that was a disaster. And am not ready to get involved in another traumatic relationship. So when all this things start coming out, I decided I should give her time to sort herself out. People were cursing and insulting her. She hardly comment without people cursing her and am not ready for such. So I withdrew.

Lol Guy, I doubt if you use condoms coz you'd be so reliant on 'withdrawal method'.

But u for no cast the chic laidis na...too much information chai Nairaland.

omooba969:


I agree

foolishness is in the heart of everyChild but the rod of a father would remove it

The above text got me wondering why your parents spared the rod

IamGreen1:


She said he asked and she said nothing.

well the guy said he asked and she said she didnt have enuf to eat and that why he then stopped messaging her was because he didnt have money to send
anyway i dont see anything serious here
bros wasnt asking for a nude pix and neither was he harrasing or slut shaming her
bros just simply took flight because he didnt have any money to spare when op said she didnt have enuf to eat
he shouldnt have run
he should have simply told her sista i no get money
nobody go die nau if he say that

omooba969:


Many lovely ladies here and I've met one actually, she's beautiful, so cool and exciting.

We wey marry one nko

Michdaf:
Continuation. Since you this am going to let everything out. Another reason why I back peddled was she had issues on nl. She had been in different relationship in the past that was gave her bad impression here on nl. She had to change her moniker different times. Infact people of her past relationships still hurt her. I just came out of a relationship that was a disaster. And am not ready to get involved in another traumatic relationship. So when all this things start coming out, I decided I should give her time to sort herself out. People were cursing and insulting her. She hardly comment without people cursing her and am not ready for such. So I withdrew.

hope after this u wont go back sneaking into her dm with a different moniker sha

Raalsalghul:
There is always a thread like this on Nairaland every year.

Last year, it was Yigiyaga and Nwanyiakwaetiti.

oh u sabi nl hahaa
and before that there was one with one female nairalander who housed a male nairlander and the male nairalander spent a whole month in her house eating all her food and becoming a liability to her
i have forgotten the lady"s moniker

ume1000:
foolishness is my middle name and my father is fed up of my foolishness and senselessness.

This got me wondering why my parents spared the rod

I'm praying for you as well but I think your case is beyond redemption.