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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by dontai(m): 8:59am On Nov 19, 2020
Michdaf:
Calli, good morning.
lol, you just waking up, I know the other day is hectic, Pele.
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 9:01am On Nov 19, 2020
Evolutionlove:
I don't know why I find nothing attractive about all these evening newspapers. Fine una no fine sef, Wealth/Productivity, None. Even I find nothing attractive about your Minister For Nairaland Evening Newspapers "Poco" Once you are above 25years as a lady, Forget It. See that one Is begging now lol.......


You're pained because you don't come close. Are you even a man? (In your mind) how many sensible men go about lazily from thread to thread looking for what is not lost like you do? You're virtually everywhere on this forum disgracing the men folk. Ain't you ashamed?

Go get a life and stop being a nuisance to the community. You suck for a man. Tufia!
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 9:05am On Nov 19, 2020
chronique:


I don't mean to insult you but it appears some of you don't understand how silly you guys sound sometimes. How were you expecting the young man to know you were fasting when you didn't tell him? Is he a witch? Your own gender is correcting you that you are at fault and you are still doing strong head that you have no fault... If I call you 3 days in a row and you tell me you haven't eaten and you can't explain why you have not eaten when I ask, I'd simply assume you are tryna be crafty with me and I detest crafty people with a passion. They ain't no different from idiots in my view.
I remember when Olivia nearly made you into simp grandmaster. Glad you turned out well. Hope you went back for revenge and got the nunu.
@lefulefu, iamgreen1

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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Michdaf: 9:05am On Nov 19, 2020
dontai:
lol, you just waking up, I know the other day is hectic, Pele.
Man, it was hectic. You know the most funniest thing, though I was into her from the beginning but since yesterday the thing has increased.
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by dontai(m): 9:05am On Nov 19, 2020
CalliDora1:


It's good you withdrew. Just keep withdrawing like that abeg.

Who lied to you? I said I had not eaten and that's because I was fasting; yes even though I didn't explain that to you it doesn't mean I lied.

I wonder why you keep going on about the issue I had on here. It's not really an issue as you're making it seem. It's just the usual bashings that go on here which everyone has had a fair share of. So, stop saying I had issues on nairaland like I snatched someones hubby or scammed them.

I Know you're not happy I brought this here and you're doing everything to paint me bad, its ok. But try and be diplomatic about it.

Stop with the calls already cos I'm never going to pick as I just saw another of your comment now that is driving me crazy after taking my time now to go through the comments and I can see you've said so many things you ought not to say.

I'm still searching for more so I can finally draw my conclusions and decide our fate.

Just don't drain my battery today again. I beg you.

lol, wish I can have vj, naa sky I go dey Waka. I really jealous you guys. so you are now her Lordship that decides fate. wetin concern me self, is it my fate?

Just remember it take two to tangled.
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Petyprincess(f): 9:06am On Nov 19, 2020
Lol i knew this is where it will end!!

The same moniker which was formerly ashirawealthy did the same thing to a guy she met on nairaland,it was so funny that their pictures were uploaded, something that should have been private,the problem with her is she loves so much attention hence she hasn't been a long term relationship with all men she met on nairaland, she had to delete her account then.

She is always looking for men with new moniker every month from, sapphire,jewessgratitude,ashirawealthy,
eulilia,pozehani which is her current moniker.
https://www.nairaland.com/pozehnani

It's funny how people still take her serious, she does all this for attention,she was doing this same thing on romance section now she opened new moniker and it's nw family section.

I know the real moniker of the guy, he is in his 30 while the lady Is 40 years old, two shameless old people disgracing themselves on public forum!!

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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 9:08am On Nov 19, 2020
CalliDora1:


Youve been ranting all over the place like a demented fellow and I just acted like I didn't see you. Now you're at it again this morning. You think you always have to gatecrash into people's post as you wish? Your "idontgiveafuck" moniker that is still roasting in the embers of 9 years ban has not thought you to be sensible. Yet you go about with your " justbehave" and stupid evolutionlove monikers disturbing everyone with your silly comments. Don't worry, this time, 100 years ban awaits you.

Keep on Fooling around like a 15year old little girl. Your mates are In their matrimonial home doing fine with lovely kids preparing to go for Vacation overseas soon. You are here fooling around, mocking and ridiculing your expired self. I can't help but pity the way you have wasted your Prime years away without achieving anything tangible In life. I know the effect of Westernlove's Fatality on you still lingers In your mind till today. I'm sure you are part of the people who reported me to the mods because you were pained lol. You are getting old and wrinkled already, go get a life okay. I'm your slayer and tormentor and will always be lol.......

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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Michdaf: 9:09am On Nov 19, 2020
Justbehave:
Mod plz ban these two immature fools.
We am more mature than you will ever be
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 9:10am On Nov 19, 2020
Michdaf:
You keep going from you forgave me to you will never pick my calls and you are not ready to pick my calls. I may have over reacted but you are only making things worst by refusing me communication. You are angry with what I said, what about all those comments of insult that throw at me because you brought this here.

You shouldn'let any insults here get to you because that it's a norm with nairalanders. Even when you post "God bless you" you'll still see someone that will come and insult you. So nairaland bashings is a norm and shouldn't be taken to heart. But coming from you whom I've acquainted myself with and entrusted certain things to, it's not a norm and can not be overlooked because it will be easily believed by all considering our closeness. The impression it will create will be much stronger than other random bashings here. So you see the difference?.

Still searching for more. Not done yet.
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Justbehave(m): 9:12am On Nov 19, 2020
CalliDora1:


Youve been ranting all over the place like a demented fellow and I just acted like I didn't see you. Now you're at it again this morning. You think you always have to gatecrash into people's post as you wish? Your "idontgiveafuck" moniker that is still roasting in the embers of 9 years ban has not thought you to be sensible. Yet you go about with your " justbehave" and stupid evolutionlove monikers disturbing everyone with your silly comments. Don't worry, this time, 100 years ban awaits you.
Abobi !. So na this fool dey talk since sef? Lolz.No let me look for that Una outing pics again and post it here. Old Mama youngy and his foolish simp. Guy no dey beg her. She don cross menopause o. Hahahahaha. Ashirawealthy.

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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Decimus: 9:12am On Nov 19, 2020
Petyprincess:
Lol i knew this is where it will end!!

The same moniker which was formerly ashirawealthy did the same thing to a guy she met on nairaland,it was so funny that their pictures were uploaded, something that should have been private,the problem with her is she loves so much attention hence she hasn't been a long time relationship with all men she met on nairaland, she had to delete her account then.

She is always looking for men with new moniker every month from, sapphire,jewessgratitude,ashirawealthy,
eulilia,pozehani which is her current moniker.
https://www.nairaland.com/pozehnani

It's funny how people still take her serious, she does all this for attention,it was doing this same thing on romance section now she opened new moniker and it's nw family section.

I know the real moniker of the guy, he is in his 30 while the lady Is 40 years old, two shameless old people disgracing themselves on public forum!!
So we should give you some corns for this?

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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Michdaf: 9:12am On Nov 19, 2020
Evolutionlove:
I don't know why I find nothing attractive about all these evening newspapers. Fine una no fine sef, Wealth/Productivity, None. Even I find nothing attractive about your Minister For Nairaland Evening Newspapers "Poco" Once you are above 25years as a lady, Forget It. See that one Is begging now lol.......
Calli, it seem this guy has ask you out before and you refuse. the way he is going about your matter is record breaking. You are pained because she refused you

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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Michdaf: 9:19am On Nov 19, 2020
CalliDora1:


You shouldn'let any insults here get to you because that it's a norm with nairalanders. Even when you post "God bless you" you'll still see someone that will come and insult you. So nairaland bashings is a norm and shouldn't be taken to heart. But coming from you whom I've acquainted myself with and entrusted certain things to, it's not a norm and can not be overlooked because it will be easily believed by all considering our closeness. The impression it will create will be much stronger than other random bashings here. So you see the difference?.

Still searching for more. Not done yet.
leave what others thing out of this. I don't know how you would have me react seeing that thread. seeing it along took joy out of me. As humans we are different and we perceived things differently. I perceived your intentions differently from how you wanted me to. We are still getting to know each other. it has been noted, so lets move on
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by AnonLtd: 9:25am On Nov 19, 2020
CalliDora1 and NOwazobia na the same person. Mad people plenty for this forum anwear. Them just dey use una catch cruise

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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by dontai(m): 9:26am On Nov 19, 2020
Evolutionlove:


Infact I think Only fools ask this lame and stupid question all the time. I don't even see any sense In someone asking me If I have eaten. Although I could ask once In a while "I trust you had a nice breakfast, dinner" Not "Have you eaten" Sounds foolish and childish to me. Like Is food the person problem/highest priority. There are sensible things to be asked and discussed In relationships than asking stupvd questions. Very boring and unromantic people. Well In other words, Here Is "Poverty Capital Of The World"
In this part of the world, asking have you eaten? every now and then is normal. we lay emphasize on food too much that when you are marrying a woman, all what people will keep asking is that are you man enough to feed her, mind you the feeding they are referring to is food. people travel a long distance because of food, many ladies open their legs because of Noddles. so asking really shows you care. what they lack is understanding of each other, and it's pardonable for now because the are just getting to know each other.

I really give kudos to the guy for begging around. he ought to have leave her neck for now. just a sweet message every morning, with zero call. in the message just tell her you don't mean to hurt her. after a week, have one of your trusted nigga called her and convene your sincere apologie, and watch gbam as everything new. me I love this kind of roforofo fight in the beginning of a relationship, it helps to know each other better, because many things will be revealed. the guy look amateurish though, the lady is even helping him out, but he doesn't get the drill.
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 9:28am On Nov 19, 2020
Petyprincess:
Lol i knew this is where it will end!!

The same moniker which was formerly ashirawealthy did the same thing to a guy she met on nairaland,it was so funny that their pictures were uploaded, something that should have been private,the problem with her is she loves so much attention hence she hasn't been a long term relationship with all men she met on nairaland, she had to delete her account then.

She is always looking for men with new moniker every month from, sapphire,jewessgratitude,ashirawealthy,
eulilia,pozehani which is her current moniker.
https://www.nairaland.com/pozehnani

It's funny how people still take her serious, she does all this for attention,she was doing this same thing on romance section now she opened new moniker and it's nw family section.

I know the real moniker of the guy, he is in his 30 while the lady Is 40 years old, two shameless old people disgracing themselves on public forum!!

Wow! You're here? What took you so long in showing up, madam tale-bearer.? Lol
. Enough tale-bearing to last you till 2025. Hop on it and start already. You have my support but I don't have Parker to pack your bones when they start falling off though. So thread with caution. Lol..

Enjoy!
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by luminouz(m): 9:35am On Nov 19, 2020
omooba969:


Chai grin Chief Lumi - calm down abeg. grin

I don't need a controversial woman in my life - I detest drama coz I'm a simple man with simple needs. cool
Ok boss!! wink
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Bambambiglo: 9:36am On Nov 19, 2020
pocohantas:
You are overthinking things.

How can you keep saying you haven’t eaten for 3days without any explanation? Haba! Don’t you know that is Naija babes intro to ask for urgent 2k?

The guy is not psychic to know you were fasting. Whenever I tell a man I haven’t eaten, I always make sure I add the reason (e.g) Busy day, I am trying to watch my intake/weight...etc.

While it wasn’t so nice of him to disappear, we should remember that building relationships is hard in Nigeria because we suspect ourselves too much. Imagine if he kept telling you he is lonely.

It is okay if you want to block him, I just want you to know you are not entirely blameless. It takes time and trust to unlock certain aspects of a friendship...


Sometimes you make sense but most times you make someone feel like giving you a knock on ya head.

Sha maybe your guy handled you well the night before and you woke up on the right side of your bed.

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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 9:37am On Nov 19, 2020
AnonLtd:
CalliDora1 and NOwazobia na the same person. Mad people plenty for this forum anwear. Them just dey use una catch cruise

You see why I'll never let anything you guys say get to me anymore? Imagine how you keep connecting monikers wrongly to prove useless points here and there.

I don't even know this moniker. its my first time of seeing it and he's such a reasonable and sensible guy from his comments and contributions here so far.

At least now he can see how majority here reason and talk off point.
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by dontai(m): 9:37am On Nov 19, 2020
Michdaf:
Man, it was hectic. You know the most funniest thing, though I was into her from the beginning but since yesterday the thing has increased.
I understand, just thread softly, so you don't loose your manly charm along the way. Trust me ladies detest that to have you eaten without showing up.
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 9:42am On Nov 19, 2020
Michdaf:
Calli, it seem this guy has ask you out before and you refuse. the way he is going about your matter is record breaking. You are pained because she refused you

It's not his type. He doesn't come close. This one is a confirmed sissy. What man goes about picking on people at random and talking trash?
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by lkillbrokehoes: 9:45am On Nov 19, 2020
CalliDora1:
Michdaf, stop trying so hard. I won't pick. You see that comment you made on page six, you go hear am.grin

Sha don't kill my battery for me.

Thank you.
God forbid

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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 9:46am On Nov 19, 2020
ModelX:
I remember when Olivia nearly made you into simp grandmaster. Glad you turned out well. Hope you went back for revenge and got the nunu.
@lefulefu, iamgreen1

Lol...
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Michdaf: 9:46am On Nov 19, 2020
dontai:
I understand, just thread softly, so you don't loose your manly charm along the way. Trust me ladies detest that to have you eaten without showing up.
Thanks
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by decountof(m): 9:46am On Nov 19, 2020
Well if you are looking for a good man,i fit the criteria, although I am a single dad. if interested reach out please. .
CalliDora1:


My dear, my dear hm.

Now imagine if I marry such a man, when there's little challenge in biz, he'll blank me? These thoughts have been rioting in my heart since our last contact.

Yeah sure we don't need such in our lives.
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by lkillbrokehoes: 9:48am On Nov 19, 2020
spiralwedge:
Mods, can we please move this thread to CHILDREN SECTION already?

Smh
This is so hilarious cheesy

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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by lkillbrokehoes: 9:53am On Nov 19, 2020
Justbehave:
Knight of st simps.Keep begging. Kneel down,cry sef.Shameless murderfucker.
Look at him saying he will turn out good. Fool wants to change because of a woman. Ozo younger brother.
The guy just tire me, simpazee
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by lkillbrokehoes: 10:00am On Nov 19, 2020
omooba969:


Forget about him, move on already - you deserve better. wink
Says the simptonhood cheesy

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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by lkillbrokehoes: 10:00am On Nov 19, 2020
omooba969:


[s]Forget about him, move on already - you deserve better.[/s] wink
Says the simptonhood cheesy
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 10:04am On Nov 19, 2020
CalliDora1:


It's good you withdrew. Just keep withdrawing like that abeg.

Who lied to you? I said I had not eaten and that's because I was fasting; yes even though I didn't explain that to you it doesn't mean I lied.

I wonder why you keep going on about the issue I had on here. It's not really an issue as you're making it seem. It's just the usual bashings that go on here which everyone has had a fair share of. So, stop saying I had issues on nairaland like I snatched someones hubby or scammed them.

I Know you're not happy I brought this here and you're doing everything to paint me bad, its ok. But try and be diplomatic about it.

Stop with the calls already cos I'm never going to pick as I just saw another of your comment now that is driving me crazy after taking my time now to go through the comments and I can see you've said so many things you ought not to say.

I'm still searching for more so I can finally draw my conclusions and decide our fate.

Just don't drain my battery today again. I beg you.

Mr Michdaf, hope you're good ?

You're a fellow guy like me, that's why I decided to give you a helping hand in these situation,because I strongly believe it's going to help you, if you can only listen to me.
Sir, have some self respect.
That's exactly what you need right now and going forward in your dealings with women and anyone in general.
The deduction I can make so far doesn't reflect you do, in fact, that's one quality lacking in your arsenal, and another quality, is your inability to spot manipulative behaviors and write up.

She don't respect you,simply because you don't respect yourself, and you allow your emotions to govern you in these situations, where cold detachment and logic will have yielded a better result.
You can't control how people generally treat you, but you can control how you handle some situations .
She's not picking your calls, why not stop the calling ?
Stop disturbing her, and give her the gift of your absence,and respectfully move on with your life.
You have tried to reach out,and she's not welcoming, why still insist on reaching out ? Is that how bad and low you value yourself, your time and energy ?

Go to where you're celebrated, not where you're tolerated and treated like trash.

What's even more baffling is how you can't stop the emotional blackmail and gaslighting !
I don't really know what genuinely transpired between you two, and I won't jump into conclusion on the basis of the side of the stories you two presented, just that I'm more concerned what's unfolding here.
She was wrong to bring these issue here, knowing fully well you frequent these forum, and instead of apologising for poor handling of the issue, she shifted the blame on you .
She's literally gaslighting you, young man!
That's manipulation, and unfortunately, you fell for it, and ended up apologising for what's not.
She's manipulative, and I won't pretend about that, not to exempt you of any blames.
My problem with you here is that you engaged her, instead of outrightly ignoring her bullshits,cut your losses, and gently move on with you life.
Personally, I hate dramas, I don't have energy to expend on dramatic and manipulative persons.
That pocochantas girl was the first to spot her bullshits,did you notice how she took things personal with her ?

Take it from me, you never did worst than her Ex boyfriends, and she did no shit and is no shit, she's only reacting these way because she knows you lack self respect and don't have the cojones to walk away from manipulative peoples and their dramas.
Nigga, learn how to spot manipulative tendencies in your dealings with people in general, it's going to save you loads of energy and time, and most importantly, respect yourself and stop disturbing her, it's irritating and disgusting !

She's even making bullshit rules for you and deciding the terms of which her relationship with you is going to be, and foolishly you're going to play to her BS games.

Brother, have some self respect !

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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by lkillbrokehoes: 10:05am On Nov 19, 2020
omooba969:


[s]Chai grin Chief Lumi - calm down abeg. grin

I don't need a controversial woman in my life - I detest drama coz I'm a simple man with simple needs[/s]. cool
See this lying ass womaniser? only u follow 35 females here and u are here typing trash, see no matter how u be a captain save a hoe to them, u will never get to see their pants, oniranu! grin

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