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Re: The Red Truth by Akinbahm(m): 1:33pm On Nov 15, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: Share the link. |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 2:46pm On Nov 15, 2020 |
Akinbahm:I shared the link |
Re: The Red Truth by Chiagozieking: 4:40pm On Nov 15, 2020 |
Pstarogood0100: We can make them to be dick lovers as they try to make us pussy lovers, you know how to do? , Although this men of this days don't want to spoil any girl but you can corrupt them, hype the dick and feed them with real lies about sex,and do not forget to fake things there, they are deceived by what they hear and see,[/b] Authority: fake things just like they do, they use makeup and foam to deceive you, and tell you lies about manning up,and being real, that's manipulation itself[b] 8 Likes |
Re: The Red Truth by Nobody: 5:18pm On Nov 15, 2020 |
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Re: The Red Truth by Nobody: 6:51pm On Nov 15, 2020 |
Women will always make life difficult for a guy trying to keep his hands to himself, they won't have any qualms about hitting you first then turn around to claim victim when they are served a dose of their own medicine. I gave one daughter of Eve multiple warnings telling her that if she continue to hit me, I will have no choice but to correct her misguidings reciprocally, she kept on at it telling me that she is joking with me and besides I should endure because I am a male. So I should die of assault because I have a penis abi, iyen na da. Like I always say "Domestic violence is grossly prohibited but self defense is perfectly legal" Let's just say that she won't be shit testing me with physical assault any time soon. 6 Likes |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:49pm On Nov 15, 2020 |
73.) THE FEMININE IMPERATIVE For easy of understanding, the feminine imperative can be referred to as “The Matrix”. Everything a man experiences, every social conditioning he receives from the earliest age, every accepted social norm and every expectation of him to qualify as the definition of a mature adult Man in contemporary society is designed to serve a female imperative. Ever wondered why do society meddle in your personal affrairs. You must have oberved that you are practically told how to live your life. The reality we see as “normal” is a fem-centric influence. Across various ethnicities, and social diversity, this influence is so insaturated into culture, laws, media, entertainment, and even to our individual psyches that we simply take it for granted as the operative framework in which we live. The decisions of your future, your education, your career, most of your religious beliefs, even where you’ll choose to live is as a result of this feminine influence either in the present or in preparation of accommodating it in the future. You get married, out of fear for being ostracized or from social shame for not yet having accepted your role in service to the imperative. 11 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:23pm On Nov 15, 2020 |
Observing the matrix( feminine imperative) When a man cheats on his wife people reply with men are cheats but when a woman cheats on her husband its because the man didn't give her enough attention or provide her needs. Observe that in both cases its still the Husband's fault. —Dpsychologist Whenever illicit female sexual desires lead to illicit acts which have bad consequences, those consequences are deemed to be the fault of men, and it is the duty of men to make female sexual desires come out with good consequences for the woman, even if it means bad consequences for the man. When women do bad things, they are treated like children morally, let off the hook, protected from the consequences, yet they are allowed to make potentially disastrous choices without adult supervision, choices that men will pay for when those choices go wrong. A pregnant woman can abort, or give the child away, but if she decides to keep it, she can demand child support from the father and may chose to deny the child a father. So now we have a system where pregnancy obligates men, but not women, where women make the decisions and men pay for the consequences. That is Feminine Imperative. The underlying mechanism leading to the Feminine Imperative is that adult women are assumed to be adult, to be capable of making responsible decisions about sex and reproduction. And when it becomes painfully obvious that they are not, then men have to pick up the pieces, without however having the power and authority to restrain women from making bad decisions. The Feminine imperative is a result of the fact that letting women take the costs of their decisions leads to intolerably bad outcomes. So men have to take the cost of women’s decisions. 14 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:41pm On Nov 15, 2020 |
In Rollo Tomassi's Rational Male, he shared a story as follows: "Recently I listened to an advice radio talk show where a woman called in emotional distress with her husband’s actions. Apparently she’d dated the man for a year or two before marriage and they talked about how neither wanted children from the outset. Prior to the marriage both agreed, no kids, that is until about a year into their marriage the wife had secretly gone off the pill and made deliberate efforts in her sexual activities with her husband in order to conceive. Trouble was she wasn’t getting pregnant. Only later did the man confess that he’d had a vasectomy so as not to risk having kids with any woman he paired up with. The ensuing indignation wasn’t directed at the woman’s admitted duplicity and covert efforts to deceive her husband into thinking she’d had an accidental pregnancy, but rather all the fires of hell were concentrated on this man’s alleged deception of her. This serves as a prime example of how the feminine reality frames the directions of our lives. Publicly and privately, not even an afterthought was spared for the woman’s motivation and desperate measures to achieve her sexual imperative because the feminine imperative is normalized as the correct goal of any conflict." 14 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:52pm On Nov 15, 2020 |
For one gender to realize their sexual imperative the other must sacrifice their own. This is the rootsource of power the feminine imperative uses to establish its own reality as the normative one. From this flows the rules of engagement for dating / mating, operative social conventions used to maintain cognitive dominance, and laws and legalities that bind society to the benefit of the feminine. From this is derived men’s default status as the ‘disposable’ sex, while women are the protected sex. It’s this root that the imperative uses to excuse (not apologize for) the most blatant inconsistencies and atrocities of women. - Rollo tomassi Gynocentrism , female hypoagency and solipsism , the collective feminine imperative coalesces into public policies that make it easier for women to choose men and be provided for, practically funding their lifesryle(by men directly or indirectly via the state and taxes). Anything that counteracts the collective feminine imperative is seen as evil, and increasingly even criminal. The collective feminine imperative tends to be at odds with the masculine imperative and vice-versa (sexual conflict ), meaning when women establish cultural practices that improve their sexual success, it tends to diminish the sexual success of at least some men. Since women's minds are entirely absorbed by their imperative, they keep various beta orbiters around to serve her needs with no inclination for reciprocity. 8 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:53pm On Nov 15, 2020 |
The matrix it’s important to see the Matrix for what it really is. The next occasion you encounter even a well-meaning woman’s (or feminized man’s) opinions about life, relationships, marriage, having babies, religion, etc. understand that her perceptions are based in this reality. She’s correct because her beliefs line up with what the framework of her reality reinforced in her as correct. Any other frame of reference is either utterly alien to her at best, wicked and evil at worst. A woman’s existential imperative, her happiness, her contentment, her protection, her provisioning, her empowerment, literally anything that benefits the feminine is not only encouraged socially, but in most cases mandated by law. Ironically, most doctors require a wife’s written consent to perform a vasectomy on a married man; not because of a legal mandate, but rather to avoid legal retaliations and damages from a man’s wife. By hook or by crook, her imperative is the correct one. 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:54pm On Nov 15, 2020 |
Why people are against the red pill The allegory of taking the red pill is one of an awakening. Feminization was everywhere. Most men feel offended after noticing this. To see that things weren’t as ‘normal’ as women would like them to think. A lot of men never get past this programming and never unplug. It’s just too embedded in “who they are”, and the resulting internal conflict will prompt them to deny the realities of their condition and sometimes actively fight others who challenge the normalcy they need in order to exist. Once you become unplugged you began to notice other patterns and interwoven social agenders that promotes fem-centrism. From the gender bias in military drafting for war (only men to die in war since they are disposable) and down to the smallest details such as ladies first. 18 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 2:05pm On Nov 17, 2020 |
prodige001:This is good 3 Likes |
Re: The Red Truth by Brunosamel(m): 12:04am On Nov 18, 2020 |
Brothers in the building, my best friend all his life doesn't know anything about women, he is 26 and still a virgin, have never dated any girl before in his life.. Sometime he seems scared and sometimes he get rejected because he is too nice. He is currently away from home and still not changes... I got fed up and sent him a TRP link to read, told him I will consult the elder for any questions and comments 3 Likes
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Re: The Red Truth by Akinbahm(m): 10:54am On Nov 18, 2020 |
Brunosamel: You've done your best its left to him to put what he learnt here in to practice and do guide him seldomly... Nobody is Mr know it all. 4 Likes |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:35pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
74.) EARLY YEARS No one is born a simp. Simping is nurture not nature. We were brought up to support the matrix. —Dpsychologist The following have effect on a child in his early years: Parental effect Just like i highlighted about early years of a man in wine and milk, a boy is mostly left to be a man on his own without a strong male model. This starts becoming evident after puberty. However, i noticed that men feel shy to tell boys anything during puberty as such the boy is left to discover it himself. Due to the nature of jobs his father is mostly absent, the influence of his mother is more pronounced . However, most fathers have a microscopic influence on the child. He only talks to him about school, books, hardwork, football etc nothing about women for he himself is oblivious. Even if he gives advice it will be in accord with the feminine imperative. Feminine-primary parenting even in absence of the parents can come from their friends’ parents, even extended family members or relatives. 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:36pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Societal effect (Peers, media, school, etc) Just as the parent have effect on the child, the society also have a hand. In fact the societal effect is cumbersome. Most children are left to be trained by the society. Peers Apart from parents, peers also have a direct effect on the psyche of a child. During puberty a boy find comfort in his peers since no one wants to tell him what is going on. Peers however have strong influence on a child, since most are also blue pill they will share blue pill advice and as such reinforce blue pill conditioning in him. Media The media is the most powerful tool used to indoctrinate kids towards the Feminine Imperative. Television is a very strong tool since it affects both our vision and hearing. As far as a kid can observe what is playing on a TV or in a movie, he starts learning. Remember at this stage children learn by observation. Cartoons sponsored by Disney, Nickelodeon etc helps in conditioning that came. That is why you will see or hear stories of children even before 10 years simulating marriage, having sex and other vices. Another medium is through popular music, everyday new songs are released where an artiste declares love to a girl, spending money on her, promising her heaven and earth. Songs from Joe boy, Reekado Banks, Johnny Drill etc will subconsciously affect a child psyche while growing up. School In school he is told to be very nice to girls and when he dare disobey he is bitten. As such the child starts simping, his female classmate will ask for money and he will give her. Girls start seeing the advantage of being feminine and as such continue demanding money from boys to buy sachet water, buns, donut, zobo, plantain chips, popcorn etc. If she is very pretty, boys treat her preferentially. They will give her attention and will want to sit on thesame seat with her. A story There was a case of a 12 year old boy who goes home hungry from school everyday because he usually give his money to his classmate to buy something while he stays hungry. It is later that the parent discover he this and went to report to the school. It was then discoved the lad gives the money to a girl. If you were hardly being beaten in elementary school just know you succeeded in being a simp subconsciously. 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:38pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
The effect As early as 7 years a boy has started undergoing indoctrination with the feminine imperative. By the time that child is in his teens he has already internalize the social conditioning of the Blue Pill and will start repeating the memes a, behaving and ‘believing’ in accordance with that conditioning. As an adolescent, when starts to socially interact with the opposite sex, the Blue Pill feminine-conditioning will be evident. By the time he is in his tweens, the Blue Pill conditioning is so obvious that he sees them as a deductive, and the only way. The Blue Pill internalized ideology will seem natural and logical to them even though they couldn’t tell you how it came to his formative beliefs. Society will reinforce this conditioning by congratulating him for being more ‘mature’ than his peers. However he has to face lots of bumps and bruises ahead if he is not guided by a wise older man who knows the merciless mating game, or taken it upon himself to learn about women. For he is subject to all sorts of manipulation, and indeed many young men become walking wallets and doormats for women. However, society does not see this as manipulation. It is normal. Only bt following the path less taken and learning the harsh reality about women, he can save himself a lot of hard knocks in the ruthless mating game. The sad thing is that most never got the opportunity and they continue to marriage till they die. 9 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:40pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Brunosamel:You did a good job bro. I hope he will take this serious. |
Re: The Red Truth by Kizito2nv(m): 9:15am On Nov 19, 2020 |
Dpsychologist:Bro the ex that broke up with me, I didn't contact her for 2weeks plus, She saw my call log yesterday and found that I deleted her contact. She is asking why deleted the contact this morning. That I no longer love her.? I don't know what to reply her without sounding simpish!! Any ideas?? |
Re: The Red Truth by PhillipPHD(m): 1:53pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: The man is a real g. This is what we call 2-step verification. 2 Likes |
Re: The Red Truth by Nobody: 2:09pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
Your ex asked you why you deleted her number and to top it up, she even had the effrontery to question your love for her. The last time one of my exes asked me why I stopped checking up on her. My reply was "If you passed by the school you graduated from having acquired skills necessary to navigate life, do you go back to sit down with the present students attending lectures in the school or move on to tend to more pressing current issues in your life" And that does that, no further mumuish questions asked. This is why it is good for a man to have a way with words ![]() Sarcasm, humour, irony and the likes should never be far from whoever wants to have peace of mind around women. Kizito2nv: 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Red Truth by Kizito2nv(m): 4:16pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
alexistaiwo:Thanks I know what to say |
Re: The Red Truth by Helios14: 7:43pm On Nov 21, 2020 |
I really appreciate your work @Dpsychologist and everyone who contributed. I was a major simp before my friend introduced me to this thread and girls knew it. I could be with my friends and a girl could come and ask only me for cash, cos they know I'll give them. my friends would laugh at me. I didn't mind, I thought that was how to get girls. That stuff you said about greenlight being a trap is so true. The girl I dated last (last year) was a perfect example. She was my course mate and quite pretty, but not someone I would relate to normally. I don't really like light skinned girls, they tend to be egomaniacal. So she started talking to me, even collected my number and all that. Me, mumu, felt it was greenlight, so we started dating. it was hell sha. we only dated for about three months. but all I did in those three months was apologize for no reason. She would get angry for no reason and justify it by saying a girl doesn't need a reason to be angry and her boyfriend should always apologize no matter what. We never had a tender moment, we never kissed, only hugged when I asked for it, was constantly telling me how this and that guy wants to date her and how they're hitting it off. Once, I held her hand in public and she shook it off and asked how many people did I see holding hands. long story short, I lost my dad and grew distant, she broke up with me a month after my dad passed and two weeks after my birthday. . I turned 20 this year and I've been really big on self improvement. I started working out and I've developed pecs, my abs are popping out and I'll start work on my arms next month. An introvert by nature, I've been trying to socialize, I've also been picking up skills, I currently started a blog, I'm building a WhatsApp TV, learnt Mini importation, but I don't have cash to start that up yet though. And after reading this thread, it might be a while before I start dating again, I have a lot to improve upon. so once again THANK YOU 14 Likes |
Re: The Red Truth by 4gunners(m): 7:50pm On Nov 21, 2020 |
Helios14:I will advice you focus more on the bolded. You are still young, don’t ever make girl your priority now. I wouldn’t want you to look back when you’re 30 and say: “how I wish I was more serious with my life” 8 Likes |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:35pm On Nov 21, 2020 |
Helios14:You're welcome bro. Anytime i read something like this. I feel glad to be able to touch lives positively. 11 Likes |
Re: The Red Truth by Helios14: 12:04am On Nov 22, 2020 |
4gunners: yeah, they are not on my list of priorities for now |
Re: The Red Truth by Regex: 2:41am On Nov 22, 2020 |
Helios14: Yes! Yes! That's how it should be I mean @bold. Your story is very much similar to mine except mine wasn't a psychopath and we dated for 3yrs. Long story short... It's been a year and 7 months now since I've been working on myself and you wouldn't believe how much I've accomplished. Martinez39s will testify to this. Look at me that used to shy away from anything technical is now deeply into it. Taking courses up and down on programming. All I want to say is, we in this community will support your decision, and because we do more of action than talking, any time you feel like going back to the simp world or quitting on your resolve, just remember, Regex is also on that path, and has been on that path for a really long while now. TO EVERYONE READING THIS AND YOU ARE SURE YOU HAVE A KNACK FOR PROGRAMMING, THERE'S A LINK I'D GIVE YOU FOR FREE TO REGISTER AND LEARN ANY PROGRAMMING SKILL OF YOUR CHOICE FOR FREE TOO. IT'S A GIVEAWAY FROM ALL AFRICAN NATIONS TO HER CITIZENS. Just message me. 10 Likes |
Re: The Red Truth by rhynoemmie(m): 8:00am On Nov 22, 2020 |
Regex: Please I'm interested, how do I reach you |
Re: The Red Truth by Degrezhaa: 11:24am On Nov 22, 2020 |
Regex:Am also interested |
Re: The Red Truth by Regex: 12:20pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
Degrezhaa: Message me. |
Re: The Red Truth by Helios14: 4:00pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
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Re: The Red Truth by Helios14: 4:01pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
[quote author=Regex post=96303774] Yes! Yes! That's how it should be I mean @bold. Your story is very much similar to mine except mine wasn't a psychopath and we dated for 3yrs. Long story short... It's been a year and 7 months now since I've been working on myself and you wouldn't believe how much I've accomplished. Martinez39s will testify to this. Look at me that used to shy away from anything technical is now deeply into it. Taking courses up and down on programming. All I want to say is, we in this community will support your decision, and because we do more of action than talking, any time you feel like going back to the simp world or quitting on your resolve, just remember, Regex is also on that path, and has been on that path for a really long while now. ![]() 2 Likes |
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