You've said it all Aje!

GLYCOLYSISS:

Mr Michdaf, hope you're good ?

You're a fellow guy like me, that's why I decided to give you a helping hand in these situation,because I strongly believe it's going to help you, if you can only listen to me.
Sir, have some self respect.
That's exactly what you need right now and going forward in your dealings with women and anyone in general.
The deduction I can make so far doesn't reflect you do, in fact, that's one quality lacking in your arsenal, and another quality, is your inability to spot manipulative behaviors and write up.

She don't respect you,simply because you don't respect yourself, and you allow your emotions to govern you in these situations, where cold detachment and logic will have yielded a better result.
You can't control how people generally treat you, but you can control how you handle some situations .
She's not picking your calls, why not stop the calling ?
Stop disturbing her, and give her the gift of your absence,and respectfully move on with your life.
You have tried to reach out,and she's not welcoming, why still insist on reaching out ? Is that how bad and low you value yourself, your time and energy ?

Go to where you're celebrated, not where you're tolerated and treated like trash.

What's even more baffling is how you can't stop the emotional blackmail and gaslighting !
I don't really know what genuinely transpired between you two, and I won't jump into conclusion on the basis of the side of the stories you two presented, just that I'm more concerned what's unfolding here.
She was wrong to bring these issue here, knowing fully well you frequent these forum, and instead of apologising for poor handling of the issue, she shifted the blame on you .
She's literally gaslighting you, young man!
That's manipulation, and unfortunately, you fell for it, and ended up apologising for what's not.
She's manipulative, and I won't pretend about that, not to exempt you of any blames.
My problem with you here is that you engaged her, instead of outrightly ignoring her bullshits,cut your losses, and gently move on with you life.
Personally, I hate dramas, I don't have energy to expend on dramatic and manipulative persons.
That pocochantas girl was the first to spot her bullshits,did you notice how she took things personal with her ?

Take it from me, you never did worst than her Ex boyfriends, and she did no shit and is no shit, she's only reacting these way because she knows you lack self respect and don't have the cojones to walk away from manipulative peoples and their dramas.
Nigga, learn how to spot manipulative tendencies in your dealings with people in general, it's going to save you loads of energy and time, and most importantly, respect yourself and stop disturbing her, it's irritating and disgusting !

She's even making bullshit rules for you and deciding the terms of which her relationship with you is going to be, and foolishly you're going to play to her BS games.

Brother, have some self respect !

@Poster why were you testing him though?
Even if you couldn’t tell him you were fasting why couldn’t you let him know that it not because you don’t have food?

You were being manipulative, now you’re acting like you were a victim.
Please stop it, it was quite childish of you.

You may not have asked him for urgent 2k, but from your story that is how you came across to me a stranger let alone the guy you were talking to.

lkillbrokehoes:
Lolz u have now, btw if u aren't single u should have been married by now, I've warned u to stay away from guys who just wants to chop and clean mouth, they won't marry u as far you give them pussy, anyways the offer is still open, my friend who resides in canada is looking for a vivacious, sedulous and smart woman to marry, he's in his late 30's, the offer is still open before I change my mind

Dirty errand boy..loool at least your able friend in Canada don find u work after all.

Keep combing all the sections on NL for a willing peasant who'd be ready to marry your imaginary Canadian friend.

Òdè òshì.

omooba969:


Lol

Even Poco dey reject ya crass advances...u now see dat ya case is beyond redemption.

DIRTY PIG!

If only u know I just wanted to help her, u won't be this foolish, look at Ur miserable self following 35 females on here that u will never see their pants until u die, nigga just go out there and look for a girl instead of licking dirty asses, it's so gross. you are so foolish that u think that u are sane, with dis Ur blantant stupidity, even God can't save u, go and play with Ur mates mbuzo!

pocohantas:


Lol. You know I was working today and a strange number called me. I picked and just couldn’t miss that voice. I screameeddd! We talked and talked and I was amazed at the man he has become.

Way back he was so proud, maybe because he was young, handsome, intelligent, tall, abs and all that. Anyway, he is 29 now, living in America and wants a Nigerian (Igbo) wife. I told him to pick a wife there and he said NO. We can both join hands to find them wives. If we find two, we give your friend one, give my friend one.

What about u? do u want to be a mid night newspaper forever?
You know u ain't getting any younger? and u don't know when u will kick the bucket? so why not try and marry and get kids? is dat a taboo to u? well u might ask me why am concerned, perhaps because I'm tired of seeing people mock u on here, get married and shame Ur enermies, the offer is still open and it's only for u before time elapse

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lkillbrokehoes:
If only u know I just wanted to help her, u won't be this foolish, look at Ur miserable self following 35 females on here that u will never see their pants until u die, nigga just go out there and look for a girl instead of licking dirty asses, it's so gross. you are so foolish that u think that u are sane, with dis Ur blantant stupidity, even God can't save u, go and play with Ur mates mbuzo!

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I can see you're really gasping for air.... loooolzz

Person wey neva chop since morning, wey just finish writing NECO wan help a sensible woman of virtues...

Joke of the year!

omooba969:


Dirty errand boy..loool [s]at least your able friend in Canada don find u work after all.

Keep combing all the sections on NL for a willing peasant who'd be ready to marry your imaginary Canadian friend.

Òdè òshì.[/s]

This same erand boy can feed u for years, this same erand boy have been to countries that u will only dream of, this same erand boys have seen pussies more than u will ever see in Ur miserable lifetime, this same erand boy have taste more than u, this same erand boy have achieved more than what u can ever achieve in Ur life etc...loser fc like you!

CanadianNaija:
@Poster why were you testing him though?
Even if you couldn’t tell him you were fasting why couldn’t you let him know that it not because you don’t have food?

You were being manipulative, now you’re acting like you were a victim.
Please stop it, it was quite childish of you.

You may not have asked him for urgent 2k, but from your story that how you came across to me a stranger let alone the guy you were talking to.

It's very clear you don't understand my post. therefore no need defending anything.

lkillbrokehoes:
What about u? do u want to be a mid night newspaper forever?
You know u ain't getting any younger? and u don't know when u will kick the bucket? so why not try and marry and get kids? is dat a taboo to u? well u might ask me why am concerned, perhaps because I'm tired of seeing people mock u on here, get married and shame Ur enermies, the offer is still open and it's only for u before time elapse

Some of you take Nairaland too seriously. So you think something that personal should be brought to toxicland to prove a point to some e-enemies. Comes off like reverse psychology...

What next? I’ll also post my baby pictures to prove I could have a child at nearly 40years. Please continue mocking me.

omooba969:
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[s]I can you're really gasping for air.... loooolzz

Person wey neva chop since morning, wey just finish writing NECO wan help a sensible woman of virtues...

Joke of the year![/s]

Lolz I can feel ur pain, it shall be well with u bozo

pocohantas:


Some of you take Nairaland too seriously. So you think something that personal should be brought to toxicland to prove a point to some e-enemies. Comes off like reverse psychology...

What next? I’ll also post my baby pictures to prove I could have a child at nearly 40years. Please continue mocking me.

Why will I mock u? I just don't like the situation u are in girl, that's why I want to help, well if u don't want no problemo, it's all good

CalliDora1:


It's very clear you don't understand my post. therefore no need defending anything.

Anyone that doesn’t agree with you doesn’t understand your post. Mstheewwwww!

lkillbrokehoes:
I am in sifia pain and I don't know where my next meal will come from.

Please help me!

Go and beg Poco first and come back with evidence of your plea; then I will hire you to work on my farm.

DIRTY PIG!

I believe there should be nothing to drag anymore cause both parties had gotten there reasons why they both acted in that manner. Anyone, who can apologize for wrong doing, should be forgiven. Mr Daf has apologize, so nothing to drag again. I believe this thread should have been closed by now. All that remains are unnecessary dragging... People that have yet start relationship are bringing small matters on line for settlement, what if you eventually got married? You can guess what will be happening here in nairaland every single day.
Mr Misdaf, just give her time to rest and think her brain, you are just rushing yourself on her, she is yours, you got no further explanation and begging to do here again. I can see that you both have feelings for each other. So, go n settle off-line.
My submission. Love

tppzzy01:
I believe there should be nothing to drag anymore cause both parties had gotten there reasons why they both acted in that manner. Anyone, who can apologize for wrong doing, should be forgiven. Mr Daf has apologize, so nothing to drag again. I believe this thread should have been closed by now. All that remains are unnecessary dragging... People that have yet start relationship are bringing small matters on line for settlement, what if you eventually got married? You can guess what will be happening here in nairaland every single day.
Mr Misdaf, just give her time to rest and think her brain, you are just rushing yourself on her, she is yours, you got no further explanation and begging to do here again. I can see that you both have feelings for each other. So, go n settle off-line.
My submission. Love

General overseer . How could you possibly tell I'm his? Lol...

Thanks though. We already spoke on phone today.

lkillbrokehoes:
What about u? do u want to be a mid night newspaper forever?
You know u ain't getting any younger? and u don't know when u will kick the bucket? so why not try and marry and get kids? is dat a taboo to u? well u might ask me why am concerned, perhaps because I'm tired of seeing people mock u on here, get married and shame Ur enermies, the offer is still open and it's only for u before time elapse

I don't knw why I find this funny. How are u even sure she is not married

CalliDora1:


General overseer . How could you possibly tell I'm his? Lol...

Thanks though. We already spoke on phone today.

It's a gift I have. When my mind tells me something, I should not doubt it. Coming together is what I see. Peace
Thank God you have calm down. I can't imagine how happy he will be for you to pick his call. You are doing well. Lol

You can't believe I followed this topic from page 1 to the end before I make my comment. I have never go this far in a topic b4. Am alone and the topic amused me and kept me busy.���

tppzzy01:

It's a gift I have. When my mind tells me something, I should not doubt it. Coming together is what I see. Peace
Thank God you have calm down. I can't imagine how happy he will be for you to pick his call. You are doing well. Lol

You can't believe I followed this topic from page 1 to the end before I make my comment. I have never go this far in a topic b4. Am alone and the topic amused me and kept me busy.���

Lol . You don't mean it... Wow... glad it amused you.

Ok.
Thanks.

lkillbrokehoes:
Why will I mock u? I just don't like the situation u are in girl, that's why I want to help, well if u don't want no problemo, it's all good

Your persistence is worrying. I am beginning to suspect you are the friend. Don’t worry, God will provide a dangerous feminist for you. Someone more lethal than me.

CalliDora1:



Lol . You don't mean it... Wow... glad it amused you.

Ok.
Thanks.

Yeah!!! It kept my company. Take care dear and be good with him. His learnt his lesson

LOL...

pocohantas:


Lol. You know I was working today and a strange number called me. I picked and just couldn’t miss that voice. I screameeddd! We talked and talked and I was amazed at the man he has become.

Way back he was so proud, maybe because he was young, handsome, intelligent, tall, abs and all that. Anyway, he is 29 now, living in America and wants a Nigerian (Igbo) wife. I told him to pick a wife there and he said NO. We can both join hands to find them wives. If we find two, we give your friend one, give my friend one.

You made this up right? I know . I think you are an interesting person, but most times your head be doing "skoinskoin". This is just for the moment though. By sunrise, my eyes are back to their factory settings seeing mischiefs only in your comments .

omooba969:


Go and beg Poco first and come back with evidence of your plea; then I will hire you to work on my farm.

DIRTY PIG!

Hire Ur miserable family first, oniranu!

Omo oba indeed, u are the son of a shít parker, a miserable one at that

emmyN:


You made this up right? I know . I think you are an interesting person, but most times your head be doing "skoinskoin". This is just for the moment though. By sunrise, my eyes are back to their factory settings seeing mischiefs only in your comments .

I don't know why she don't want to settle down, I guess she doesn't know that age ain't by her side anymore

Bodyodour:
I don't knw why I find this funny. How are u even sure she is not married

She isn't, if Poco is married everyone will know here

pocohantas:


Your persistence is worrying. I am beginning to suspect you are the friend. Don’t worry, God will provide a dangerous feminist for you. Someone more lethal than me.

Believe me I'm not the one, I hv a beautiful fiancée already and we have a lovely kid together, I just want to help u out that's all

emmyN:


You made this up right? I know . I think you are an interesting person, but most times your head be doing "skoinskoin". This is just for the moment though. By sunrise, my eyes are back to their factory settings seeing mischiefs only in your comments .

I didn’t. His offer is still open too, should you know someone eligible.

lkillbrokehoes:
Believe me I'm not the one, I hv a beautiful fiancée already and we have a lovely kid together, I just want to help u out that's all

haaaaaaaaaa,wonders shall never end ooooo,its good to be careful in this life oooo.

pocohantas:


I didn’t. His offer is still open too, should you know someone eligible.

This offer is only for u Poco, I can vouch for u but not others, if u don't want then no problemo

Brother Dafe and Sister Calli, good afternoon.....

Hope you guys have settled?